Why are hikikomori starting to pop up in other countries outside Japan? what is wrong with western societies that could cause this? and why would young people stay in their bedrooms and depend on their parents well into their adult life?
Hikikomori
They forgot to respect us.
>They forgot to respect us.
What do you mean?
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society - Jiddu Krishnamurti
>It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society
Based quote.
How would you know society was sick if you never leave your room? And what are you comparing it to that you'd be able to objectively call it "sick"?
>How would you know society was sick if you never leave your room?
Most hikikomori have previous work history and were bullied in school.
doesn't take a rocket scientist to turn on the news and see what's being shilled
im a neet. i just got back from a bar because i had to go there for reasons. i was there for 3 hours and not a single person even acknowledged my existence. all the girls all dressed up didn't take one look at me once.
i dont know what to do, how the fuck would i fix that? just start randomly talking to people? why dont they talk to me? i just cant operate in this fucking world.
>i dont know what to do, how the fuck would i fix that?
Just try coming out of your shell.
>how the fuck would i fix that? just start randomly talking to people? why dont they talk to me?
Unless someone does something different this scenario will never change.
I think the question is: why did they show up in Japan in the first place? I think the answer has to do with Japan's "lost decades" of economic stagnation.
>I never try to talk to people
>but if they dont start conversations with me its because society is sick
Fucking brainlet. No wonder youre a neet
Nah. Its because of the immense social pressure on young people there to conform yet excel
Porn is more accessible? Easier to get that dopamine hit of satisfaction? Japan is big on porn and techno .
Well you're both right and social pressure is not only limited to Japan it happens in other Asian cultures and in the west as well although we are not as strict about it.
>get a job you pathetic piece of shit
>don't you dare speed or smoke weed or jaywalk
>she's too young you evil man
>you're lazy and entitled
>sex is bad and condoms don't work abstain from fun things
>video games are bad too
>you deserve bachelor taxes you evil man
>women need help even though men are 75 percent of the homeless
>go to work NOW
Here's what's needed to make me work:
>I'm sorry for being mean to you live and let live
>please come work for us we need you and promise not to fire you unless you actually deserve it
>we've deleted all the gay rules and corp policy too
>your education level is at top ten percent of the world and on a historical level you're a genius, sure I'll give you average wage
>you don't need to get taxed unless you want cops help, no free healthcare and hate the military? of course you don't have to pay taxes
>*knock knock* hello fellow human of whom I respect would you like a job, our organization of actual nice caring people that are anti-slavery noticed you have never worked and we'd like to find you a position
>if you can't handle it we'll dock your pay but never fire you so you can work as hard as you wish to be paid!
Back to reality humans are trash and respect does not mean respect to them. They only respect what they fear and these people that drop out are meek men.
>>she's too young you evil man
Stop it.
>lower pay if work less
>average pay
The point was the world is dick and inflexible. That I posted contradicts itself. I was thinking more like
>we will move you to a more appropriate position you can handle
Rather than
>GET OUT BITCH TRY HARDER NEXT TIME AND BEING A BUM IS ILLEGAL HAHAHA DO NOT TOUCH ME PIIIIGS HELLLLLP OUT OUT OUT
>BE A BETTER BITCH NEXT TIME
>*goes to jail for being bum*
But the dock pay thing was easier to type for some reason because imagining an actually advanced society makes me sad. They should automatically have work for you or an automatic check rather than this dystopian fight-fest of drama-loving assholes that hate equality and egotistically prefer fighting for a meal rather than cooperating for one whilst pretending we are nice but instead are fired for not smiling, the faux smile thing they do is abhorrent. Society is bad and should be ignored until it shapes up as revolution is impossible now. Worker strike is the only thing someone can do.
Every little thing society does I'd do differently is the point.
They've been around a long time, but they're more apparent now for two reasons:
Firstly, people now know the word hikikomori. Previously people had used other terms like soppy.
Secondly, we've had over a decade of severe economic mismanagement, so more people have failed at life and retreated.
Humans are garbage. No system or set of rules we ever create will be good enough for a lasting society. Boomers tried to make it work. Millenials are too dependent on technology to do what boomers had to adapt to. And we're stuck this way because technology is the future, at least until the second great depression hits. Then the cycle repeats
I think life at home has become much more comfortable in the past few decades. From what my grandparents have told me, they left home to escape a shitty or boring life, but with the internet and videogames it's become much easier to "escape"
>people didn't sit at home reading books
Despite some clerical work being exported, it's not like the librarian type of persona never existed until now. The home is the library though, and cleric work has now become corporate shitholes.
dont compare reading books to the internet. its not even close to the same thing. you have INSTANT access to endless movies, music, books. and its even somewhat of a social thing since you can talk to others.
There were hikikomori in Japan before the internet existed in the 70s and 80s.
But we're sitting here just merely arguing all day... do you think books aren't entertaining? Fiction wans't just now invented recently.... the world is backwards NOW not then so we sit here bitching all day. I do anyway. I watched nothing today but bitched for 12 hours, that is usually what I do. Just live on Jow Forums. Other people could have other types of vices but even if you're some pokemon playing autist that is the same personality that would have been an animal trainer of horses that people no longer use. The world is different is my point, that was yours too but plenty of people stayed home all day. You could have been petting a cat playing a guitar or piano. You were merely exposed to a vapid lie of the adventurer normalfaggot in his golden years assuming you'd do what he did when you'd actually have been fishing while writing in your journal on a boat STILL being autistic in the past.
Seriously this. There are SO many places I'd gladly work if they'd let me work 20 hours a week. Being forced into a 40-60 hour work week for any "decent" job ruins it for me.
The 70s and 80s are still modern times mister Jackass. They felt defeated due to the post war issue. We men are defeated due to feminism and a prison planet.
Yes indeed. Back in the peasant times of ancient cultures people actually worked 20 hours you know. It's in your blood. They want you to be a slave though and be pure greedy and aha no.
>marriage is now a joke where you will lose at least 50% of your assets
>You have about a 50% chance of your marriage fucking failing and frankly that is for normal people
>If you are less desirable then the marriage rate is way worse because the bitch just married you for money and will be done with you in 5 years tops
>if you want a good career job you now have to go into large amounts of debt and spend years in education to attain it and you will most likely have to live in or near a major city
>Middle class jobs that don't require much education are disappearing at an alarming rate leaving nothing but minimum wage eternal poverty
>housing is now expensive as fuck and owning a home is unattainable unless you make the big bucks but even then you will just lose it all in that divorce we talked about earlier
>There is very little advancement in the shit tier jobs anymore at best you may get 3 times the responsibility and a dollar more an hour
>social security is a joke and may not even exist when most of us retire so now you have to plan to either work until the day you die
>or you can invest and try and plan out your retirement with your own funds but that is going to be awfully hard with that expensive house you bought and lost in the divorce but still ultimately pay for in your bullshit alimony
Its a shitty game and should be a surprise to no one that people do not want to play it.Its all mindless grind with only a slim chance of reward.I imagine if most of the children were truly red pilled and understood this shit we would lose half of them to suicide in less than a few months.
>option one
>min wage job
>can work small hours
>not enough to live on outside of full time because 1/3 of national average
>ironically hard to get hours
>more competitive than actual nice jobs
>option two
>have to work long hours so no free time to enjoy more money they force on you
>important job so you must be there or fired
>have to go into college before can even do job
honk honk
dont forget
>or do trade meme instead
>still have to work long hours but no college just training
>All trade work is usually hard on the body
>make good money for a time but it all goes to shit later on usually a good 20 years before retirement at least
>no longer physically able to do trade job
>have no other skills and are effectively a 55 year old high school kid
>work minimum wage shit and die in poverty
Honk honk indeed
>work min wage
>not enough to live on own
>full of zoomers and stoners
>get piss tested
>disrespected by boss
>work college
>college take too long, too much debt, too hard
>work blue collar
>too hard on body
>full of rednecks and niggers
>everyone is mean to each other
>decide start business
>mega corp world where must be rich to advertise
>can't compete
Paradoxical mind game meant to keep people from doing what they really want to do all in all.
I really wish I knew knew what the solution was because all I got is
>be born attractive so opportunities fall in your lap
>have genius idea you are able to get off the ground at the right time to make it big
>be born wealthy
>not be born at all
>be born female
>automatically win
>be born into nice family
>automatically win due to nepotism kissing your ass
It's a be born a loser or winner world despite propaganda. You already know that though. Women can whore themselves, women can just get shacked up with whatever guy they like the most like some stray cat. Hence, men are the 75 percent of an hero, of bum, of violent crime probably too, we are the thrice hard mode. Rich get 90 percent of the cash. It's just silly out there user.
My solution used to be donate plasma then be a bum in the woods but that doesn't work for my BPM got to high even on the pills they gave me to be able to donate. They can give you like 200 USD where I live and in some areas it's way higher than that in the USA. It harms you, but still, that's more than enough to live in the woods. I have never been able to even get that much though on a regular basis and averaged more like 20 or 80 a month due to not being healthy enough.
Oh yeah, the bux was our meme for a reason too. But in the USA they refuse to give it and I'm actually 30 now still waiting years to get on it. My state auto bans you for 2 years if you fail to get on it and I usually don't want to bother to try. By auto ban I mean the court date to appeal is automatically 2 years approx. 1.5 to schedule then basically that's two years. Half are rejected and half of the population are men, really makes me think considering my lawyer said some woman she sent to the guy got on it for derpression and I was going for schizo that has never worked a day in his life, of which is pretty much true as far as normalfaggots are concerned mentally and work is just plain true.
>I'm a sad female HELP
>*gets money*
>I'm stark raving mad and can't get along with people nor ever have
>*rejection*
Oh man I tried to get on the bux in the past too. They actually made lies up to throw away my case. Like how my lawyer provided my school records showing how I dropped out but yet the final letter I got after the hearing the judge said he determined I did indeed pass high school. The medical consultant made up bullshit too like how I was only applying because I was getting near 30 and getting desperate. She gave no evidence for this and pulled it out of her ass. Although even if it was true why would that eve be bad anyway it would just prove I was doing my best to not have to fall back on this bullshit.
I never tried again though. Mostly cuz I moved and got a terrible psychiatrist and considering they were willing to make stuff up before. I figured any ammunition that piece of shit gave them would easily be twisted in their favor. I tried to change psychiatrists but the bullshit clinic I went too refused to let me switch doctors and they were only the place that had psychiatrists in this bullshit small town effectively ending my treatment since I don't have the money to travel 300 miles to see a fucking doctor every month.
meanwhile there are women who get it on the basis of being too fucking fat.
The medical examiner basically said if you can pay attention for longer than five minutes and not shit yourself there's a job out there for you.
The medical examiner is the honking part of that scenario. They obviously train them to not be on your side no matter what.
Like I said the judge lied about shit too though. But yeah the whole thing was a joke. It was like some elaborate skit to put up some facade of fairness just so the average normie doesn't question it.
That is exactly what it is. How can you reject half and have it be the same number in all states? Why half?
They only let the females in and the elderly and the absolutely retarded. No one feels pitty for men. Retarded downie. Sure. Female. Sure. Children? Sure. Elderly? Sure. Male? Nope.
Why do you think we're on the Jow Forums? It is exactly them pretending to care about men. I knew one guy on it, just one. He was in a mental ward for 15 years first. NOW you feel pity.
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This is why I have often pondered just standing outside the office with a sign that says "denied" on it for like 2 weeks and then one day waiting for it to be nice and busy and just blow my fucking brains out.
>faggot enabling by killing yourself
Men are 75 percent of suicides as well as 75 percent of the homeless. They want you to do it. I fantasize about beating the judge to death myself. Otherwise you are faggot enabling. If they were going to care about male suicide they'd have made an issue of it by now.
They only respect fear, as I previously stated. They are not compassionate and fair a race. They are vain and only forceful domination makes people cooperate. Like with bums they lock them up to torture men with jail time of which is meant to break your spirit and turn you into a bitch.
Ironically small things like school shootings don't phase them anymore. Only terrorism does of which is why the vain assholes got scared and "WATCH ME UNCLE SAM PLZ" so nothing could ever likely harm them. So really, i'd have went on a killing rampage by now but I know nothing outside of genocide would satiate both parties, me, and the drama loving normalfaggots. They'd be happier in a crisis you know. They just don't know it. Well, the ones that survive would be happy anyway. As is always the case.
well you make a good point and its true I did at time ponder blowing the building up or shooting the place up but decided it didn't really matter.
I mean bullying ruined and still ruins a shit ton of lives and finally people started shooting up schools but it changed nothing in the end.
Still if you or someone else went full vengeance on the disability fuckers I sure as fuck would cheer your ass on and donate to your legal defense what little I could. Frankly I am surprised those places don't get lit up on a daily basis with the evil they pull.
>It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society - Jiddu Krishnamurti
This
Best way to play a rigged game is to not play it
38yo NEET here
live with parents
welfare pays my bills
mummy does the shopping and house work
daddy watches tv
i mow lawns and some yard work
my rubbish bins leave the yard more than me
user 3 here. I have (hypothetically) considered planning a murder-suicide (in minecraft) but I find it hard to justify a target that I can truly call evil and deserving of the receiving end. I do not feel much empathy to most normies in the first place put I could only go to such a drastic (hypothetical) degree if i felt what I was doing was right, rather than simply irrelevant and meaningless. There are people involved in these systems I don't support, but usually they too are only desperate people like myself just trying to get by. Often they are too dumb, not involved beyond passive enabling, and/or desperate enough to compromise if they can see the harm their positions may cause. If was to commit suicide, I would essentially have nothing to lose and be (hypothetically) able to do such a drastic thing without worrying about the consequences, but in the end, the only truly evil people we hear about are usually only because they've been exposed, given media attention, and already locked up. I don't know any (hypothetical) targets i can personally justify seeing as I live a selfish just-trying-to-get-by life myself
When you leave your bedroom and just observe the world you'll realize the world doesn't need you. Everything is designed around a certain way of life (status, money and consumption) and if you don't like that it's very hard to find something else to do.
Of course a lot of people manage to find something else (Hippies, religious people etc.) but they're either charismatic, intelligent or dedicated to something.
This is why you'll mostly see this in modern urban areas. Men don't thrive in this, they long for freedom and responsibility.
>Why are hikikomori starting to pop up in other countries outside Japan? what is wrong with western societies that could cause this? and why would young people stay in their bedrooms and depend on their parents well into their adult life?
it's just to mimic the cool japanese hikkis
all westerners today are weeaboo after all
Europoor so I would be almost poorer if I got a job because of taxes and city renting. If I wanted to save money to buy a car or something like that to go out, it would be a waste of money because I have nowhere that I like to go.
I assume for others it's kind of the same. Even if I had a girlfriend or something like that, I would get bored of it. I have motivation to do things but if you can't feel good while doing it, it's pointless
>Just try coming out of your shell.
This is a thinly veiled "BEE URSELF" and you have somehow missed the fact that he went there and WAS himself.
>it's just to mimic the cool japanese hikkis
>all westerners today are weeaboo after all
I highly doubt that.
>shes too young you evil man
One of these is not like the others.
>I watched nothing today but bitched for 12 hours
>do you need any further proof society is sick!?!?
Brainlet confirmed
Le EDGY Joker man!! Scary!!
This is tryhard as fuck. 2deep4me
>be me 3 years ago
>casually watching anime
>weird dream one night
>suddenly say "hikikomori desu" and wake up confused,no idea whats's that
>some time passes and I remember that word, a google search later I figure out what it means
>my sub-conscious knew it all along
forgot to mention, moved out and I have a job now so I guess I outgrew it
>Marriage is now a joke where you will lose 50% of your assets
Lmfao what assets do you have to lose, faggot?
Tell people they are useleaa pieces of shit for their while lives and what a shock
>dont you dare speed or smoke weed or jaywalk
Fucking society with its crosswalks!!!
Expense.
Everything is expensive. You need to work ridiculously hard just to not be homeless, and when I start to think about building a life for myself, it's all just so overwhelming that I don't even try. You cannot live comfortably on a minimum wage where I'm from. You can't even live in a tiny studio apartment with no kids, no spouse and no pets, using a bike to get around.
It's all just too expensive.
You jest but pressing them doesn't make the light change because they feel like making you stand there far longer than you should be despite the cars being able to go much faster. It hates the poor, and if you jaywalk only endangering yourself they can fuck you generally with a ticket that if too poor to pay (why are you walking, you're poor) you go to jail, locked up like a feral animal for not wanting to be illogically inconvenienced.
Also, good morning zoomers. Had nice sleeps?
If you're in a trade and haven't been retarded with your money, 55 is retirement age. Most old tradesmen still work because they enjoy it, not because they have to.
Im 31 faggot, I wake up at this time because I have a job. One which pays me a lot of money because I have the balls to leave my bedroom, and I dont sperg out over things like crossing the street at a crosswalk
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>being normalfaggots for no reason
Revoked.
In the history of mankind no one was this retarded about such ethics. It matters. It belongs there.
All existing social roles are filled. Read about the mouse utopia experiment. When there is nothing to strive for, men just retreat and do their own thing.
Women on the other hand...
>In the experiments in which the behavioral sink developed, infant mortality ran as high as 96 percent among the most disoriented groups in the population.
>NOOOO NOOOO HUMANS ARE NOT MICE NOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOO
>me being able to fuck preteens because im addicted to loli porn is an important historical ethic
Die, pedocel.
In today's society you are called pedo for being 20 and having 15 year olds crush on you but 18 year olds are being perused by everyone and their mother so you end up alone.
Gaylord. Stop normalfaggot ethic enabling through asinine insinuations. 17 going with 22 is considered pedophilia.
Feminists basically invented pedophilia when they raised the age of consent and then the normalfags switched who they were going to witch hunt from niggers, gays, and slutty women and commies, to pedos and white men and the meek men.
You just are being retarded and knee jerk reactioning at me if not trolling.
At this point people think 25 going with 18 is pedo. It's a slippery slope thing. People are assholes and inconsiderate. You can manipulate if you are going to at any age and manipulate people of any age.
>cel as in incel redditor term
Leave.
tl;dr: who are you quoting retard no one said that shit leave normalfaggot redditor.
>Retirement age 55
Ahahahahahhahaha he thinks social security will be there for him
>>NOOOO NOOOO HUMANS ARE NOT MICE NOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOO
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
so i should turn into 'that' guy that goes around and butt into peoples conversations?