Im Therapynon. I can talk with you about what's weighing you down right now. What's bothering you today, user?

Why do I feel different and alienated from all my peers ever since I was a child?

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I can't give my personal opinion on your looks, user, but to determine this all you must do is face yourself in the mirror. Examine yourself. If this doesnt work, ask those you trust. Family, close firends, and so on. Outside opinio ns are perfect for such dilemmas.

I feel the same way, user. I have this feeling too. Is this universe just one giant alien simulation? Are there higher powers? Are we robots? Nobody knows.

My classes started today and it was horrible. I didnt talk to anyone all day and everyone is loud and most already have friend groups. I don't know if I can do this anymore. It's only been a day too. The loneliness is just so damn hard to deal with.

Applied for a job with a big pharma company two weeks ago. First a phone interview, then in person a few days later. It's been two weeks. Tried following up both via phone and email. No reply. Why don't people have the balls to tell you no anymore. I hate this ghosting culture. I just want a definite answer yes or no. It feels like very much rejection but it eats away at me not knowing for sure. How do I cope? I hate my job. I hate every job I've been at for years. What's a rewarding industry I can get into without much experience?

This is something we could work on. The first, and most important thing in social situations is to think about what you say before you say it. Simply blurting out the first thing that comes to mind is not the best tactic. Think about your answer before you reply, and you'll make some progress.

I'm starting to get my life together, and I feel like I'm starting to become a better person overall over the past 2 months. I still feel like I'm missing a lot of pieces in my life, but honestly I'm still young, at 21, and wish to live life to my fullest. As soon as I get the opportunity, I want to move out of state and pursue other things. There's a lot I still need to do, and I was wondering if you had any good life tips.

I have healthy relationships down, but I still have a bit of a sour attitude when I'm angry. Is there anything I can do to improve that aspect of myself?

I feel like my life is falling apart and dont even know where to begin in asking for help, yet objectively I can see that everything is fine and I'm probably overthinking a lot of my issues. I'm sitting here after talking to my boss about quitting my 110k salary job because its "too stressful" when I know for a fact the environment I'm working in and the team I'm working with are pretty great and laid back. And yet I'm ruining it all because I'm running away instead of facing challenges head on. I feel like I'm losing my mind over nothing.

>CIA starts giving us therapy
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And so does everyone else. I do, your parents do, your peers do, hell even the Chads do. But keep in mind, you're remembering these things because you have grown as a person. You've moved on from those embarrsing times and have become more respectable as a person. It's really nothing to kill yourself over.

Suicide fuel is right user. That sort of stuff always happens to me when i'm trying to go to sleep, and it just makes me shiver and groan and clench my teeth.

I dunno I look perfect to myself when ever I take a long time looking at myself in the mirror while shaving but sometimes it all crumples down and I feel like I look like shit and I have to hide my face
Im probably above average at worst but Im paranoid about everything in my life that I can never be confident to myself

Sometimes people are just different. It can't be helped. The best thing to do is to try and find someone who shares your thoughts and interests. It's risky, but it's the best thing for it.

A lot of people feel the exact same way. Perhpas there's someone in your classes that feel the same? If you can spot them out, and start up a conversation, you could find a close friend without even realizing.

I can't necessarily help you find a job, user, that's something to deal with on your own. But just know that if they don't have the balls to tell you "no" and ghost you instead, you probably dodged a bullet.

I gave this advice to another user in this thread. When in one of your attitudes, it's best to think about what you say before saying it. Blurting out the first thing in your mind could come across as harmful and may ruin those healthy relationships. Another way is to find a good way to calm yourself when angry. Deep breathing, stress balls and so on can help sooth anger. I'm glad youre going down the right route user, and i hope you do well in future endeavours.

All i can say is that you have to fight back your conscience and face your challenges head on, as you said. Nothing can change you but you.

When these moments of crumpling happen, i recommend fighting back against your emotions, and denying the fact that you feel negatively about your looks. Tell yourself "No, I DO look okay! I Look great and that's all i'll ever be!" or something like that. Confidently expressing your positives to yourself in your head or in a mirror is a great way to fight these emotions.

Why can I only show affection through buying others things and/or body contact? Additionally, why do I always loose interest in my partners midway into my relationships?

Showing affection through gifts and body contact could be quite normal, but if you're not adding verbal affection like compliments and such, things may start to fall apart.

When it comes to losing interest in your partners, the only thing i can say for sure is that you haven't found the right person yet. Someone who shares ALL your interests and hobbies and such. Keep searching. You'll get there eventually.

If I might add a follow up question: I want to get with a guy who I immensely like. I truly believe I would be good, honest and faithful (not that I ever had problems with that) for and towards.
Yet he is in a relationship with a girl from America. The chances they will ever meet or even truly love eachother are slim to none (he is belgian). Is it bad I want them to break up, so that I can be with him?
It's not nice, I know that much, yet I can't help but think I'd be better for him.

Wanting to break up a relationship, no matter HOW weak it is, is a dick move. Your best bet is to wait for things to fizzle out, if possible. If not, tough luck, it can't be helped.

At what point, do you think someone is being a pushover, vs being courteous and considerate?

My parents make me to go to therapy every week and I hate it. How do I politely ask them to cancel the meetings.

Hey OP, you got time for a mental evaluation? I'm on the road right now and this thread is about to go, but if you got time let me know!

After trying to smoke every 2 hours I started smoking every 45 minutes then after trying to do every hour and a half I went down to every 30 minutes. I also keep borrowing money for energy drinks even though I don't want to. What's your best advice for addictions?

A girl I used to like in high school is dating a guy I used to work with and I'm getting physical anxiety over how alone I've been my entire life and will be for the rest of it

What do I do when I feel that every word I hear that I can't quite grasp is a part of a terrible attack on me. What do they talk about? I think I have a normal relationship with my housemates, but they're so devilish seeming when they're amongst themselves. Do normal people talk like I hear how they're talking