Its another you have a SO dream, after which you wake up with a feeling of loneliness so strong, you feel your heart aching
No man at 27 years of age should feel like this. Cant wait to die.
Its another you have a SO dream, after which you wake up with a feeling of loneliness so strong, you feel your heart aching
No man at 27 years of age should feel like this. Cant wait to die.
>SO
You should go back
Man I had a dream like that the night I went on a date with my oneitis
We were living a great life together
I woke up content cause I thought it would come true and later that day she said it was just a date and we're just friends
Jesus fucking christ it's so similar to my story. I am OP btw. I had a "date" yesterday. Turns out, she made a dating app profile to meet new people to have someone to talk to, to "help her have her mind occupied and not focused on her problems".
Oh, funnily enough my one match on a dating app that I actually talked to was the same way.
I dont hate women, but a lot of them are selfish and dont realize how their actions effect us, especially us lonely ones. I'm sorry it didnt work out user
I had this just this just now before I woke up.
I dreamed I was with my crush and that she loved me back and that we went and hiked and got our own apartment.
Why? Why did I have to dream about this?
I feel empty now and lonely.
We didn't match. It's badoo so I texted her and she responded. Actually I thought she was giving me signs, like it was her who implied meeting first.
She was talking about guys chatting to her on badoo and her ignoring their propositions, always "knew" it's a good sign.
But no, I asked her last night if she still has it and she said yes, because she wanted to meet new people.
And we were gettign along so fucking well aand had so much in common, like a crazy amount of things.
Did you actually ask her about a relationship?
As in if she wants to be in one with me or in general if she's looking for one/is opened to one?
Not really but we just know each other for less than a week I think. And only met IRL once (yesterday).
I was just scouting the area, getting all the intel for now. And now I have it I guess...
As I understand it that's normal for dating sites. But if you want something to come of it you should talk to her about it
>As I understand it that's normal for dating sites.
UHM NO? I mean It's normal for non chads to get women to talk to them at best.
Hey man I'm just saying what I've heard. Girls talk to several guys cause they get several matches. It doesnt necessarily mean they're interested in all the guys
But if you thought you hit it off then it's worth at least asking her about what's up and what she wants, especially where you're concerned
>Girls talk to several guys cause they get several matches. It doesnt necessarily mean they're interested in all the guys
I'm not concerned about this. It's what she said that made me believe she isn't interested in me.
BEcause she said she wanted to meet new friends. Not in a romantic way.
Dont give up before it's over dude that's what I'm trying to say
Like you said you dont even know if shes open to it or not
Yeah but clearly not to me. She wouldn't say that shit if she did not want me to even think for a second she just wants to be friends and just talk to me.
Dont make me say that thing about assuming. Just do it or you'll regret it down the line. There will always be that sliver of regret, of wonder, whether or not there could have been something
So if you're interested in her that way, tell her. Ask her if shes open to a relationship
Ok I'll try that. But not yet I guess. I think it's too early even if she WAS open to anything of this sort.
>BEcause she said she wanted to meet new friends. Not in a romantic way.
Girls say alot of things they don't actually mean, you have to try
Talk more if you want to. You met on a dating site (presumably I dont actually know what badoo is) so it shouldnt exactly be a surprise if you talk about relationship stuff. Even if you dont ask her to begin a relationship with you, figure out if she is even open to trying and going on more dates
I have these dreams but weirdly never anyone i actually had a crush on
I get this shit all the time it's fucking awful, I've grown used to it by now
OP here. I wanted to add that the girl I met yesterday was implying we could take her female friend when we go to the zoo.
Now she didnt say its going to be the next time we meet, but whenever we decide to go to the zoo because "she is always lonely and bored".
Forgot to ask what I wanted to ask abt... What does it mean?
Also I will add that it's weird that she's looking for more friends. She has a lot of friends already, she normally has people she can meet with and talk to. Weird.
Either way I'm thinking of catfishing her with a Chad-ish profile to see if she's interested (romantically) in him.
It's another "You're totally going to have sex!" dream, except:
>No condom
>Girl doesn't want to fuck all of a sudden
>Reality warps you to another location
>Girls transforms into an Atari 2600
>The girl you thought you were having sex with turns out to be some weird hybrid of a Banana peel and a Victreebell (Pokemon)
>Oh Baby! Your vagina feels like.... Waking up....Shit.
>Literally getting cucked by Bill from King of the Hill
I fucking hate my subconscious sometimes.