>22
>Have literally 0 friends, after losing touch with them through the years
>Barely ever socialise
>No girlfriends
>Non virgin but have't had sex in 3 years
Is loneliness the norm for young people these days?
There were times I craved companionship but it's given way to a contented sort of apathy.
From reading articles online it seems that a lot of others are in the same boat.
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Oh hey, you described my life mostly.
I am you, but 25. It is the apathy that is the worst. I used to fill my time with vidya but that was destroyed years ago.
Embrace loneliness, pick a subject and become a master at it, eventually attracting the right people, money and the confidence.
31 here haven't had sex since i was 23 no friends no direction, it just gets worse bros
>Is loneliness the norm for young people these days?
Yes. Pretty much the same but iam 30 and no sex for 5 years and see friends maybe few times a year.
Even the 'horniness' has left. Back when I was 17/18/19, I wanted to bone all the time. Now it's only like 25% of the time.
You just described me pretty well. About once every 6 months I'll hook up with someone off tinder but other than that my life is work 5 12 hour shifts a week and spend the time I'm not there home sleeping, jerking off, or shitposting. It's a simple content life but I can't help this feeling under the surface that I can't wait for the world to burn down around me.
Wow you are such a special snowflake
I bet you are just too smart for all these plebs around you
start reading
Just described me pretty much except I haven't had sex in a full year
I do read. I read a lot of history and politics. Mosley is helping me break out of my stupor.
Hope you realize everyone is gunning for you.
fuck off faggot
>22
>Have literally 0 friends, after losing touch with them through the years
>Barely ever socialise
>No girlfriends
>Non virgin but have't had sex in 3 years
you've had sex so stop crying you pathetic cuck fuck off this isn't your blog nigger
make more of these, kek
Yes, fren.
The society (((they))) push is disconnection. Push our relationships to be nothing more than superficial. Hollow and empty social media showcases this
You are not alone
It's worse to have had sex then go on a years long dry spell than never having sex.
In the latter, you don't know what you're missing.
nigga, you're still a baby. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a job at a restaurant. Why? Because it'll put you around some pussy.
Humanity is facing a loneliness epidemic, and society would rather demonize the afflicted than address the issue. I just don't think our species will survive bros, there are just too many evolutionary maladaptations working against us.
>non Wizard
NORMIES GET OUT!
It's calied you conform to this individualist society, hollow hedonism or you become a heretic or whatever
How to cure loneliness: Start training in MMA
>inb4 muh CTE, muh brain damage
don't compete.
>flag
Suicide by cop
Already 19 and already losing my horniness. I really don't even have the will to meet a woman anymore. It's just all the same, the tattoos, the nose rings, the feminist bitchyness. Even if I do meet the right person, I'm too tired to even put in the effort. I'm just tired of everything really, the whole world seems so tiresome anymore.
A kind of tired sleep can't fix. I don't know, maybe someone can explain it better than I can.
Your pic says it all lol.
Nah will fight back before that happens this is not suitable for human life
We're a social species but some individuals seem to function better off alone.
I'm a mix, I like socialising 50% of the time but also being alone 50% of the time.
Sex is overrated. Virgins have it worse couse they think its some magical whatever but its just in out friction and release. It gets old. Its not even worth the 50€ for a hooker imo.
>work 5 12 hour shifts a week
How do you do it user?
I can imagine working that hard if you had a wife and kids to come home to, but otherwise that sort of life sounds soul crushing.
>pick a subject and become a master at it
seems like this isn't realistic for most people, one of the defining traits of the typical person in OP's position is an overwhelming apathy and ennui. what motivation is there to strive upwards for mastery etc when your defining character trait is indifference?
it's possible to change, but to change on such a fundamental level isn't very likely for most people, most people are mediocre/average and can't force enough will through in order to exact a lasting and meaningful change in order to accomplish that.
>the tattoos, the nose rings, the feminist bitchyness
We rarely get those here but the sense of entitlement is still present.
HK women will expect you to do everything for them, even tie their shoelaces in public.
the industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race
>22
You have been alivr a very short while. Shit changes. It will change faster if you do things differently. What do you have to lose? This is very simple.
This thread reeks of low T. Go get yourself an 8kg and 12kg kettle bell and do some exercise you faggot. Eat red meat twice a week, fish twice a week. Eat veges, no taters or bread.
I am like you brother, you guys are my only friends.
You have depression
ordinarily i would skip this thread, but reading it depresses me. there is no way people this young should have these issues. the screen time is mostly likely the culprit. you all need to get outside and away from the phones and the screens. meet people, make friends and you will find a social life again. you cannot have screens and a fulfilling life at the same time. choose one.
That's what I did in my time neeting and dropping out of uni picking subjects and mastering it i regret nada
Are you retarded? This is Jow Forums, not /faggots/.
You know how you do the same things all the time? Change it up. Seriously, what do you have to lose? Nothing, apparently; so change it up
Why?
Loneliness is a very real concern for young people today.
Agreed borzoi
>be amerimutt
>larp as nazi
>decide to shot jews
>miss
>shot up school instead
pick up another hobby that forces you out of the house. hong kong has some convenient hiking trails even if a lot of it it filthy. or amateur radio if you can’t handle that.
Get off Internet and technology. Go with your family camping or hiking. Get rid of the technology JEW
I forgot to say
I got/get invites to socialise from friends but after constantly saying no due to being busy or being apathetic, they've dried up to a trickle.
I don't think so. Depends on the person and how good the experience was or how easy to get addicted they are.
Like those who smoke tobacco and can never forget it and others who don't care and just quit it.
I feel like something will change in the upcoming decade. Something has to, society is not sustainable and everyone can sense it.
I feel like I do. I have no motivation anymore.
You chinks work too much. Get rid of work and technology and get rid of the jew.
You are not alone i am a 23 year old wagecuck at a pizzahut as a cook! While attending a four year college trying to get my bachelors in management.If i fail college on probation fail two classes twice! I will go into trades school.
The only good thing is that pay off my classes as i go per semester do not take a loan you can not declare bankruptcy on student loans.
I try to get fit and have girlfriends but woman want drama and can keep off their dam phones! Its been three years since i have had sex! she was a redhead 17 years old mentally crazy bi polar,but god did she love me was stable and take her medication!
Oh God why did go to college in California and become a feminist liberal!
Hope you find some friends. Those people you ignore would love for you to acknowledge them. Don't be a nigger.
Gonna say it again
S T A R T
M M A
T R A I N I N G
>Minimal women
>hierarchy of respect
>forces you out of the house
>teaches you valuable skills
>builds your character because you get to know yourself and fix your weaknesses
Is it just screentime though? I remember being full into wow and spending lots of hours there but still somehow managed to blow my brains out with every drug imaginable almost every weekend in some dirty cellar club.
You could probably be diagnosed with “depression” or as a Manic major depressive. It’s worth it to talk to a shrink user. If all you need is some mood stabilizers and sunshine to get you out of a funcku then go for it. Better than languishing in a mental hellscape.
If you have a shit mindset you have a shit life. Serious tip: work out. Just fucking do it. Helps me every time. Chad is a mindset. Be chad.
Can someone post that pic where girls stare at you with a bit of weird look.
It gets posted here a lot
How to combat feminism and shit culture
Pretend to be hardcore Christian or Muslim. Christians and Muslims stick together to defeat the globohomo agenda. Kill each other later.
sooner or later you just realize you drink more and socialize less. finding hobbies is a must if that starts to happen.
First up, OP why are you vpn'ing a Hong Kong flag? Sounds like kikery trying to spread depression. And you've attracted a lot of sad fucks. So I'm gonna tell you all. Take this from a former sad fuck:
>having sex without being in love is lame, empty, and a waste of time
>if you saturate yourself in depression, it WILL cause brain damage. You'll go damn near retarded
>energy is real. Put out negative energy, then negative things will come to you like a magnet
>getting better starts with breaking bad thought patterns. Even if you've gotta lie to yourself at first.
>exercise and healthy diet aren't a fucking meme
>gratitide is the key to happiness. Everyone has something to be grateful for. Even if it's as simple as being grateful you've got a bed to sleep in tonight
>if you don't love yourself, then there's no chance in hell that a female is gonna love you
>if you actually DO love yourself, then show it by bettering your life
I live here. No VPN. It's raining pretty hard rn,
Not really this, user - it just feels like it's harder to make new friends as you get older. If you move away from your early 20s friends in your mid to late 20s, all you seem to be left with is work 'friends.'
Sorry for responding so late. Read fiction instead, not sci-fi, but stuff like the classics. I think Dosto's books would be nice for you. Maybe "Stoner" as well.
this
take the exercisepill and read and meditate. loneliness is not even that bad, and a man should have control over his emotions at all times
Why aren't you out protesting user - you could meet a qt pro-democracy chick
When I saw the flag i,assumed it was a jew as well normalizing depressive things
>implying protesting has ever achieved anything
Fuck off midland shit.
HEY GUYS! HEY GUYS! CAN YOU ANSWER ME THIS? HAVE WOMEN GONE FULL RETARD?
Stop suffering and start living. I have been "alone" for 8 years, barely any sex unless you count paid whores.
I have lots of people in discord whom i talk daily, not any friends, but just people that could be my friends if we could meet daily.
Your feelings are just norms put on you that you feel "loser" if you dont live like everyone else in society.
Fuck that, be alone and your own king!
1. There's thunderstorms
2. Too tired
3. Don't want to be beaten up by police
4. Don't really care about HK/China politics
Go outside and kill some commies you retard!
I just want to keep my head down, finish my studies and get a good job.
Other people can act up, get arrested and have a criminal record.
go to vitamin shoppe and buy some st johns wort.
do not mix with ssri or any other medication.
take that for 8 weeks. it will naturally rebalance your serotonin levels and your mild depression will go away.
you need to couple that with healthy eating and normal night/day schedules and mild exercise like walking a bit every day (4000 steps can be helpful)
that is what happens you cannot ignore people and expect them to always be around. make the effort or you need to get used to being alone.
About right
>23
>had some great friends in high school, meme around joke and stuff
>school moves to new place, authoritarian, can’t really screw around
>lose motivation as a result
> instead of entertaining an excellent career with plenty of friends as I thought I would end up as a virtual alcoholic with an average income in an average place doing nothing productive, and few to no friends.
You’re depressed, just like everyone else ITT. So am I. You’ll learn (as I did) to accept it and live with it like the disability it is.
go hiking/innawoods
>28
>youth fading
>no gf
>no friends
>no progress with life since 19
Who else here /fucked/?
Honestly being at home is worse. I work 60 hour weeks because I would rather be there making money than home doing nothing. I just have no drive anymore. Getting laid is easy, women are terrible creatures, and I can't see dedicating my life to one. So I keep on working like I do. It affords me the ability to spend my money on what I want to and I'm ok with that too. But still, this can't be life. It's not the dream that I was sold as a child. Now it's just routine. I can't be the only one that feels like a heifer at pasture. Just breathing for the sake of breathing. I'm 36 goddamn years old. I don't want to deal with another 4 decades of this bullshit.
>if you don't love yourself, then there's no chance in hell that a female is gonna love you
this actually isnt true, but it definitely helps to have an ego/confidence/self love when trying to get a girl to like you. Women love all kinds of broken men, including rapists, junkies, drug dealers and murderers. That love is totally conditional and fleeting, like all love. The average guy, and even below-average guys with depression and low self-esteem still get a nonzero amount of girlfriends
Go travelling
Jesus loves you, he wants to be your friend.
Talk to the Lord.
Me
You can always turn it around. People respond to talented positive people. You're likely talented can you fake positivity?
>I would rather be there making money than home doing nothing
holy fucking why
it sounds like masochism
You're asking a skewed sample. People who don't shitpost on 4chin probably have more prominent social lives.
screen time and tech is killing young men (and women) making them anti-social and docile. if the only time you leave the screen is to go party you are setting yourself up for failure. drop the tech for a week. then try two weeks. then move on from there. go to a gym, go find something outside of the screen and the house to do.
and stop all social media use. social media is causing mass depression.
>22
>losing touch "over the years"
Bathe, get a job, you will meet people there, socialize with them.
Because at work my mind is occupied. When I'm at home it's like a constant tape of my failures playing inside my head. The dreams that I used to have broken and dead in the ground. When I'm at work I have to compartmentalize that all away and smile and take care of people. I've been an RN for 15 years and it's getting to the point where even taking care of people feels like I'm carving out a piece of my soul for each one of them.
I'd rather be at work than home on my own, my colleagues keep asking why I never book holiday
I talked about the past. It was WoW prime time. Over 10 years ago. Now i only work and shitpost. Drugs only occasionaly weed stayed. No real social interaction whatsoever. It might be to late for me.
your mind is made up
Between 18 and 28, most young men are relatively unattractive to women their own age who are looking for older men.
Hit on 30something females, they need partners and start looking seriously for a man around then.
The switchover is at 29.
Be aware they are looking for someone who earns, and who wants kids though.
pic related.
You want progress ? What is that ? The illusion of security a human creature builds around itself with pieces of sticks and stones ? The comfy nest it dies in ?
You are an animal, you ate and drank today, once upon a time you fucked a female, there is no predator nearby, and you are alive, life is good and opportunity awaits, stop thinking so hard and go bite, screw or eat something.
There is nothing more until you have kids, then you get to feel terrified all day and obsess over these same mental concerns for small versions of yourself too.
We were told not to eat from the tree, we were warned for our own good not to think too fucking hard, we didn't listen and now you get heart-burn digesting that apple.
Simplify.
Work takes your mind off shit
A dog helps a lot. Keeps me from feeling alone. Plus they need you, so you have the feeling of taking care of something
>You're likely talented can you fake positivity?
Faking a smile and lying to yourself hurts more than just telling someone off with the truth.
At least for me.
were you a CNA beforehand? And how did that go