>your gf who was abused as a child and has anxiety likes to be beaten, degraded, hurt during sex
>no need for aftercare, as she knows you love her and shes used to not being comforted
>transforms her childhood traumas into kinks, almost like a coping mechanism
>she seems fine taking these kinks outside of the bedroom, as she simply accepts it when you hit or yell at her in public
is this a good thing to you? would being able to treat her like this, especially in public, make you even more horny?
Your gf who was abused as a child and has anxiety likes to be beaten, degraded, hurt during sex
I wouldn't like that at all. I want a girl to cuddle, not hit
>no need for after care
Bruh.. no. You're a fucking retard
I'm way too gentle to do any of that.
I'd try to help her overcome the trauma instead.
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i had a woman start calling me her 'Master', and begging me for this shit. I was just like, no, sorry too weird, i cant
I would prefer to do that on certain occasions, like some niche bar on the weekends. If she's okay with it, I wouldn't mind. But I think a lot of people around us would find it unsettling.
Dude, you need to seek help if you really want yourself a living human being and use it as a punching bag/fleshlight.
you guys are dumb lame and boring
10 years ago I would say no and feel sorry for someone who is like this, now I'm not sure.
I hate people with low self estemm, I would say pathetic and pass
god this fucking thread again shoot yourself faggot
It's not exactly a good thing but the truth is it's the best of a bad situation
I would try to do enough that she wouldn't get bored or complacent while not so much that it'd run the risk of actually injuring or disfiguring her
It's better that she cope with me than with someone worse, and if a little abuse helps her with that then I have no problems doing the abusing
If my girlfriend was like that she is getting cuddles whether she likes it or not?
The question mark was an accident, she is getting the shit cuddled whether she goddamn likes it or not.
No that would be awful. If I knew up front I wouldn't date her at all. If she didn't tell me until a good while in I would probably just stick around until she decided to break up because I'd feel like an asshole if I dumped her over that.
I would comfort her and cuddle her and tell her I love her as much as possible and never let her go. I would want to be the source of joy in her life that she never got when she was a kid. I would be there for her no matter what and would help her through her troubled times. If she has been hurt so much that she became like this, then that's all the more reason to give her my undying affection.
>hit or yell at her in public
Nevermind your girlfriend, people would think you're absolute trash if you did that. It's one thing to have arguments in someone's home, but it's on gypsy-level to do it in public.
In regards to the girlfriend, while I probably could do it if I wanted to, I wouldn't want to. Hurting someone like that, as well as the fact that they get off on it, would make me lose respect for them,
>i had a woman start calling me her 'Master', and begging me for this shit. I was just like, no, sorry too weird, i cant
Same, what the fuck is wrong with women nowadays?
>get joy from watching irl women be hurt
>feel sad looking at 2d girls with injuries
The fuck is wrong with me
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