/gfd/ - Gentle femdom thread: Big girl edition

Thats NOT GENTLE GAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!

I mean I like to think Im a sweetie
and I cant really imagine anyone into femdom being a misogynist

>and I cant really imagine anyone into femdom being a misogynist

You haven't met a lot of people around here who are into it.

suck the shut from my butthole you little pussy bitch

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I'd tease him and flirt with him to get him embarrassed and on the defensive. Then I'd get physical. Pinching and grabbing. I'd push him against a wall and kiss him, then strip him down to his undies while he protests. I want to rough him up a little, throw him around, grab his boner, bite his neck. I want to embarrass him and bully him until his knees go weak and he looks like a mess.
Eventually I'd get him into the bed and if he's still struggling too much I'll choke him until be becomes nice and pliant. I'd sit on his lap and hold his wrists above his head. Maybe I'll scratch down his chest, or drool into his mouth. I want to grind him nice and slow until he begs me to rape him. Then I'd get on my hands and toes and squat over him like a frog and jackhammer the shit out of his dick until he cries. I'll keep going even after he cums because overstimulated boy squeals are the best.
And then I'd go wash up, return to him, stoke his hair and kiss him softly, wipe him clean, and hold him close while he falls asleep. Then in the morning I'll have breakfast made for him and I'll wake him up by sucking his cock, swallowing every last drop of his boymilk.

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I guess not.
Well, I cant imagine that I'd be sexist towards a domme.
The whole idea behind gfd is love and dominance. It would suck being sexist towards the woman you love.

>Are there any guys who are into this cute stuff without being privileged entitled racist misogynists?
yes, but feel free to just pretend that there aren't.

>Well, I cant imagine that I'd be sexist towards a domme.
If they are sexist at all they end up being sexist towards a dom.

Well thats sad.
Personally, Im the type of boy to worship my domme.

I read this as "any time there is a disagreement, I shift blame onto my sub"

>all of you faggots trying to impress a leftoid "domme"
This bitch is most likely a commie with bpd and a dozen beta orbiters she'll want to cuck you with.

You don't understand what misogyny is. It's forcing your dom to perform a certain way for your sexual pleasure.

cucking isnt gfd
so if thats true, then she doesnt really belong here

I've broken up with maybe 3 subs who wanted me to cuck them with alphas. That's misogyny. When you try to force your fantasies onto your dom. I've had those subs say things like "You know this is what you really want to do" Or "you are lying." I've had a sub ask me if his penis is too small & I said no it literally makes me sore every time we have sex he didn't believe me. Finally he said "okay but I still wish it was bigger." He didn't wish it was bigger for my pleasure at all. He just enjoyed seeing women hurt and in pain by a dick. That's the type of manipulative submissive who says they worship women when really they want to see them in pain. Pic related.

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cucking is pretty misogynistic as far as fetishes goes.
It's also gay.

Well its completely reasonable to not want things forced upon you, and to not associate with "subs" that arent really subs.

idk why people are tearing you down for this. Its totally fine for a domme to want a pure boy who doesnt want to manipulate or hurt you.

>not wanting to spank the misogyny out of a Jow Forums incel and turn him into your cute boy

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Yea the guy I'm talking about in that story just eventually told me that I as a woman wasn't capable of giving him the hard domming that he required so he felt he needed to get it from a man. Because males are naturally more aggressive. Which is misogyny.

Anyone who tells the truth will get persecuted for it. Because all women are objectified. So it's a sin to not just smile and play the role that the guy wants you too. Even if the role victimizes him. His want to be victimized is just rooted in love & worship of cruelty, indicating that he's secretly cruel himself but just feels safer identifying in the position of the one getting hurt. I was told by one sub that I could never make it in the real world because I "refused" to be aggressive enough. This was the same sub that I talked about in this post:
Who tried to force me to cuck him with an alpha.

I've had other subs try to force me into FORCING THEM into bisexual scenarios. Guys who say "please seduce a guy & force me to suck his dick". When they are pushy & aggressive about wanting to be """victimized""" it makes me want to puke to be completely honest.

I've also had subs try to manipulate me into punishing them.

I always thought identifying as GENTLE (key word) femdom would help me avoid all this but it doesn't.

Pic related.

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Fuck off, Opal. Stay on your containment board.

Jesus christ, that's so much of my kinks in a single post. What size boy do you prefer, is 5'4 good enough for you?

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>thinking that people on Jow Forums, especially ones that like gentle femdom, are going to be good people
People like us most likely have problems that make us like gfd in the first place, which makes it also likely that we're shitty people.

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From the perspective of a virgin I'll say that my fantasies are all over the place. The alpha bull thing does it for me but sometimes the kind you describe does. Which I favour more depends on the time of day and the most recent full moon and the direction of the wind.

I could be wrong but I feel like given time people could be moulded into your ideal boyfriend especially if their fantasies are all over the place. But maybe not.

>I always thought identifying as GENTLE (key word) femdom would help me avoid all this but it doesn't.
No offense, but your behavior scares me. I can only see you eventually being emotionally cruel and feeling self-righteous in doing so.

With this guy:
I really liked him but because of where we lived we only met up maybe once a month or so (sometimes twice but then skipping a few months). One of the times he was asking about his dick I was saying to him. 'You realize I it's better there's days inbetween our visits to give my vagina time to heal from the soreness after sex?' But he just kept saying that even though I said that other girls said they liked bigger. He was 7 inchs, I never measured but I'm pretty sure. And that's big to me.

It's really all about men not believing women. Which is permeated through out rape culture. And then porn brainwashing, where dicks are cartoonishly overblown backing that up. But the origin of the obsession with a big dick is men viewing sexuality as aggression period. I think the much better idea is that women are much more naturally gentle and then therefore much better at leading and controlling. When you attach ideas of kindness & gentleness to leadership that's what creates true equality.

There's a lot of white upper middle class male privilege that prevents a lot of guys from seeing that. Even when they are submissive often they are toxically submissive in reaction to that. Because they are not allowed to express in the same way as women so their sense of vulnerability keeps getting pushed deeper into their subconscious.

A lot of them prob had something weird & bad happen to them as children based on the number of times I've seen guys write stuff like 'I wish I was physically smaller' 'i wish i had less body hair'. All of this pedophilic. An attachment of childlikeness & femaleness to a consumable objectifiable product. Hopefully most of these guys were not molested but they just falusely think how socially women's value being placed on her looks and her infantilized idiocy just allows her escape with the promise of being bimbofied & not having to think.

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''oh no! analysis of social structure makea me scared. pls stop mommy!!!!''

This is what I mean. Even within femdom women are silenced and forced to perform a certain way that still caters to an entitled privileged person who needs to become infantilized and dumb in order to feel safe. Then he needs to avoid persecution through continuous self victimization.

Sorry but crying "she's too righteous, she's virtue signaling' is not an argument. Being too KIND is not an argument. This is why I refuse guys who I think will try to manipulate me into doing harder femdom. It's just gets harder and harder to represent their fears. Rather than what I want. I thought femdom was about what I wanted? I want it gentle.

This goes right back into what I was saying here:
About men not believing women. Things like "I know you want to fuck an alpha no matter what you say" Or "girls do like bigger dicks." Men will only believe other men because they are socialized to believe other men as humans & people. Women continue to stay objectified even in places claiming to love gentleness.

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I have mommy issues. My mom pretty much abandoned me when I was a baby and I never really got over it. Through out my whole life I felt unloved.
I do wish I was smaller and didnt have body hair.

The difference is that I wouldnt want to hurt or manipulate or abuse my partner. I just want to love her and have her love me.

Commie dommie here
O shit didn't know there were others like me on this board

Was about to have sex with a dude yesterday. I had him lie down and put bites and kisses all over his body. Then I sat on his face, and kissed his belly, breathing on his cock but never touching him.

I told him I'd reward him if he was obedient, but I guess he just wasn't a sub :/

Is it wrong that I would enjoy being a consumable objectifiable product? I just want to feel wanted and valued and I don't feel that I can get that as a man. Am I making sense?

So how exactly do I
1. Find a girl into gfd and the cuck aspect of things
2. Be a good cuck and not the misogynist cuck who uses her for his pleasure and nothing else
Not looking right now but in the future maybe.

can you speak in a thick Russian accent and whisper Marx into my ear while wearing a fur coat?

I can speak in a thick Austrian accent, call you Severin, and beat you with a dog whip
(PS Marx was German)

Masoch's book "Venus in Furs" is one of the first femdom books (the word "masochism" is actually derived from his name), and he actually heavily explores this issue.

It's funny that misogyny in femdom was recognized since it's very birth

I'm personally more attracted to smaller men with less hair. I think it's to do with their supposed innocence: I was victimized as a child, so I've always been afraid and put off by manly men.

Sometimes I find that I'd be attracted to someone, and he'd be 16. My preferences have started to scare me.

Accept her choice in partners and respect her wishes. Don't try to push her into things she's clearly not comfortable with.

But a huge part is getting to know each other outside of bed, developing that mutual understanding, respect, and trust. That kind of bond will really allow your kinks to come out, and you both will be more comfortable playing and experimenting.

>I can speak in a thick Austrian accent, call you Severin, and beat you with a dog whip
I guess that works for me. How do you feel about Lou Reed?
Which Austrian accent exactly? I'm very curious for certain personal reasons.

>(PS Marx was German)
I know, I had Russia ca. 1922. in mind with this.

Thanks for the reply.

Is it forgivable for me to have these kinks you girls have said are bad? Like could you accept I have them so long as I don't pressure you into them? Or should I keep them a secret?

Why is it so hard for people in the BDSM community to monogamous and exclusive?

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Because BDSM stuff is viewed as "playing" and not as "having sex".

>''oh no! analysis of social structure makea me scared. pls stop mommy!!!!''
That's not what I said. Not even close. I'm allowed to not like your personality. It has nothing to do with your politics.

>About men not believing women.
I don't believe men more than women. What I do trust more than other men and women is my own personal experience, which you're dismissing out of hand. You dismiss my own experience out of hand, but then you would want me to open up. This is the problem I have with "toxic masculinity". It's worded in a way that puts all the blame on men, when in my own experiences, most of the pain I've had with opening up came directly from women who were incapable of seeing their own ability to hurt. The reason I wouldn't trust you is because I've seen no indication that you understand the ways which you can hurt others. That kind of person (female or male, dom or sub, etc) will cause a lot of pain to anyone close to them. It's only a matter of when.

I want a woman who has the capability of accepting responsibility for her own actions instead of shifting blame onto men. This is a necessary quality for successful leadership.

I have them as well. I struggled a lot with them at first, esp growing up in a fundie patriarchal household. But when I decided to embrace them, I've been much happier ever since.

I think it's okay as long as you respect your partners, and people in general. In the end, your domme is a person too, she's not just there for you. Take care of her, both in and out of bed.

I only listen to one of the Velvet Underground songs. Guess which one.

Honestly I was going to go with a generic German accent and hope nobody would notice. I'm only convincing enough to non-german speakers.

Well it's just a fantasy but I like to imagine being in this kind of relationship. But I'm on Jow Forums for a reason after all.

And thanks to this thread I'm gonna go fap to cuck fantasies even though I said I wouldn't fap today.

it should be viewed as making love
its not just some fantasy or whatever
checked

>open this sad thread hoping to laff at some rpers
>its a bunch of foids talking about misogyny and leftism with their betas
Howling

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Gay bear tranny detected.

>Sometimes I find that I'd be attracted to someone, and he'd be 16. My preferences have started to scare me.

I'm pretty sure most men identify little boys and twinks as women.Because of the hairlessness and smaller size. Then women take on that cultural understanding of innocence. It's reflected in role reversal threads like these where the woman is big & muscular because men are so stupid and brutish that's how they understand strength & power. In terms of physical superiority. I always thought it was ironic that they bring up in misogynistic arguments all the time about men have invented so much & helped shaped the world so much and yet any kind of competition that's not direct aggressive physical size difference power is so hard for them to understand it scares them. That inability to engage intellectually is such a massive turn off to me.

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>Guess which one.
gee, I wonder which one it could be.

>Honestly I was going to go with a generic German accent and hope nobody would notice. I'm only convincing enough to non-german speakers.
I was almost hopeful for a second there. Good to see that this country reliably disappoints after all.

I don't want to seem unpleasant or weird but you sound really cool.

Good boys have self control

Be pure today, for my sake?

It should be viewed as pegging his asshole.

Okay. For you I'll withhold until midnight.

the sick bastards and bitches oh my fucking sickening

Haha thanks. Don't lose hope though, I'm not the only one of my kind.

PS: I was actually in Munich for the summer. I just got back home (Canada) on Monday.

Good boy~

Absolutely based move.
I asked a guy I was with yesterday what he was into, and he said anal. I told him it's not for me, but I wouldn't mind doing it to him.

He just laughed reluctantly :(

>Good boy~
One day I'll be ready for a gfdgf and I swear to God I will cherish every bit of praise I get when I'm submitting to her.

And yet it always does feel that way.
I know I shouldn't be asking you to do things, but could you give me some words of encouragement?

Better yet, I'll give you my discord
fish_launcher#1703

I'm a little anxious about all that and trying to add people who are in high demand always makes me feel disposable in the most horrid way.
I'm #3161

>always makes me feel disposable in the most horrid way.
If I followed the comment chain correctly, the person you're talking to is most likely poly. Just a heads up before you get hurt.

Not poly, but I got my heart broken recently so I am emotionally unavailable

Sorry :,)

That's okay, I don't expect all too much with online things, a bit of talk is just okay.

>Not poly
Alright, my bad. Just watching out for the subs who tend to make concessions out of desperation.
>but I got my heart broken recently so I am emotionally unavailable
Ah, my permanent state. My condolences.
As long as you're being honest with yourself.

I mean, I think I'm pretty alright. I'm just really annoying.

>One day I'll be ready for a gfdgf and I swear to God I will cherish every bit of praise I get when I'm submitting to her.

>anxious about all that and trying to add people who are in high demand always makes me feel disposable in the most horrid way.

How would you receive praise any other way?

I'm not .
But some praise sure sounds nice.

I wrote the first quote not the second. I think you've confused two of us as one friendo.

Could I have permission to masturbate after midnight too?

New thread is up for people who actually want a GFD thread instead of whatever the fuck this one has turned into.

Don't expect the new one to be any better. This board is a cesspool anymore.

who draws this autism

>tfw no swole weightlifter gf to cook 10 meals a day for

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