Why are some of you so socially inept???? I'm not trying to be rude I'm just genuinely curious. I'm baffled at how someone can steep so low
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Why are some of you so socially inept???? I'm not trying to be rude I'm just genuinely curious. I'm baffled at how someone can steep so low
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I have autism and I was born to parents over 40 yrs old.
you're going to have to elaborate on this feel, mr bully
>Todd from Mario carts
Lmfao
Shyness as a kid developed into horrible anxiety as a teenager. Bad experiences and insecurities turned me into basically a shut in. It just snowballed into a catastrophe. Im an adult now and I hardly ever speak to anyone. Socializing is so weird, a lot of it is just pretending. Its too hard to cope bro.
I was in an orphanage when I was young so I didn't really get normal socialization as a little kid. Then when I was adopted kids would harass me and say my "real" parents didn't want me, call me a freak, all that stuff. So Now I'm 42, I'm a loner, never have made any friends, and no one will ever know when I fade into the great beyond.
Actually this, holy shit.
short answer : autism
long answer : lack of sufficient social interactions
>Why are some of you so socially inept?
There are many reasons, but the bottom line is we are not like you. We may as well be from another planet.
I can empathise with you friend. I'm sorry to hear how things went for you. At least you have us to vent to and shit. I hope there is life after death, I hope heaven is real and those of us who didn't find any happiness in this life get to go there
Society
I'm not joking either the environment you're brought up in and the quality of your parents determines how you respond to the world and how you think. Of course you can overcome it by actively seeking to better yourself but it's a shiton of effort to crawl your way back up.
STOOP low, you fucking retard. It's not talking about tea.
Mom ditched for a year when I was really little and was generally a shitty parent after she came back. It's probably where my deep fear of rejection comes from, and the rest of it stems from that. I also was just a weird kid, and never really fit in, so it kind of pushed me further into my own head. I'm not really socially inept now because I'm quick witted and relatively charming, but I can never bring myself to express anything deeper than a superficial level in a healthy way with anybody.
>why are you so socially inept
heightened level of consciousness and i refuse to say it's a bad thing. Others call it depression or anxiety but i call it just being aware. People self delude so much to get by in life its creepy, they are like psychotic killbots who only want success isntead of the finer things in life hell even their music is all pussy money weed.
>ugly
>loner
>kids bully you all throughout your life
>this makes you resent them
>shut yourself in
>rarely want to talk to people due to how they treat you
>never develop any social skills
>you are now lagging decades behind everyone else socially
>trying to catchup would be a fruitless effort and you'd most likely be bullied again but this time as a full grown adult due to your looks
>develop an alcohol addiction
>dad is boomer Chad that doesn't really give a fuck
>mom is a helicopter parent that raised you to be "nice" which in turn contributed even further to your effeminate shyness
>no role models to look up to anywhere near your vicinity
Off the top of my head. I've been tested for aspergers, autism pretty much everything under the sun and nothing came up. But I'm not as bad as I used to be. I still can't get laid although I've been on 1 date and have 3 normalfag friends who I see every week or so. So you can improve but I still feel like I'm 10 years behind everyone else on a social level.
I'm pretty sure I seem fake because I don't really care about most people. Then they rightfully don't like me. I've tried really hard pretending. I still get lonely.
It's just human nature. It's okay to have autistic hobbies or interests, but at some point someone probably ridiculed them for being "different". Most people either shrug it off or self-consciously abandon the interest, but a significant minority will form a malignant or maladaptive defense mechanism and "double down" on the interest. When sexual frustration/humiliation are brought into the mix, this causes even more maladaptive traits to pile on. Rather than acknowledge that they are resorting to escapism and defense mechanisms, they just keep going down that rabbit hole. Once they exit primary education, having a peer group that you're forced to socialize with, they will often withdraw completely.
Case in point. Rather than acknowledge the fact he is socially inept, the robot just retreats into excuses like "I wasn't made for this planet" or "you all are normies".
There's a way out. Most of the problems robots here have is the mental health equivalent of a fatass who eats shit food and doesn't exercise, but most people won't even get to the point that they acknowledge THEY are the problem, and their shitty situation is a result of poor choices and coping mechanisms, and just buy into the lie that they are somehow victims or defective or "special"
I have health problems that left me completely bedridden and isolated from society till I got to college and still leave me socially isolated idk what normal is
Because life sucks and what's the point?
Some kind of schizoid/avoidant shit, I don't know. Haven't had a friend in almost 15 years, haven't left the house by myself in 3, can't even remember the last time I had a conversation with a non-familial human being, and none of it really causes me any distress aside from the fact that it makes it impossible to function as society expects.
Was born to a single mother (Daddy-O went for cigarettes and never came back) when she did get into another relationship the other person was on government help and my mother had a hard time paying bills on her own so when the relationship turned toxic she couldn't leave. Spent my childhood school years moving to different school districts every year always losing my friends after each move. Eventually just closed myself off to others and just stopped giving a shit.
Truth be told I do have some friends but I honestly don't think they look at me the same way.
I am the problem because of the way I was made. This doesn't make me a victim. I am fundamentally incompatible with other people, but I make do by living as a parasite on the government and perpetuating the illusion that I am a "victim", or "disabled". I found my niche in the environment, my needs are fulfilled and I am able to take care of myself. I will try to continue this lifestyle until I die. That is all.
Autism in of the "retarded but knows it" kind of way.
Want to go my own way, focus on my own shit but i'm scared of not getting social validation.