Let's start a real Gentle Femdom & Role Reversal thread this time!
What is Gentle Femdom? A special variation of Femdom in the BDSM world. Where pain, humiliation, and embarrassment, are switched for sweetness, praise, and personal growth with another. Essentially, it is a nurturing, motherly version of the typical mean girl in latex slapping a guy's cock for pain and sadistic torture. It's still new, and there is not much of a community since Tumblrs NSFW ban. Let's change that!
What is Role Reversal? A subversion of typical gender roles in a relationship. Where the female leads, and the male is taken care of, as long as he shows appropriate appreciation and effort. A fun dynamic, though, every relationship is different and special. Here is my image folder, it has hundreds of images on this topic. drive.google. com/folderview?id=197k_49yZ-FDnSZy1rNgjQ34lG-WQDtEC
LET'S REVIVE GFD AND RR R9K!
! If you want a GFD GF robotos, don't whine about wanting a cuddle Mommy. It's pathetic. Grow a healthy and loving relationship, where you can open up about your insecurities, such as depression or loneliness. Then, have your partner comfort. Never good to start with your worst side.
>Grow a healthy and loving relationship, where you can open up about your insecurities, such as depression or loneliness. but i have the big autism, what do
Andrew Bailey
Hi guys! im 19/f/usa and im interested in having a guy serve me. im a switch but i mostly want a sub to worship me, compliment me, spoil me, etc. of course youll get some things in exchange like my attention, pictures and my company!!
Anthony Fisher
That doesn't sound like too much of a caring relationship
Isaiah Morgan
>serve me >worship me >spoil me >things in exchange >pictures >company >attention die, slut
Henry Cook
Where are all of the boys who want to throw hands and cover each other in scratches and bruises before giving in and getting molested until their dick hurts?
it's not abuse if it's consensual and safe and you're both having fun
Joseph Jenkins
>Worship and buy me things and you can buy my premium Snapchat and I'll text you once in awhile
Kill yourself not even trollin
Connor King
Sounds exactly like a total degenerate defending his favorite degenerate hobby, like findom for instance.
Joshua Torres
But I want an excitable loving cuddle mommy gf because I'm a loving excitable cuddle little be :(((
Michael Baker
no, because there is no way to do findom in a safe way
Hudson Phillips
eh but it's violence one way or another. i just tried to get my point across
Jonathan Foster
what makes you worth serving unironically, what do you have to offer?
At least that predator obsessed with cute voices is nice and seems somewhat interesting.
Colton Nelson
What exactly are you guys making these threads for? You really think a woman is going to not only come to r9k of all boards, pick a niche and pathetic fetish thread called gentle femdom to look at, and then pick you out of all other possible Anons on this website to be her boyfriend?
well i wasn't the one that made the thread. and it's a topic i like and sometimes there's good conversation about it and not only the horny guys searching for gfs. pics are also nice. at least to me it's not really about finding a girl that'll pick me from here but more like just a nice topic i like seeing talked about. and if there are some actual femanons i guess it keeps my hope alive this isn't entirely impossible to get a relationship like this.
Liam Collins
pretty much, it's mostly for cheering up to see that it's not completely hopeless and to sometimes talk to someone
Kayden Butler
>attractive female >asian >lewd pics if i trust you >attention >flirting
Anthony Scott
>asian Dropped, actually disgusting
Jonathan Flores
thats ok! ill attract some weebs atleast
Xavier Taylor
These are all things you can get out of a visual novel you know
None of these things actually tell me anything about you, you know? Why should I talk to you?
Jayden Gomez
Would you spank me though
Liam Gonzalez
i think im very friendly and can carry conversations well. if u wanna get to know me better we can talk privately. if i could i would
Ryder Flores
>I'm friendly >I can hold a conversation That's still not very much, yknow. Not enough to be some sort of e-girl or get me interested. If we were meeting in person, that combined with being a pretty Asian girl would be enough to convince me to probably go along with a lot of stuff. But online isn't like that.
Your personality is most important. And you really haven't shown any, except being a little smug, which admittedly I do like.
I'll pass, sorry. But I'm sure you'll find a nice weeb.
Brody Diaz
understandable! if anyone else is interested: i think im super girly and also have lots of feelings. i like banter and teasing and joking a lot.
Cooper Davis
I hate banter and teasing I just want a loyal companion
Ooh I love asians. You ladies are so gorgeous and so much fun to talk to
Jace Bailey
>See this post >See it has many replies >Expect them to be SIMPS posting discords for a chance at coochie >They're actually rejecting her and calling her a whore
The problem with femdom is that there are so many dishonest people trying to take advantage of you. So you have to be careful.
Also, I think it's better to go on the offensive, rather than aiming to please her straight away. Think about it this way, who's more fun to dominate? The guy who comes up to you and says "uwahh mistress let me lick your feet" or the one who asks "why should I submit to YOU?".
Justin Watson
As someone who is new to this, what things should one be careful about?
Connor Lee
Weird how a bunch of dudes who get off to being dominated by a woman are some of the first to call out thots.
Michael Miller
Gfd and Findom are two very different things, women have like 80iq though and can't differentiate.
Samuel Sullivan
But it's done with love.
Austin Powell
DO NOT REVEAL OUR SECRETS THOTS ARE LOOKING FOR A WEAKNESS
Basically, if someone isn't interesting and can't convince you that they know what they're doing (inexperience is okay, of course) or that they have your best interests at heart, just watch out.
This, by the way, goes for basically all domination stuff, male or female led.
Parker Carter
How to contact you my darling?
Sebastian Young
Please leave this thread you fucking whore. We want a loving, gfd thread. Not fucking findom. Holy fuck you vultures run rampant in these threads. Stop preying on innocent robots.
Brandon Perez
Can you all stop being so hostile, you can surely reject someone more gently too. Maybe that's why you don't have a nice gfd gf who spoils you.
Don't listen to this idiot. Even gfd girls will ghost your ass. Don't open up and be vulnerable to these people. It'll only end in your suffering while she moves on and finds a new sub to break.
Hudson Perez
Kill yourself faggot. Contactfags like you, giving these women attention are why r9k sucks. You are worse than the trannies.
Nathaniel Perez
At the end of the day regardless of kink or fetish, women want an attractive chad to give their love too.
There's no place for the rest. Well except maybe as one of several hundred orbiters for a shitty egirl.
In my ~3 years of lurking gfd threads across various boards, this might be the lowest bar I've ever seen. You bring absolutely nothing enticing to the table, at least nothing that most people can't get for free and/or in person. I have almost zero social skills and I can go to a bar and get almost all of that from some random broad after 10 minutes, save for the lewd pics. Whether or not she's Asian is a crapshoot and frankly irrelevant. In short: Get bent.
Liam Gonzalez
To get dominated you have to let yourself be vulnerable. It's very hard to let yourself be vulnerable if you feel that people want to take advantage of you. It's either that or the opposite and you're so desperate that you act recklessly.
It's why male subs tend to be either ice queens or complete fucking losers. We've seen both in this thread.
Michael Robinson
>To get dominated you have to let yourself be vulnerable
You came into my server last week and I saw you on fetlife. I appreciate how active you are. It makes me want to get back into gfd. Thanks for reawakening the interest.
No, what you're suggesting is submission, and that's for angry femnazis and trannies
Jaxson White
>im a switch D R O P P E D
Jayden Rogers
She can just love us while she waits for chad. Something is better than nothing. Beggars can't be choosers.
Jonathan Johnson
That sounds like tons of fun but years of constant jerking off have probably given me alot of resilience in having my dick hurt from that. Would welcome it though
A million times this. I just come to talk in these threads. The anonymous aspects makes people say what they really think.
I have a fantasy. To keep a sub boy in chastity and train him. I manipulate him psychologically so he learns to wait on me hand and foot. I'm bratty and demanding constantly. I tell him in order to have sex with me he has to do everything right. He becomes obsessed with figuring out how to please me. I use a lot of manipulative tactics to keep him thinking I'm so much better than him.
Secretly what I'm not telling him is that I'm obsessed with him. To the point of actual stalking. I masturbate to him all the time but I can't let him know how badly I desire him or I'll lose power. That includes praising him. I have a massive giving praise fetish but I realized if I give it out too freely that's not "dom" to other people. It makes you look too available.
It took me a long time to distinguish gfd from regular domming since often the same rules apply as just regular domming. I always figured gfd leaned in towards rr more where the woman gets to take on the role of the man by pursuing. By being predatory towards him. But I was wrong and the same sexual market place dynamics still apply in gfd where who ever wants the relationship more has less power as well just by virtue of wanting it.
Not gonna lie, that sounds a bit abusive. But also really, really amazing. I'd love it. Just how would you have him serve you? Do be more detailed.
Xavier Myers
I'm a degenerate and I can and have masturbated for 6 hours straight. I don't have a refractory period like you dumb boys either. You will lose in every way, that's a guarantee. Just sayin'.
Stupid stuff like fetching me things and stuff like that. Doing stuff for me.
Well entering into gfd stuff I always thought that pursuing a guy and making him feel special was what turned me on. And I think that role reversal desire is what really fueled the praise fantasies. I just get turned on dishing out praise. Also some of what OP talks about in some of his posts but slightly less mommy leaning and more butchy tomboy leaning like me just doing things to make him feel special and beautiful. Things that normally a guy would do to a girl like giving him flowers and planning things out.
But actually interacting with guys in gfd has taught me differently. If you are too nice it appears as if you don't covet yourself enough. You give the appearance of being too available. Almost like the type of 'beta' that girls 'friendzone'.
Eventually I learned that most men's concepts of domination had to do with denial & cruelty rather than pursuit or generosity.
But the desire where I want to possess him is still there thus the hidden obsessed side.
Ask a beggar to choose from a poisoned sandwhich and a half eaten one. They will take the half eaten one. Of course you can be choosy if the options you have are detrimental to you.
Aaron Ross
Maybe in that situation. But if you're in a situation where you either starve or eat out of a rubbish bin, then what choose do you have really?
Noah Davis
>But actually interacting with guys in gfd has taught me differently.
So not only are you here trying to tell others what they like, but you basically want a slave you can manipulate into buying you things and doing you favors on demand to get a chance at praise or sex?
And you are different from other women how?
Christian Sanders
Been in this situation myself actually, I went with starvation.
Sucks I had a gfd who would add a little humiliation and loving into it. I get panty and excited when I remember but now without her porn just doesnt do anything for me anymore. And finding another is almost impossible. Fuck this gay ass world.
True you always have a choose and if it's just to starve for a day then no problem. But you will die if you say go for a month without food. So eventually, if you're starving and you have no food except from a rubbish bin... then literally your only options are either eat the scraps from the bin or die. Technically you're right, it's still a choice. But that's a fucked up choice man.
Christopher Foster
I meant panting. And no. Only for mommy.
Carter Howard
Have you even seen what people throw away? Hell some smarter ones hang around places that throw perfectly good food away. You can be choosy.
Jackson Gray
Well I was in a 6 year long gfd relationship that helped mold my views about this.
>And you are different from other women how? That's exactly what I mean though. I learned in the end that the valued denial and cruelty over what I thought made our relationship great which was me doting on him & loving him. It's very rare for a woman to want to take on the roles of the man in the relationship and straight guys actually don't WANT that. They want domination but still where it's female flavored which comes in the form of denial. Since female power is subversive.
Well I imagine it like since he's in chastity he's just going to be servicing me with small favors like taking me places and buying me things and if we are together constantly fetching me things and holding doors open for me etc.
The guy I was with was happiest when I treated him this way even though it never came naturally to me. After we were together for a long time I was much less like this and doting on him more and that's when he lost interest. Whoever wants the relationship more loses power.
She would keep me in chastity and then tease me lots. Make a little fun that I can't touch myself while she and rub and let me listen or watch while I struggle desperately for her. You don't need services and money to do things like this. Fuck I miss that.
Justin Hall
tragic u_u;
Ethan Hall
I know what you meant and that's exactly what I want now record panty for mommy
Zachary Harris
The dynamic starts long before we get to any sexual points though.
Do you enjoy doting? Or do you enjoy the cruelty aspect?
Ayden Butler
>Well I imagine it like since he's in chastity he's just going to be servicing me with small favors like taking me places and buying me things and if we are together constantly fetching me things and holding doors open for me etc. I mean that's cute and all, but what about putting handcuffs and anklecuffs on him, stripping him and putting an apron on him and asking him to cook for you? What about having him bathe you like that, having him shave your body and rub lotion all over your body?
haha it's just ideas haha
Hudson Campbell
stappphh trying to tease me user larper. It isn't nice.
Jason Anderson
That's not /gfd/ that's just being a controlling cunt
Xavier Martinez
>manipulative dom Boring. Where my brute force doms at?
Ryder Wood
I can't stand the cruelty at all but I've resigned myself to creating an alter super ego where I can act ways counter to my intuition in order to control him.Then after time I'll get to treat him how I really want which is with doting loving affection, but only after he's completely brainwashed by typical feminine manipulation to be mine.
I feel sad that it's not socially acceptable for me to actively pursue him the way I wish I could & express my desires openly & aggressively; the way a man would. But that's just how relationship economics is.
I know you have! It's why I'm so sad you're not posting it again. Have I not been a good enough dumb boy?
Brandon Kelly
Women are literally incapable of brute forcing any thing. Physically or emotionally.
Zachary Wright
I mean, I would like doting. If any force is used I think it should be just natural on your part (like in bed).
Aiden Reed
Wish a girl would sit on my face desu
Connor Stewart
>What about having him bathe you like that, having him shave your body and rub lotion all over your body? Like what? Touching me at all would be a reward not a task. In theory. So it would take a lot of completed to my liking tasks before I let him do that.
>add girl on discord from femdom thread who was pining for someone near her who was into same things >im in same state, into same things, and match physical type she described >she accepts my request, I tell her what I just said above, but she never replies to me why
Jack Ward
of course, it would be a "task" disguised as a reward
