Be me

>be me
>20 yo
>kissless virgin
>having a gf always seemed unreachable to me cause socially awkward around women
>finally meet a girl through a friend of mine who seemed interested in me
>we go out
>conversion seemed to go okay
>evening comes to an end
>I walk her to her house and I finally got the balls to kiss her after a seemingly endless stare
>we'll go out together tomorrow
Anons, if is hope for me, there is hope for you, you just need to get out of your comfort zone.

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>friend
I don't have any friends.

fuckvoff bitch i hate you

good job, user
you did the good stuff
I'm sure it'll go well
go be happy you dereve it

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well I can't fkn spell
*deserve

>20 yo
just 20...
When I was 20 I didn't even notice girls existed.

Thank you user, I wish you the best as well

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You can still try to approach a girl when you go outside, it shows you are confident and girls like it. I have a friend who just goes outside on his own and picks up girls. Sure most of them reject him but success is success and rejection is a part of life. At the end of the day, he gets laid.

>meet a girl through a friend of mine

I don't have any IRL friends and even back when I did, they never introduced me to girls

I know how it feels user. For the first time in my life I actually have good friends who try to help me through everything. My high school /middle school friends were all bullies and whenever we were around girls they would make fun of me to feel superior. If you want to find a girl you can still do what I said at the reply above yours. Not claiming to be an expert or anything but it seems to work well for that friend of mine.

Met a girl through a friend once. She searched me out and according to my friend was looking for a guy exactly like me
She had a bf and even after they broke up she wasnt interested in dating me
Conversely, I introduced my oneitis to a friend because they were both important to me and I wanted my important people to get along. They're dating now
I dont talk to people any more

>kissless kisses the qt
well, user, you're going to have to explain how you knew how desu. N-not that it's at all relevant to me or anything....

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Oh well, that fucking sucks. Imo most people suck but should never give up. Good people exist.

I didn't really know how, I saw a few YouTube tutorials (yes it's sad) and it came kinda natural. It also helps that she is a kissless virgin as well (she's 19) so we're both noobs. On the other hand she gave me a really hard time on taking the kissing step all evening because she was extremely nervous. My advice, just go for it.

I'm already 26 and friendless, OP. It never even began for me.

>Oh well, that fucking sucks. Imo most people suck but should never give up. Good people exist.
Where do I find them
I consider myself at least a decent person but I cant find people to connect with

It depends, for me it was university. For others it might be work or from a team sport like football. There has to be at least one thing you do which requires socializing. If not, find something like a hobby which requires it.

It's not over. There are a bunch of things you can do to find friends /a gf.

>It's not over. There are a bunch of things you can do to find friends /a gf.

Like what? For God's sake, just don't say online dating, PLEASE.

With the general #MeToo climate, approaching random women to hit on feels like a bad idea

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My college was pretty antisocial, the only clubs were bullshit pride clubs about race or sexuality. Not even a video games club. And my job is entirely solo, I'm literally the only person there my entire shift
What kind of hobbies do you suggest? I've got s lot already but none are really social

As I mentioned in previous replies, you can find friends by activities /hobbies /jobs that require socializing and you can just talk to a girl outside. If you see a cute girl, go talk to her. I have a friend who does that all the time (even when he is with me which makes me feel uncomfortable) but it works. It doesn't matter if half or even more than half of them reject you, you'll still succeed at some point, it just needs practice and confidence (I know, easier said than done, but what do you have to lose anyway?).

Fuck off normie, leave this place you are no longer welcome

I dont believe that's true, have you ever even tried it?

I want to start airsoft myself, I have some friends who have joined a team and they have a lot of fun plus they made friends with great people. Just pick something you consider interesting yourself (I guess you could even Google it).
>My college was pretty antisocial, the only clubs were bullshit pride clubs about race or sexuality.
I am from Europe (medditerenean), we don't have clubs like that here and people are fairly social, but you have to be social on your end as well. People won't really come and say "hey wanna be friends".

Why would I waste time and money on some roastie when I could spend it on something I actually care about

I'm not really sure what else there is for hobbies that would be social. Airsoft is out for me for various circumstances
>you have to be social on your end as well
I was actually pretty social in college, I just have no idea how to actually lockdown a friendship. I always made at least one friend in class
about 30% of the time my friend dropped the class and I try to tell myself it wasnt cause of me

>I dont believe that's true, have you ever even tried it?
Yea, and I've gotten weird looks before they make it clear they're not interested. I'm a pretty confident guy, and I don't look too bad either, but I'm not Chad quality so it's just not gonna happen.

I haven't been here in nearly a year. I dedicated that time on improving my social skills, making friends, learning to dress better, eat better (I dropped 15 kilos) and most importantly having fun. And you know what? I'm actually happy for the first time in a long time. I guess I'm a normie compared to you yeah, and that was the best thing that ever happened to me.

>20yo
>even has friends
There was a little hope for you. I also assume you have SOME money and did graduate highschool. You probably don't have aspergers or schizophrenia either.