WHY DONT I HAVE A FUCKING GF YET
I have a car, decent looks, my life together, a job
I'm not cheap, I have a bunch of friends including female ones, am Eagle Scout, have gotten drunk and smoked weed, go to the gym semi-regularly...
literally what the fuck else am i supposed to do?
I had sex with a bunch of qts in high school for literally being myself, didn't put any effort whatsoever, lmao, get fucked incel
I understand your rage but don't force anything in life user
Sin no more
I'll try to have more patience but I want to actively better myself if I can
Genuine question, do you have any 'annoying' habits or idiosyncrasies?
sometimes I will talk to myself silently and repeat words other people say verbatim, but I never thought that was socially awkward since other people have done it and i've never gotten any negative reactions.
Well you gave a lot of reasons why someone should be willing to date you, are there any other reasons you could see why they wouldn't? Just for the benefit of self awareness. Maybe you're not getting out enough or not expressing your interest/'making the first move' with women enough? Women aren't the mind readers they've been made out to be, many times. They're also afraid of being rebuffed and often want to know if there's any interest in them before they start showing interest themselves... for lack of better phrasing.
I get out of the house sometimes, Im going camping this weekend with 4 other friends
I guess if I have a flaw its that I have no real hobby. I considered playing guitar, or getting heavy into DnD, trying my hand at smash tournoments, and playing intramural baseball. I havent really done anything so maybe I would be more interesting of a person if I did something with my time.
I also never got braces so I have some gaps in my teeth maybe thats part of it
Just settle for a small penis fetish and pay escorts to ball bust you.
>decent looks
nah nigga u ugly as fuck, you're overrating your looks
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You are supposed to talk to girls and ask them out. You have never once in your life done that.
You're absolutely right. Having a hobby would make for better conversation and make you more attractive/interesting. You mention you get out 'sometimes'. Does that mean social activities where potential gfs will be? I mean, you gotta be putting yourself out there to expand the opportunities of meeting someone.
I feel the same way as you. I don't feel entitled to a girlfriend, but I feel like I've done everything that society says you need to do in order for women to like you.
I have a semi-decent job that I love, I have my own place, I lift and have a great body, I'm a nice person, I dress well and am hygenic, and yet nothing...
A woman's attraction to a man has so much more to do with his charisma and attitude than looks. Maybe, you should read a bit about how to be more charming and magnetic. That could also be a potential hobby to pick up, if you read a full book and not just some internet article. If that's too much work, however, there are quite a few great videos online related to the subject.
I suppose I could, I just don't know how to raise my charisma stat, if only it were that easy...
do you have any ideas? I did marching band for 4 years and im good at playing the trumpet thats about it. I love ranting about sports and sports management but idk what to do with that.
if i was ugly as fuck i wouldn't even have friends
i talk to girls all the time, ive never asked one out because I feel like there should be some semblance of interest before I make a move. maybe im just bad at flirting
talk to women and ask them out, have you actually ever done that? i mean it might seem obvious but that's literally the best thing you can do.
>if i was ugly as fuck i wouldn't even have friends
You don't need to be good looking to have friends, just don't be some socially inept weirdo
just move to japan and get a QT japanese girl (srsly)
>never asked a girl out
>waaaaaaah why don't I have a gf
I wonder.
I talk to women all the time but every time I do i get friendzoned. I think i might need practice at flirting.
there is no such thing as "friendzoned" it just means theyre not interested in you romantically, just find a girl that would be interested. its literally all a numbers game.
Well I recommend not simply blowing off the idea of gaining charisma and shifting your focus to the importance of it. It isn't something that changes over night, but generally nothing of 'real' value comes quickly or easily.
I'm sure the trumpet is interesting however if you already have a musical inclination, I suggest you keep trying with the guitar. I don't know what it is about those damn things, but if you can play one even half decently, your attractiveness to any given woman increases drastically.