Why didn't you get a gf in your high school days, Jow Forums?

I would say I was autismo because I have been described as a Chad but I was an absolute sperg when it came to girls and was a kissless handholdless virgin and removed those labels all in the last year.

I did. I am really happy I had that experience because now I don't wonder what could have been. also, it happened after about a year of the Self Improvement meme and probably wouldn't have happened otherwise. I think if I hadn't had gotten a gf I would have continued down the eightfold path and be living in a monastery right now

I don't even know how people start dating. I'm 26 and still have no idea what that is like.

Focused on career, academics, and extracurriculars, like one track mind kind of focus. It's paying off great dividends now, to the detriment of my social skills in that sense. Although to be fair, I didn't have any of that in the first place, and I'm not desirable in terms of genetics (manlet, Asian/Indian hybrid, dicklet, everythinglet pretty much but with average face) so if I did try, I very likely would have failed every time and wasted my time that could've went to career and getting accolades. So I'm not really hung up about it.

because im a absolute retard and still hate myself for it

Did it, lost it, got trust issues and weird dependencies. I was unlucky

I didn't go either. Don't even know what this fags are talking about

This, it seems like it's never appropriate in any context whatsoever to show you're attracted to someone and ask them out, yet somehow normals do it when no one is looking.

Because I'm a high functioning autist, fat, have zero social skills and most of the people in the school fucking hated me.
"Just be yourself, user"
REEEEE being myself is exactly why you dickheads fucking hated me

because I was fat with low self-esteem and no girls wanted me. lost the weight but it doesn't matter past highschool where girls expect you to be a full grown adult with their own car and place, stable mental health, chad aesthetics etc.
thinking back I never really had a chance so it's hard for me to blame myself for how fucked the world is right now. I'm an angel compared to these beasts

I tried to be kind to everybody, I knew an autistic kid who had been homeschooled and tried to help him (got super close with his family and family friends but he became distant toward me) in school but he eventually just transferred to a white high school. Only remained friends with a self hating mixed Brazilian guy from our school which hurt me because I had saved him from many an ass whooping or Joan session, not that he would even care

I was too busy with ignoring everyone and studying

And even if you do ask someone out, what happens then? You go out for coffee and whatever, but what comes afterwards?

because I unironically have autism. still never learned how to make friends or get a gf, I don't know how to start learning.

In HS, girls I wanted to date either had boyfriend or something beyond my control happened preventing me from even asking them out.
I got actively cockblocked from asking out the cute library worm, bullied by an ex-boyfriend fror wanting to get close to a girl, then I got hit by schizophrenia, never recovered socially and then I got stood up by a cute classmate as part of a prank that half the class was in on. That's just by the middle of the junior high year.
Then I got very attached to the girl I sat next to and I asked her out but she rejected me. She did invite me later to go clubbing where she'd give me a shotgun kiss, but I'm against drugs and I'm wary of elaborate pranks those fuckers already pulled on me.

Then people had the AUDACITY to say that they'll miss me at prom and that I totally should show up even if I have no date.

I did, the relationships never lasted though.

i did. she was a possessive psychopath that would stalk me when i hung out with friends.

I had four chances. 1. She was brown and not attractive. 2. classic didn't realize she liked me. 3. Her friend told meshe liked me, I told the friend I just wanted to be friends. She was a little overweight. 4. She was a vapid girl with a horrible personality. My friends, my sisters, and she really pressed me to go out with her. Not understanding how to deal with the situation, I resigned to the safety of complete social isolation. Girls were never a problem the remaining 2.5 years after that.
I only have regrets over 2 and 3.

I was physically unattractive for a long time and by the time I wasn't it had cemented in my head that girls don't like me and they never would.
Basically because I dont believe in myself, I think. More than a few females I know have told me I'm not a bad looking guy.
Still, I dont have any real skillset in being overtly flirtatious or sexual. I just get scared a dont respond. I am really sensitive about making girls feel uncomfortable so I almost never do anything beyond lightly touching their shoulder
As you can imagine I never get laid or even kiss girls on the mouth.
I miss kissing, but I suppose eventually I won't miss it based on not remembering it

Because there were no girls in my highschool, then i got bullied to the ground and lost all confidence.

I was extremely picky, i also started to get into anime crap and had a waifu for many years, i didn't want anyone but her but of course, she'll never be real.

Who was your waifu?
Also, why the past tense, user? Don't tell me you gave up on your waifu.

Because I was ugly, fat, and had no social life
Same reasons I still haven't gotten one in the 8 years since

I never had money to buy a cup of water
how would I date a girl

the rich kids were haning out in malls with their gfs
talking about movies and wearing nice clothes
I could never keep up

I have never felt that interested in anyone. Horny maybe, but that is about it. And when you hear two people arguing about who gave who gonorrhea in the library it really shines a light onto the people you deal with.

Was an ultra late bloomer so honestly I never had a chance to be attractive in high school. Went to parties and stuff but I always lost out to the kids that actually had muscles.

Cause I was already a pathetic worthless loser and no one in the entire school had an even passing interest in me

It was Ruri Gokou and well, after 5-6 years i just grew out of it i guess, i'm no longer into any weeab crap.

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Good taste.
I guess never grew out of my late chuuni phase. Heck, I even made a tulpa of my OC waifu because I was so goddamn lonely in high school. Best decision of my life, actually.

I was already a friendless loser in high school so girls weren't interested in me.

Now I'm starting my 2nd year of university, still a friendless khv loser.

I wasn't interested in one and wanted to focus on my education instead! UwU

>why didn't you get a gf in your high school days, Jow Forums?
I didn't go to high school

I did twice and both sucked, one cheated the entire time and the other couldnt have been more apathetic about me. Never went on a date with either one, the relationships were entirely centered inside the school. I dont even count them as having happened

Are tulpas as good as they sound? it's hard to belive, i wanted to try it years ago but i guess i never did it, i thought i would be a teen forever and eventually i would find a girl as good as Ruri.

Went through puberty really early grew really fast and looked a lot older than I was. Was off putting along with autism made it impossible. Everyone wanted to be my friend because I could buy alcohol though. Nothing genuine though

No girls in my school. Not that I would have got a gf if there was

I didn't go to high school. fuck that trash

>be me
>back in the days where MSN and Netlog was a thing
>girl hits me up on our online school platform
>we change our MSN-usernames
>talk to each other nearly every day for over an hour
>when she goes, she always tells me how much she likes me.
>started with lyvm (like you very much) and got to a point where the v's took more than a line
>sperg me thinks she's being nice
>get the idea to ask her to be my gf
>first check out her Netlog-acc
>has a crush one someone
>the ultra-autist I am thought she had a crush for someone else
>tried to forget about my feelings and stayed friends

Acne and oneitis, had a couple girls interested but I wanted my one. Fucking high school man

I'd love to stick my tongue up the assholes of probably 90% of middle and high school aged girls. I'd love to have my tongue and my dick going in those fresh, blooming holes and having their delightful smiles looking at me as they suck my dick. Everything is heavenly with them.

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Get bullied by a girl for eyeing her ass too much. BDD(Body dysphoria)
Ton's of missed chances, only girl I really liked was a sperg' like me.
Now she has a kid with a husband that looks like a cross between uncle fester and Andre the giant. She now looks like a Disney princess though

Because I wasn't Chad, OP

There was noone interested in me. Never has been, and I doubt there ever will be.

How are you even supposed to flirt

If my oneitis is here it's V

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kick out constantly due to violence and put in maximum security naughty kid schools where they dont let you near the opposite sex

fine by me tho i have a schoolgirl gf now anyway

understandable, hayleyfam

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I did in the end of HS days. We lasted 3 weeks, i was a happy 17 yrs old motherfucker.

Now, i'm 25 and she's 23, living the free woman life with an abusive bf and without goals in life while i'm a coping incel with nothing to do.

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It's ok user, your brain simply cope with desillusions, so it was normal and not your fault if you reacted that way. You are not autist, you just tried to be realist. Don't be too hard on yourself.

I did and even though it did not end well, I am glad I learned the hard lessons of love while I was still young. Now, I get to remember how sweet and wholesome young love is.

>ask classmate out through Messenger because I'm a pussy
"S-sorry I'm about to take extra classes and I don't have time
"It's okay ;)"
>The next day I heard her friend ask if she was going to meet up with some dude and she said yes"
Why did she lie? all she had to say that she is not interested.
We never really talked before so I understand why she shot me down. Femanons don't lie just tell the truth.

>why didn't you get a gf in your high school days, Jow Forums?

obesity

I was bullied everyday and was too busy avoiding fists.

I didn't like being around people and never developed those types of feelings. I rejected the few offers that I got.

I threw violent tantrums until i was 15. I had a reputation for being. Highly undesirable to girls.

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Autism / clownish behaviour.

My excuse is that I went to an all boys high school.

Plenty of other guys still got gfs though, and I probably still wouldn't have gotten any even at a co-ed school.

Because I'm a fucking anti-social retard. Ever since middle school I've been like this. In middle school I was told by some girl "my friend over there likes you" and I didn't have the courage to go up to her and speak to her. But I was a kid so this is nothing, things should change in high school right? Wrong

In high school there was a cute girl that clearly liked me. She called me cute sometimes, she would always come up to me and talk to me, hold my hands, hugged me when we saw eachother, she would compliment me randomly, she would laugh at my jokes even if they were bad. What did I do to further the relationship? Absolutely nothing.

Fast foward to 11th grade and i have to move schools in the middle of the school year. In this school all my friends are females and I probably had about 1 or 2 guy friends. 1 girl would always make excuses to touch me and maybe it's just me but it was obvious they were excuses. She would hug me the moment she saw me, she would pretend to be scared if there was a loud noise and say "hold me im scared" and curl in my arms, shit like that. Another girl sat on my dick and my virgin mind went insane. I tried so hard to stop the boner from happening, it was pretty funny.

Here I am, turned 18 years old a couple days ago, realized my self esteem issues are the reason I don't have a girlfriend and the only shred of confidence i have left is that i convince myself i must be decent looking if these girls were into me

Fpbp deeesu san

I did though, had her for about 4 years and we were each other's firsts.
Now the real question is how the fuck do I find a gf at 30? the answer is I don't ;_;

I did twice. I just fucked it up both times.

I'm 30 and I still haven't figured it out. Are women supposed to show an interest in you or something?

Felt inadequate because I felt like I was a loser compared to other guys in my school and felt unworthy because of porn and internet stories. Like, I'm an awkward virgin small dicked loser, why would a woman want to be with me? I had two girls flirt with me/ask me out and I rejected them because I felt like they wouldn't like me once they got to know my inadequacies and got to know me. Now, almost 2 decades later, I'm still a KHV except now I'm REALLY pathetic and inadequate for a woman.

Don't you realize how lucky you are? If those bitches are still on you just show a bit of interest and let things happen naturally.

no qt girls at my school
went to a private school and all the girls were pajeetas, nigresses on sport scholarships, and ugly white girls.
Not one of the white girls in my school were attractive. very unfortunate. there were some qt foreign exchange girls but im not really into asians nor want to learn a language for them

test sdfgdsfgsdfg

I did. We dated for 5 years. Didn't work out.

I was fat, and a stupid punk fag and got a gf. Women aren't as shallow as men thankfully.

because i spent my time making autistic youtube videos with my not even good potatoe specs
youtube.com/watch?v=5GAhEe4HiNI

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I think my crush back in my freshman year had feelings for me as well but both of us were too spaghetti and awkward to make a move or show our mutual interest in eachother.

For example I remember her asking me to use my phone so she can access her Facebook profile or something. Pretty bizarre request but I didn't have anything to hide and I just really liked the girl so I gave her my phone. She was smiling and if I recall correctly giggling while using it so she probably saw something autistic but regardless she returned my phone and told me "Oh btw you can add me on Facebook if you wish". She was a very kind girl and also defended me when I was being bullied. She defended the other sperg in class when he got bullied too but she literally came to my aid once when I was just being slightly bantered. Probably the biggest hint or the most bizarre one was when she turned around to me in class and just spouted at me "You're a good person". I was confused and just thanked her but she repeated the exact same sentence once or twice before turning away from me. It felt even better than normal because this happened shortly after I retaliated against a bully by beating him up and even kicking him while he's down. I thought everyone was perceiving me as unstable and quick to anger since even though the bully in question was extremely annoying and resorted to fucking groping - people thought I went way overboard. Besides he was the class clown and he entertained them as long as they weren't on the receiving end of his jokes (nearly everyone had been frustrated by him but it appears he was fixated on me). I also took the subway and she and her group of friends were in the same train as me. Once we were alone she was mostly silent but we still exchanged a couple words before she asked me at which station I was leaving to which she replied with "Aww" or something like that in disappointment.

She's completely forgotten me but "You're a good person" still echoes in my mind today

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I also wonder if she was just playing Truth or Dare or something when she awkwardly told me I'm a good person. If she did mean it would she have guessed I'd be still remembering it several years afterwards? Do girls know how powerful their words are?

The only girls that talked to me had bfs s

Because I was a self hating fat fuck.

>I had a crush
>I had a gf
>someone confessed to me

also, what a bunch of normies, kill yourselves

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I had plenty of mates before uni, now im a friendless loser.

how does one get friends? I forgot, the mates I had in school I knew since I was 7.

I didn't talk to anyone and mostly kept to myself.

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Nah, because she'd either break up before senior year, ruining your life, or you go to different colleges, and try to maintain a "long distance relationship" while she becomes a degenerate thot.

I have a speech impediment, it's not as bad now but during my school years it was brutal. I barely talked to anybody, kids would laugh when I would try to speak during class and I was bullied heavily for it. Of course this fucked up my confidence and self-esteem and I got zero pussy or even a friend group. I wish I was fucking homeschooled.

I was quite popular, but sucked emotional commitment. I treated every girl that was into me like shit, and I still feel bad for that

I was asked out by a girl I liked in middle school, but I thought I was too young at the time to be having a girlfriend. Thought it would have to wait until I had a car or the like. I kind of stammered and never gave her a response then. Might be that I am just adverse to letting anyone close in the first place. My avoidance kind of took precedence.

I became fatter in high school and more withdrawn as time grew. Probably was struggling with depression like I still am. My grades and stuff dropped too, as previously I was considered one of the smartest kids of my class. I escaped more into WoW to compensate at the time. Didn't really feel the sexual urge to try anything myself, as I didn't fap until I was quite old (18).

i was meaner and fatter. recently missed my last chance to have sex at 34, so i give up

Pretty funny that it even happened in the first place,

I also had a story on how I turned down sex at 16, I posted it in this thread:
desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/52466305/#52472667

I know I did say I was 17, it was for anonimity purposes but it actually happened at 16. In retrospective, even if it did happen I had no way to know how it would have went down, didn't found out until last year that I have ED and don't really like sex that much, partially from the lack of sensitivity that stems from death grip masturbation. Now for relationships, I'm not sure if I could have had a healthy relationship anyways, since I still had unresolved mental issues lingering until they made me unable to function in society (a workplace, specifically); not to mention I just not had what was needed to have a relationship.
Oh, and I also turned down another girl that was into me and spilled the spaghetti with another that was mildly interested.

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god tripfags really are the worst

why is that my fren? what set you off?

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how was your relationship?
why did you get divorced?

thats pretty funny man keep it up

Horrible after we actually got married, I wound up beating her ass and we never talked again.

I tried back at the end of secondary school, was friendzoned and became a robot until the last year of my high school, when after 2 years I realized I still had my old crush on a gurl I grew up with literally, hence age difference was like 2 months and our moms were friends, so we always were out together and went to the same school, in the same class. She already had a bf for like a year but I still tried it on a class trip and was rejected. Again.
Was trying to chat with her after that, cause her stacies were saying that she doesn't like her bf, and if not him, she wouldn't reject me back at the class trip. Started ghosting me after 2 months, so I started to lose fucks about her cause we don't meet anymore, school's over, and recently I get to know that she will be coming to the university I currently study.

FUCK. ME.

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Cuz I was fully retarded.

bruh mega total bruh

I was bullied so I was under the idea that no woman would ever love me. There was one girl that was throwing obvious hints at me, but she was fat so I wasn't interested. 28 year old virgin btw I am retarded she was perfect practice gf material. I saw her years later while I was working at walmart with a baby and cussing at the top of her lungs on a cellphone.

was depressing. I could of saved 2 lives by making a girl a practice gf.