What is true love

>tfw gf is a much worse feeling than tfw no gf ever was
>yet if I go break up it'll be worse than both the previous feelings combined

what do niggerrobots?

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You didn't even give us a quick rundown

Nothing to say, really

>I work 4 days a week near her university so I see her on weekdays
>gf's parents away the following weekend
>she wants me over at her place but I'd be fatigued from a week of work and already seeing her
>just wanna stay home, chill
>whenever I try explain this to her in the slightest she goes apeshit and acts like im a sociopath for not wanting to be around her all the time
>Not sure I 'love' her, she seems more 'obsessed' with some idea of the kind of couple we could be rather than loving me as a person
>don't want to break up because of all the breakup greentexts I've seen here that result in years upon years of suicidal ideation

Tell your bitch to do less makeup you double faggot

Stop caring and erase the notion that you have any obligations to her; use her as you see fit.

It's a win-win. You get the feeling of no responsibility that a single person has, and a woman to plow.

tell her to come over and make you some tendies then

>whenever I try to explain this to her

This is where you fail. You should NEVER explain yourself to a woman. Do whatever you please without taking her thoughts into consideration at all.

Just go to her and tell her you can stay but you want to just be lazy and gather energy after a week of work.

I don't want to see her at all, not at my place or at her's

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she's not entitled to your time and is being a cunt right now
you don't need to justify yourself, just tell her 'I want to stay home' and turn off notifications for a couple days

>apologizing

Dude, just go dark until you feel the need to see her again. She will be absolutely desperate for you.

What's the bit about Ana, OP? What's the story?

Tell her you are an introvert and being around people tire you out so you need some alone time to recharge.

I'm somewhat fearful that if I abandon her for too long she'll just abandon me completely.

Not a big deal. Ana's in her social group we were at the library and she made an offhand joke about how it wasn't a big deal that a guy would be over at her place on the weekend. im pretty sure the joke is there cos im her first bf

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She wants to fuck and you're too autistic to realize it

>if I abandon her for too long she'll just abandon me completely

She won't. Women are as loyal as dogs if you have the dynamic where she needs you.

I literally do not want to fuck

i'm not sure this dynamic is as grounded as you think, one of my friends did that and his gf just bailed on him.

in either case im done for tonight, just going to text her ily then sleep

Suicidal ideation on whose end?

Just fucking tell her you're exhausted and want to just do nothing for a couple of days.
And honestly if you don't want to see your gf your relationship is pointless.

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if you keep apologizing she'll see you as a weak man. Women love men that are completely self sufficient and independent. If you just do your own thing for a few days while ghosting her she will learn that you don't depend on her for happines. And in turn it will make her more attracted to you

Also keep in mind she almost definitely thinks you're cheating by not wanting to see her. I guarantee in her head she's convinced you're gonna go and see somebody else. Women truly don't understand that some of us like being alone to unwind. Took me 3 years to get that across to my gf.

Just tell her "in order for me to fully enjoy life in general, some times i just need to spend a night completely by myself, no matter who it is. It has nothing to do with you, i love you, but if someone offered me a million dollars to do anything that night i would turn it down". If all else fails throw in some shit about "self care" thats usually pretty surefire

>4 days a week
>ugh I'm so exhausted
Try 12 hours, 6 days a week.
Just say you dont like her, you obviously dont. Anybody who actually works a lot doesn't just want to chill with their limited free time. You're just desensitized by how actually not busy you are.

>If you just do your own thing for a few days while ghosting her she will learn that you don't depend on her for happines. And in turn it will make her more attracted to you
No it won't, unless you're already a sociopathic roided up rich Chad "daddy" who fucks other women and "makes" his "gf" fuck dogs and other men as "punishment".

If you're a normal dude good luck with any "tactic" like that.

Easy solution Tom , i will take her out and fuck at Ana's place while you take a much needed break from your busy life.

>I literally do not want to fuck
Why are you in a relationship then? You could've made all of this easier on yourself by just being friends with her, you fucking retard. It genuinely doesn't seem like you actually like this girl, so I cannot for the life of me guess why you're dating her

>what is true love
Nonexistent.

These dudes are right. Just grow up and break up with her Tom. You aren't into her or don't seem to actually want a relationship. Quit wasting time for the both of you and worrying how sad and regretful you might be.

try telling her you need some time for yourself and chill by yourself. if she cant understand that then dump her. Nothing more said. You will have a better time being tfw no gf than being around an attention dumbo who cant leave her bf alone even for a day wtf
Also does she need to proof someone something that you guys are dating? if yes then your relationship doesnt hold very long

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This girl is batshit holy fuck red flags everywere