What is the reason incels get so absolutely devastated by rejection...

What is the reason incels get so absolutely devastated by rejection? Normies get rejected too but don't lose their head over it, whereas an incel is absolutely destroyed by it.

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Because they think "oh yeah, she's going to accept me!" and then they start thinking about how they think their life together will be and how in a decade they will be married with kids or something. Normal guys think "Man it would be great if she accepts me, but if she doesn't the relationship wouldn't have worked out anyway and I'll just keep looking for the right one."

Because normies don't get rejected ALL THE TIME BY EVERYONE.

>Because normies don't get rejected ALL THE TIME BY EVERYONE

That might be because they actually learn from their mistakes user

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t. only asked 1 girl out ever

Guys are shy and have to put a lot of effort into approaching a girl. The girls they approach mean a lot to them, so the rejection really hurts.

Because of anxiety-based mental issues. Normal and adjusted people will fear rejection, but not to the point of seriously inhibiting them. Incels don't get rejected much more than normal people and its just their relationship with rejection that varies. Look at how Elliot Rodger never even asked a girl out, but concluded all girls hated him and was a seething incel because of it.

Normies have a support group, incels don't.

>hey incel, you'd be happier if you did X this way
>fuck off normie

Incels don't want support

Because incels are dumb.

>jus b urslef incel
>have sex incel
yeah thanks for the tips norman

what is that X user? pls tell me the golden advice that no incel heard that would change incels lives if they heard it? go ahead

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Actually talking to girls, being nice to them, and asking them out.

Fuck you. Stop making me feel like this you fucker.

>be nice to girls
oh so you're one of these 'nice guys' i've heard about

dating girls as ugly and pathetic as you is actually a much more realistic advice

>what is that X user?

Move out of your comfort zone, interact with people more than the bare minimum, get a job, move out of home, pursue active interests

Stop being sexist. Stop being racist. Stop being homophobic. Shower. Wear deodorant. Go outside more often. Drink water, it fixes more than you realize. Get sleep. Try to talk to real people more instead of spending all your time in Jow Forums. Unless you have autism you will naturally start to absorb certain human behaviors and understand social contact and people a bit better. Even if you're autistic, you will still have more experience talking to people. You don't even need to hide that you use Jow Forums. Girls don't care if their partner is a "nerd" if the guy is likeable. Get some more sunlight. Get some light exercise. Go to fucking sleep. Stop watching so much porn, you don't have to go complete NoFap but porn has adverse affects every in discussion.

Be a functioning member of society. Eventually you will find someone. There are 7 billion people for a reason.

>just stop trying bro

Because "incels" think about having an actual relationship where you love and support each other and build a good life together, and "normies" just think about ME GRUGG ME FUKK so "incels" can't really do much about it when rejected, whereas "normies" are just fine after they jerk off.

Understand who you are, find someone compatible, and create a way to take the initiative. But don't be to hard on yourself, though. We have different ways and paces to learn things.

Being easily enraged is a symptom of low testosterone.
>Stop watching so much porn
You had me 'til this.

>actual relationship where you love and support each other

That is something that grows over time in a functional relationship tho if you want that right away you are bound to fail

Why would someone willingly put that pic as his profile pic?

Incel communities have a dispoportionately high percentage of people who are psychologically unable to cope and deal with their own emotions.
Wonder why that is.

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I think part of the reason is that normies have a lot of eggs in their basket so if one falls out they don't really care. Whereas incels usually walk around with an empty and are lucky to even get one egg in it, so then if they lose that one egg they have nothing left and are fucked.

Yeah, I'm sure it grows over time in a fuckbuddy relationship where you give rent money to a quadsexual DDLG scat camwhore. What is a "functional relationship" if not what I described? It's pretty easy to see if both people want that or not, and women are by nature mimicking the guy's relationship "style" in the beginning even if they don't want it at all, so by the time you figure out it's not going anywhere, you're already deeply fucked.

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>want rape to be legal and have fantasies of violently raping and murdering women
>want relationship based on love
Pick one. Which one do incels want?

That's me. Seriously, I wouldn't know why there's anything wrong with having a happy marriage and successful life. Besides watching the foids seethe with jealousy

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>women are by nature mimicking the guy's relationship "style" in the beginning even if they don't want it at all

That's the most incel thing I've read here today but then again that doesn't mean much

"incels" don't get rejected because they never ask girls out

Because normies usually have 10 backup "fuck buddies" if things go bad. Incels and autists have nobody.

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imagine writing all that and then getting btfo in one image

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Not the guy before, but 'nice guys' aren't nice guys. The 'nice guys' that people make fun of think that being nice is their whole fucking character. They expect to receive some kind of reward for being such a nice guy, mostly from girls. They think that their niceness will get them laid, a girlfriend, or nudes. If they don't get these things they start to berate the people that they're being so nice to before, exposing their retarded efforts. Don't be nice to girls alone, be nice to everyone. Being a decent human being will really make others appreciate you, especially girls.

The latter obviously?
Nah brah bruh broh u gotta le smash first chadsoybrainface how u know u sexually compabible le incel blobbit
You'd know if you ever had a relationship with a woman, they're pretty pathetic, they just follow your lead and pretend they're into whatever you're into.

Here we go with the incel fakes again. It's sad when you have go literally resort to making ridiculous shit up to try to justify your mentally retarded way of thinking.

Mommy and daddy gave them everything they asked for.

>toddler incel starts crying and won't eat his veggies
>mom gives him tendies and fries so he shuts up

>3rd grade incel cries because he doesn't have the latest video game
>dad caves and buys it for him so he shuts up

>teen incel flips out on his parents for "bothering" him when he's about to jack off
>parents stop bothering with him altogether and just let him do as he wants with all the unrestricted internet access

>stacy rejects his weird advances
>grown incel kills a bunch of people over it and kills a bunch of innocent people

But incels want to rape and murder women and want rape to be legal, so how can they want a relationship based on love? You can't have both.

>Yeah, I'm sure it grows over time in a fuckbuddy relationship where you give rent money to a quadsexual DDLG scat camwhore. What is a "functional relationship" if not what I described? It's pretty easy to see if both people want that or not, and women are by nature mimicking the guy's relationship "style" in the beginning even if they don't want it at all, so by the time you figure out it's not going anywhere, you're already deeply fucked.

It's obvious that you have zero experience on the subject. Obviously there's nothing wrong with wanting a long time relationship and kids but if you're hellbent on it from day one you are come off as either desperate or controlling.

You don't fucking know a person when you start a relationship. You'll learn more about them over the time of the relationship.

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Seems like incels are the product of bad parenting above everything else doesn't it

>incel fakes
LOL this level of cope holy shit. how does it feel that a child rapist hot guy gets more matches than you?

>You don't fucking know a person when you start a relationship
Why don't you? Are you a retard who starts relationship with Tinder whores?

A normal person lets a relationship grow organically from a long time friendship so that you know you're compatible.

Incels have never faced real hardship in their lives which is why they don't understand that getting a girl requires work and that you sometimes fail. They're incomplete persons that lack a huge chunk of life experience.

no, keeping a girl requires work for ugly guys, like you. girls flock to good looking guys. have fun working hard for something that chad doesnt give two shits about

>A normal person lets a relationship grow organically from a long time friendship so that you know you're compatible

Sometimes yes but not all relationships start like that, sometimes you just know a person superficially from work, school or whatever and decide to try dating them you don't know much about them, so having huge goals with them in mind is the road to failure.

Not everyone dates their childhood friend like in your favourite animes.

You are literally proving his point. You don't know jack shit about the world outside your basement and are just parroting incel memes.

I'm just saying what kind of relationships actually work. You can meet someone at work and not fuck them the first week too you know.

I get more matches than any incel fakes. Sorry to shatter your beliefs.

bro thats very true, what girls really want are guys like you LMAO hahahahahahah

Bad parenting, especially lack of a good male influence. Single motherhood can explain a larger portion of male crime than you think.

>not fuck them the first week too you know

point me to the passage where I said that.

well seeing incels we have at least established what they don't want

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I have had sex with many girls, you have never even kissed one. I wonder which one of us knows better what women like.

They're emotionally very immature due to poor socialization and isolation. So nerds who grew up playing video games instead of going out. That immaturity leads to insecurity, and they deal with that by engaging in narcissism and clinging to extreme beliefs.

>I have had sex with many girls
How many of them were virgins?

giving advice to incels feels always bizarre

>be guy who has somewhat functioning social circle, has experience with multiple women and relationships
>give advice to someone who doesn't have this but wants it
>no bro that's wrong women are like this and here's why it will never work

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Yes I'm aware of that, I've seen that shitty twitter screenshot that gets posted several times a week too. That was the joke. Jus b nice is worthless advice, If that's all you've got your fucked. I can be nice to people but my life is otherwise dull and empty, I have no friends, I don't go places, I don't have hobbies. All I do is go to work then come home and sit in front of my computer. I have nothing to offer and no girl wants that. Just being nice gets you nowhere even if you're genuinely nice to everyone if that's all you've got. To be honest it can be a disadvantage, if you're too nice, if you never disagree with them or make a joke at their expense (which doesn't mean argue with them agressively or neg them or some bullshit, it has to be in a friendly bantering way, laughing with not at) then you just look like a pathetic fawning wet lettuce of a man.

first rejection hits hardest, and incels usually don't build up enough confidence to get rejected in school. and school kids get through the pain easier. it's like in that book, the man who laughs, compracchios only did horrible thing to kids so that they're physically mutilated but mentally fine. since incels are all grown up by their first time, they can feel it entirely, and crumble under the stress

wow, it's almost like 'incels' aren't single homogenous group who always all think the same thing at all times regardless of their current emotional state.

Wrong. Nobody tries to start a relationship with a person they don't love, except for gold diggers, whores (male and female) and retards.

But incels are a homogeneous group who always all think the same thing.

>wants rape to be legal
no
>have fantasies of violently raping and murdering
yes
>wants relationship based on love
yes. what's wrong? thoughtcrime?

yup, just like roasties and chads and normies.

There are no chad communities or normie communities. But there are incel communities, and that's what defines being an incel - belonging to an incel community.

sounds like you don't know the difference between liking and crushing on someone and actual love, likely due to lack of experience.

Enlighten me. Preferably with an original comment

Because normies have preceding experiences of having been ACCEPTED. Otherwise they could not be called "normies" in the first place. No matter what walk of life it is, when you have been accepted once or twice, it becomes easier to be REJECTED in anything.

That's basically because he was autistic, and thought that girls should approach him and when they didn't he thought they hated him. He was clueless.

God I miss the times when E was still fresh and on the lips of everyone. Not only the incels but several other types of people, for example the E-xperts, who knew everything about him. Made me feel he existed in this world still. Now I am pretty much alone with him and the incels digging him. Hey, let's see if this thread too will be 404'd just because I said the previous. Has happened TWICE today before. Also why do not they start all threads about him while I sleep? Do they follow me via a cam or a microphone trying to make me quit him not being able to participate?

I never had to work to get girls. Never even remember half of them because all women act the same pretty much when you've got looks to kill. Sounds like you snagged a couple 3-4/10's and think your ugly ass can dictate to others what women really want. Only difference between you and incels is they guessed correctly that women are mostly shit outside of the occasional fuck and offer no value to your life unless you want to have kids.

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Not that guy, but I asked almost 9 women out. And none said yes. Now I have been going to the gym and earning a shit ton of money and women are the last thing on my head. Also I am a retard who cant pick up signs from all those years of rejection. Oh well, for some reason I can't leave this fucking place.

>implying he killed those people because of rejection and not because they took his job

>be yourself
>change literally everything about yourself

No wonder the modern dating world encourages psychopathic behavior

What defines them according to you.

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This asshole

If you're trying to start a relationship with someone you don't love, like or crush on you're probably doing it to use them for something they have or something they give to you, such as sex (whores) money (gold diggers) etc

>Stop being sexist. Stop being racist. Stop being homophobic.

This shit doesn't matter. Otherwise decent list.

Doesn't fix how busted modern Western women are.

no one who goes on Jow Forums gets more matches than fake chad fuck off

The definition of incel is simple - someone who identifies as an incel. Who is part of online incel communities.

Hard to describe to someone who hasn't had the experience. Love is more mellow and relaxed, and more about feeling secure with a person, a crush is fleeting. It's something you have to experience yourself I guess

Incels do because theyre thirsty faggots

>Stop being sexist
Hi am Chris Brown
>Stop being racist
Hi am the current president of the united states
>Stop being homophobic
Hi am Mel Gibson

>Shower. Wear deodorant. Go outside more often

IMAGINE THINKING BASIC HYGINE EVERYONE PRACTICES IS WOKE ADVICE

So if chad thundercock, fucker of a thousand vaginas has a dry spell and starts posting on a forum and refering to himself as an incel does that make him an incel?

I sympathize with the guy, but why would he ever upload that picture? He can't think he looked even close to decent here. And he wasn't incapable of looking normal - he actually did look normal, and way different from how he looks here, when he did the happening.

Calm down, virgin. Your envy is fucking glowing rn.


I think what you're trying to say is the difference between love and lust.
Lust is just when you want to fuck a bitch because you're attracted to her looks (mainly her body)
And Love is alot deeper, when you love her looks and her personality both.

What do you think people do when they date?

Chad thundercock would never identify as an incel. He hates those entitled violent angry manchilden.

>He hates those entitled violent angry manchilden

Nah he doesn't give a fuck about them and probably doesn't even know they exist

its pretty obvious you are larping

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Used to be an incel but I've given up. After years of making dating profiles, going to bars and actually trying, I've concluded my face and social autism will never let me be with someone. I've paid hookers to remedy this but the more I do it the more it feels cold and unwanted. I have such intense anxiety that I can't even cope with everyday life anymore. Now I'm just biding my time. Looking for a fent supplier so I can peacefully off myself.

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I just had to Google what that means because I don't have a virgin basement dwellers vocabulary such as yourself.
I'm not "larping" I was being myself.

Hey man, don't fucking off yourself. There's someone for everyone, the only advice I can really give you rn is to be yourself, don't try to change for others, smile more, be positive around others and try your absolute best not to be awkward. I was in the same boat as you (you may even be more attractive than me who knows? ) But anyway I got a job when I was 18 and I was super awkward to the point where I couldn't even look my colleagues or customers in the eyes and I didn't start conversations at all but my job forced me to talk to strangers on a regular basis and being polite, kind and helpful to everyone helps you gain the confidence you need to talk to ANYONE. I'm sorry this paragraph is all over the place btw.
Also if you're looking for a girl the only thing I can say is try to ask the girl questions, that's a great starting point for further conversation, maintain eye contact but keep it at a normal level (look at other things every now and again that may be relevant to the conversation etc) and definitely be interesting and DEFINITELY be interested in what the girl is saying, laugh at what is making her laugh, smile when she smiles and seem interested in her without being a creep. If you manage to get her number (congrats) don't spam her phone, if she isn't texting you back after a couple days then thats basically your sign to leave it and get over your rejection. Again, sorry this paragraph is all over the place I'm kinda busy at the moment. I hope anything I said can help you out, brother.

>Lust is just when you want to fuck a bitch
ALL FUCKHEADS CALLING "BITCHES" THOSE WOMEN THEY ONLY WANT TO FUCK, WILL BE SHOT IN THE HEAD. AS FUCKHEADS WHO USE DEROGATORY TERMS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE JUST TO DEGRADE THEM (not as a revenge or out of hatred) DO NOT DESERVE TO LIVE. ALSO FUCKHEADS CALLING WOMEN "WHORES" for fucking multiple partners while doing it or wanting to do it themselves, WILL BE SHOT IN THE HEAD or sent to camps. As calling women "whores" for fucking multiple partners, is a way of punishing WOMEN ONLY, for the emergence of illegitimate children, the way men can still keep fucking as many women as they want. It is ABUSE to punish one group of people only, of something, so that the other group of people can go without punishment. Just the same as accusing white men only of mass shootings while ALL kinds of men are committing those. Yeah, and also fuckheads ACCUSING WOMEN OF HAVING A "COCK CAROUSEL" (when they are having a few short-term relationships with chads who lied to them that it is eternal love) while having CUNT CAROUSEL themselves, WILL BE SEVERELY PUNISHED.

All women should realise these things. AND STOP BRAINLESSLY CALLING OTHER WOMEN "whores" and "bitches". WHY IN THE FUCKING HELL DO WOMEN HAVE TO BE SO FUCKING RETARDED, that they do it? Repeat the same shit men are telling them? Trying to fucking lift themselves up compared to other women by underlining how they are not "whores" or "bitches" calling other women those. IT IS FUCKING REPULSIVE STUPIDITY.

Check this retard calling other women "bitches". I love to watch her as she makes me feel so superior of myself in her UTTER STUPIDITY. :)

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So now you know it. Each time you call women "whores" or "bitches" you will hit another nail into your coffins. You will pay.

God I'd like to be a good person doing nice things in this world. But it is impossible. As all kinds of fuckheads make you want to kill.

Good Night.

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my god is this a toll?

Seriously. These women who call other women "bitches" just to PLEASE MEN by taking sides with them against their own gender, OR to underline their own superiority compared to other women, ARE SO FUCKING STUPID that they make me fucking SENSE THE SCENT OF WOMEN'S PUBLIC TOILET. In other words, they are so REPULSIVELY STUPID that they STINK.

incels do nothing but wallow in self-pity

They're too stupid to just take the psychopill and go full Patrick Bateman.

When youve been accepted before its easier to write rejection off as not a big deal. If youve done something once, you get the confidence that you can do it again, eventually.

When youve never been accepted by anyone rejection is a sign that something in your life is seriously fucked. If youve never done something, the confidence isnt there and insecurity just builds on insecurity

A toll?

I think you're the one that needs a bullet in the head you autistic fuck