I'm TIRED of being a teenager!!! I want to be mentally developed and not so emotionally dependent on a single...

I'm TIRED of being a teenager!!! I want to be mentally developed and not so emotionally dependent on a single person!!!!!

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how old are you senpai?
I remember facing that quite a lot and being dependent of my older brother

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I'm 18
I feel like I'm not even living my own life because my mood is whatever their mood is

how are supposed to be a teen at that age? are you retarded?

>how are you a teenager at eighteen

This must be bait get a fucking grip, how pathetic can you be at 18 years old HAHAHAHA

I'm almost 30 and still that lol, never leave house without parents and they deal with most of the same stuff they did when I was 10

>Being 18
>Not being a teenager

I hope you're making this up or I'm truly sorry for you.
Out of interest what keeps you from suicide?
Bless you robot :(

op you are a faggot
just kill yourself and make your parents free of the burden of having a son like you while they are chatting with their friends at the living room but they cannot mention user because he is a failure

>WAAAAH I WANT TO GROW UP NOW!
Start by not acting like a fucking crybaby, you'll have done 50% of the job already.

Do it OP, it's not fair you're ruining your parents lives here don't you get that?

According to psychological studies (I've read from my roommate's university books), Someone is, on average, a teenager mentally wise until 23 to 25 years old when the brain is fully developped and your personality has taken roots. They refer it to "adulescence" in my language which roughly translates to "teenadult"
Past 25, some people can stay teenagers mentally until they are over 40 years old. These are the people we commonly mock as manchildren.

So basically, it's more tolerated in general to fuck around until you're 25, but after your mid 20's, expectations become heavier and people increasingly want you to be responsible. This is also why that, at 30, I don't take what most people below 22 have to say too seriously.

>being 18
>not being an adult already
where the fuck do you live? america?

Being an adult by decree if the State is not the same as actually BEING responsible, autonomous and disciplined. Basically, what being an adult encompass.

so basically this is the way people are coping these days when they act like big manchild in real life events?

>complaining about being young
you better enjoy your fucking youth while it lasts, moron

yeah, thats why i assumed you live in america since it looks like its filled with manchildren
in the rest of the world being around 18 you are expected to be responsible and disciplined already

op here yes I'm in america
people expect me to have the mindset of an adult right now and I'm stuck in fear of being independent so it's not very enjoyable

wrong, japan. just stop projecting your manchild attitudes upon others and using a outdated research/topic as a method to numb the way you perceive life, stop coping neckbeardlord

Where in the world? I know a lot of people in Europe who, in the shitty economical situation they are in, are still on welfare with their parents past 25.
How responsible you are expected to be beyond a certain age is all dependant on the social climate you grow up in, but you're not mentally really an adult until at least 25 years old.
Also, it's about more than responsibility. There is a grossly averaged list of manchildren criterias in my book somewhere that discuss the criterias of a manchild or womanchild in modern society. Basically, you can be able to work a job and pay rent entirely autonomously and still be a giant manchild. R9k exemplifies a lot of these traits on average.
Expecting demands to be met without a fair trade (I WANT A GF NOW NOW NOW NOW)
Living in passive frustration rather than active solution seeking(IT'S NOT FAIR!)
Living in a self-isolating bubble where you convince yourself nobody understands you(FUCKING NORMIES) where you think you're a part of an unique and misunderstood caste of population (BETA UPRISING!)
Being unable to accept the point of view of some or many others and treating every issues in matter of right or wrong while getting angry when people don't think you're right. (IF YOU CRITICIZE MY LIFESTYLE AND CHOICES YOU'RR JUST A ROAST. IF YOU DISAGREE WITH ME ON (x) YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY A DEFENDER OF (x) AND THEREFORE A (x).

etc etc.

There are a lot more, but that wouldn't accurately describe the trend.I have access to sociology and psychology studies, but I'm neither a psy or sociologue, so take me as a mere mouthpiece, but, basically, this info says two things.
One: We all exhibit imnature traits that makes us seem like manchildren.
Two: A lot more people than you think are still mentally teenagers and they are not all of the basement dwelling neckbeard category. Some even have children of their own and reproduce.

No, what I'm telling you is true psychological facts. Your brain stops developing at 25 so beliw that age you're still in a development phase. Socially wise, it's just a matter of expectation.Below 25 society expects very little out of you because you're supposed to be in school, partying like an idiot and just worrying about your average. Past 25 you're supposedly out of school and ready to establish a career path so, suddenly, people tolerates your bullshit less.
By 30 you're supposed to have a family and shit, which is where I am and the kind of social pressure I have on my shoulders.