So,I met this girl on a dating website, who's around a 4/10 but she can be a 7/10 easily if she lost like 20 pounds, (pic related if she did, just with more of a chubby face). She's into anime, vidya, horrors and 80s comedy and also The Smiths, I've genuinely never met a girl so perfect, she lives like an hour away from me, but she's moving to Warwick which is roughly the same distance. We called and talked and talked and talked, until we suddenly started talking about previous lovers, she told me she only had one boyfriend in the past and I told her, i've had not really any girlfriends in the last 3 years. she said >If you ever need advice with women just ask me WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?? I THOUGHT EVERYTHING WAS GOING WELL, WE LIVE CLOSE, WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON, IM MORE FUCKING ATTRACTIVE THAN HER AND I'M SO FUCKING NICE TO HER, WHY IS THIS FUCKING HAPPENING, SERIOUSLY, WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED?
>Inb4 she's a slut She's had only one boyfriend in her life, and she watches anime and studies Psychology also got an A* in maths and english
>I told her, i've had not really any girlfriends in the last 3 years. u told her ur an incel, no wonder she bailed
Kevin Wright
you were "nice to her" - there's your problem.
Asher Cook
This isn't a plausible reason to give up on me, we had so much chemistry, could this really be the reason, user? Could a girl really be this petty?
Josiah Morales
>she only had 1 boyfriend >her being a slut is unlikely How naive
Brandon Turner
>Could a girl really be this petty? You must not know many girls, huh user
Colton Sullivan
Fuck you user, i'm not falling for you shitty chad dilema shit, why would be a confident cunt score you women, yes I've seen the social experiments, but we're talking about a relationship, not a quick fuck.
Ryder Cruz
>This isn't a plausible reason are u serious? for a woman, even if virgin let's say, hearing you are unsuccessful with other women makes her dry up like a prune and instantly see you as non sexual and grotesque
lemme redpill u further, even YOUR WIFE and GF wanna see other women give glances at u bc women constantly need to be reassured they made the right choice and also women libido is fueled by other women libido
further, women barely like men physically, to know if they do they judge by other women's opinion
which is why some really ugly guys slay tons in some social circles bc they had a snowball effect and got popular
Gavin Russell
Well, she's 19, so I didn't expect her not to have at least one in the past.
Robert Young
OP, I think you still have a chance with her. You need to show to her that you have interest in her. What she said about helping you with girls is likely because you've never shown romantic interest in her, so she assumes you want nothing with her. You have to be flirtatious with a girl if you want her to know you're interested. Otherwise you're just going to get friend-zoned.
Liam Nelson
I suppose I did say the wrong thing. Too late now though user, I wouldn't suppose you had a way to bounce back from this, she still talks to me, so I hope I can get out of this bubble that she's placed me in so I can maybe have a chance with her.
Elijah Morris
I do, I compliment her, call her cute and other stuff, if I do anything more than that, i'll be seen as forceful or creepy in her eyes. btw she also said, if she wanted to go out, she'd want to go to a club, what does this mean, I pondered about it, and came to the conclusion that she'd like to get drunk and go back to an appartment or something, maybe it's because she doesnt want to be alone with me at the same time though.
Thomas Walker
just pretend it didn't happen and be cool and then ask her out in a bit
even if she thinks in a friendly manner, just get her drunk and her inhibition will vanish
William Ortiz
Easier said than done, before I do that, I'll have to make sure she feels the same way, otherwise it will damage our relationship even more, and what she said there, isn't a good sign.
Parker Myers
nigga it's just some fat chick u met on a dating site, what relationship if she says no then move on
Kevin Clark
Fuck you, I rarely get anything like this, is it so wrong I want to keep it.
Luis Rivera
lol this is your problem right here.
you are trying to "protect" something that doesn't even exist (a relationship with her).
Lucifer is right. if she says no, then you move on. if she says yes, you're in.
Jason Peterson
Compliments aren't flirting you idiot. Calling her cute isn't flirting either. You have to be sassy and show a little bit of a sex drive. Goddamn herbivore men.
Eli Clark
Okay, I see where you're coming at, but the thing is you dont see where im coming at. I can't just move on, we're literally perfect for eachother, I doubt I'll find another girl like her. so am I an idiot for trying to protect that, maybe, but I will nonetheless.
Robert Wood
the issue is this attachment and fear of losing a chance is probably making u come off as an even bigger incel
>we're literally perfect for eachother u are borderline delusional man
Daniel Rivera
>A* in maths and english are you saying this mean something lol?
Ayden Butler
ask how to make a girl happy or some shit and then do that to/with her in a few days/week. Observe her reaction and report back here, soldier
