gf smoked weed, and has recently done it again. already told her that i dont really agree with that choice, but dont really care If she listens she always was against it, even broke up with her ex because He started with that.
and started "Smoking, but only when she is drinking"
is that going to Stop? i literally have No experience with Smoking or If that phrase is even real or just a meme
that's why i ask you guys, is she going to stop or Just digg herself deeper
You should try your best to stop her from smoking weed, it's a slippery slope into sloth and loserdom. Your girlfriend is going to become a loser and will forget about her duties and important things she needs to do on a daily basis. It will also make her more likely to be sexually promiscuous and end up sleeping around behind your back. Also you're a normie for having a girlfriend.
Evan Lee
>It's a slippery slope to sloth and loserdom Where the fuck do you think you are?
Zachary Reed
lmao what op and you are sheltered white kids lmao oh no someone is smoking a plant its the end of the world
Thomas Cruz
weed is very bad for you, you should not enable weed smokers
Evan Sanchez
holy fucking shit HAVE SEX
this is the reply of someone who never leaves his basement
Nathaniel Perry
says the person who never smoked weed
I graduated law school last year with a very good gpa, smoked my whole college time, it only helped me cope with depression and anxiety, I literally never felt that it stopped me from chasing my daily duties and long term goals
Jackson Martinez
>it only helped me cope with depression and anxiety, love this one, there is extremely little to no evidence that it does either of those things, you should not be recommending it to people to help that
Wanna know how I know you just copy pasted that list from another user?
Dominic Martin
It matters a lot with whom she smokes weed. That person/s is her guiding influence not you OP
Jaxon Allen
what? those are real medical studies and journals
Gabriel Wright
OP it is 2019. If someone wants to smoke weed you literally cannot stop them. Whether it makes her deteriorate or not, who knows. And why havent you smoked weed before? You should tell her to get some weed and smoke it with you. You should at least know what its like.
Justin Brown
on Jow Forums? I don't know what you mean.
Ayden Bell
>Oh no someone is ingesting fermented grapes it's the end of the world! these things take a toll on our fragile bodies and minds
Luis Bailey
you don't own her OP let her make her own fucking choices you creepy ass weirdo. if you don't like it get a different gf you complete and total dumb ass.
Robert Turner
You are right on both counts, I guess there's no rebuttal for me there.
Grayson Brooks
You do realise what board this is?
Nathan Jackson
OP's problem is much larger than his gf smoking a little weed, a turnabout from her past behavior.
She's likely with others as she parties and smokes and she's getting the weed from somewhere, either they share, give or she's buying it. She's in an entirely different social circle than OP and those she gets the weed from and the people she smokes with likely make fun of her non smoking bf.
Matthew Butler
Sex is great for discussion.
Sebastian White
>she's getting the weed from somewhere, either they share, give or she's buying it. she's fucking the local drug dealer
Luke Bell
All you're going to do is push her away and seem controlling if you try and stop this shit. Unfortunately you'll be seen as the 'square'. Weed is manageable drug and can be fun when used smartly so don't stress too much.
The smoking (cigs) thing is more slippery then weed. Wait and see if she sticks to smoking only when drinking (pretty hard desu). If she makes it more regular then have a talk about it and make it about you as a couple and not about her or she'll feel attacked. This goes for weed too
Brody Phillips
Imagine caring about somebody who isn't you putting a substance into THEIR body lmaooooo Disagreeing is all fine OP go ahead and share your thoughts, that's what relationships are about, but don't be surprised if she leaves you
Asher Morales
Jesus Christ, she has friends that AREN'T her bf?!?!
Matthew Hernandez
I didn't want to go there but she getting free weed from some guy and she' paying with something.
Zachary Bailey
>on r9k >the board littered with lazy incel NEETs
Jacob Hughes
lol. also nigger.
Owen Jones
Thats not my point and you know it. I'm not condemning or shaming either OP or his gf, only the obvious. She was one way and now she isn't and that didn't happen in a vacuum.
She is in a different social circle, one OP is not a part of nor welcome.
Lincoln Price
maybe but it could be a friend of her gf or a neighbor guy or classmate or coworker but she's hanging out with a different group now unless she was lying to OP from the start.
Isaiah Ortiz
Jokes on all of you, its my ex broke up with that slut because she cheated like the slut she is just now im hearing that she started smoking and got into weed because of her slut friends
i said gf because i know that if i wrote "ex" people would just say "shut up nerd"
just wanted to know what all of that means, and if the "i only smoke if im drunk" could develop into a real nicotine addition
i really do hope nothing bad happens to her, I don't really like drinking champagne
imagine not reading the comment above the one you replied to, and yeah, I guess you could say the guy she cheated with (it was only a kiss so maybe not) cucked me
Ethan Ward
Personality shifts can be a sign that she feels unhappy with the relationship. She is seeking excitement. I'm a paranoid android so my instinct is to say there is a guy in the picture who she wants to hang out with more and he smokes, so she is smoking with him. It's just weed right? The phrase, "smoking only when drinking" I've only ever heard with regards to tobacco. And that is definitely a meme which nearly always degenerates to full blown pack-a-day habit. But I don't mean to scare you. People like to try to things and it could just be that and nothing more. I suggest having a discussion about your relationship with her. How she feels, if she is happy, etc. If it's just a new thing she wants to try then fine. If it bothers you that she is smoking pot, then be honest and tell her. I think you should be concerned, and I think you should share your concerns with her, not us, because collectively we are all a bunch of idiots.
Nicholas Cruz
I DID read the comment you made but I'm still certain you are a literal cuck.
I kinda feel bad that you didn't read this >It's just weed right? The phrase, "smoking only when drinking" I've only ever heard with regards to tobacco. oh im sorry, i didn't make that clear, yes i mean tobacco.
>And that is definitely a meme which nearly always degenerates to full blown pack-a-day habit. nice, am i an asshole for saying that, I mean she obviously deserves way more pain
Brayden Collins
Where the fuck do you think you are? If you were a normal and successful person, you wouldn't come here.
Ian Harris
>am i an asshole Not even a little. She's an idiot.