Why does findom make me so hard? Rationally, I hate it, and I hate the women who do it, but sexually, I love it

Why does findom make me so hard? Rationally, I hate it, and I hate the women who do it, but sexually, I love it

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Because you're a subhuman. Thanks for ruining life for the rest of us.

this isnt real. no man in history has ever had this as an interest. its just women dreaming of the easy life, paid for by men ofc

Why am I a subhuman?
But I do really feel this way. I wish I wouldn't, but findom porn is the best way for me to get off

i dont care, just give me money for cute clothes worthless bitch

I have the same problem, op

>tfw honestly considering using art skills to make a findom patreon page
This seems like the only relevant thread I could ask this in, do you guys think it would work? It would be made from the POV of a drawn character, you'd pay weekly/monthly/whatever and get pictures of said character humiliating you or etc. Would you pay money to be virtually humiliated by smug looking 2D drawings telling you you're worthless garbage? Or does it only work if you think there's a real woman* on the other end?

* roleplaying male on the internet

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I doubt many people would be into that. The fetish is rooted in the idea that you're giving the money you made to a hot girl so that she doesn't have to work. If you're just giving it to a dude who's drawing a girl, you're not making a hot girl's life easier

Most guys jacking off to findom stuff are already masturbating to male-created fantasies (e.g. artwork, roleplay, or captions like the one OP posted). I was just wondering if they'd also be willing to pay for more personalized artwork. I already draw and enjoy domming people so it seemed like fun. Are you into findom or just jumping in with your opinion?

I'm into findom, and I think if it was very personalized you might be able to do it. You won't be able to charge nearly as much as real girls do though

of course not lmao, any woman on patreon is going to be pulling way more cash than a guy is to begin with, and that difference is probably way more dramatic with porn (drawn or real). The idea was just 1-2 characters (e.g. bratty dommy / mommy dom) and people would subscribe and list their fetishes and get personalized POV work relating to that and how much they donated. Maybe I'll make it a part of a general drawn porn patreon thing.

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bumping please help me i have a problem

Is the problem that you don't want to be dommed anymore or that you aren't being dommed right now?

I wanna stop having this fetish that I hate having

Send that bitch ex of yours $20 and see if the cognitive dissonance doesn't snap you out of it.

>anyone on r9k
>having an ex
lol

I'm sure there's a handful of anons out there who can't get a girl because their first (and only) gf fucked them up so badly.

Well, what about it turns you on exactly? Figure that out and you may find a way to get away from it.

Because you are boosting the poor behavior of sluts by subsidizing their behavior. Honestly, biggers likenyou should have your head smashed in for funding these whores.

Or maybe get a job loser

are you projecting or what lad? I already have a job

Careful saying "loser" in a findom thread, anons will start asking to send you money lmao

shit I meant to tag this

This is an easy one user. It's because it's hot.

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It's so fucking hot, but I hate it
I don't really know, exactly. I'll keep that in mind though

Then don't stop user. You keep getting off; she gets her bank filled up with minimum effort, and a reinforced mindset that she can act like a bitch and get whatever she wants in return.

Everybody wins.

But I feel bad afterwards

Findom is one of the few femdom type things that doesn't do it for me. It has also completely ruined femdom because it's fucking everywhere. There's nothing hot about me being even deeper in poverty because i'm horny, but almost every """domme""" now is a findom. I'm not sure who to blame for this.

sounds like a good idea to me, and it would be taking away money from vile whores on the internet

Because exploitation is apparently okay when a pretty girl does it

I like findom a lot too.
Just imagine getting invited to a foreign land by a rich lady, her confiscating your passport and demanding you to perform increasingly humiliating and painful tasks and for every completed one handing you a little money or a gift.
Once she decides you did enough, she returns your passport and hands you an apropriate stipend for your service, knowing that you'll come when she calls you up.

now that's what I call findom!

Findom is fucking gay and the cancer that's ruining femdom. Kill yourself fucking fag, findommes are worse than ewhores with a patreon.

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Honestly for me, findommes always sound like fake dommes. They are into it because of the money and dont seem to actually have any desire in actual domming.

Its pathetic and drives out real dommes.

Im pretty sure its because the horny paypigs are requesting that type of content

Being a paypig is based but findommes are insufferable. I prefer to give money to normal girls who have no idea what findom is and are just glad to have some loser giving her free money.

This user has the long and short of it.

Most of the findommes you see on Twitter are absolutely unbearable. The whole fake "fuck you pay me" persona is an instant turn off, as is any sign that they're domming multiple guys.

I just want some broke femanon to make me buy her shoes, takeouts and Overwatch skins or other dumb shit because it's fun and not because she's trying to make a business out of it.

This is actually quite sweet and probably ad wholesome as the most degenerate fetish gets.

Thanks user, I'm glad you think so. I'm under no illusions when it comes to me being a sickening degenerate, though.

Buying someone who's broke stuff to make them happy is about as cute and sweet as it gets. Even in this twisted context.

I don't understand how you can find something you hate hot. it's the same thing with cucks, they get off on how jealous it makes them to see their wife/gf fucked. these women are cunts and it pisses me off that not only do they get showered in money for it but also that there are guys that blow their money on someone who openly hates them. I could never imagine losing enough dignity to give them money.

>I just want some broke femanon to make me buy her shoes, takeouts and Overwatch skins or other dumb shit because it's fun and not because she's trying to make a business out of it.
so in other words you just want a gf

I'm totally into femdom, but findom is some really retarded shit... it's on the same level as a cuck fetish imo

Not really; a gf would require commitments of time and emotional energy I'm not really in a position to make.

You're not wrong, but I have to be honest and say I don't really do this out of some wholesome desire to make someone's life a little better - I just get more of a kick out of being treated like dirt if the person doing it is technically in a worse position than I am.

>You're not wrong, but I have to be honest and say I don't really do this out of some wholesome desire to make someone's life a little better - I just get more of a kick out of being treated like dirt if the person doing it is technically in a worse position than I am.
Well, yea. But ultimately why you do it doesn't really matter as long as it brightens someone's day.

Holy fuck this 1000x

Dominant women used to actually have to do something. They had to work in a way, now it's just typing "dumb loser give me money"

I guess. That brightened my day a bit anyway user, thank you.

It's a shame the whole Twitter domme explosion has made the kind of person I'm looking for almost impossible to find.

Even if you're just buying people stuff to make yourself feel better as long as that makes them genuinely happy, I don't see anything wrong with it.
Giving people who need and appreciate it gifts is far better than handing some half-hearted "findomme" money.
I get it's hard to satisfy that sort of fetish, but I suppose you can find some tumblr girl's wishlist and buy her stuff off that and maybe reach some sort of arrangement and make her smile.

But make sure you take care of yourself too! Don't spend more than you can afford on frivolous things, think of it as a gambling expense.

I've often thought about doing something like that - heaven knows there are enough Tumblr and Instagram girls with wishlists in their bios - but I'm hesitant to do so because I'm conscious that it's a kink for me and I think people have a right to know and decide whether or not they want to be involved in something inherently sexual with another person, even if that involvement only extends as far as anonymously receiving a gift.

Besides, I like being treated badly. I don't like to get a thank you or any kind of gratitude for it!

So, but them something anonymously and talk to them about it. Maybe they'll indulge you. The most important thing I think is that you at least try to make someone else properly happy by giving, and don't give to career "findommes", if you do engage in this absolute disgusting degeneracy.

At least have it be pure on the recieving end and spark joy by being a filthy pig.

Oh don't worry, I don't support "professionals" and I never will. That's why I'm here looking for girls instead of Twitter.

good
I hope you find a cute girl who'll be happy receiving gifts from you!
Unfortunately I'm not girly enough to offer myself up.

not good, dont encourage him hunting here

he needs to satisfy that weird findom shit elsewhere before he inflates the normalcy of it on r9k

The thing is, where do you get a cute girl whose day you'd genuinely brighten by giving her gifts?
If tumblr and insta girls are too pure for him, I really think here might be the only place to find a moderately cute and somewhat broke girl who'd get cheered up by gifts.

Like I said, if you have to be a fucking degenerate piece of garbage at least make someone happy with your disgusting, dystopic nightmare fetish.

>moderately cute

since there are none of those here I guess we're safe

absolutely savage lmao
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