I'm 20 and I don't think i'll ever lose it normally. Any tips? Should I try and get a prescription for anti-anxiety meds so I don't freeze up? I pussied out the last time I went and I don't want that to happen again.
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
bump origeokdels
Ya dude just take shortcuts every chance you get. Play hard, work later
I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. Either way if it is a legitimate shortcut it sounds good to me.
It's better to die a virgin than lose it to a prostitute. Because after having sex you think to yourself "thats it?". Don't do it, you'll regret it imensely. Do you really want to say you lost it to a prostitute, a woman who's slept with thousands of guys. Save it for that special someone, people on this board say there is no one like that but there is trust me. Save it for someone.
No, you are still young. You should wait till 24, if you don't find somebody you love, then just buy for sex.
Don't want to live that long though.
That would be pretty bad if it did happen. But what am I supposed to do? I'm not good looking (been called ugly by a lot and cute by some) and I have severe social anxiety.
I know user, but take my advice and trust me, you'll thank yourself when you're older. Losing it to a woman who doesn't give a shit about you and sees you as a customer, do not. When I was your age talking to girls is hard, but just talk to them.
If the cost doesn't bother you, then do it. It's sort of fun, but it would be a lot better to have requited sex that's free.
Still, you may as well find out what the fuss is all about, and it will make you better for your actual first time, if you even have a first time. It doesn't matter who you lose your virginity to, it doesn't have to be special (because no-one's first time is special, it's just a bit awkward).
All that's going to happen is that OP will pay this prostitute and he will last two seconds even tho he paid an hour and she'll laugh and shoo him away. I'd say it's better to do that with someone you trust.
haha. I'm gonna only get a 30 min session because i'm aware of that happening.
you will finish as soon as you touch her vagina. if you want to do it that bad, i cant stop you
>Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Yes, you should. Just make sure of finding an attractive whore and pay only for half an hour. Don't bother listen to the incels or roasties of this board, virginity is not a big deal for men.
Any tips? originals
Uhm, if you want to last longer drink a bit of alcohol but not too much otherwise you wont get hard, masturbate an hour before and take deep breathes.
the brothel in my area has 4.4 stars rating on google kek.
buy gas station viagra. go see an asian massage girl.
Awesome, what are you even waiting for?
I needa clear up my anxiety.
What if it was the prostitutes first time and she is a virgin
No one cares. Who will judge you? Women who won't even fuck you. So stop giving a fuck.
I'm an escortcel. I fuck a hooker every week. It's a real addiction. Legal here, so no trouble finding ones and reading reviews. I write reviews too.
Don't bring more money than you'll spend. She wants the extra $$ if she sees the bills in your wallet. Leave valuables in your car. I only have the money and car keys on me. Never trust a hooker to not steal from you.
The most important thing to remember is: You are nothing special. You are just a wallet to her. Even if she calls you sexy, handsome and good looking. It's all an act. Never forget that. She'll praise you and your dick game but as soon as the time is over you are a nobody again. In that sense it's not real. But betabuxxing for a girl is no real appreciation either, so don't worry about that.
Tell her how long and what you want to do to avoid her saying no or wanting extra. My standard is: "30 minutes, licking, kissing." and sometimes "you want condom?" if I feel like going in raw. It's safer than with club sluts because people will write once they catch something and a hooker needs to be clean to keep getting money. No one stays with a hooker that smells like rotten fish. It's still a gamble but I get horny and my brain shuts off. One day I'll get aids from a ladyboy or some shit but #yolo.
Op here. Is $65/30mins a good price?
Standard in my area. Full service.
If I go to a $90/30min brothel will the girls be better looking or is it all the same?
Thank you for the reality pill based user.
Price does not reflect quality. My best fucks were all 50 Euros for 30 minutes. I never pay 80430 (only for ladyboys but most of the time I only put 70 in my pocket and they say it's okay). The service will cost $200 if they see $200 in your wallet.
Take it or leave it is my motto. And it works for both sides. Never try to haggle the price - unless they want more than usual. If standard is 50430 and they want 80 tell them to fuck off and show them the 50 Euro bill. Most will say yes, others say no. You'll most likely get worse service if you haggle. But don't let them rip you off either.
No need to try to act cool or tough. They'll see through your bullshit. No need to flirt either. You don't need "game" with hookers and it won't bring you a bonus. Never excpet a bonus. Just treat them with respect and you're fine. It's not different from say getting a massage or any other service. It's JUST sex.
Yes, there's nothing special about it. The Disney love is everything facade will crumble after fucking a few hookers. There are only so much gaped assholes you can sniff and finger before seeing them as nothing but tasty holes to lick.
The only thing that really changed for me was: It killed my interest in "regular" girls. Sure, I'd fuck almost every women that would show interest but none do. I'm not attractive. But I don't care either because the next 8/10 teenie riding on my dick is just a car drive and 50 Euro away.
And you'll lose your fear. You'll stop being afraid of women because you've seen so much gaped pussies that it's not funny anymore if you keep at it.You got nothing to lose after that. You know how a roastie looks, tastes, smells, etc.
And believe me. EVERY guy has been to a hooker at least once. It's nothing special. Especially on weekends after clubs all the goes go there who couldn't pull pussy on the dancefloor. You know who says don't do it and tells you that hookers are nasty and a waste of money? Those who didn't fuck one.
There's ZERO difference between a "regular" girl and a hooker. The only difference you'll notice during sex is that most of the time the hooker knows what she's doing and the sex is way, way better. It's her job to get you off fast and good so the next customer can come in.
yeah lets just throw money at some girl for dates so maybe she'll lay you! that'll totally be cheaper!
movie night? concerts? dinner?
you'll pay for an event, and if she feels like it, she'll try to convince you to pay for more events (maybe even in the same day).
solid advice
You need to grow up mate, if you see sex as only for pleasure you're going to be very disappointed. I guess you're no older than 16. I know you think you're so enlightened and shit but you're just a dumb stupid little shit kid who thinks he has it figured out. If you want sex for purely sex, then do not ever come back crying because you're addicted to the empty pleasure of fucking cheap prostitutes while I have a girlfriend who provides much more than sex.
Let me tell you my experience, OP.
I had my first time with a prostitute last year, in a 3rd world cabaret. I had my fatty friend with me and his weird acquaintance, we traveled for like an hour to get to that shithole gomorra-like cramped little hell, really small place, full of niggers and construction workers, plus, all the available whores where really fucking ugly.
I paid the equivalent of $19.57 for 20 minutes. I did not wanted to pay the equivalent of $ 29.36 for the whole hour because was imagining i was only going to last 2 or 3 minutes until i finally cum. Turns out that i fucked that ugly shallow pussy shitskin skinny whore for the whole 20 minutes in different positions and i did not even cum. I got really nervous and somewhat disgusted with myself throughout the act and my weewee went soft 3 times. Besides that, i learned how terrible condoms feel.
When i came out in a mix of shame, anger and disgust within me, i encountered my dear fatty friend. He told me that he came in 2 minutes and licked the hoe's pussy, not even realizing how fucking disgusting and dangerous that is. I told him about my failure and we laughed at each-other. He is a cool guy. The weird acquaintance paid for the 20 minutes and just got the whore's number because he wanted to lick her feet. He didn't even do it, he just chatted with her to get her number. Weird fella that one. We took the train home laughing in shame.
To this very day i ponder with myself if the reason for my valiant companion failing on me was the whore, the condom, that disgraceful scenario, or my shameful porn addiction. Probably all of that.
Anyway, as i didn't cum. I still consider myself a virgin, and i deeply regret doing all of that. 100% not worthy. Try doing with someone you care for, please.
tl;dr don't doit OP is terrible, your first time should be romantic
>i need to grow up
>says the guy projecting his age and insecurities along with ad hominems
all im saying is that prostitution is the cheaper, more practical, and more direct route to getting it. not my problem you were brainwashed by romantic media.
in reality, you need to grow up dude. she's not yours, it's just your turn. you're a wallet to them either way: prostitute or girlfriend.
I i am to add something else is that sexual experience doesn't change anything, if you are a loser, you will still be a loser.
Only strong feelings change people.
Guess what? No women gives me the time of the day. Why spent thousands of dollars for gym, clothes, dates etc. to get the CHANCE for access to pussy if I can simply pay directly? All I want is sex. I'm anitsocial and a loner. I don't mind being alone but my dick wants to feel pussy.
Stop and get off your high horse. 90% of customers are married men. Why? We need to spread our semen and most live in dead bedrooms.
I don't see anythnig wrong with getting the best deal. I want to eat ass and fuck pussy. The simplest way is to pay a hooker. It's no big deal.
Women are only against it because it creates competition. And the funny thing is: They want men who they won't even fuck to not be able to get any. Why does it even bother them? Because it shows how shallow they are and that they only got a wet hole to offer?
do it and just enjoy it, don't meme it as something special
the escortpill is a lifechanging one in many ways
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Yeah go for it. Do you want to know what you are doing when you find someone or do you want to disappoint her so she just goes back to her dog?
I'm a regular client since I had my first time with a prostitute, back then when I was 22.
It's legal where I live too.
Many of the things you wrote hit me right in the feels, because I think the exact same way about it.
>The only thing that really changed for me was: It killed my interest in "regular" girls. Sure, I'd fuck almost every women that would show interest but none do. I'm not attractive. But I don't care either because the next 8/10 teenie riding on my dick is just a car drive and 50 Euro away.
It has been the same for me, never fucked a "real" girl and lost all motivation to do so.
I just hit the brothel every once in a while since I went there the first time. Had sex with my 16th and so far last girl some time ago.
About two years ago I met a particular cute escort, she was really like the "girl next door", seemed very honest and straight and we exchanged a lot of personal information (I know that probably all of her stories were a lie). I went to her for whole nights, when we were alone and had the whole apartement for us, I met her at some lake and we went for a walk or spent a whole afternoon down at some river (of course I paid her for all that). It was magical, I never shared such an intimate "relationship" with any girl. You could say I got attached to her and I spent about 9'500 euro within that first year (I have a file where I took notes on how much I spent for every girl).
I asked her to be friends a few months ago and she declined, that was when I stopped seeing her and I haven't seen any other prostitute since then. I don't know why exactly, I'm worse since then but I still really don't feel seeing a new escort.
>And you'll lose your fear.
Partially. I'm less anxious in general now but with women it hasn't changed much, I still have no idea how to talk with them or flirt or whatever.
>You are nothing special. In that sense it's not real.
That's true and it really feels unreal
>fell for an escort
I know that feel
I went once to an escort and it was just so fun to talk with her, in between fucking we just joked and laughed and talked random shit, she gave me some cherries he got from the market that day, felt bubbly for the next days after
I think I could have went for a coffee with escorts 2 times, the first time I was too autistic to get the hint, the second time I remembered that she has a literal pimp so I noped it
talking with literal whores is interesting as fuck. you have the john and the escort, two of the most depraved people society can name, it's so surreal at times, I will have to go with an escort for coffee just for the kicks of it, while I ask her so many sleazy questions
btw everyone thinks I am a virgin IRL and treat me like I am some shy guy that never saw pussy, I like this facade I am putting, it comes without effort
>No one cares. Who will judge you?
Never tell someone that you are a man who only has sex with prostitutes.
If you're already someone who's a freak and a loner, this could be your final nail in the social coffin.
Men will judge you and some will probably do it in cruel ways and will use that fact against you
>Tfw Lost it to an escort
>Some peeps in the thread arguing that you should save it for someone special.
You know I was so embarrassed in my first time, having your dick sucked and what not. I think I was better off losing it to an escort cause if I had lost it the regular way and went through all of the clumsiness of inexperience with a normal girl in a relationship perhaps she would just dump me right there. Maybe I'm just in denial. That's why I don't even bother trying to get a gf anymore. I'm never going to be worth it.
>btw everyone thinks I am a virgin IRL and treat me like I am some shy guy that never saw pussy
Same here, some colleagues at work always make jokes like "user why don't you talk to that female coworker?", "user, have you ever had sex?", "haha, no don't send user to the office part, he'll shit his pants when he encounters a women up there"
>I think I could have went for a coffee with escorts 2 times, the first time I was too autistic to get the hint
One time, I met a young escort (she was just 20) at my home. She seemed pretty inexperienced and she was on this escort website for just three weeks when I met her the first time. We had a very good time and made lots of jokes, she called me "cute". At our third or fourth meeting, out of the blue she asked me if I would take salsa classes with her. I just laughed, because I didn't knew if she was joking or not and I changed the topic to something else.
Later I began to strip her of her clothes because I was so horny (we hadn't done anyhting intimate so far) and had probably the worst sex I ever had. It went just for a few minutes, she just laid there with a blank stare, like a real life sex doll and was clearly very uncomfortable with the situation. I'm not overweight or of repellent ugliness, just slighty unattractive, I think it just came so surprisingly for her.
Just 5 days later she deleted her profile on the escort site and I never saw her again.
To this day I'm still thinking about that question from her occasionally.
Prostitutes seem more friendly and sociable when you're young and you just come for some chatting.
>I will have to go with an escort for coffee just for the kicks of it, while I ask her so many sleazy questions
With my last girl this was truly a unique experience. The first time I met a prostitute outside a brothel. We went to the lake and walked the shoreline. I looked at the strangers who passed us with their dogs or partners and just thought "damn, they probably think that we're just a normal couple". It's just so strange when you think about.
Later we went for a coffee in a small restaurant.
We sat face to face on a small table and I asked her questions about her field of study, just like I would meet a normal friend.
Many times I've considered taking her to some event with one or two of my friends, or family members, I even talked about this topic with her and asked if she'd be okay with that.
But I never managed to get to courage to actually do that and the other thing was that I'd have regrets about lying (obviously I won't be able to tell others "hey by the way, I'm paying her to be here today")
Can't you just keep going after you came the first time ?
I would feel robbed if i payed for an hour and got 5 minutes.
Don't escort usually take time to talke and / or cuddle before / after sex ?
>that salsa question
fucking missed opportunity there user, I'm not talking marriage there but some guy would kill to take a cute pussy that takes them to salsa classes
around here it's either stay one hour or you come two times and you are out
>Don't escort usually take time to talke and / or cuddle before / after sex ?
depends, with some you will be full on autist, with others you click from the start, there are escorts that work in many countries and can recognize an autist and lead the convo, there are some that if you try hard enough you can brighten the mood
You have to discuss with her beforehand if you want to cum more than once. Usually it's one time only, others say 2 or more. It's up to her.
I fucked my fav, girl 13 times over the span of a couple of months and NEVER talked to her. Only "Hi, 30 minutes okay?" and "See you soon!". I don't need to talk and don't want to. It's time that is wasted with no action. And what are you going to talk about anyways? She'll tell a sob story to get more money out of you.
You can still get STDs from a woman even if you use a condom. You can get STDs from a woman even if there's no signs she has an STD. A woman can have an STD and not know about it for years if she never gets tested.
Keep that in mind.
Oh no, wouldn't want to be judged by others. Why are you giving other people the power of fear over you? Unless something affects your job chances/advancements or your relationships (which doesn't apply in this case) people's opinions of you mean jack shit.
Her name is Kenna Hei on Instagram
Society doesn't work this way
whoremongering is something you take to your grave
I fucked ladyboys bareback and a couple of hookers raw. Never got anything. I guess I was just lucky. But I know that I can something at anytime.
>The weird acquaintance paid for the 20 minutes and just got the whore's number because he wanted to lick her feet
lmao
I wouldn't recommend it, I regretted it
I don't want to be like you, you seem jaded,
It was worse before. I saved most of my money, only sat in front of the PC and jacked off 5 times a day. Now I fuck at least once a week and jack it the other days 5 times or so. I have a huge sex drive. It's all I can think about. and everything I want to do with the opposite sex.
I thought to myself: No girl wants to fuck you (I got lucky with 3 coworkers once and lost my virginity to a coworker at age 24 - first kiss two weeks before that) but haven't had any for 3 1/2 years and thought I should fuck more hookers (had 2 a few years prior after fucking my first coworker) even though I knew that I'd get addicted.
Being jaded is the natural result. It's a bit of safety measure too because you can't get feelings with hookers. It'll financially ruin you. I have fun and laugh with hookers. I powerfuck them. I cuddle and kiss. But I know that it's not genuine. Deep down I want something genuine but I know that it won't happen because I'm not attractive. And I don't want to wait another 10 years to get lucky while others fuck all day long. All I want is to drown in pussy. And hookers give me that. I'm not a Chad but with hookers I live like one.
You sound like a faggot ctfu
I did it earlier this year like in April and lost it at 24. I lost it at the Hong Kong Gentleman's Club in Tijuana. I live in San Diego. I felt great and came back repeatedly desu.
Some girls were great, others were shit and only gave a blowjob for very little time then just laid there like a fish. You really have to talk it out with the girl before you go up to fuck. My best was with a 29 year old from Sinaloa. She was petite but had obvious enhancements on her ass and tits. Still though she gave me a great blowjob, and licked my balls. She came while she was riding me which surprised me.
For a hot girl, max you'll probably pay is 120, 100 for her 20 for the room for 30 mins, you can try to bring the price down with the girl
You do get a feeling of emptiness afterwards but as a doomer it goes away
I think I'm on my 12th girl, I kinda wanna go again this weekend
The "special someone" doesn't even exist, you normie
>Caring what these bitter incels/failed normalfags think
Father literally do for this sons if they aren't getting laid at 16 in Mexico.
Do it OP.
If you watch porn, you will really struggle to stay erect or orgasm during real sex and you won't find the experience enjoyable at all
Stop watching porn completely for at least a month before you even contemplate it. You should be at the level of sexual sensitivity where you can get a rock hard erection just from your imagination.