Tfw the cute South African girl from class agreed to go out for coffee with my in this weekend

Thanks man I really don't wanna jump the gun but it feels like she can really be the one. One good girl is worth a thousand bitches so I don't wanna let this one get away. I think I'll just see how this thing goes Sunday and feel it out myself. One more thing do you think I should go for a kiss at the end? I suppose it all depends on the chemistry and how the date flows but I don't wanna rush things for her. What do you think?

gl user, don't look back

She is so fucking cute I didn't think I was even in her league so to see her say yea was amazing. What's weird was it felt like she was expecting of it me tho the entire class she was looking at me and smiling and shit. I don't know man maybe I'm over analyzing but it just feels really good knowing someone is interested in you

I wish you all the best, user. Things aren't all bad in this world.

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don't bring her out to a coffee date user. you gotta bring out somewhere memorable to induce an emotion like a petting zoo, aquarium, museum, etc. but don't spend over $80 on the first date btw.
go to a place you truly want to go, not some boring coffee shop

Based.
South African girls are qt as fuck, you are going to do it great.

Well the thing is I asked her to go for coffee but I can always just text her if she wants to do something else. I was thinking of grabbing coffee with her then walking through a park or something while we chat. I see what you mean but a zoo or an aquarium might be a bit overkill for the first date. That seems like it would be perfect for a second date

100% situational. You gotta look for hints and figure that out in the moment. She will give you signals whether she wants it or not. Don't be discouraged if she doesn't, my first gf who I dated for 2 years didn't kiss me until a month after we started dating.

I'll keep it in mind thanks user

>i can text her if she wants to do something else
user never ask a woman what to do. tell her we're going to X place instead. She'll tell you if she doesn't want to go.
also, always be dominant and always have a presence in her physical and emotional space.
keep the date short as if you were dating 3-5 other women in the same day btw.

>always have a presence in her physical and emotional space.
What do you mean by this?

>keep the date short as if you were dating 3-5 other women in the same day btw.
I think I'll keep the date going as long as it does naturally. If we really kick it off and talk for hours I say why not keep it going.

and ye a walk in the park sounds good, i did that after a movie on my first date. i recommend going in the evening tho just so that you can be confident in being more physical with her, since you'll have an excuse to protect her. the zoo/aquarium are perfect for the second date (which should come up the following week or the week after that)

>which should come up the following week or the week after that
Yea I imagine it would be something like that but I hope we hit it off well enough that we plan something else at the end of this first date

what i mean by having a presence in her physical and emotional space, is that you want to establish physical contact with her for the majority of the time you're with her (holding hands whenever crossing the street or whenever shes scared, whenever opening the door for her, the hand not on the handle must be placed on her back with very slight force guiding her inside, never sitting across from her but rather side-by-side on a table). now emotionally, you don't ever want her to feel alone.in order to do that you must take up her space emotionally; you must imprint a memory inside her head of you. that's only possible if you go somewhere and do something memorable (interesting and unique). a petting zoo if perfect since it'll initial her maternal instincts has given your presence.

>I think I'll keep the date going as long as it does naturally. If we really kick it off and talk for hours I say why not keep it going.

The other user's right, op. You want to leave her wanting more. Think of it like a tv show: You don't give the whole season in a single episode. You leave cliffhangers. Questions that aren't answered. Mysteries. Intrigues.

Give her enough to be interesting, but go no further. Doesn't have to be a short as fuck date, but don't make it too long.

>we plan something else
change we with I, and your golden user.
if shes a slut, you'll get your dick wet (on the same day) so long as you have a place to fuck without interference.

>is that you want to establish physical contact with her for the majority of the time you're with her (holding hands whenever crossing the street
I don't man this is a first date I think that's going a bit far. You work your up to those sorts of things

>never sitting across from her but rather side-by-side on a table
Again seems a bit much for the first date. I'll keep it casual and see what happens. I agree with your on the emotional thing tho I do want to leave an impression on her

>if shes a slut
Which she isn't and which is why I'm planning for long term dating with her. While sex is always nice that isn't primarily why I'd like to go out with her. She's not thicc or anything like that but super cute and fun to be around, very feminine. She seems like one of those sorts of girls that's a keeper and I felt like I would've beat myself up if I never asked her out as these sorts of girls are rare

>knew a qt south african girl in highschool who was embarrassed about her accent and wore dresses every day
I was an edgelord who thought he didn't need no woman, so that opportunity passed right on by.

Their accents are cute as fuck

bro you can't sit across from her, it'll come off as confrontational and you'll be shooting yourself in the foot as you'll appear like a salesman trying to appease to her even tho she already agreed (in her head) that she wants to buy the car.
and you must establish physical contact with her the second you meet her (at least a hug) and escalate as you go to break the ice like hand holding as you cross the street.
>very feminine
user, given this you have to be a gentleman in the streets, and a freak in the sheets. but in either case, you must compliment her feminity, by being masculine.
only have sex with her by the 3rd date but don't spend over $240-300 from now till the 3rd date. don't be afraid to take her out to a cruise around the city or something. the 3rd date has to interesting and unique

>bro you can't sit across from her, it'll come off as confrontational
I don't know man it just seems like a uncomfortable position to talk to someone from having to turn your neck to make eye contact and shit. I wanna look her in the eyes as I speak to her.

>you must establish physical contact with her the second you meet her (at least a hug)
I think I'll do this that's good advice user but I'm a bit hesitant on the hand holding thing. If we kick at off good at coffee maybe it'll build it's way up to that as we walk

also heres some vids to help you out user
how to have a first date:
youtube.com/watch?v=TrPRT1hGO9w
how to be a gentleman in her presence:
youtube.com/watch?v=BmXCd3mY3SM
youtube.com/watch?v=ddDdPaNbm3I

>>then unless she had the accent or something
>She does tho and it's cute as fuck. She was born there.
Yeah ok, LARP elsewhere, faggot. Just because you sent a girl you're on class with a fb friend request, doesn't mean you need to come lie here

user I asked her to coffee last day of class and she said yes. I sat next to her all summer and chatted with her and had a group presentation with her. I sensed she had some interest in me so I took a chance and asked figuring if she says no I'll never see her again. Honestly I think it's too good to be true myself which if why I'm afraid she'll ghost me or something but I think this may be the real deal.

>unironically getting a qt Sou'frican gf

Ay, my man.

fuck you I hope she cucks you for big black cock!

SOOF EFRIKAN

nice. based and truth pilled

Every time I think of the accent this guy pops up in my head.

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