>talking to girl on discord
>she knows I like her
>she sends me good morning texts
>but she also told me to talk to qts at work today
What did she mean by this? She lives far away, so I dont think there is much chance of this working out for me.
Talking to girl on discord
>discord
Please just take that shit elsewhere.
maybe she is trying to help you out in getting a qt in your area take her advice
The funny thing is I only started using discord because people talk about it on here.
Yeah, maybe I should. But really, how much different is it going to go?
She understands you are mentally unstable and a potential danger, so is placating you with the bare minimum pleasantries while desperately trying to pawn you off to another female for you to fixate on.
this is essentially how all the memes go and exactly how women end up getting into "muh bbc" porn. motherfuckers just can't stop talking about it.
I dont think this is it. Wouldnt she try avoid talking to me?
Not if she wants to avoid days\weeks\potentially months of harassment and suicidal texts as you progress violently through the stages of grief. Believe it or not, women don't start out callused. It takes a few interactions with guys like you until the can ignore their sympathy and maternal instincts and just block you.
That still doesnt make sense to me. I dont think you are right.
>discord
>girl
Yea user, thats a dude user. Abort abort abort!
Which, honestly, just further confirms my point. But you do you.
I still dont see it. I must be too low IQ. I'll let you know if you are right or not.
if you like her alot just ask her out, if not then dont
I used to tell my ex this because I didnt feel good enough for him and didnt want to seem jealous, so we had a somewhat open relationship. Maybe youre Chad? Or maybe she wants you to pussy hunt for a FFM threesome, who knows.
She likes you as a friend, so she hopes you can get a romantic partner and be happy.
she doesnt believe in ldrs, most likely. i did/do the same thing and its mostly because i believe guys will always leave an e-relationship for an irl girl.
>i believe guys will always leave an e-relationship for an irl girl
They do, anonette, unless they are a literal shutin with no other options. My ex made so many promises to me but couldnt even wait a couple weeks longer to see me in person. He would rather fuck some random nearby thot. Most men would. You cant trust them.
yeah thats true. im sorry to hear that you went through that. :( my ex also found an irl girl within a week of having no contact with me (he went away to a psych ward). online relationships are such a fucking meme lol.
Why are all of you e-picking up Chads. A robot couldn't fuck irl if his life depended on it
i met my ex on r9k when he was a mentally unstable NEET. i helped urge him to improve his life (get a job, work on getting his license, getting psychological help, etc.) and he became a normie fuckboy. so yeah. idk.
I'm talking to someone now that I really like and I do this because I want him to be happy and find a real girl to have a relationship and build a future with in his area. We live too far away. A lot of women have low self esteem, aren't very jealous people and want the people they care about to have the best things they cam have.
I also told my ex e-bf he could fuck other girls, he said he would never do that, and he ended up leaving me over a real life girl anyway. I'm glad we never got around to fucking.
Femanon here who has done the same thing. It could mean two things.
One, she likes you but doesn't think the relationship would work out (for one reason or another), so she wants to see you happy and with someone.
Two, she doesn't like you and just might be more affectionate than a normal girl. Does she have other friends?
You'd never let it go if she just ghosted you and you'd likely still persure her. She's trying to let you down gently without being unkind. She is suggesting you speak to other women so that she is no longer considered an option.
>cucking yourself because you're too much of a pussy because of distance
its like you don't even want to try
Would it have been better to not let him fuck other girls when I knew he wouldn't be able to touch me irl for at least 2 years? I always thought men separated sex from emotions a lot more than women so I thought he would be able to handle it.
Unless you're referring to the one I'm talking to right now in which case yeah, I'm cucking myself very very hard because I know he likes me but I unfortunately hate myself and don't want him to have to deal with that.
At least she's not being bitter about it like most guys here.
I feel the same way. There is no commitment online unless you were already together for a while and plan to be back together at some point.
She moved recently, so I am not sure how settled in she is. She will probably have friends soon if she doesnt already.
she probably doesn't want to be the subject of some incel's suicide note or manifesto
Is it really that hard for you people to meet up with LDRS. One of my best friends that I have I knew online elusively for 6 years and never once felt the urge to give up on him and the same for him and now today we've met. It doesn't even feel that much different because we were actually friends all along.