Therapist told me i shouldn't even try dating because i gotta work massively on myself first

Therapist told me i shouldn't even try dating because i gotta work massively on myself first.

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It's good advice. Would you want to date someone who would want to date the piece of shit that is you?

well yea. how can you truly love someone when you don't even love yourself?

stop thinking about yourself and think about what it would be like to be around you all the time

lmao. suddenly user sees his fat

I hate people that say that shit. Wouldn't fucking matter if people thought I was good looking

this is false

even rich celebrity beautiful couples divorce all the time.

people have to be able to tolerate you

therapists are fucking useless, they always bring their own personal shit into it

It's basic fucking advice. Some people are clearly not capable of being in or fostering a healthy relationship. It's not that far-fetched

therapist told me I need to set my parents house on fire

>therapist told me I need to get a gf
>didn't tell me how
I'm never wasting my time with therapy ever again

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>tell therapist i'm lonely and have no friends
>she tells me she has patients who say the exact same thing to her and asked me to write down a list of things i'm willing to share and she would read them to others who expressed a huge need for companionship
>few weeks later she gives me a girls contacts
>tfw it has been over a year now and been living together for 8 months

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I may not be a good source on this but my very limited experience with therapists got me to the conclusion they are paid "friends". They look at your life with the advantage of an outsider and pick one of the most generic responses and advice you can imagine.

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IN EVERY NIGHT THERE'S A DIFFERENT BLACK
IN EVERY NIGHT I WISH THAT I WAS BACK
TO THE TIMES WHEN I RODE
THRIUGH THE FORESTS OF UNKNOWN

therapists are just there to help you cope with being an incel. they will even take it a step forward and say it's your fault. entirety your fault.

therapists are just organs of the bourgeois capitalist system, and always play the onus of your suffering on you and you alone.

That's my dream love story honestly

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I know that without being told by therapist

I rate this post 9.5 incels out of 10

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First mistake was asking your therapist for dating advice

Therapists aren't supposed to say that to their patients unless your problems are really mild.

Just listen to Joe Rogan bro.
Just take more showers bro.
Just be yourself lmao.
Woah! You mad now bro?!
Relax don't take it so seriously bro.
Lmao

>implying this is not a good advice
user, it's also because if you are a trainwrech nobody would like you.

I mean it could be good advice, it really depends, of course everyone has things they can "improve" on but I think at a certain point you can kinda loose yourself if you keep changing yourself in ways that you don't care about. also some therapists are retarded though, I had one recommend me try marijuana in spite of knowing my family history of schizophrenia and then got all judgy with me when I wasn't interested

>your therapist fell for the love yourself first meme
sorry user but love cannot be developed in isolation its like telling someone to develop friendship or comradery by themselves before actually making friends it can't be done
to love yourself you have to love another and be shown love by another this love doesn't have to be romantic in nature but cannot be made in isolation

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most of the people in relationships dont work on themselves, they mostly just fall into a relationship because relationships are entirely based on physical attraction

He is right.
If you are in a bad shape (mentally/emotionally) you wont be able to have a couple. You are only going to use him/her as a emotional crutch.

Makes sense. Don't give a shitty boyfriend to a girl. She doesn't deserve that.