I'm a young guy in my early 20s. I've never had a girlfriend and only ever had 2 dates. The closest female contact was hand holding.
I get no support from my normie friends who say stuff like
>"JuSt Be YoUrSeLf BrO"
or
>"iT'Ll hApPeN OnE DaY]"
Frankly, I'm touch starved and depressed I'll be alone forever since I'm a virgin and moist girls my age would be disgusted.
woah that's so crazy, how do you go through life never having a relationship? lmao
i'm in a dry spell myself right now, like most r9k posters, but to never had a girl/boyfriend is almost unbelievable?
>he's went on dates and held hands with a girl
better than me. I'm 22 and haven't done that stuff yet. I have friends older than me who are in the same situation. one of them is a 30 year old khv and you can see early death written all over him.
Im 23
I've never been on a date
I have been kissed before but I hate that experience since it was a random girl who I didnt know beforehand or afterhand and it makes me very sad that I lost my first kiss to a girl like that
Sex isnt that important to me but I cry often thinking about how nobody will ever want to cuddle with me
How did you get to hand holding during a date?
I somehow got intimate with a girl because she drove the entire process to kissing, but never got to hand-holding when I was trying to with another girl.
It's weird, I have the experience but am still as socially incompetent as before. Like playing the last stages of a game while not having skill with the controls to reach there by yourself.
Yep. 25 and women have only ever wanted me for sex/FWB
not OP but,
idk girls like holding hands for some reason,
I remember in college i was walking back from a bar with a group of acquaintances.
I was talking with one of the chicks there when she just grabbed my hand and we starting walking back to class while talking.
22 here never had a gf or dates, I have accepted that I will continue this path until something chances in me and my current situation
The only thing that makes me sad it's the fact that I won't be able to have children.
Everything else cuddles, kisses, etc it's irrelevant.
This, and only this.
I'm tired of myself and I really want to put my self second and actually have something to live for and work for everyday
That seems like a cool deal, I mean just to lost your Virginity
how did you end up gettin kissed by a stranger?
I just want someone to continue my bloodline and actually try to make it decent again, sadly that plan is going to shit. I will die alone and will be the last of my kind, I wish my parents had another son so we wouldn't have this trouble
Being yourself only works if yourself is what girls like xD
>and MOIST girls my age would be disgusted.
I've never kissed or touched a girl's naughty bits or had sex. The most I've done is cling to her hand for an hour and a half and hug her tight, so tight she gasped and I cracked her back. I really didn't want to leave her. I don't want to have sex and fuck a girl that bad. I really want to just hold myself close to a woman's body and go to sleep with her and wake up happy with her. I don't want kids or sex just intimate love
My guy can't even type,
25 and never held hands with a girl.
I'm not ugly but I'm not great looking either. And now my hair is starting to thin so it's all over.
I've never had a date or held hands with anyone. I've never even had anyone acknowledge me as a potential partner, or display any kind of affection or attraction AT ALL towards me. People seem to treat me as if I weren't even human in that sense. Like, most people have at least had one stranger check them out at some point in their life, or maybe told by a mutual friend "hey, I hear XX thinks you're cute". Even absolute hopeless virgins. But not me.
I had a major episode 2 years ago where I was just going fucking crazy and extremely starved for touch or affection. I ordered sex toys, I fapped like a maniac, I withdrew into a shell and pushed everyone away including my family. I don't know how I managed to dig myself back out but I fear the day that shit comes back even stronger and ruins my life for good.
Damn thought this thread would have more replies, it fucking sucks that it's so uncommon to never have a gf like it's the easiest thing the in the world, I fucking hate being ugly.
>He had dates
Normalfag
i'm 26 and still a virgin and a manchild stuck in 2009 or something
24, never had a gf or been to a date
20 year old khhv
Never had a single date, not one.
Im literally thinking of getting a doll,
I never had a gf but that's partly because I'm fucking dense, anime level dense. I was walking home with a girl I was friends with and she one day just decided to grab my arm because she was afraid of rapists. Back then the possibility of someone liking me didn't even exist in my head so I thought she was just being paranoid.
Even though I still get super lonely and sad moments like this comfort me. Even if I never get a gf the fact that some girls at some point in my life showed interest on me makes me think I might not be this weird creepy ugly of a guy.
most are probably just tired of posting in threads like this. 28 and the only female ive even so much as held hands with was my mother as a child. maybe wizardry will be better. I dont even know where to fine females, but since i havent socialized in over a decade dont really matter
I never had a real gf but at least i've kissed and held hands before.
27, never had a gf. When I was in school I had pretty bad acne and was in general pretty much a loser. Now as an adult I have gotten my shit together but, no real social circle to meet women. Solitary hobbies. Work in heavy industry so no female coworkers. Tried online dating and while I think I look decent I guess not good enough because I never get matches.
I do wish there was a way to get rid of the desire for a partner; it detracts from the quality of my life.
normalfags could never comprehend being this undesirable. we're literally subhuman.
There is. As you have probably noticed after masturbating that you lose interest in love, your desire for love is tied somewhat to your libido. Remove your libido and the desire for love is at least greatly diminished.
Removing libido is easy. Muscle building steroids like nandrolone decanoate can even do it, so you will look masculine with big muscles but no libido.
Ask if you got any questions
The weirdest part is that I'm not even ugly or otherwise obviously undesirable. I'm smart, I have a good job, I'm in college, I don't identify as an incel, I have no disabilities or disfigurations, I think I'm at the very least a 4/10, and I'd be a decent 5/10 if I still had my old haircut.
I absolutely don't understand what's wrong. Is it me? Is it society? Is there some unspoken common rule that I'm breaking? I'm not a conspiracy theorist type but I can't come up with a rational explanation for this. I don't think it's possible to have literally NO sex appeal whatsoever.
19 khhv
I'm not even very ugly, I have friends that are girls. I've never been on a date, a woman has never expressed interest in me.
I'm going to kill myself soon.
>I'm 28 and have been one date in my entire life.
I'm the biggest loser here.
It is true but fapping all the time lowers my energy levels, which is not good. And as far as steroids go even if I had a doctor I don't think he'd prescribe me those.
They're piss fucking easy to buy and deca doesn't cost a lot. Painless to inject if you use insulin syringes.
It's piss easy.
My condolences, never had a girlfriend or gone out on a date. So, I know how you feel. I did have a few girls who had a crush on me, so that gives me hope (they were good looking) but I was not into them. Funny thing is that I am decent/good looking, autistic and only one friend.
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if you're in the US it's even easier
Whoa you told your friends you're a virgin? That's some shit I'll take to the grave. Just say you're not a virgin but the last time was in high school or some shit. And avoid talking about it but don't make it too obvious
33 year old here, don't waste your time on these whores. Save your cash and make smart investments.
Unsafe to use without a doctor's guidance and oversight, is my point. I'm not fucking up my body with some shady shit online and without regular checkups. That's a huge fuckup to get rid of a comparatively low level irritation.
>Unsafe to use without a doctor's guidance and oversight, is my point.
lmao fuck off with that retarded shit.
People have been using and abusing deca for decades lmao. It's a very, very safe compound. It was synthetically developed to BE safe and countless studies have been done which verified its safety.
Ignore that fucking retard, user. There's a reason why even gymcels don't use roids.
This. The lack of affection part
Literally me. Soc rated me from 4-6 so maybe slightly below average. Hell uglier guys have gotten girlfriends. I don't identify as an incel either. In fact in the last 2 years every time I went to a bar or party I've made an effort to talk to girls there. Every time, maybe 1-2 girls if not more. Maybe I was just a drunk idiot but nobody showed any interest ever.
All gymcels use roids you tardo. Are you fucking retarded? 90% of all young people in gyms use roids including women. Women use anavar.
leave this godforsaken place while you still can. adapt to your normie friends. get the fuck outa here. now.
Social Anxiety. No girl has been interested enough to break down my walls, and I've not met a girl i like enough to attempt to take them down myself.
20, never had a date either. I don't want to try either because I have quite a few disorders and I am very depressed about them so I don't think anyone would enjoy my company tbqh
Not that I could take them down myself, god knows I've tried lol i wanna die
Lmao, right. I've been lifting in public gyms for 4 years and during that time have met maybe 5 roided up faggots. All of them were your typical belligerent, balding gym rats in their 30s. Two of them were literal gay porn actors.
Keep coping, juicer. No PED you take will stop natties from outlifting you.
I'm sorry to hear that user. I wish I had advice to give you but being in the same shoes as you I'm just clueless. I guess we really can't do anything but wait for a miracle.
>Maybe I was just a drunk idiot but nobody showed any interest ever.
Half the problem is it's almost impossible for average dudes to pick up women at clubs now due to the instantaneous nature of online dating/Tinder.
90% of single women are on this shit, and average chicks have 50x the choice an average guy has on there, because contrary to popular belief, men will happily go several tiers below their standards and bang average, ugly and fat women, were as women will not (and women have the benefit of makeup), so you have these ugly, fat and average women getting fucked by Chads on Tinder, on demand as they literally only need to send a single message and they can have any one of the thousands of dudes on there.
Now, when some average dude who isn't particularly good looking or particularly ugly comes up to you in a club, even though you as a woman aren't particularly attractive either, despite being funny and shit he's just not worth considering when you have 10 Chads on speed dial who will happily drop their standards my 4 tiers to empty a free load.
This is why when I see women on Jow Forums complaining about being "lonely" it makes me lol, they simply don't want to settle with someone in their own league after getting pounded by Chads in Tinder for years despite being not particularly attractive.
Unless they use hefty doses that cost100s of dollars a week you can't tell if they juice or not, or it's difficult. You've never juiced before. THEY ALL DO IT retard
37 years on this earth here it's over for me and over for you homes
Being yourself is gay, but don't focus on getting a girlfriend, focus on becoming a person you like, and you'll be much more palatable to girls
I'm a 25 year old virgin, not sure if by choice or not. I'm pretty chill though, I don't really care, I jerk off too much so by the time I'm around a girl I don't really care nor do I make an attempt to get with anyone. I mostly focus on my hobbies and stuff, sometimes I do like to string girls along though, like tease them and flirt with them but then I get bored and forget about them.
My own brain cucks me. I probably could get a girlfriend, but I have no motivation to, it's pointless, I like my money all for myself, I hate buying people stuff, a relationship would be a chore.
> Be me
> 20 yr old Virgin
> To scared to ask or even try to get a GF
> Live with two best friends from high school
> One of my roommates sets me up a 10/10 girl, she's truly smoking hot, lets call her Sam
> we go on a few dates and Sam is definitely signaling for sex
> I'm too nervous and worried about having sex so I always push it off or divert the topic into something else
> Goes on for a few days
> The next day I decide I'm going to "man up" and get it done
> Suddenly Sam says we should see other people and we stop talking
> She blocks me on Instagram
> Fast forward a few months
> See Sam's profile on Instagram, see I'm not blocked
> Regretting not being more assertive still and decide to hit her up again
> Click on her profile
> See that she has a new boyfriend and they are happy together
mfw that could have been me
Listen Anons, don't be a pussy like me, you gotta just be more outgoing, if you are too shy opportunities are gonna pass you by
>
22 here never had a gf or dates, I have accepted that I will continue this path until something chances in me and my current situation
24 and I'm pretty much the same. I'm relying on pure luck at this point. That is my only hope. I've already selfimprovemaxxed.
You don't want to date a woman who wants to fuck before you're even officially together. Most relationships look happy online.
First times aren't that big of a deal. Don't stress about it. It would have been just as bad if it wasn't your first time.
at least we are all incel beta cucks together
The only one insecure about your virginity is you. If it bothers you that much, lose it to a white so you can get it off your chest.
You should be actively searching for a girlfriend. If you already have a social life, start planning activities yourself and invite a girl you are interested in. Group activities are good to start with, eventually you can Segway in to 1-1 plans, or try attaching them to the other plans (like getting a meal after, or a coffee before, or inviting them to chill out at your place). If you don't have a social life, get one. You should also be independent, which means no living with your parents, having an income, having a means of transportation.
Finally, avoid being ugly. You can't change your face, but you can change your body, your fashion, your haircut, your general grooming. Look at what successful people around you look like and try to get close (within reason, don't try to look like a nigga thug if you are a pasty white boy for example).
You don't need to do everything on the list,but these are the basic building blocks of attracting a gf. You can compensate by excelling in some areas to cover your weak spots,but a well rounded life helps.
25 never touched a girl and never been on a date
couldnt be happier
Your advice is worthless, let me tell you why. You are talking to men who do not have a healthy social life, do not know how to make small talk, how to flirty, etc. Most guys here never had a positive interaction with women. You are explaing to paraplegic men how to run a regular marathon. Tips and tricks aren't going to help those people.
28
Never have had one. Never been on a date either. I've never tried searching or asking anyone, so I can't really complain. I've also never been approached since middle school when I thought I was too young. I don't really know how to go about trying at this point, and I had hoped I'd meet someone by chance where things would click. The lack of being approached makes me think that there is something intrinsically wrong with me. I wouldn't say I'm particularly unattractive, but I was overweight in the past. Events for meeting new people dry up after college, unless you actively thrust yourself into new environments which I don't really have the courage to do. Most people I know don't understand how I haven't been in a relationship, but simultaneously those old friendships are drying up due to my hermit-ish tendencies.
Closest I guess I've gotten to doing something is drunkenly falling asleep and cuddling with a girl while watching a movie. Both of us were fairly drunk at the time and there wasn't much furniture available in the house. I don't remember much.
20 year old KHV reporting in from Kansas City, Missouri.
I've held hands, grabbed ass and bobs and had a girlfriend.
Can say it's not worth it. You're better off fucking a watermelon if you just want sex. At least the watermelon wont take your money and stab you in the back
>but I can't come up with a rational explanation for this
Your mistake is thinking that sexual attraction is rational in the first place.
Females are irrational. Their sexual instincts are irrational. As a group, females would sooner be alone in a room with a murder rapist child molester and then have consensual sex with him than even give you the time for a single date.
Let that sink in. As far as womens reproductive instincts are concerned, you are lower than the men that society would have executed on principle.
I managed to make it to 21 without getting a gf. The only reason i got one was because she just broke up from her ex and needed comforting.
Literally had to rebound just to get one. It's always a case of windows of opportunities for attractive girls to be single
32 here.
Unlike many of your here, I actually have a decent job and short term and long term goals. I'm not very handsome, but at least tall. 90% of my co-workers are women in their 20s to boot.
Even with these advantages, I'm not even close to ever having a gf.
>Only early 20''s
>Sad that no gf.
This is a bait right? Your not listening to good advice because you want to be sad. Your still a kid why even care about that suit now
>Never have had one. Never been on a date either. I've never tried searching or asking anyone.
> I had hoped I'd meet someone by chance where things would click.
Are you me? I'm 24 and still hoping for that second one
Never having a gf before 20 is so common where I live, these kinda posts sound ridiculous
where are you from, user?
i'm from MO.
I have never had a girlfriend either. Never even held hands with a girl outside my familt
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Not him but I live in the UK and I'm pretty sure the average guy here doesn't get a gf before 20
I'm 23 and I haven't even hugged a female before (besides family)
i have no idea when the fuck the average person gets a gf here but it probably after 20 since we have a high mormon population and mormons are autistic
source: raised mormon
I've had a couple.
>first was an attention whore who abused my anxiety
>second was pretty good until she got a crush on my friend and started guilt tripping me constantly
>third lied about loving me for a month
I've also been lead on, ghosted, and emotionally used for sex
I am turning 26 soon and have never kissed a woman. Technically thanks to one of my cousins I've never met hooking me up with a double date to the movies I can technically call it a date even though I was a cringy autist the entire time. God damn I wish I could forget that memory, at least I can say I went on a date before and was hugged by a woman that isn't my mom.
It would be like having sex but the sex part is sticking your dick in, immediately pulling out, and running out of the house naked. But hey still had sex
Backpage and craigslist personals are gone so I'm not sure what to do
28 yo here, never had girlfriend, only a small kiss when I was like 18, I have anxiety problems, ugly brown spic barely 5'6, too coward to kill myself.
28 here too.
Volcel if you can believe it
21 virgin here, never had a gf, held hands, kiss, or been on a date. I was hugged rape in my senior year but other then that i have not felt the touch of a woman and i just about ready to just give up. fuck this earth frens
>28
>Volcel
Jesus user how high are your fucking standards