Why do I always feel like my gf is cheating on me...

Why do I always feel like my gf is cheating on me? We had problems in the beginning of our relationship where we split but we got back together. She fucked a bunch of dudes during that split though and thinking about other dudes pounding her has just made me constantly anxious since. We've both changed and she really got her shit together but damn, sometimes I feel like she was having the time of her life while I was trying my best not to off myself. I knew I was a piece of shit to her too then though. I love her, I just want to stop staying up all night thinking about Chads railing her when I'm not with her. What do

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Fuck knows man. I'm useless with others. Hopefully there's anons that can help.

She's already tainted in your eyes. Why did you go back with her even though she took a ton of chads dicks? She didn't cheat on you but it's obvious you can't think about her the same way after knowing what she has done. The only thing to do is let her go and find another girl.

>we split but we got back together. She fucked a bunch of dudes during that split though

Gee I wonder why..

she probably is cheating on you bro, sorry.

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OP if you had problems at the beginning, you probably should have just stayed apart. you'll have to break up with her all over again now

we get along incredibly well. I'm proud to call her my gf. We've grown a lot as a couple but this shit still lingers. She's worth too much to me to let go and it's not because she's an easy fuck. Finding another girl would just be giving up on everything we've worked on together. I just want to stop letting it get to me everytime I feel close to letting it go.

What he said.
Having the knowledge (and unwanted visualization) of her taking dicks while you were at your worst put an inerasable strain on your relationship.

That is how bitches are, they only provide love, comfort, warmth and the cutesy submissiveness to you when you are at your best or at least good enough.

Try to get depressed and well you yourself know what happens. Leg spreading time! Letting chad hit her tonsils with his dick and shooting his cum down her throat while she slurps it all up.

Of course those guys want nothing to do with such a skank long term so they use her like the piece of meat she makes herself to be and then move on to the next whore.

Meanwhile you (kind of) fought for your life, alone, no support, nothing.

Once you defeated your own demons and got your life back on track, GUESS WHOS BACK BABY!

God i hate women.

how many guys did she fuck during the split

imagine even thinking about your ex when its over. that is retarded. they shouldn't even exist to you after that point. trust me. i know.
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This but less incel

That'd be volcel, thank you very much.

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I didn't fuck a single chick because I was too torn from the break. I got too many details of what happened with them though so her words have just stuck w me. She tells me to forget about it and that we're different and I believe it but at the same time I feel like it's too good to be true.

>we're different
You are, they didnt settle for cum guzzling skank
>I didn't fuck a single chick because I was too torn from the break
In other words she was the only thing on your mind, while the only thing on her mind was spread eagle for random guys
>I got too many details of what happened with them though
Haha, ever heard of the "putting salt to a wound" expression?
>She tells me to forget about it
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how long was the split

Almost every woman was pounded by 12 chads at some point and can't feel anything anymore
Best way to deal with this is to forget about emotional attachment forever.

Just accept the fact that if you're a man and a non-chad you will always have the short end of the stick in relationships.
There is no perfect loving loyal women, this doesn't exist, it's a fantasy. We want it, but it was never real. Every woman is a whore by nature.

please tell us some of the details user :3

too torn from the break up lol, as if you would have gotten any bitches you incel beta orbiter

I'm a sperg and I have oneitis

Let me ask you this OP
What exactly is the difference between her being fucked like a whore when you were "split" and her cheating on you rn?
Is it the verbal agreement that you are "together" atm?
In truth there is no difference, she was and still is the same cum guzzling whore

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She's that quick to forget any pain from the relationship and fuck as many guys as she can, while in the mean time you're depressed as shit. Look personally I would've not gotten back together with her but as you said you feel as if your relationship has progressed and matured, that's fair enough but you need to understand you're not over reacting when you have suspicion of cheating. She did fuck many guys and moved on from you quickly enough, you now know her capabilities at obtaining other men if she wanted to, be very cautious not to the point where it's noticeable but just keep tabs. I think you're mostly concerned about losing in this partnership and returning to a lonely depressed state which I can understand, although you need to be respecting yourself and not allow any disloyalty. Possibly test her? and see where you stand, any guy would be this worried over what happened, it's not like she fucked only one guy it was five user that's real whorish behavior, anyway run a test on her see if she takes the b8 if not then try to worry less

This is the hard truth, OP. Don't let it get you down. You need to FORGET about her. Drop it altogether. She is WORTHLESS. You should feel NOTHING.

because you're obviously dating a whore?
you're probably right user

Grow a fucking spine and tell her the truth like this user said
>In other words she was the only thing on your mind, while the only thing on her mind was spread eagle for random guys

Also be sure to remind her of her worthlessness.

Just so you know she's cheating on you with someone better looking and only using you for the money.
One day you will kill yourself because of this.

Thank you user
Honestly I've ran tests and she's passed. Now I'm just ashamed for being so paranoid and I'm not respecting the changes she's made. She showers me in love I'm just scared as shit to feel comfortable with her again.

No need to be ashamed and it's not paranoia only reasonable suspicion, the point is you may never get over it and will be constantly questioning her loyalty, which isn't going too far in regards to respecting her. Everyone saying to just drop her doesn't see her the same way you do, and I truly believe she's earned a place back in your life just as you said, stick with your spidey senses and you'll be fine. Please don't act desperate/clingy or controlling ok?

>earned a place back in your life
By abandoning him at his worst and then telling him in detail how she was getting drilled by all these guys while he was questioning suicide?

Yep, most def earned her place

why the fuck are you posting here if you have a gf? Get the fuck out you normie cucked retard

Thanks for having my back user, those were words I needed to hear.

>those were words I needed to hear
Wrong you idiot, those are the words you WANTED to hear.

how long was yall split up

based as fuck
OP, please stop deluding yourself

let me give you a different perspective OP

if i love a guy, even before we make things official and/or after a break up, i cannot let a guy touch me. i cannot comprehend this

however, i have been in dating situations, not in love yet, and while angry i have had sex with a few other guys and even started dating the other guy again but if i am honest with myself i didn't love him and it didn't last. i do understand he can't get past it how could anyone really.

so at least for me when i love a guy my legs are closed. perhaps she just isn't mature enough to know the difference

good luck with your struggle

>those are the words you WANTED to hear
concur

Just wanted to say, kudos for being decent human being and not 21st century skank/fuckboi.

Youll find someone worthy, i hope. Except opposites attract so maybe not.

thanks, real love is really hard to find so why pretend and waste your life being miserable

all of us need to be careful throwing the love word around

The fact you have a scarcity mindset means you are beta which means your gf would definitely cheat on you. Just cut your losses before you get more attached and end up hurting yourself or her

lol. because she is

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yeah, OP will accept anything to be with her

you realize you are one misunderstanding, one argument away from her running off again? you are convinced you are the bad guy and she justified and now walk on eggshells in fear. she has you right were she wants you. Just so you know this is not love.

negro, what was the time frame in which she got railed by the 5 guys?

You keep saying she is too valuable to dump.

Explain what you mean by this. List the things you think she has that no other girl has. You are idealizing this girl and thinking she is super unique.

>I knew I was a piece of shit to her
unless you fucked her sister nothing justifies her rutting with these guys

Bro I'm about to use some facts and logic now
If you still wanna stay with here even after this thread I'd highly recommend that you voice your concerns and troubles to her, if you get any reaponse that doesn't satisfy you then I'd say completely leave her, ross and rachel don't exist irl.

If however you change your mind which you should desu, I'd suggest damging her equally or worse my friend! Or your self image will be kinda shit for a long while

This every fucking time. He ignores ALL the other posts and goes for the one he was hoping for. There's always that one chump enabler user with those sweet words if you just bait long enough

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and notice OP left soon as he got what he wanted to hear

Had a similar-ish situation where me and my (now ex) gf weren't yet official, but were trading I love yous and talking about an eventual marriage and family, and one day she tries to start shit with me for no reason, and I just don't let it happen at all, I bury that hoe in affection, and she says "Stop. I fucked someone." And boy o boy was it not pleasant. It was by far the worst feel of my life, never forgave it but I carried on. Eventually we got together and I was moving on, but then we got drunk one night and talked about it properly and it turned out she didn't care about that at all, because "we weren't together" and she never even thinks about it. Her big "redemption" was "we don't talk on facebook" and pretty much as far as she was concerned, it's all in the past. Well, she doesn't get to decide that. Not after I spent over a year having nightmares about shit like that happening again, and not when I thought about it every fucking day. Feminiggers are the worst of the devil's servants.

All this mega gay shit.

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what's with all the low IQ dudes not seeing when they're getting played?