Feels thread

What do you wanna draw? Surely you've got some kinda idea in your head?
I know exactly how you feel user. But, and this is a genuine question, what do you do to accomplish it?

>feels thread
well, currently I am suffering from that feel when no mommy gf. It's a growing epidemic, unfortunately

im kinda sad,, im having problems with my bf. he gets really mad at me but he will never tell me what ive done wrong ;;

im practicing mechanical stuff and i started making a broken android girl, i'm just too lazy to draw the background

its because you have a penis you disgusting sack of shit

I recently broke up with my girlfriend and life has been hell since. Turned to constant alcohol and weed and can't function without really strong caffeine pills for breakfast and lunch and a lot of melatonin/alcohol/weed before bed. I don't want to feel anything at all anymore.

I dont know. I could try my luck approaching a girl, but cold approaching is wierd and asking a girl I knew or worked with would be humiliating if she rejected me.
No luck finding a girl online because I get ghosted or cant see past their flaws. I dont think my standards are even that high.

It does seem to be a widespread issue, maybe we should alert the CDC?
How often does that happen? If it's a lot you might wanna think about moving on user, it judt gets worse over time
Can you post it? I'd like to see if that's okay
That's not comfy leave my thread

Why did you break up with her? Originafrolly ofcourse

but- i dont

sure, background still on sketching stage

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Like the other guy said, whyd you break up? I'm sure you had a reason of course
What are your standards? Do you have any friends that could help you?

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Sounds like dismissive/avoidant attachment style.
Look at that up, there's ways to fix it, but he has to be willing to put in that work.
If he's not, he's a lost cause, abort.
Oh, and, you should've known/worked on this before the gf/bf relationship was formed.

I often wonder why more people dont talk to me as much as I want to talk to them. But then I drift in my own thoughts that I'm not a person of great value to really put any effort into. I dont put as much effort as I do for myself. I do try to do better at days, but mostly when I feel like it. When I feel like shit, I'd have the sudden urge to stop "trying". I hate trying for so long, but never get close to my expectations. Feels like a losing game. I dont wanna keep feeling like this the more get older
What would be the point of life even If I did get better? For myself? I'd still be lonely. Is needing validation that wrong? Especially if you barely had any growing up? I hate not being good enough. Especially if I try to get better, I'm always reminded I'm not good enough. I often envy those who would make the effort to talk to me. I want to see what they see when they look at me. As if they dont see a waste of space on earth. I envy them, but I also want them far away from me as possible. I cant trust or believe it's good intentions. I wouldn't kill myself. I dont want my mother suffering with my financial debts and pay my funeral. But if I were to disappear into a void, would anyone suffer? Maybe people will miss the memories I gave, but they'll move on. Life keeps moving on. I dont bring my significance to my life or life in general.

thank you i will read up on that,, and yeah i probably shouldve figured that out before we got together but i always tend to only focus on the good in people, often to a fault

Holy shit user that looks REALLY good, how long have you been drawing?

>had sex
>talked about my ex for only about a half an hour maybe forty five minutes afterward
>talked about Kasar Hauser, wild children, and medieval torture for another three hours
I think I am making progress, it will be a year next month since my former spouse and I separated and before I would sit there with these poor girls and unload on them for hours about my shit then feel bad about the hook up all together afterward.

Today was just fun for the most part, total thot but at least she was actually adamant about me pulling out whereas most girls on there usually do not seem to care either way.

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literally this. the details in the wires are insane. proud of ya user

post full picture and webm of that vid pls

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>rhetorical answer to post
Too much too fast is likely the cause.
People are put off by "intense" people who're primarily negativistic (even if you don't outwardly show it, people can tell, subconsciously).
Sure, be passionate, but not in a negativistic light; people are warded off by that because they know you'll drag them down with you ("bad vibes").
Also, not all people get along, keep trying, and don't give up.
Then... also, you have to be first willing to change before you can change, and really if you believe you're unlikable then it'll be a self-fulling prophecy.
Focus on bettering yourself, loving yourself, and then people will love you too.
Best of luck, dear user, I know that you can do this.

Happy to help, and I'm glad you acknowledged that as that's the hardest part in growing as a person. True, but, be wary of that aspect of yourself. It's truly a great quality to have, but as you've said it's one of those "seeing only the good in them... to a fault" types of things.
It's also difficult watching when good people see the good in others and end up getting hurt due to the "to a fault".
So, only do what you can, and if he isn't willing to put in the work; find someone who cares just as much as you do; k?

my ex, after about 4 months of us being over is coming around to me lately and wants me to comfort her at times and be there for her again, which I dont mind because I want to get back with her and everything ended from a lack of communication not a real issue between us. she currently has a bf though and it confuses me why she acts like she wants me closer and there for her but then sometimes tells me that its too much or will barely talk to me for the entire day, then the next night shes on call crying to me and thanking me for being there for her. Am I a retard and missing something? Its got me going through moments of happy because I think things between us can work out but then it takes 24 hours for her to act like im nothing more than a friend whos a pain. shit hurts bros

thanks, i think it took about 3 or 4 hours to draw her

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I'm being ignored by the normies in my schools anime discord, what's a more pathetic feel :(

Lol the video is just 19 seconds I am on mobile (iPhone) if you can recommend an app or quick way to upload without making an account someplace I got you

user, those are some very strong feels and I'm really not even sure how to respond to them, but I hope that with time you're able to feel better about yourself and have healthier friendships
Sounds like you've had a pretty good Monday, I'm glad things are looking up user, I'm sure itll get even better from here
I'm sorry user but it sounds like maybe you're just familiar to her and shes not getting that kind of support from her current relationship. For your own sake you might wanna consider cutting her out
Did you draw that one too??
Your school has a Discord? Boy I feel really old now

clicked post button too early
it usually takes a lot more time to make the background and paint, im trying to make something like ghost in the shell

no that's just a pic from ghost in the shell im taking inspiration from

Is it worth then trying to convince her im worth it and showing that I can give her more emotional levels of commitment than her current bf? or should i just move on.

join a different discord then, or stop using discord

Oh my bad, btw when I asked how long youd been drawing I meant like how long since you first started learning to draw?
It's an especially good picture for 4 hours man
Eh, I'm always hesitant to cut people out so I guess if you make one last hail Mary and straight up talk to her about it, but if she declines then you need to move on for your own good

upload the vid to dropbox and paste the link

My main issue just is that It seems like shes very receptive to more than just friendship sometimes, will make sexual jokes to me, knows i still am in love, and yet doesnt tell me no, so it makes me feel like I have a chance. fuck bro I hate being in love with someone who doesnt give you back what youre giving them

She moved abroad to study and we drifted apart. I was thinking about how to end it for a while and then she wanted to talk and we broke up. It was very civil but it was also my first relationship ever and lasted for over 4 years. Obviously I'm better off in the long run but right now I don't want to feel anything at all.

I kinda know the feeling, you gotta give an ultimatum or something dude. She's using you, you gotta know that. Honestly even if she isn't, do you wanna be with someone that acts like this while she's with another guy?

since I was a kid, don't remember when I started, but started actually studying it about 2 years ago

I didn't know this was an advice thread. I just wanted to make a long rant of what I thinking.

Tl:dr I'm losing the point of trying If I dont see my life getting any better and my life seems too short to get the things I want. Feel meaningless

your studies look like they've really paid off man, great job!

It's not an advice thread but I thought it was important you at least know someone read it and some cared. I'm sorry I can't do more

Yeah, I've thought about giving her until the end of summer to make up her mind, not that she has to get back with me but I want to know if she has any intention to ever or not, because this limbo is going to kill me eventually ( since march 23rd) wtf happened to me though i was a Jow Forumstard and a Jow Forums cuck and here I am on r9k getting feels advice. thanks user

We all hit rock bottom at some point user, it's important that you don't stay here though. She's important, I know, but you are too and you need to prioritize yourself here

Things are ok, it is difficult trying to accept that I will never know exactly how our friendship moreso than even marital relationship (which was doomed from the start) deteriorated to the point we hated and fought each other. Dealing with that constant feeling of failure and just not having the answers has been tough but I am trying to avoid making a woman the total center of my life again and just find a way to make myself happy on my own before I find somebody special.

But the girl I met tonight, while again I had only known her like two days so either I am really really unique with extremely smooth game or she a thot, gave me hope that I can find that same friendship with another romantic partner where you just easily feed off each other energy
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Got you

No, she's not actually receptive to more than friendship at that time, she's stringing you along, and dropping your bread crumbs as to keep you "as an option" (if her current relationship falls through, but you're likely somewhere in that line of alternatives she has).
It's a trap that women lacking in self-awareness and/or values fall into. As it's an evolutionary prerogative, an instinct, and one must be conscious of as to mitigate it; if it's against their values that is.
Yes, it does suck being in love with a person like that, but you're better off moving on.
Endure the heartbreak, and the next one you find will be easier to gauge if she's like that girl (as to avoid the bad seeds); or you can train the next girl's mind as to not engage in that kind of activity.
Also, you have a twisted sense of "love" if you're attempting to upset her happiness with her current SO for your own happiness. If you truly love her, let her go, and move on. It's unhealthy for both of you at this point. Also, she's sounds like a roasty, or not worth that level of self-sacrifice.

Ultimatums are weak emotional manipulation that almost everyone can see through.
You're both unhealthy individuals with a piss poor excuse for morality.

yeah losing her put a hole in my life, kinda filled that with anger and Jow Forums. something seems off though, most anons here dont make feels threads and actually respond, I get the feeling youre a femanon. doesnt matter though.

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link doesnt work dude

oregano

thanks, im glad someone liked it

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This one should work let me know

aw hell yeah, got any more?

Who is that girl in pic? Looks like my ex.. first initial?

youre trying to make very specific assumptions with little context. Shes not a roastie at all, a religious virgin actually, and alot of the issues came with her parents. The current person she is with is 10 years older than her and was set up by her parents. I could go on forever about the situation user but Im sure im not being unfair to her, and you can never know exactly what to do in all these situations. Moving on is an option I just dont want to regret it, I want to be sure its the right choice before I give up on a 3 year relationship

>Ultimatums are weak emotional manipulation that almost everyone can see through.
>You're both unhealthy individuals with a piss poor excuse for morality.
Dude I hate ultimatums but sometimes they're necessary, its a last chance sorta thing. It's more for the user than her

user your relationship is over, you have to give up on the idea of you guys ever getting back together if you are going to heal. She is with someone else now and imagining trouble in paradise or looking for clues that you two are rekindling a romance is really unhealthy.

I am sorry bro, been through it and it is Hell but when I look back I wish I had not spent so much time trying to save a dead relationship and spent that time working on me instead

I'm not sure what her real name is but I do know that shes extremely cute and the pic i used in my OP makes me smile

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No sorry just the one and this picture lol

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aw shame

any more pics of her tho?

I see, yes I tend to make assumptions when no context is provided.
My mistake I didn't realize it was that complicated.
I'd need a lot more context as to offer more specific advice, but it does sound quite complicated.
However, I can say this, discussion and communication is key; let her know how you feel and be truthful with her to a degree she's comfortable with, or a degree that you guys can resolve that discomfort together.

Ok, I see your point now. I understand and agree that that user needs closure in some regard, but still... an ultimatum doesn't seem like the right choice here user
It's certainly an option, but, discussion seems like the best route at this point

>an ultimatum doesn't seem like the right choice here user
>It's certainly an option, but, discussion seems like the best route at this point
If the circumstances were better I'd agree but with the way she seems like she's using him it seems like she might just say what he wants to hear. The guy deserves a commitment, one way or another, whether they get together again or they stay as they are

I've been making music for 2 years now, and I realize I just started, but I find myself feeling like there's no hope even though people like my stuff. It's like my brain doesn't want me to succeed. Also theres a girl I've liked for years and she likes me back, she's just fucked up and not ready. I always think, she won't ever be ready for a relationship. We talked in my car about her having eating disorders and other mental illnesses and she broke down and cried, and talked about cutting herself. On the way home I broke down and accidentally went into oncoming traffic on the highway. I know thius isn't comfy, I've just been so fucked up lately. I guess it feels nice talking to strangers

Im sorry if i came off bitter or angry, it is a complicated situation. not that normie reddit complicated either. But at the end yes, I need to get some clear answers from her to really make a decision with where to go with this. I put it off because of the fear of where the answer will get me.

Also adding to this, and I dont want to speak on your personal situation at length but rather I am regurgitating advice I was given in similar shoes, worship no false idols.

You should be with someone who will treat you well in the present day not because of the host of memories you get when you think about them. I have never seen a successful relationship, unfortunately, in my life time. Lol even grandma and grandpa were split up in the 80s long before I was thought of

But I know that a healthy relationship under no circumstances includes your partner dating another person and considering you a friend or back up plan in case of emergency. That is not fair to you, you deserve someone who will make your their romantic priority regardless of what anybody else may be doing

I hope the best for you brother because I have been there after a 10+ year relationship and 5 year relationship but at no point after our break up did my efforts to force someone to reveal their true intentions or feelings ever yield any positive results. I have seen strong men, US army soldiers, attempt suicide and ruin their entire lives in situations where they kept trying to get back together

I wanted to make fun of your reddit spacing, but thanks for that message user. I can confirm the worst part of my life really so far has been the last months of this limbo with her. I dont think shes using me as a back up, as more of shes not sure if she wants to try with me again but I think she does due to her actions. I just need to confront her about everything and just take the bandaid off

>tfw not dead
i want to die but i want to do it with a lethal injection of something that I don't inject myself because im retarded

I agree that that user deserves commitment, and he needs to resolve this; I see your good intent for what it is and your help here is admirable.
The circumstances are certainty dire I agree... and you're right on the exploitation, but really we can't be too sure here; only she knows (hence, the following).
So, that user can work that type of decision into the conversation organically, and not "shock her"; as that will alter her real response.
Discussion needs to happen, he needs to let her know how he feels, to really just say it (e.g. implying that he loves her but he also needs commitment, working that in organically, in succession), and through that there will be an implied ultimatum; she can think on it a bit without being confronted with it.
Then, he can confront her about his feelings in a more direct manner, and then she can give her "real" decision to him after shes thought about it.
After that, either way, he can rest easy knowing he tried his best.

It's perfectly ok, and you do have my apologies too.
I feel you on the deep love aspect and how it can cause an inner turmoil; I understand.
Indeed, get those clear answers, and please don't put it off any longer for your own sake - you deserve commitment from those you love user

I have a gf, and I'm often surrounded by family and people that love me. I have a job and earn enough in a comfortable way, a great work/life balance. But I feel an intolerable amount of loneliness. Sometimes I lay awake in bed and wonder what the fuck I did wrong to be made to feel this way. I don't feel like I'm good enough to have anything, let alone what so many others seem to want. I've mentioned this to my girlfriend and she's tried to understand but she can't. My best friend, who I've known for 15 years, is a NEET that is so self-absorbed I can't be open with him about anything. He's kind of rude anyway, I once mentioned my insecurities to him and he just brings them up in group chats to try and belittle me. Nowadays he'll only talk to me if he has something to benefit from by doing it.

Tl;dr I feel lonely when I shouldn't, it makes me feel ungrateful, and my best friend is a bit of an asshole these days.