28+ thread

how was it, any advice for prospective khhv neets?

>Then again at 30 you should have a wife and kids so I also know it's too late for me.
get out of the house more dude, no one but actual boomers thinks you need to live like that

Thinking of putting a hundred chainlink, can't hurt right bros, I looked into it and it seems they're even partnered with reputable (as far as that goes) companies.

a sex life is a life of sex.

>this has never been posted before.
I'll be sodomized on Christmas.

I want to live like that even but that doesn't make it happen.
>get out of the house more
I missed the train on social skills and now I get anxiety around groups of people, I'm fucked user and I'm just trying to deal with that fact.

Wish I could just pop a magical pill and all mental blocks I have would fall off so I could be a human like everyone else.
Not even alcohol helps with those mental blocks anymore, they did when I were younger

it's a figure of speech, what I mean is no one gives a shit if you don't have kids at 30, plenty of people choose not to now

I'm turning 27 soon and I'm still a virgin.

Should I get a prostitute or humiliate myself by acting thirsty on dating apps?

Spare yourself the pain and just get a hooker, don't fall for the tinder meme

Wizard. I'm finally moving out, but I think we all know that unlikely to help enough. I do hope to make some friends though.

People make that choice yeah, I never made that choice though. It was kinda just shoved in my life without my consent
I know people don't always want kids and some even prefer to be single and more power to them, but at least they had that choice to make

I'm the kind of guy who women just don't feel a "spark" with, so they would probably never pick me over their other options.

havent had sex in 2 years
could have fucked this hot 21 year old earlier this year but didnt
more volcel than incel because i know i have the ability to get laid but im too avpd, anxious, self-hating, scared to get some

you are only as fucked as you believe you are. small progress is still progress. CBT or DBT + medication + trying and pushing your anxiety limits help a lot.

28 here. It's alright.
I finally ended up fucking my oneitis a couple months back. Happened a few times and it was pretty good as long as I remained unattached. Of course I caught feelings again, so that whole thing ended.
I also lucked out and have been seeing this 45 yr old divorcee. She's nice. She buys me food and even offered to let me borrow one of her cars when mine goes in the shop. Sex is good but it's not thrilling like when we first started.

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Tried CBT, went with the vape version as it was supposed to be the most potent one, felt zero difference.
The other one I don't know what it is, could be worth a shot
I am on a waiting list for a psychological evaluation where they basically do a broad test against everything and what I show positive for they do a deeper analysis on.
Should be somewhere around fall now but I still feel everything is kinda late and everything has already passed.

CBT =/= CBD

CBT is cognitive behavioral therapy DBT is a type of CBT. You are literally a slave to your maladaptive thinking patterns, thinking errors, cognitive biases and distorted judgments. CBT or DBT helps you untangle the cognitive mess that is creating your reality. CBT is work and you have to actively work to monitor your thoughts and challenge your thinking. and its sucks and its annoying but it works.

its not too late. i am 34 and although i am still not where society deems i should be, i am leaps and bounds more functional and less miserable than i was 4 years ago.

get that psych eval. don't just take meds they push on you. do your research. shop for therapists. find one that you have rapport with and who will work you hard.

its hard. im still trying and trying and its still hard but its doable.

32. It's nonexistent and has always been this way.

It really bothered me in my early twenties, but now finding some sort of career is my main concern. You can survive without pussy, but you can't survive without money. Especially if your parents are assholes and are the type that demand you "grow up and move out."

Oh yeah it was called cbd, didn't have it in font of me to double check.

We'll see what the evaluation says I suppose, I'm not holding my breath but I want something that helps
Honestly I don't even care if it's fake happiness at this point, just something that removes my absolute hate for life would be a good start and something that could prevent my entire weeks from crashing due to a single event happening, which is a lot (house of card analogy)

I already have a therapist but she was appointed to me and just listens to my problems, writes it down and then I'm sent off into life for another month before I come back and dump more problems.
Used to see here once a week before, not that it helped any more then what is now but I could at least drop what was going on in my life in a more "current state" so to speak instead of having it gnawing in the back of my head for a while

She did give me a few meds to try like mrtazapine, ozascand and quitapine along with theralen droplets.
Obviously none worked and I since then stopped taking them, told them they didn't help and they keep pushing them so I ignore them

if possible find a therapist who does CBT. it is evidence based and more effective. Also you should be going at minimum once a week.

keep trying meds. it took me 8 years to find a combo that worked.

I'm 28 and it's non existent.
Oh well.

I am 11 years without sex with a another person. Other than that, it's pretty good.

fucked my 40th girl a week ago. She's 18yo, was a virgin and fantasized about losing her virginity to an older guy.
I've been on an open relationship with a girl for 4 years now, i have multiple lovers currently. 5, to be honest:
-One girl is a bulgarian cutie I met through tinder a year and a half ago. I had multiple threesomes with her and my gf and she loves anal. She was 20 when we met, now 21.
-A student from a nearby town. Met her through OKcupid, been dating for 11 months now, will be a year in september. Had threesomes with her and my GF, she also loves anal and is quite the masochist. Met when she was 22, now 23.
-This one is a cute little brunette with quite the ass. Hit me up on tinder and told me bluntly that she wanted me to fuck her. Met her up in January and we still see each other. Very submissive and obedient, and she will be my gift to my GF in 2 weeks. Hot girl on girl action, gotta love it. Met her when she was 18, now 19, and loves older guys and sex.
-Met this girl through discord, chatted for a while and we realized we were quite fond of each other. Submissive, but just broke up with her assexual boyfriend of 3 years, he never touched her during this time... Needless to say, she needed a pounding. Met in December, she was 25, now 26.

Appart from these girls that are my regular lovers, i also have some flings going on:
18yo that gave me her virginity, a girl i met on /soc/ that's paying me a visit in a week, another girl i met via an online forum, some tinder cutie, and girls i pick up through seekingarrangement...

if you're bullshitting it's pretty pathetic of you to do that here, if not, what the hell are you doing here then ?

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My financial situation is improving and within a few months I can potentially get a decent paying career going.
I've also started paying more attention to my health and what I eat.
I wish I was in a relationship, but after work I don't do shit but play vidya/browse the net.
I'm a boring ass person and I can't stand it. How do I get a life?

>what are you doing here
Frankly, i come here to laugh. Either i read r9k or i read fetlife writings when i want to have a good laugh at the expense of retards.

what do you do for a living ?, sounds like you make a lot of money, you probably are one good looking dude for you to have a crazy sex life like that.

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Made my own buisness, I help buisnesses selecting candidates during interviews for high level positions. I was always good at reading body language and i simply translated this pastime into my job.
I make enough money to pass by, but mostly I get girls because of my self confidence & just being a laid back, chill dude with a strict no drama policy.
I'm not that good looking. A year ago i weighted 130kg ( almost 300 pounds) for 2m (6.6"). I still managed to hit on girls and fuck them though (most of the girls I talked about in my post were met during this time). I lost some weight now and am feeling better about myself, but I still have some to shave away.
green eyes, long hair though. That helps

Trying to find a hot silver fox sugar daddy so I never have to work again

how old are you ?, damn you're tall as fuck!!.

yeah the truth is having good looks isn't the determine factor of a dude getting laid, people don't really care that much, people in general only care about how you make them feel, humans just look at people through an emotional lens.

sure good looks will get your foot in the door but it won't mean shit if you're an unlikeable guy

29.
People focus too much on their looks. If all you want is a one night stand, your looks are enough, but if you like to have some kind of relationship with the girl, your looks are secondary. During dating phase, your looks act like a joker. If you fuck up, it will save you once, maybe twice, but then it won't matter how hot you are. If you are needy, if you give drama easily, if you're have no idea how to lead a conversation, you WONT pass her shit tests.

I'm married.

On the one hand, I get whatever I want, when I want it, and the wife is always down to try something new and freaky.

On the other hand, it's always the same pussy.

Not existant, thanks for asking (and reminding)

married, also bang korean hookers once a month

>at 30 you should have a wife and kids
you can always find a much younger woman which is the patrician's choice and the secret to a healthy long lasting marriage as she will still be decently attractive when you're old 50yo fat fuck

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I don't have a real gf, so I bought a doll to replace what I can't get. I'm pretty happy with the outcome.

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>so I bought a doll to replace what I can't get
correction, you bought a second hand doll

Fucking amazing. I had low test from age 18-25 (probably even earlier but they never checked), Im on trt now and have been waking up with glass cutting erections and I constantly feel "good" or "on", like it was how I was meant to be. Imagine if they gave these pinkpill phags a test cycle instead of a sex change

T. Just turned 27 today

havent had sex since 22, 28 now. Im not interested anymore

Replying to myself. The doctors were such condescending assholes. HAHA LOOK AT THIS DUMBSHIT HES IN HIS 20S AND THINKS HE HAS LOW TEST LMFAO. Fuck doctors all they care about is $

Virtually non-existant.
Lost my virginity at 27 to a backpage escort. I'm 30 now, and I've only ever had sex with prostitutes in Southeast Asia. I have lots of disposable income, so I'm fine with doing the sex tourism thing once a year. I'll just kms if I get AIDS.

Glad to hear it, you're a lucky man. One of my biggest worries about getting in to a relationship is that after a while she'll start rejecting sex and shit.

Was on a dry spell since mid 2015 when I lost my virginity. Long distance gf I met on a WhatsApp group came and I haven't fucked as much as this before in my life. Besides condoms being a bitch nutting in her feels amazing and I feel like a real man after besides being a manlet. 2019 has been a good year

did you put benis in vagaga?

go research hiv prep medication, combine that with a condom and itll be practically impossible to get aids

I'm a pharmacist. I know all about that shit. But I'm not bothering with it due to cost. A 30-day supply of Truvada costs almost $1900 at my pharmacy.
The risk of contracting HIV from protected (or even unprotected) vaginal sex is extremely low anyway. And I don't do anal sex.

>Wish I could just pop a magical pill and all mental blocks I have would fall off
xanax

same as it was the rest of my life. I don't care about sex, I want intimacy.

What do you take?
I'm 32 and ~7 months ago I feel like all desire vanished I fap once or twice a week and it feels like a chore. I fell sleepy and tired all the time.

Didn't realise there was a 28+ thread, anyway:
>Wizards, and social retards/reclusives/outcasts, are a dying breed. It took me a while to figure that out, I don't know if we're being breed out OR that the modern state of the internet has opened all doors for self-improvement and congregation for people who would be us (I think it's the latter). Cos on Jow Forums people are always complaining that "reddit is leaking" or "it's so reddit in here", it's not. It's that the "zoomers" that have replaced us, come from a much more socially inclined background by default and most, if not all, of internet (and geek) culture has seeped into the mainstream.

>Those of us that did not fully commit to a fandom or a passion, are now left with no real identity. I think in a certain sense it's a lot harder to be a loner now, like, you can have a giant anime figurine collection but the internet these days will always remind you that there are other people who also have the same hobby, but are enjoying with other people who take it to different places they wouldn't have dreamed of on their own. Basically reminding you that *your* giant anime figurine collection are just lumps of shaped plastic.

When fucking furries from the furry fandom are doing better than I ever could, it's time to accept the end. I thought the internet fandoms and geek culture in general would stay isolated in their bubbles and they'd always be there for me but I was wrong. I really should have thrown myself into an internet fandom but didn't. And now I'm a wizard and have less social worth than a man who dresses up as a cartoon dog to have sex with people who dress up as cartoon dogs.

>Pic related
There's a pretty girl underneath that fursuit. Jesus Christ, I've lost the game of life really badly.

What do you all of life has passed you by, and yet there's another, at least, 20 years to go?

Movies suck, games suck, anime sucks, the city I live in sucks and I genuinely can't imagine a positive future.

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250mg a week prescribed, haven't felt this good since I was 16

just drop your expectations user, learn to exist rather than live. Just condition yourself to eat, sleep, shit, have a decent income, live in a small apartment and wait until your untimely death.

a hundred years from now nobody is going to remember you, everything that you see won't matter hundreds of years from now.

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i racked up a 50 roaster rodeo count before i graduated college. then i decided to just not try to "make it" and became a shut in loser. then i went to thailand and fucked 65 hookers. shit is wayyyy better than shucking and jiving for roaster rewards.

go to thailand bro. pattaya to be exact

Nonexistent.
Never tried for anything, never been approached. Not expecting that to change any time soon

My expectations have been low for the past 5 years since I passed the "point of no return". I didn't expect to get BTFO of every single facet of my life and my hobbies.

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haha just for laughs haha

@53861998
I might just repost this in Jow Forums, this thread's probably gonna die.

How many strains of AIDS do you have?

I was fucking this woman for the last year or so and we did all these dirty gross things because we met on CL and she was going through a divorce (also has kids eww). I say was fucking because any day now when I get some self respect I am going to ghost her

I'm 32 and the last time (really the only time) a girl was sexually attracted to me was when I was 19. I didn't really understand it then and now I've forgotten what it feels like. I don't really meet any women anymore anyway.

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26, so might as well post here as I don't see 25+ threads anymore. Don't have one, and I'd rather note hire an escort (never had gf). I basically don't talk to anyone besides my 3 friends now, after girl i used to talk to for years ghosted me.

Outcasts aren't a dying breed, the way I see it the amount of disillusioned people is increasing (perhaps in proportion to everyone else, I don't know), they're kind of trapped behind all of the background noise without many outlets because of what might as well be the internet monoculture. Like you said the new generation have supplanted the old and they are far, far more numerous than the previous and they drown out everyone else, they only use a handful of sites for everything, repost content between them constantly just like all of their favourite maymay aggregators do, heard about le glory days of the interwebs and want to relive them badly without realising what made it fun.

I imagine it's just as bad for "zoomer" outcasts, being part of the social media generation and still not being able to make friends, then you go on the internet where everything is the same shit because of how interconnected it and real life are, then you discover Jow Forums and at first glance it seems cool but then you realise it's mostly made up of the same people as elsewhere but with extra layers of irony and cynicism to mask their fear of looking abnormal. And god forbid they're even self aware enough to realise this shit.

Outcasts are just doing what they do best really, being outcasts, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. You don't need to be part of a community/fandom to enjoy the content they produce, if at all, you don't need to impress anyone other than yourself when you admire your collection of plastic butts. It's refreshing to separate your human need for a community from your interests and hobbies. I've foolishly derived a lot of identity and purpose from the internet over the years, but I'm not an outgoing person and realise that I'm happy just enjoying things alone or sometimes observing without getting tangled up in all of these social webs, even the anonymous ones.

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Deployed to the middle east at the start of the year and got cheated on. Haven't had a relationship in 8 months. Got a hooker and blew a huge load, but immediately overcome by the feeling I'm nowhere closer to having a gf again, and will very likely never met anyone to share my life with. Suicidal thoughts weekly.

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>2011
Genital warts
>2012-2015
chlamydia and gonz
>2016
genital HSV1
>2019
a genital wart i just froze off

when you get into triple digits its too be expected. I had one nasty primary outbreak of herpes and then never again. so thats 4 years outbreak free. I still fuck bitches raw but i just make sure that i have nothing sketchy before i do

35 year old virgin. made a tinder about 2 weeks ago, i have some likes but i figure its just bullshit to get me to pay, im not falling for it. i matched with 5 girls so far. 3 stopped responding after like 4 exchanges. 1 girl gave me her number, but she's chubby and im not very attracted to her. the last girl im very attracted to, she kind of looks like a standard egirl, we seemed to get along and joked around with each other, but she ghosted me. oh well. i can lose my virginity with the chubby girl if i wanted to but im just not interested.

I only ever see money-for-sex in oldfag threads.

How easy is it to fuck hookers without a condom in Thailand? How much money do you pay each woman on average?

>age
34
>last time I fugged
age 21

oldfags have money zoomer, you broke asses can't afford it so you guys just resort to hentai and furry porn.

One of those posts is mine. Just pointing out it seems like a pretty common thing in this generation of outcasts.
>stable 60k annually + investments
>still no relationship
How much to just buy a wife outright?

>How much to just buy a wife outright?
no need to pay outright, you can get a SEA/slav gf with a few 1$ meals
but you will almost surely forced to pay later on

>Pricing
you shouldn't pay anymore than $120 for only the youngest, hottest gogo bar girls. thats including barfine and cost of sex. There's plenty of 2nd rate gogo bars hiding 1-2 qts that you can bag for 90$. Freelancers are just girls that don't wanna work for the bar but there's plenty of qts in that population also $45-$60 is typical for them

>Condom vs Raw
Gogo girls will almost never let you fuck raw. I only fucked one raw and its because she was a little older, really wanted my dick, and did an excellent job selling her pussy to me.

Freelancers will let you hit raw. If you're a 30 and under, clean shaven, decently dressed, decent looking white or asian guy, its definitely doable. this is especially if they're a little older than you and you meet them at a club and get drunk for awhile before you go back to your hotel with them. I've had scenarios where I paid a freelance girl the first time, then met her another night to get fucked up. when we went back to my hotel i filled her with like 2 loads that night, and one in the morning, for the price of one. so thats how that shit works. you can also just straight up offer a slightly higher price. I did that with a vietnamese street girl. I started with a condom but asked her for a 1k baht bump in pay if i could hit it raw. she said yea. there you have it