Too shy and quiet to talk to guys

>too shy and quiet to talk to guys
>guys that talk to me usually take it as a sign of disinterest and walk away when it is actually not

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>omg why dont guys just keep enteratining me while i add nothing to the conversation :((((

I'm like this but as male. Girls always think I'm Not interested.

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When I attempt to add something to the conversation it was looks like I'm forcing it and I end up regretting what I said later on.

Glad to hear I'm not alone.

>msg girl
>always one word or shitty replies that end the conversation
>like this for days
>stop sending msgs
>she never initiated anyway

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Well you have to show responsiveness. At least look like you are listening and paying attention by giving them eye contact

No. They don't think you're disinterested, they're just not interested in you.

I get something like this but I think I become too clingy too quickly when people show any positivity towards me and I drive them away by being weird. This doesn't apply to girls though because I've never had a girl interested in me at all.

For that I might think that she is not interested. Can I message you then?

Yes I do maintain eye contact until the end, I just don't speak a lot.

So basically the next time I talk to a seemingly quiet shy girl I should just be persistant and try and let her get comfortable with me?

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Im sorry about that. Maybe don't be weird next time?

Yeah dude, keep bending backwards for her while she doesn't even throw you a bone.

>user why wont you smile

Not everyone is an incel. Why are they always trying to have long conversations with me? I always answer with one word.

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Preferably, a lot of us are shy and nervous when meeting new people, and a lot of people accuse us of being rude or snobby for seeming quiet but that is not true at all.

This is why I haven't had a boyfriend still, because a lot of people assume that we are being rude, which is not the case. It's not natural for me to be talkative, I've tried it once and I got exhausted.

I'm Aussie and I'm not usually up at this time of night. What do you use to msg?

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Then flirt with your body language. Be a little touchy (like laughing and touching their arm gently) or playing with your hair etc.

If you're not going to speak your interest, you have to show it

That reminds me of some bad memories in school.
>Be me, socially inept 16 year old
>In library during free period drawing stuff
>One of the popular attractive guys sits next to me
>He's staring at me
>I pretend not to see him because what the hell do i do
>He laughs and asks me what's up
>I just sort of mumble
>He asks if I want to hangout after school
>Pack my stuff and run away nearly crying
I thought he was making fun of me but apparently he wasn't.

>I've tried it once and I got exhausted.
you're supposed to practice it you damn nerd it doesn't come naturally if you never do it

I'm shy about laughing, if I pretend to laugh, wouldn't it be strange and forced out? Maybe I could play with my hair though, but I think my face would red by the time im doing it.

>talk to girl at uni
>can't tell if I'm making her uncomfortable or if she's just quiet
>have to assume she's uncomfortable because I don't want to risk getting #metoo'd
Yeah, fuck quiet people. You gags introduce so much uncertainty into talking to people.

Are you me? I was mostly oblivious to things like that too, and not being talkative totally ruined my chances

Wait till you find out that you're actually ugly and your epic quirks like shyness and whatever bullshit you try to blame it on has nothing to do with it

>wtf why don't men read my mind and know when to fuck off or when to stay and entertain me ;(((
I hate women so much

>gets asked out by attractive person
This is why women can't be robots.

>waaaaah chad asked me out and I got wet and nervous
>I have the same problems as you guys :(((
Get raped

Me but I would probably blurt out stuff like "where are we going?" "What for?" And get him disinterested by my obliviousness. I wish I picked up on stuff faster.

haha but if you're an incel with no interesting stuff to say you can't blame them

I think I said maybe a dozen sentences in the last year or two of school. I don't know why he was interested to be honest. I felt bad because apparently I crushed his self esteem even though he was actually really nice to me after that.
I never claimed to have the same problems. I've spoken to a few guys from here and they invariably turned down girls knowingly or unknowingly.
>What for?
That's a pretty funny one to be honest.

I honestly doubt you would be ready for any stacy that hits on you in school

you would freak out

incel loser virgin retard

>bad for chasing chad
>bad for rejecting chad
the duality of robot

Guys don't need you to carry a conversation most of the time.
If you like the guy just smile when he talks and giggle if he says something you like. You'll literally be drowning in dick in no time.

It's pretty simple. If you had a chance and you blew it, you're not a robot. Robots never had a chance to begin with.

>I never claimed to have the same problems.
Then get the fuck off this board, bitch.

>all robots are incels
Go back to r pls.

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You have all of crystal.cafe to whine to. Why do you have to shit up Jow Forums by coming here?

I never said that. Robots may not have wanted a chance to begin with, but they still didn't have one.
Ironically incels could probably have gotten laid if they weren't so creepy.

>if you don't have this very specific problem you have to leave
You guys ruined this board.

Many girls hit on me but I always fucked up. I'm a hikki since 2017. Am i a robot?

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It was shit from the beginning, retard.

>Many girls hit on me but I always fucked up. I'm a hikki since 2017. Am i a robot?
What do you think?

op do you play pc games?

It wasn't nearly as shit as it is now. The incel exodus turned this place into an absolute shithole. It used to just be aspie feels. Why not fuck off to an incel site?

>incel
Come up with a better term, nigger.

Git gud cunt.orig

>Why not fuck off to an incel site?
Because I'm not an incel.

>if you've ever had a chance romantically fuck off reeeee
>I'm not an incel
Quit acting like one then.

>signal disinterest even though i feel interested
>wtf why are the guys going away!!
come on user

>incel loser virgin retard
Wow meaningless buzzwords.

>wasn't nearly as shit as it is now
I too miss the pre pre poo poo jar threads and the tard wrangler threads.
Oh and dont forget the rape threads.

>crushed his self esteem
haha eat shit chad

i like quiet girls but quiet girls dont like me

fuck you bitch >:(

i put my head on the line and looked like a fool to you guys one too many times because i assumed you had the mentality shown in the greentext (as it happens to me too) but it seemed to never be that way in reality

fuck you Annabelle, kept staring at me and then being unresponsive
same with you Kelly fuck you

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>too shy and quiet to talk to girls
>never had a real conversation with a girl
unless a group of girls who walk past you laughing and joking about you count

>ok so this girl has been messaging me for a few weeks on and off
> least 2 or 3 times per week (snapchat and discord) or more if i talk back
>she says on multiple occasions i'm hot but says she doesn't fuck black guys (shes asian)
>she came to my city and wanted to meet but i just ghosted her lol
>she is coming next week
>wants to meet up
>"so you can kidnap me lol"
>were both 18
what does this mean anons should i try my luck?

Then stop talking to guys.

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i suppose the "shy and quiet" is the obstacle to get a bf. I'm more or less the same, but a guy. Don't think it would be a problem if you already had a bf, as in just enjoying each other's company while cuddling or something, with occasional convo. there's only so much things you can talk about.

only if you're moderately attractive