The principal value of any marriage must be to foster life. There may be values that follow from it, but fostering life is the essential element of marriage.
>shouldn't common interests be part of a good marriage That only common interests that matter are those related to FOSTERING LIFE. Any other common interests are meaningless. Your wife is not your recreational partner, only your partner for FOSTERING LIFE.
>but we don't plan on having children GTFO childfree degenerates. You don't have a wife, only a low grade and expensive whore- you bought when you should have leased.
The purpose of marriage is love, children are the side effect.
As far as "shared interests" go, there are two ways this can happen... you marry young, you build a life together, and you automatically have shared interests; or... you marry someone you have shared interests with.
Your wife/husband should be your best friend. When you marry, two become one and each other must become your first priority; before children, before family, before work.
Aaron Smith
What if I don't care about love and just want sex?
Josiah Peterson
This is a recipe for an incredibly unhappy marriage, an unhappy sex life, and an unhappy family life once the kids come, poor kids
Nicholas Harris
Wait, let me clarify. What if I just want a sex slave who I can also force to do chores and earn me money?
Jason Thompson
This. This entire thread is just yet more mgtow demoralization.
William Ortiz
>Your wife/husband should be your best friend. When you marry, two become one and each other must become your first priority; before children, before family, before work.
So much this, kids learn what real love is when you are your wife's unconditional best friend and priority (and likewise with her to you)
Charles Watson
A prostitute is probably cheaper then.
Jonathan Richardson
I hang out with my friends while my wife is at work.
Sebastian King
>The principal value of any marriage must be to foster life. There may be values that follow from it, but fostering life is the essential element of marriage.
>That only common interests that matter are those related to FOSTERING LIFE. Any other common interests are meaningless. Your wife is not your recreational partner, only your partner for FOSTERING LIFE.
Then you don't want a marriage, you want an employee.
Yes. People who stay together for the children, or who make the children the focus of their world almost always wind up hating each others guts.
Xavier Davis
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Brayden Adams
Don't get married
Tyler Cox
>Wives are for Breeding! >Posts a tranny
Leo Russell
Don't marry in the west, women naturally lose interest in their partners and when they do western society points them to cheating, divorce, and alimony. Just have long term relationships.
Isaac Peterson
I feel sad for any man who's 'wife' is his best friend. It's one thing to love women, but to be so totally emotionally dependent is pathetic.
William Hernandez
>Then you don't want a marriage, you want an employee. Explain.
Michael Miller
Women make shit friends.
Justin Morris
>marrying >in 2018 A fucking leaf...
Aiden Turner
Married ten years. Two white kids. Wife is my best friend. Period.
I feel bad for anyone whose spouse isn't. Again, when you marry someone, it's the two of you against the world.
Because human beings have free will, they have minds of their own, and they have the ability to think on their own.
You're ideal of a sex slave who does housework is just a spin on concepts like anime, where you create these one-dimensional beings who have no real self.
But when you go out in the real world, you find out that real women don't think that washing your socks is the highest form of life. And as a result, you will never find a woman who will live up to your expectations, and you will never live up to a woman's expectations.
Carter King
>Because human beings have free will, they have minds of their own, and they have the ability to think on their own. >You're ideal of a sex slave who does housework is just a spin on concepts like anime, where you create these one-dimensional beings who have no real self. >But when you go out in the real world, you find out that real women don't think that washing your socks is the highest form of life. And as a result, you will never find a woman who will live up to your expectations, and you will never live up to a woman's expectations. But who cares what women want?
Liam Perry
The man who wants to have a long happy marriage, who wants to build his own life instead of building his own death.
Joseph Ortiz
You’re a fag. Here is how I know. You equate best friend to being emotionally dependent. But you assign that role to a female in this example of calling someone out. Flip the script. You equate the best friend role in your case to a man. You sir are a fag. If you are emotionally dependent to your bro Jason, you suck Jason’s dick.
Kevin Adams
Amazing, the prosecution has rendered his argument invalid, by disregarding it entirely!
Well phoenix? do you have any evidence to present? because as it stands if women don't bring something to the table, it doesn't matter what aspirations they have...
For any young impressionable anons under 25, please don't take this shit seriously. Women are awesome and there is no better feeling in the world than coming home to a wife who loves you and kids who are excited to see you. Follow op's advice and you will never have that. Ever. Even if you follow it just a bit, women will smell your degeneracy and stay away from you.
So be cool with women, treat them with respect, and you will be better off for it.
Thomas Robinson
>tfw been with gf for over three years >tfw planning on proposing this year >tfw gf’s younger sister sends me thirsty selfies Lord help me
>The purpose of marriage is love This has only been true in small parts of the world in the last 150 or so years. For most of human history arranged marriages of some form were the norm. A major factor in the west being a degenerate hellhole is the idea that you should actively seek out your true love. All that does is result in you taking a mile of different cocks before settling at the age of 35 or remaining a virgin until you are 28 and buy a prostitute so at least you won't still be a virgin.
While you should look for someone you are compatible with you shouldn't look too hard.
Aiden Bailey
Hung
Adrian Foster
>Makes thread about women and MGTOW degenerates >Posts tranny You're either shill or just a faggot leaf. Or perhaps a faggot leaf shilling against stable relationships.
Parker James
I have no evidence other than the fact that I've been married close to 30 years.
Lincoln Ward
Is that a bulge or just a massive bush?
Colton Hernandez
for newfriends not familiar with this leaf's daily tranny pastas
She's going to divorce you because you're a momma's boy. Here is how I know. You immediately assumed I was talking about a friend as opposed to my own father.
Because you don't have a father. Not every male relationship boils down to cocksucking. Only fatherless faggots and gunless libshits think like that.
this planet is overpopulated and especially overpopulated with idiots. STOP HAVING KIDS
Adam Hill
It's about raising the children, not making them, you spic.
Jonathan Lee
Good ole' Obama set up some slave markets in Libya and Syria. Apparently slaves go for a price equivalent to a dinner for two at a typical American restaurant.
Christian Clark
You posted this thread earlier. Also that chick has a dick. So fuck you, faggot.
Henry Sanders
>The purpose of marriage is love, children are the side effect.
You have been inverted. The purpose is the children. Why would people be bound together through hard times in a contract "for love?" That makes no fucking sense does it? What it is for is to keep the man there providing for the vulnerable pregnant woman and children and to keep the woman obeying him so the family situation is one he can manage. You have to think back to a world without birth control, it's actually not that far back into the past but people have forgotten it.
No retard the point is to procreate and create a family. Ofc in order to do this you have to marry someone you truly love. That’s why there’s something called COURTSHIP
Ethan Jones
oh look, it's retarded leaf again
Luke Robinson
>Ofc in order to do this you have to marry someone you truly love.
Not at all. Think back to where we were at for most of our history. You're in some little village situation and there's probably about an even amount of number of men and women. You think they were all "soul mates?" Nah, you got married and made kids because it was one of the jobs that needed doing. You probably would love the person you were with, but it wouldn't be some "one true love" courtly love fairytale. It'd be real adult love facilitated by biology and necessity.
This "one true love" sort of shit is a ruse from the Jews to encourage women to bail on a marriage when it becomes hard work.
Evan Rodriguez
Your wife should be your only friend, really. You should be so busy with your 5+ children and your day job that you don't have time for juvenile shit like "hanging with your bros". Your "bros" should likewise be in the same situation as you, otherwise they're losers or bad influences. Male companionship should be something you get out of your system in your teens or twenties if you're a late bloomer.
Blake Allen
OP is not a fag. More people should understand this.
Mason Morris
No way I'm giving up my freedom for less than 4 kids.
Henry Flores
>The purpose of marriage is love
No, the purpose of marriage is regular sex. Love you can get from your dog or your mom.
Show your gf the pictures and make a joke about becoming polygamist Mormons. Continue to make the jokes over the next few weeks and months but make it a little more serious each time.
Kevin Phillips
>When you marry, two become one and each other must become your first priority; before children, before family, before work. Good post, but I'd argue that your kids become top priority when they're born.
Matthew Gomez
checked
Brandon Gray
Man I didn't even see that part he wrote. That is the most boomer thing I have ever read. >lol, private school for the kids? >fuck that we need overseas vacations, our single friends look like they're having too much fun on facebook! >inheritance? wtf is that?
Ian Price
3DPD is for breeding to carry on family name into the next generation. Pure 2D Waifu is for true love and companionship.
Michael James
Fucking strayans. Kek'd
Dominic Reed
I N C E L logic detected, bet your dick is small and you aint getting none.
Brody Anderson
And how many times can you get drunk with your friends before you finally get bored? Your friends will eventually betray you or leave you behind while you stay in the same position. Starting and leading a family is your God given purpose on Earth.
Cooper Walker
it's true, but women don't see it that way. They want someone to make them fulfilled.
Justin Watson
he's saying you're not going to find one stop being so dense
You should definitely kill yourself. Write a manifesto confessing to what a stupid, selfish, entitled piece of shit you are and make sure to film the act. That would be killer.
Isaac Scott
>And how many times can you get drunk with your friends before you finally get bored
Well we've been going for well over a decade and still going strong so I doubt anytime soon. Don't assume because you're a joyless christcuck with no hobbies besides feeding useless mouths that everybody is like that
>Your friends will eventually betray you or leave you behind while you stay in the same position
Seriously doubt it, we're all well versed on the roastie menance.
Don't forget that you have to raise your children after they're born. That's a lot easier when you have a healthy, loving relationship with your wife.
Jonathan Ross
Bothering with disloyal, nagging cunts who would rather watch tv and get fat than go outdoors.
No thanks, maybe I'll declare myself a "born again incel"
Parker Sanchez
>ten years >only two kids Mathematically you should have at least 8 by now
Lincoln Flores
based
Henry Lee
>Ten years. >Two white kids.
What? Does your dick not work?
Elijah Adams
mgtow rubbish..
Owen Nguyen
This and this. It's almost like OP is saying not to get along with people as if that's something that's hard to do. "just fuck em and then go off to work", how else do you make sure the kids are raised right if you don't have a chick that follows your lead or agrees with you on how to raise them? It sounds like trusting a nanny to raise your kids instead.
