How does one achieve happiness?
i'v never been happy at all my entire life and that's not an exaggeration
at best i'm fucking emotionless and neutral
How does one achieve happiness?
How does one achieve happiness?
It's literally a choice. Choose to be happy. There are plenty of reasons.
>Cant enjoy life, cant find way out of depression
>"Just dont be depressed user."
great advice user
>It's literally a choice. Choose to be happy. There are plenty of reasons.
thanks it worked i'm euphoric now
If you can't choose to be happy, go to the psychologist and get antidepressants. Antidepressants will not make you happy. They will turn off your emotions so that you can work on the problems that were depressing you. When your problems become manageable and you have reasons to be happy, you come off of the antidepressants.
No problem buddy
>If you can't choose to be happy, go to the psychologist and get antidepressants.
fuck off kike shill
>When your problems become manageable and you have reasons to be happy, you come off of the antidepressants.
what if your reasons to be unhappy are your hate for society and humans as a whole?
and i'd rather feel like shit than feel nothing at all
Fine, choose to stay sad. Blackpilled fatass.
>hate for society and humans
You are a human, Anonymous. Not an alien or something. I'm sure that you hate yourself to some degree, who doesn't. But the real question is, do you like yourself?
If want to fucking drug yourself and become a perfect slave than go on
That isn't what I said. I said that if your problems are so awful that you can't possibly bear the emotion, then make the choice to turn off the emotions so that you can have the peace of mind to solve your problems and create reasons to be happy. When you stop taking the drugs that turn off your emotions, you can use your reasons for happiness to be happy.
>do you like yourself?
yeah i just hate everyone else
i might as well be an alien in comparison
People are more alike than they are unalike. I'm sure that as you grow up, you'll figure out how to discern who the cool people are and how to hang out with them.
there are no damned cool people well not enough
maybe if i made a small tribe and we all lived off the grid i could be happy
I'm sure you can find some dumb redditors to found Kekistan with you.
There's tons of polfags you stupid faggot kill yourself
i hate pol and reddit
it would bring me joy if everyone like you died painfully
wow I was about to be helpful and google some literature on solar power at home but fuck you too
i don't fucking need help from you
and you have no right to be offended as you insulted me first
You do need help though
Oh yeah let me just engage is disgusting degeneracy that would defiantly help
you disgusting abomination
i hope god nukes this planet and makes everyone like you burn in hell forever.
There's no hope OP, we were born this way to suffer.
just go insane and kill some people and by eventually become real life joker then blame everything on society
Well i mean everything is societys fault
and killing is pointless unless i'm capable of taking out millions
maybe if i gain titan or some kind of vampire powers
The problem is that you prioritize it too much.
What in the fuck is it that i prioritize?
I think user's talking about happiness, he's like those retards saying that in order to get a relationship you've got to not want one. like that fucking achieves anything.
>The problem is that you prioritize it too much.
If you don't have any kind of neurological disease like cronic depression or something like that. You can do it, it's much harder to be happy than sad, but most of it is a choice; if you hate everyone just stop caring, stop caring about everyone and everything, that is the first step. Then find people that are good for you, try to meet new people and get to know them well.
Building healthy relationships is the base for happines, try to see the positive side of everything, remember, nothing is fully good or fully bad in this world, everything is gray, so you can choose what aspect of life you keep, the good one or the bad one.
how can i tell if i have that?
>Then find people that are good for you, try to meet new people and get to know them well.
i hate and can't get along with anyone and everyone
The thing is, if you are constantly searching for happiness, you find yourself in a constant state of unhappiness which will only make things worse so you got to find things that distract you from that.
Get to know yourself, do things that matter to you or go to a shrink and get meds.
There's no cookiecutter solution nor is it ever easy.
Go to a psychologist, he (or she) will tell you if your problem is psychological or you need to be derivated to a psychiatrist (focuses on neurological diseases)
Then maybe you should try to figure out why you can't get along with people, maybe you have certain attitudes that you don't realize you have and it makes a barrier to connect to people. This is the main rule i follow to be happy: "To know others you have first to know yourself"
I know the feeling. Took a depression test at the doctor, scored 36/60 which means i have severe depression. Had it for a decade now. With a score that high doctors are supposed to consider having the patient put in a psych ward. Doctor is worried i'll off myself before the next appointment every time.
After seeing the test i've lost some hope. The questions were always about the last 72 hours. Means it was made for normies who have a passing mood. Wondering if it can be helped or if this is just my base mood. Only times i feel good about myself is when i abuse substances by my self.
I almost break down when i think about how i suffer alone in silence, how this is life for me but a nightmare for someone else. How others get bored and just go talk to people while i spend hours trying to force myself to go to the store.
More like he or she will give me a shitty quiz and some pills and tell me to be myself
Schizoid i'd assume
well apparently it just means you've had depression for over a year or 2 so yes then i have severe chronic depression
You are going to shitty Psychologists that only want you to keep spending money on them, trust me you need to first know yourself to be happy
Who are you? What do you like? Where you come from? What do you care about the most? What do you really want? What you don't like? That sort of things
Another secret: enjoying the little things in life that give you peace, happines or admiration, it doesn't have to be something super funny that makes you euphoric. Like drinking a good coffee in the morning or watching a bird building a nest. It may sound dumb but a bunch of small things can make a tremendous effect in your mood.
Don't search for a magic hapiness recipe that will cure your sadness in one hour. Build it carefully knowing that you Will be certainly better in the future.
Also, the crisis you go through will make you stronger.
What is the context of this image? Who is this guy? I haven't kept up with this series after the first season and the manga equivalent to that.
Is annie ok? going by that image it looks like she got her titan head ripped off but she should still be fine right? What about that potato retard girl that farted? I hope she was not killed off.
>How does one achieve happiness?
Not everything is for everyone.
Some people dont experience having a full body, some people don't experience having a capable mind. Some people never get help and some people are weakened by how much help they get.
Not everything can be included in every experience.
That said, happiness isnt for everyone either... At least, not everyone gets a happy ending, or is happy for the majority of their experiences
Only thing i enjoy is sleeping vidya manga and anime and now kinos
that's it, i am unable to enjoy anything else in fact everything else causes me despair
i assume i'm insane or something since i feel like a literal robot and pills do nothing for me.
Welp got some bad knews for you
Potato girl is dead isnt she? What a shame, I liked her a lot. Last I heard Annie put herself in a crystal cocoon and there was no way to get her out.
yeah she crystaled and never came out
wait you mean to tell me that was it? all this time and however many volumes later and this plot point was never resolved and it was just written off that she died in it? lmao i heard something about this author kind of just making arcs that go no where or never get resolved. like i think he could not keep up with this beast of a story that he created i feel
>i heard something about this author kind of just making arcs that go no where or never get resolved
dunno what your talking about
her only option has been stay in the crystal or die she needs to wait for backup
she'll be out within a couple chapters
I've read all of the manga (so far) and I felt that it's gotten better as time went on. The arcs moved the plot forward and had a good impact on the story
It became a 10/10
>How others get bored and just go talk to people while i spend hours trying to force myself to go to the store.
iktf all too well
Have you sought help? Did it work?
Imma try this. Norway is on the forefront of mental health treatment so if anyone has a shot its me. But as much as the doctor analyzed me i analyzed her. My first appointment she was positive about beating this thing within a year gradually realizing how bad things were.
Today she got more and more tired until she couldn't even look me in the eyes when making me promise not to kms while shaking my hand. Normally she'd write antidepressants like chewing gum but this time she had my case bumped up to a country specialist on what drugs to use because of the suicide factor.
Also bumped my case th mental illness workers in my county, the kinda people the real loons call to prevent them from killing people, told me to not hesitate calling them if i get stuck in a negative circle.
But i'm not more depressed now than i was 5 years ago. Shes so worried and this is just life for me.
>Have you sought help?
Nope. Probably not going to.
>But i'm not more depressed now than i was 5 years ago.
I guess that's good.
Mine was relatively light until 2 years ago. I used to manage just fine, but since it got worse I started skipping classes like crazy cause getting out of bed's already a huge ordeal.