"I'm not one to admit feelings to people...

What do you want to know mr user

you're a naive child. either drop your feelings now or get burnt by them later.

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you could ask over text. Might be less awkward too if the response she gives you isn't what youre hoping. That might go over weird irl. Just saying something like "sorry confused. what do you mean by that?" She'll definitely clarify for you. Trust your judgment too. If you think she's leading you on/doesn't like you the same way don't let yourself get too attached and distant yourself a bit.

reread it again, prob means that she doesn't like admitting feelings, and she would feel bad that she didn't admit that she likes hanging out with you probably, try your luck again op

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But this is what I want either way. I'm not afraid of emotional pain
We've already moved on to a different subject text wise. I feel it would be awkward to bring up now
>try your luck again op
With her?

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yes ask her again later or shit

god damn send that girl to law school there goes the first female president of the United states.
10/10 answer

Also we 3,372 text messages since April, which is when I started talking to her. She works at the coffee shop I go to. She's bleached my hair, I've taught her to skateboard, and bought her one. I usually give her strawberries from the farmers market I work at, she makes me free drinks. I've hugged her and kissed her on the top of the head (she's shorter than me). I'm 19, she's 21.
Ok I'll try and do it naturally

your best option is to unironically be yourself. if she likes you enough so far and enough to not ghost you then you are doing at least ok, depending on how long youve known each other you need to drop it again but in a more romantic and confident way (i usually go with something like "i cant imagine what life would be like without you"

try to bring it up again casually. be like "hey sorry if this is out of nowhere but im still thinking about what you said earlier. *insert what she said*. What did you mean by it? sorry its just bothering me that i dont get what u mean"

She is leading you on.

Abort and bail out. Start putting your eggs in different baskets.

She's conflicted, I feel like. She knows she likes spending time with you, and thinks you're cute, but due to certain factors in her personal life she's not able to just straight up say "I like you too"

>wears a necklace I got her on vacation every time I see her
Disregard my previous post, she's jonesing for the dick

Ok. She hasn't ghosted me, I haven't seen her in person since I told her but shes been texting me the same way she normally does. Hopefully Wednesday she'll skate with me and get lunch together, we've done it before and that's when we talk the most.
I'll bring it up over lunch if I can. She seems colder over text than in person. She seems to be happy around me. I can usually make her laugh pretty easy.
One time she mentioned relationships are overrated. I suspect she was in a relationship that hurt her emotionally when she was in high school. I didn't know her then. Ive known her for 3 years, since she's been working at the coffee shop, and started talking to her in April.
>Disregard my previous post, she's jonesing for the dick
On the subject of gifts, I gave her some skateboard stickers and she told me she ordered some for me and wanted it to be a surprise. Also her birthday is next month, what kind of gift should i get

>skating with a girl you met at the coffee shop
OP, do you literally live in a quirky indie comedy set in Austin, TX made by some up-and-coming Indie director

Because that's what this shit sounds like.

Los Angeles. I learned to skate several weeks ago and somehow convinced her to try. She's a good learner and she's been skateboarding by herself too.

>Los Angeles
I assumed it was one or the other.

If you haven't watched Mid90s by now you absolutely should, I feel like with the trajectory you're on you'll really connect with it.

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sounds good. best of luck!

suchh a good fucking movie.

Do you like her?
If you do then ask her out. Why are you asking incels for dating advice?
You're fucked either way tho. Just before you crash and burn get your dick wet with something other than your own spit.

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>I'm 19 shes 21
>bought her a skateboard and taught her to skate
>equivalent to a pet
Honestly from what i see, the skateboard is a good connection and like an 'inside joke' which gives a feeling of closeness and trust so I'm not doubting she has feelings. She is older tho so its easier for her to feel like the dominant role so learn to not have a woman take the steering wheel, be confident and secure on what you say- and get that juicy pussy.

I'll check it out. Maybe I'll text her about it. Also is it bad to text her too much.
Thanks so much. You don't even know how much the feedback helps. I'm actually glad because a concern I had was that we were gonna continue being friends, and she would never know. Now she knows and hasn't withdrawn. Thats promising to me. I also feel is bang on the money, as she mentioned things about wanting to do stuff when "shes more free". I'm almost entirely certain shes straight and single.

Damn straight. The fact that almost none of the kids were actual actors is fucking mindblowing, especially Fuckshit and Ray

It is bad to text too much, but that's entirely up to your discretion. She's not just shitting out one-word replies is she?

>Do you like her?
Somehow I went from barely remembering her name when I saw her to heads over heels, idk.
>Why are you asking incels for dating advice?
Not everyone on Jow Forums is an incel, not all incels have bad advice.
>You're fucked either way tho.
Such is life.
Yeah the skateboarding is something we talk about a lot, also music, and friendships and tv and just random shit.
>dominant role
I'm like 6'5" she's 5'something, also apparently I'm more confident and have a better vocabulary despite her having a better education. Also she doesn't really act dominant, when we do things she seems happy to let me plan it
>She's not just shitting out one-word replies is she?
No she replies and engages, but sometimes she doesn't respond or respond hours later.

>sometimes she doesn't respond or respond hours later
I wouldn't sweat it then. Maybe drop off for a day or two, just to see if she takes the initiative to start it. If she doesn't it's no big deal, just keep an eye on the situation.

Also one time I was at a friend's and taking pictures of him, and I sent her them and this was her response:
"I dont know if you have an attractive friend or you just have his great angles
Why cant you take my pics like that :c"

That made me happy because she doesn't really compliment me on anything. Idk how this is relevant but we have a shared Google photos album of pics we've taken of each other.

Of course not everybody is an incel but I couldn't in good conscience give you smug advice if I didn't mention it.
You know how it goes. Regardless, if you do like her and or you wanna fuck her then just ask her out.
I promise it's really not that hard. The fear of rejection will always outclass true rejection by a magnitude of 10.

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I'll try that. One time my friend advised I not text her til she texted me, that worked well but that was the day I gave her the necklace and she texted me back about how much she liked it. I think I'll stop texting her to see if she texts me again, been a while since I done it

Oh thank you she likes gosling memes :) idk how to ask her out, what do I say? Wanna go eat or something like that? I've taken her to lunch several times and one time she insisted on paying so I don't think she's in it for the free food

Depends on the kind of person you are.
I'm pretty introverted so I usually just take them for a coffee and let the mood take us from there.
It's not what you do. It's that you make it explicit that it's a date.

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yeah everyones on their own life path. maybe she's going through some stuff thats stopping her from being able to pursue a legit relationship/anything more than being friends.

I just asked someone out not two hours ago, and despite me having already been reasonably confident in her saying yes I feel like it's worth showing you anyway

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the way they depicted the dysfunction of families was so fucking authentic it was crazy. never really see that in media.

You didn't do shit. Not once did you mention it as a date.
And it was over text.
You're gonna make a great pet.

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>It's that you make it explicit that it's a date
Dude how tho. Is saying I wanna treat her to lunch enough or do I have to say the d-word.
She lives kinda far from the coffee shop, the only days I see her are like Wednesdays and Sundays when she gets off work. She left early today for a relatives birthday. Presumably she's in debt from school. I'll try asking her
Hey good luck man.

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Also, Lucas Hedges keeps getting cast in the wrong fucking roles, because he's INSANELY good at playing an insecure asshole. The scene where he breaks down with the orange juice after chasing Stevie around the house is fantastic.

That's true. Premature celebration I guess. If I hadn't already done some stuff with her or been talking to her I'd be mad at myself.

God bless.

drop the D be explicit be dominant in your intentions. It'll be a huge weight off your shoulders once the words leave your mouth.

And for the God's sake ask her in person. This texting or over the phone bullshit is disgusting.

After this movie. Ask her out on a real date afterwords. Do it. You'll know. Nothing is more painful than the unknown when emotions are involved.

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I stg I'm not so dumb as to ask her out over text. I don't think I can ask her on a date sincerely, I'd have to stay it comedically (like a HAWT DATE) or some shit

I did want to start calling what we did "skate dates", maybe I'll put that into play

>Do it. You'll know.
I don't disagree. After the movie shit might happen, I don't know yet.

>Nothing is more painful than the unknown when emotions are involved.
Honestly, that's super sage advice.

Also, you're right about asking people out over text, it's shitty and stupid. Like I said, if I didn't already have an ongoing thing with this girl I wouldn't be asking this like a pussy. Otherwise you end up like pic related.

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Why can't you just ask her out? Knowing isn't as painful as your fear of the unknown.
Practice it infront of a mirror if you need to just to desensitize yourself of it. It'll be cringey and embarrassing even tho you're sitting alone in the bathroom.
You can do it. It's not like you're going to spend the rest of your life with her. Enjoy the good times when the opportunity presents itself.

I cant possibly imagine how that would ever be a good idea to text. You gotta say it in person. Do girls even like that lingo
I feel like it's gonna hinge on her behavior Wednesday, it's not the physical asking out I'm afraid of lol. It'll be the first time ill see her since I told her, I wanna see her behavior to get a read on if she wants to hang or not. I'll be there with strawberries when she gets off work, if she has her board and hangs around I'll ask her out

Hey thanks. I've been told I give good advice.
Too fucking bad I can't do the same for myself.

Ya that's fair. Just don't fucking let it go stale.
If not this upcoming hangout then the next, no exceptions.
She won't wait around forever just like you wouldn't if the roles were reversed and girls have been taught that it's the boy's job to ask them out.
If you don't soon she will convince herself that you really aren't into her like that and she will move on.

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>If you don't soon she will convince herself that you really aren't into her like that and she will move on.
Dude I literally said "you know I like you, right?" last night to her. But yeah I'll make sure to ask her out. So far so good honestly I doubt she'll say no unless she's made other plans

>Dude I literally said "you know I like you, right?"
Groovy man. Just ask her out next time you're in person then. Don't wait for a perfect time.
There is no perfect time in reality.
Good luck user, hope you can smash.

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Alright cool. I'm rehearsing it in my head then. When I give her strawberries I'll ask her what she's doing when she gets off, if she says she's free I'll ask. Do I say "do you wanna go out" or "do you wanna go on a date" agh date feels so verbally awkward. Maybe I should practice. Also I totally agree about the no perfect time thing.

Don't ask a question and leave an easy out.
>hey, are you free tonight?
>great! let's do x, it'll be our first date!
Or some corny shit like that. Frame it like it's already been agreed upon.
Begging the question works wonders when it comes to asking out somebody where the feelings are already established.
It's dominant in it's assertion that both of you are aware of each others feelings.

I mean she likes hanging out with me. I'm gonna try not to think about it now as I'll just get stressed out again
>Begging the question
What's that
I plan on just saying hey do you have your board? Let's practice in the parking lot and go eat

>What's that
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Begging_the_question

>just saying hey do you have your board? Let's practice in the parking lot and go eat
Christ man. Have you not read a word I've said?

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>Christ man. Have you not read a word I've said?
Yes I have. Didn't sleep last night an it's 1am now. Not super coherent. I'll verbally dress it up when the time comes

>Great! Let's do x, it'll be our first date
See part of me wants to condemn this for being cheesy as fuck, but at the same time I'd be lying if I said it wouldn't have driven me fucking insane.

Alright, kiddo. Get some sleep then. Just focus on what you're going to say and not the emotions that come with it.
You'll drown in it and pussy out.
Don't pussy out.

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Yeah dude. Chicks dig being candidly dominant yet unbearably corny.

Post tits, it'll be our first sext!

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>Once upon a time in hollywood
lol. You're not the target demographic of that movie

Why do you say that? I enjoy Tarantino's work (though, you gotta be careful when saying that as a wannabe filmmaker) and so is she. Figured I might as well.

why be careful? He's my favorite degenerate feet lover.