Do girls just normally take a long time to respond...

Do girls just normally take a long time to respond? I mean I've talked to girls from tinder before and after hooking up and they still take forever. I mean sure im not really good at talking through texts and prefer speaking in person but at least I try to start up conversations or keep them going. Are inboxes really that flooded or are they just playing hard to get or whatever the fuck?

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on tinder? theyre talking to 10 other guys on top of the other social media they have open on their phone.
thats why i dont do tinder. real life is much easier to get girl's attention

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noo not on tinder, I get their phone numbers through there and then talk through WhatsApp. The thing is that after having a seemingly great date with said girls they still take forever to reply afterwards.

They aren't interested in you or you're the back up plan. Bottom line.

damn, that sucks :/ guess I knew that but still hurts

This user gets it. If she's not responding to you within a reasonable time frame she's probably juggling 7 other chads and benching you for when she wants some supplementary attention. Truth is, most females these days crave attention from whoever they can get it from, even if its from someone who they wouldn't consider to be a viable sexual candidate.

You probably just seem to desperate to make something click. Try falling back and taking the route of making a friend after you fuck them. Allow things to grow organically. Keep your words to a minimum and I swear to god if you use emojis I will back slap the shit out of you.

I see what youre saying, it just seems shitty to me that people can't reply to texts quickly without appearing desperate despite being online :/. Also im guilty of having used emojis before, dont slap me too hard

There will probably eventually be one that isn't like that user. You do you, you don't come off as desperate if you aren't.

Dont listen to this fag bitches love emojis

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I usually send an emoji the first couple of messsges through tinder and if they use some too then (the) game. If not then I just dont use them

I use them to parse out my long winded messages

Thanks for the kind words friend, maybe this girl isn't much of a texter either

Just means they're talking to someone else too. They'll talk on bursts til they get bored.

If you're not in their top options, yeah they'll take a while. Won't ghost you completely just to string you along and keep you as a backup or confidence boost, but won't respond in a timely manner. If she was really into you, you'd be able to tell

if i'm talking to someone intimately interested in me, i sometimes feel a little awkward and take a minute to respond because i'm literally blushing behind the screen and i can't think of something to say. i reply after a bit once i've gotten over it a little! obviously everyone is different and this doesn't apply to all women, but we get nervous just like men.

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No more emojis. You are now aloof, user. Nothing phases you.
>it just seems shitty to me that people can't reply to texts quickly without appearing desperate despite being online
I know. It sucks but people are fucking stupid. The best way to avoid this is to talk to multiple girls at once. Try to always keep a pool of about 4-5 girls you're interested in but don't over talk via text or anything. I've found anything more is a bit more of a struggle. Save actual conversations for in person if you can help it. The best way to have women blowing you up is by constantly doing something interesting.
t. faggot that got laid twice and is now convinced he's Chad
t. female (male)

I got laid twice? If you claiming you pull more than me I would love to see receipts

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Women are always on their feet about you unless they are head over heels for you. If youve ever sent desperate texts, unsolicited dick pics, or messages that would make someone cringe into oblivion, consider that women have to deal with those kind of messages on a daily basis. Shitty men and shitty women alike have ruined the sexual and romantic marketplace.

She could also genuinely be busy. Consider that she might have two or three jobs, or a very demanding family, or very ambitious academic plans just like any other person. She will make time for you if she likes you, but it might just not be now. You dont know what anybodys life is like other than yours, and most of the time its neither persons fault that things didnt work out.

Things work out very rarely for people, and thats why some resort to, and find success in the numbers game. Life just be like that nigga

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kek but in real life they're still doing what you described with their heads buried in their phones

sure. but im not interested in those girls anyway. on tinder all girls are that way. in real life you get a chance at that rare girl with heart. they do exist btw.

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More emojis use w/ you the more they like you

i just look at women who don't hold a phone or a coffee cup t b h

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>cup o joe
why is this a disqualifier?

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subtly tells me she thinks with groupthink

I had to hop on my phone to find my screenshot from when I posted this awhile ago. I don't use tinder anymore, but this was from a month and a half time usage (I deactivated and deleted the app afterwards). Talking to women face-to-face is much more fruitful.

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My phone ringing and I aint answer cause I'm in a bitch. (yeah!)
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Every different day I wake up to play with a different bitch
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At the strip club, let her lick your ass, bitch!
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i get the subtle cue thing
but that burns too wide a path for my taste
especially with qt asian girls. they always have coffee with them.

No. Usually they'll give you more attention than that if they're interested. The big giveaway of their interest is when they drop hints or imply about wanting you in their life, so to speak.

Never thought I'd see the day where a chad actually infiltrated this board.

If they're interested they'll reply quick. If not they're just using you for attention.

It depends on the girl. If you insist on speaking to tinder women, then yes, they'll take a long time. That's just in the nature of things. Perhaps you should look elsewhere.

my gf responds instantly