Do you regret not partying in your teens/ early 20s?

do you regret not partying in your teens/ early 20s?

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I did party. unless you love being around people partying is massively overrated. I enjoyed the alcohol and drugs though

As of being 18 years old, I haven't been to a real party.

>outing yourself as a fucking fetus
...jesus christ man the state of this site

I spent every weekend between 18-22 going out and pretending to be a normalfag for a few hours. I can barely form a sentence while sober but the alcohol allowed me to fake a persona for a few hours. I was fully under the impression that I could fake it till I made it. but the opposite was the case. it was fake it until you crack. years of this just exhausted me. I could no longer fake this outgoing persona. I'd go to bars and clubs with friends and just get overcome with a huge depression and feels that I didn't belong. the alcohol no made me temporarily happy it actually was making me more depressed and emotional. gradually people began to catch on that I wasn't one of them. they knew I was a virgin and this got weird past 21 or so. they knew I was a neet. I couldn't pretend that I was going to get a job soon or go back to uni etc now that I'd been this way for years. gradually I slowly stopped coming to places I was invited. I got more blackpilled about my shitty genetics and autism. socialising felt futile. like I was playing a game where I had an unplayable hand. gradually I saw my friends once every few months, then once every six months, then once every year, now I haven't seen them in two years and feel no desire to. they're all turbo normans with functional lives and futures. hanging out with them now would just be extremely awkward. I know they still have concern for me, but socialising with them wouldn't be natural. you can't be friends with people unless you are in most respects equals

Why the fuck do you guys care about this shit? You're born an introvert, you look at the majority's superficial behaviour in disgust, and should be comfortable alone. What in the honest hell looks appealing about loud noises, drinking alcohol, and acting like a drunken boisterous idiot?

Funny thing, I was actually a jock in High School. I made the varsity hockey team my freshman year and played varsity all 4 years of HS. I almost never hung out with the hockey team outside the rink though. I was always a nerd at heart and found most of their personalities annoying. I turned countless invitations to parties with the hockey/football teams and alcohol and chicks to go LAN some cs 1.6, aoe2, and vanilla wow with my nerd friends from middle school. And the few times I did go to such parties, I didn;t enjoy myself and wished I was elsewhere playing videogames. I was basically a vidya autist who was good at hockey. I kinda regret not taking those opportunities, but on the other hand the memories from those LAN parties and tournaments are some of the fondest I have in my life.

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jesus user you ok man? you ever wanna talk? ive been neet since i was 18... i still remember walking home from my high school after a senior all night graduation thing. i had a school bag they gave us and a school blanket draped over me. i felt like i was in the hobbit.. i got home put WoW on, smoked a bowl and boom 5 years have gone by. life is rough user but you cant give up on yourself and be so hard your self now because this shit only gets worse if you let it. try listening to david goggins and take the /fit pill. i have a part time job now and im going to try and get sober. life can be beautiful user

do you still play hockey?

To be honest, I regret partying and I am in my early 20s. Shit really sucks.
I can't even say I'm not that social or that I don't enjoy parties, they can definitely be fun. But looking back at these past few years I wish I would have partied less. Not only are drugs terrible for your body and mind, but it gets extremely monotonous, as you go out to a bar, get drunk, talk about stupid bullshit, unsuccessfully hit on women (even the more chad-like people knew this feel a lot), work/study waiting for the weekend (or Thursday if you're a true partier) then repeat.
I wish I would have gotten more hobbies, worked out more, put more time into my studies, fuck even went to church.
Luckily I still have time to correct this, but it would have been nice to have a few years head start.

Yeah, I actually just started playing again less than a year ago after more than a decade away from the game. I puked all over the bench my first game back. I'm really starting to get back into the flow and it feels good.

nah I've given up on life. I'm just gonna be a neet stoner forever. I don't desire friends or a "life"

i never partied when i was a teen since i was a christ/moralfag but i partied too much in college. at least 3 nights a week and usually more like 5. ofc i flunked out and had to take a break. i regret it immensely but i do also miss fun times at house parties and meeting new girls every week

LAN parties were the shit. I had so much more fun playing UT99 with my bros than at most normie parties that I went to. Some of the normie parties were fucking epic tho, like the one that turned into a 100 person street battle between hipsters and bros

I regret not partying in my teens but when I hit my 20s, I made some friends, so I got to party. Actually going to a party tomorrow afternoon. I do things I regret at parties but I know I won't regret them when I'm on my death bed. I'm 23. I need to start partying more.

I went to autist parties. We didnt do dumb shit like that but we played card games, drank, and larped
>friend gets red dragon inn or something, tavern RP card game
>convince him to go all the way
>we mix up some health and mana potions using mountain dew (as is tradition), mixers, and liquor
>get pastries and meats and other food you see in medieval kinds of games
>we dont normally drink beer but we have ale for the night
>tavern music on in the background
>candles and an orange lightbulb are the only source of light
>start the night with a hearty feast, then play the game while drinking
>eventually devolves into jokes and conversation
That was a great night. Autist parties are fun, you can really let loose

>You're born an introvert, you look at the majority's superficial behaviour in disgust, and should be comfortable alone
You just made a shit ton of assumptions about everyone. I was always an extrovert but I had a personality no one liked, so it led to me being a robot. Being an introvert doesn't mean you hate society like some weirdo, it just means you need to be by yourself to recharge from socializing.

I'm so autistic I can't even play roleplaying games. when people ask me what I want to do with my character I freeze and go mentally blank. last time my character died of alcohol poising before even buying a weapon

The game I played during that night would be great for you, you have choices and stuff, it's not as free as your usual TTG
I'd compare it to other card games more than something like D&D but we got really into the characterizations cuz autism
The token girl of our group even brought her normie bf and the guy had a great time. Everybody can have fun with autism

I've been to a few parties and even got drunk/talked to some people. It's honestly overrated. As often as i was distracted or "content," as many times i was just sitting or standing around, drinking, thinking about my ex or old friends, not wanting to be there, even wanting to be back home playing video games. Like here i am in a new place talking to new people and it's going well or at least OK, nothing bad is happening, there's music and drugs and cute girls i can just walk up and talk to, i still hate it

I literally have zero imagination. if you ask me to make up a character I cannot do it

You dont have to with that game tho, I played some qt healer and got into it. It isnt necessary though, if you can play turn based RPGs you could play this one

Never been to a party that wasnt at my host (older brother hosted)

It was so awkward because I'm antisocial.
Imagine you go down stairs to the basement everyone is smoking weed on the couches

Then there's me in a tiny room beside it, I mean tiny like 5x5ft with my computer in it
All that's between us is a sliding glass door that has glass windows in it but they're clouded so you can't see through them

I just sat in silence hoping nobody would open the door

This was like 15 years ago

Someone's in for a rude awakening.

I am 34 and I have never even held a girls hand.

I regret every day I am still alive.

No, not really. Partying is one of the thousand things you can do to enjoy yourself for a bit, its just the easiest outlet for the majority outgoing type crowd.

What does that mean? What rude awakening am I in for? Not regretting things? I don't think that when I'm 70, I'll give much of a fuck about making an ass of myself at a bar in Florida back in 2017.

I went to lots of good parties when I was in college.But I was too high and/or autistic to get lucky with girls.

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I partied hard in college. For all you high schoolers, don't pass up the opportunity to get out there and get shitty. It's when I learned how to socialize and empathize with other human beings.

I'm glad it's over and I don't think I'd want to live that life again, but I am soo glad it happened.

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I went to a few parties and hated them all. Crowds disorient me and make me nauseous and anxious. The parties are too loud and most of the people are either drunks, assholes, or drunk assholes. I have much more fun just fishing, hunting, hiking, birdwatching, or watching anime.

i regret not having friends but not not partying

why the fuck are white people so fucking gay?

Also to me, more than anything, I enjoy that I was able to go to parties, as in people invited me and were generally wanting to socialize with me. The worst part about it was going to parties.

Partying just feels like empty socializing to me. Yeah ive been to them, gotten wasted and kicked out because of my friend, woke up on the floor but in all honesty having a few quality friends is way better.

I wish the best for you hockeybro

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