I just had the third date (met her on a dating app) with a girl I really like and she before today she really seemed to like me. We text constantly, flirt, and we kissed 3 times on the second date.
On this third date she seemed a little more physically distant even if it was going well (we were talking, laughing, connecting), and I was only able to quickly kiss her at the end but she seemed more distant. I don't know if it's because she is thinking of friendzoning me or because she was a little awkward too.
I'm scared I'll lose her. I hope not, because it will sting. What do you think?
Why haven't you taken the hrt yet? >Even if you don't become a girl you can become a qt twink >That'll help you get your bear daddy >That'll end you being an incel >If you become a girl you'll be playing life on easy mode >Then you won't want to kill yourself So why haven't you Robots?
Being a ugly girl is better than being a ugly boy anyway join us .gg/kUGP5q4
Just keep it going user. If it continues just bring it up with her. >you having any luck with dating apps Been thinking about trying them just because i have a rough time meeting people in RL, but it just gives me anxiety when i think about it
Ryder Garcia
I just find it difficult to be completely natural making moves on her, it feels a little forced and a little awkward. At the second date it seemed that she was ok with it and we even laughed it off and we seemed to have fun with it. This time she just seemed just more distant.
Why can't robots just be more natural making moves with a girl they like?
At least I'm making progress, from nothing at all for years and years to dates with girls. I'm just afraid I don't have it in me. Hold me bots.
The making moves thing just takes time and practice. Youve worked your way up to dates, moves are just the next thing to work on. Keep it up OP. Youll get there
Isaac Morales
doing a drop hanging will kill you quicker than ruining your body and realizing that your a freak and offing yourself at the age of 34
Thanks user. My advice to you is to stay away from tinder and use Bumble or OkCupid. They are more serious, on tinder you can get many matches that don't amount to anything (which will discourage you), girls are more superficial and demanding.
My experience with the other two (mainly on Bumble) is that girls there are more genuine, and with luck you can find a qt robot girl that likes you for who you are. Good luck.
Ryan Hill
>actually having the confidence to make a profile on a dating app
get the fuck out normie
Jack Bailey
Thanks, you're right. Takes practice. It just sucks if I lose her because every time I invest quite a bit. But yes, looking at the bright side and acknowledging the progress seems like the right thing to do.
Adam Sullivan
I see what you mean, but you need to see each step as something you just "have to do", like duty.
For me every time I would like a profile on the app, or send a message, or ask for a date, I would have to force myself to do it, because otherwise I wouldn't have done it.
See each step as something you have to do whether you like it or not. And in the end you will make a lot of progress.
Asher Jackson
I already know Im too ugly to get any matches so why should I even bother
Nathan Gray
Why do you think you're ugly? Do you see yourself as too fat? Or not symmetrical? Or not manly enough in your face?
It may sound stupid to you but when I was younger I was convinced that I was hideous, and I partially was also because I was convinced I was. With time I realised I wasn't, and that made it easier to actually be liked.
Kevin Stewart
I had an OkCupid profile for 4.5 years and I only had 2 people respond to me and like me back. One was an Arab girl with cerebral palsy living in a group home who couldn't properly type. The other unironically looked like an orc or goblin king; she had some genetic disease but she wasn't slow in the mind at least. Well, sort of. She had an obsession with Disney princesses and worked at a daycare where she I guess really young children wouldn't judge her. We had nothing, absolutely nothing in common. I think I'm just so ugly and my profile comes across as so stupid retarded that in 4.5 years, only 2 girls ever replied to my messages and also liked me.
I got lots of spam from bbw hookers trying to sucker me into paying for sex but I want love, not sex. Sex should come after you have fallen in love with someone and are planning to bring a child into the world. Preferably, you should be engaged before copulation if not married already. So I don't want a hooker, I don't want a hook-up (just a free prostitute), I want a wife and mother of my children.
IL GIVE U LEGIT ADVICE dont let it bother you there are 2 things that may be happening 1 she may be testing you to see if you are desperate 2 she has actually lost interest
ANSWER- do not get desperate do not chase let it go the same pace or even slower, do not text her acting like a beta why she is distant- since its your 3rd date inviting her over to your house is better than a date
Worst case situtaion, she says she will dump or she may never text or call you again or maybe even start talking shit...ALL you should say is ok do not get crazy over it or she will dislike you even more, remember buddy plenty of fish in the sea do not get caught up over 1
Xavier Miller
I hope you get terminal cancer I hope every tranny does
Kevin Howard
That's a very simplistic outlook. This might be partially true for tinder but not for more serious dating apps.
Jeremiah Morales
This is seriously annoying
Zachary Robinson
I have 20 matches right now on tinder, all from past week Did not write anyone, I'm autistic
Hudson Perez
Good job user on getting the matches. I would advise against using tinder and using another dating app instead but still congrats. My advice on how to actually advance is this: >>>>>
Josiah Sullivan
In my location quality of women is so much better on other dating apps that I have absolutely no chance. Tinder at least has normal people on it.
Leo Sanders
I'm not deformed but I'm certainly, at best, a 5/10 if I completely cleaned up and lost weight. >nose is pointy and a bit wide, not Jewish but a German nose if you know what I mean >high hairline, long hair, face remarkably similar to pic related >quite fat, very short for a man at only 5'5" >one eyelid droops more than the other, making me look like Forest Whitaker, sleepy and stupid >chin is wide but not long, rather, face is scrunched upwards >don't know what my jawline looks like, too fat to really tell >tons of body hair, my chest and back hair are connected to my head I've been short, hairy, fat, balding since I was 12 years old. My hairline shot up the same as my chest hair came in, yet I never grew in height. No girl has ever once liked me in my life and I am, at the moment, a 3/10, realistically. With some weight loss, I would be 4 and as I said, in a perfect setting, a 5.
