She "loves" me but she's not a virgin

>she "loves" me but she's not a virgin

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then she "loved" someone else before you, how much does it mean to her now?

Get over your ego and don't pass up a person that may make you happy, user

dude it's not Jow Forums it's r9k, but regardless you are fucking wrong.

Don't bother with used goods OP. You will only hurt yourself in the long run.

No him but what the fuck is the point of posting if not for discussion? You want attention

Women will always love and have a connection to the guy that took her virginity, she will never forget them and would always get back with them at a later date if they could.

you can still post shitty advice here as long as the op doesn't explicitly ask. It's a technicality.

>You want attention
weird conclusion
>No him but what the fuck is the point of posting if not for discussion?
We are discussing, there is no point in trying to be with a used goods woman if you're not a manwhore yourself. Actually even manwhores prefer virgin girls when they think it's time to settle down. Literally whores are left out, no one wants them, eventually they lie about their sexual past or degenerates like them settle with them if they must. Don't do it to yourself if you are a virgin.
If you really like her, literally go fuck a hooker, dozen of em, pay a random dude to give him a bj and then his friends, sell your ass to some random duded. Once you achieve same level of degeneracy as non virgin woman then you can settle if you really must.
Still a better option if you are virgin is to stay alone. Sorry mate that's just how it is.

Gross, avoid her OP.

Honestly, just pump and dump her.
A man is always a virgin, so don't worry about that.

>you can still post shitty advice here as long as the op doesn't explicitly ask. It's a technicality.
I mentioned Jow Forums not because OP was "asking" for advice, I mentioned Jow Forums because how normalfag tier advice gave.
>get over your ego
>get over dozen of dicks in her holes
>grow up
>she makes you happy right that's all it counts not dicks she took

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No that isnt how it is and you are actually retarded, I hope you get aids from your trans hooker faggot

If a woman is not a virgin and has a low body count (depending on her age) lets say she is 24 years old and her body count is 4, she lost her virginity at 17, that means she could have had 2 years of serious relationship with a man. That shows she is fully committed to a relationship as she is able to have long term relationships, now if a woman is 22 with a 10+ body count shes just a whore with the inability to have a long lasting relationship

>If a woman is not a virgin and has a low body count
Full stop.

It doesn't matter. She is no longer pure. She can fuck off sucking AIDS ridden homosexual bisexuals.
There is no difference if she had 3 boyfriends, 4 boyfriends or 10 boyfriend. Whether she had 100 times sex with 2 boyfriends or 10 times with 10 different guys. Anything more than 0 is a whore if she's not with that 1st person.
Stop enabling sluts.

Oh geez. That is the two out of three bartenders at my regular spot. They both just left a terrible relationships and only got a shitty tattoos out of them. I just want to protect them, but they're terribly self destructive.

What if she had sex with only her husband at 18 then he dies and she becomes a widow but a few years later she decided she wanted to move on and married another man

Is she still a whore?

I think this is the best logic. Pump and dump hoes until you find a pure virgin.

You are wrong. The guy I lost my virginity I didn't even know. I'll remember it but not him. Cannot even bring up his face and only knew his first name.

>got a shitty tattoos out of them
as a reminder for the rest of their lives they are fuck ups

wow does sex mean you so little? gross whore

Can't tell him you're being sarcastic. Even if they're whores already you're still furthrt encouraging whoredom in society if you do that.

I'd rather have my throat slit than settle down with a roastie cunt. She can suck my dick but that's it.

Humans love conditionally.
You should never love somebody, it is the path to being hurt, unless fortune is on your side.
But realistically I don't think fortune is on anybody's side

Yeah exactly. Once a mother has one child, she can never love another. That's exactly how emotions work. And when you have a friend, and you love them, and you stop being friends you spend your entire life pining after them and never speak to another human. Sperg land.

It was a horrible stupid mistake at a party when I was 15. I already hate myself because of it and lost the guy I really loved when he found out.

But thats not why I responded. Just because a girl loses her virginity doesn't mean he is her first love.

She will never love you
She is simply unable to

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>I just want to protect them
This is the kind of shit than when faced with a woman's natural instinct (at least socially) will lead to a nigga feeling terrible often.
Women just dont care about men. It's not even conscious, it's inherent. Society doesn't do shit about it either, not that I'd expect humans to be capable of that kind of conscious behavior.
In any case, I'm not saying to be mean or not give a shit about women. I have a larger empathy quotient myself. Its just that women will naturally be careless with a man's feelings, no matter what the relationship is. There's lesser of a chance that they'll be like that with people they care about, but almost all women I've met are incapable of actually considering what a person wants

One time, I had a dog, and it died. I got another dog, but it was never the same. Once you have a pet, you can never love another. I literally punch, kick and starve the new dog because I'm so bitter. I'm trying to sell him to furries, lease him out so he can feel the suffering I do and also provide income like the cuckpet he really is.

I realize for most men their penis is connected to their heart and they become obsessed with the girl but my vagina is not connected to my heart at all.

I am angry about getting shafted by life but then I suppose I didn't, if theres only one thing I want but don't have

horrible stupid mistake like this proves you have no impulse control and you don't deserve a pure loving man

her family member is probably laughing at what a cuck you are. He got first dibs and you got sloppy seconds.

lmaooo get laid dude

If you think sex and love are interchangeable you are dead wrong. Chads would not exist if sex was love because then they'd actually only stay with one woman instead of looking for a new ONS every night.

Not fooling anyone, cunt
You can stop posting anytime

Agreed. My father legit treats my Mom like dirt. Tells her she looks like shit lel. She doesn't do jack about it because deep down that's what they all want.

>women ""pretend"" to be nuturing empaths
>what is motherly instincts
I know you think every woman is the high strung childfree thot stereotype you see pushed by Hollywood but I assure you the rest of the world isn't like that.

This is why I don't usually lurk r9k. There is always a thread that reminds me that I will never take a woman virginity. I won't be that one guy who she will never forget

if you weren't such fucking toxic losers maybe you could get to know some, you'd find out this is the case

Nah, she couldn't escape because otherwise you would've been living a shit life on welfares living around blacks.

Fuck off.
>motherly instincts
You mean selling off their children or using them to gain financial resources. They are psychopaths.

>just a whore by nature ,
All women in 2019 believe in try before you buy because that's the dumb bullshit sold to them by their friends and the media

Not him.
I would say no, yet she might (and probably will) have serious commitment issues, like teenage girls after their "terrible heartbroken first love". She might always recall her gone lover, she may "not want to do XYZ because back in that relation she didn't like it".
I'm not even going to mention single moms, never step into that territory.
Men tend to be self-destructive and that's it, women tend to drag everyone close down with them.

some people can go against their instincts, i'm sure you have the instinct to fuck and i'm willing to bet that's not working well for you

Such disingenuous. Wow.

Did your mother do that to you?

deflecting. It probably puts a big grin on his face whenever he thinks about the chump who settled for the girl he used as a toilet.

how is that deflecting? that's directly addressing the root of the issue. you hate women because you're blaming them for not wanting someone with unwantable ideals like you. get fukt loser

at 15 I didn't but neither does most 15 yo's and you don't consider the consequences. No guy but a bf has touched me since.

This. Whores are not worthy of commitment.

poor guy, how can you live with yourself? He's with somebody that obviously doesn't value sex as much as him

She dragged my Dad through the court system, left him a broke alcoholic who got to see us every second weekend. The bitch moved us a three hour drive away too. Took everything, and then started dating Chads she met on dating websites. Fancy dinners, champagne, loud fucking right by my bedroom. All this while my Dad drowned his sorrows, destroyed.

virgin women are for virgin men

that's your mom, that's not all women bud. sorry that shit happened to you

I stole some of her panties, jerked off with them then sold them online.

proud of you

ahahah the guy you you don't even remember his face fucked you like a street whore rag while you pretend to "love" your bf... jesus christ I'd rather stay a virgin forever than get together with a girl like this

I'm going to try to be totally level headed. I think situations like these are what happens when bad choices are made. I don't blame you, but I also understand the feeling behind the whole 'used goods' thing. Personally, I blame the system/culture that put a 15-year-old in a situation where through her own stupidity or the stupidity of those around her she could lose her virginity/take drugs/etc.
Still, it was through your choices that you did what you did, and you faced the consequences. I don't blame the guy who you were into either, and in all honesty, what he did was much more reasonable and rational than what you did at that party.
That being said, I'm sorry you had to go through that. I think that the feelings around virginity and love are so unexplored for robots that while it's hard to rationalize the 'used goods' argument, it still lingers and festers as a feeling that is hard to get rid of.
Most of all, fuck the culture allows it.

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The way you look at it doesn't matter as much as the way your current partner looks at it.

Work on abstaining from sex until marriage to keep whatever semblance of purity you have left, and always do things to attain forgiveness from your husband, it's an insult to marry a woman who isn't a virgin, so do whatever you can to make it worth it for him.

This is just the harsh truth...

Pic related is a weak loser in denial about his own emotions, because he 'settled'. But I can sense his mental anguish from the picture alone, he worked hard, did everything right, all the while watching the girls he liked get trashed with the bullies in his younger years, and even now, after being rich and famous, his wife is still probably one of the girls who would have rejected him to give herself to those men who so effortlessly received the greatest gift a woman can give, from multiple women. While he had none...

And here he is, no matter what he's done, no matter how hard he's worked to get there. He will still never know true, young, and pure love from a woman, because all of that was given away to men who didn't deserve, nor appreciated it...

The pain for us is like a knife through the heart...we were betrayed before they even knew us...

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>muh reddit spacing

>And here he is, no matter what he's done, no matter how hard he's worked to get there. He will still never know true, young, and pure love from a woman, because all of that was given away to men who didn't deserve, nor appreciated it...
I think it's more about being special to the person who you love the most in the world. It makes you feel lonely and disgusting if you feel like they're special to you but you're just another dick to her experienced vagina. Even if she says she loves you, shes said that to a bunch of other men too. How do you know that you're the one? How will you ever know?

>The pain for us is like a knife through the heart...we were betrayed before they even knew us...
But you also agree that it isn't the woman's fault either? How can someone consciously betray you without even knowing you?

more sexual partners lowers pair bonding and relationship stability
and it all goes downhill very fast

i dont want to have to measure up to all the guys shes been with, emotionally or physically or success-wise. i'm pretty shit all around so why would a woman finally settle for me? i'd just be a stepping stone for her on the way to her next man. that is why i'm 34 and a 20 year volcel virgin

They betrayed us because they were impatient and didn't wait for marriage, clearly whoever her future husband is was not on her mind.

Especially, if it was a one night stand.

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>Don't post advice
>post includes advice

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im getting too old I use to think this way but when you are getting to mid 20's who the fuck is going to be a virgin

>still a virgin btw

mothers love = to partner's love
do you also fuck your whore mother?

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Fair enough, but what if they thought the person they were with was going to be their husband, and something happened? Isn't that the point of all relationships (sane relationships, one night stands are stupid)?

They should be cautious enough to know men's interest in them is fleeting unless it's officiated with a marriage or that guy's just a desperate wimp.

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I plan to dedicate my time to music and art than bother with female companionship. Anybody agree?

Im in my late 20s. The odds of meeting someone that's a virgin at my age is insanely low and not something I wish to make a requirement for my "love"

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Based. I would do it too but i'm not artistically talented.

Little secret for you. Neither am i. I suck ass at music, but i feel at peace playing my piano.