Child Porn

Stepson gets a girl in middle school to send him nudes. Cops find out. They take him out of class and take him home to meet mom. Cops make him delete the child porn. The kid gets Google tech support to somehow recover the deleted files. What the actual fuck...? He says he’s again deleted the cp. I’m afraid to touch his computer at this point and have no authority to do anything. As a step-parent, what am I supposed to do here?

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weeklystandard.com/eli-lehrer/a-senseless-policy
newyorker.com/magazine/2016/03/14/when-kids-are-accused-of-sex-crimes
outsidethebeltway.com/north-carolina-teen-charges-as-a-sex-offender-for-having-naked-pictures-of-himself/
cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/07/sexting.busts/
huffingtonpost.com/entry/teens-nude-photos-penalties_us_55f07586e4b002d5c077a2ea
mtv.com/news/1631734/sexting-leads-to-teen-having-to-register-as-a-sex-offender/
freerangekids.com/girl-14-takes-racy-pix-of-self-faces-sexual-offender-charge/
hrw.org/reports/2007/us0907/7.htm
businessinsider.com/surprising-things-that-could-make-you-a-sex-offender-2013-10
theguardian.com/uk-news/2015/may/04/sexting-teenagers-selfie-criminal-record-sex-offenders-register
aclu-wa.org/blog/sexting-and-law-press-send-turn-teenagers-registered-sex-offenders
reason.com/blog/2017/02/14/teen-girl-sends-teen-boy-5-pix-of-self-i/print
isba.org/ibj/2010/04/sextingitsnojokeitsacrime
theage.com.au/victoria/sexting-youths-placed-on-sex-offenders-register-20110723-1hugu.html
nwnewsnetwork.org/post/teen-who-took-x-rated-selfie-and-texted-photo-guilty-child-porn-washington
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>inb4 ban

Just call the police lol

Is a technical discussion about how to avoid child porn problems a violation? I DON’T want child porn. Sorry if that breaks a rule.

If I call the police on my stepson, my wife will divorce me.

Then man up and raise your wifes son as your own and discipline him

Trust me when I say...you are much better off just staying out of it entirely if the PC is in his room, puts it pretty much under his sole possession.

A lot of this also depends on his and your relationship and how close you guys are, cause you could get drug into this because you are an adult.

Otherwise, call the cops or lawyer up...just be aware the moment the cops get involved anymore that they are now and charges are filed, this kid's life is ruined if it's anything besides a misdemeanor, and it WILL follow him forever.

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Destroy everything he owns that has embedded storage, DBAN any computer he has access to, beat him as much as you can without your wife going ape.

I'd slap my son so hard he would go back in time just so i could slap him twice at the same time.

Get a lawyer. Seriously. attorney-client privilege is made for these shitty no-win situations. They will advise your next move without any risk to you.

Do you have cause to doubt that he's telling the truth about deleting them the second time? If so I suggest to do it yourself and use bleachbit
No legal trouble to please your wife, and you're exercising your fatherly authority

>my wife's son

I have no authority to discipline the boy.

I’m the only one in the house who knows anything about computers. I administer the network/wifi. I gave him his phone (which I’ve suspended service at the cost of my wife having a shit fit). I tried in the past to block porn, but he moved next door to his grandfather’s house until I removed the porn block - grandpa let’s him have all the hardcore porn he wants.

I can’t. I lack the authority.

I doubt that even if he deletes it that it’s really deleted because Google somehow resurrected it for him. I can’t bleachbit Google Drive’s double-secret backup trashcan.

Dude wtf he isnt even your son let the dumb little bastard do what he wants and if the cops come its not your problem then you can fuck him mom in peace

> beat the crap out of the step-son

Yea, that shit only works when you're blood.

You do that to your "step-kid", and it'll just give them reason to hate you forever and go out of their way to find a way to fuck your life up or break up your marriage.

Honestly, and I know this isn't really the place to bring up this point, but I'm gonna say it anyway.

> and this is why you NEVER get seriously involved with a single mother unless the kids don't live there, and EVEN THEN I would seriously think twice about it.

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Would probably call a lawyer for advice if I was you.

"my wife's son"

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This is what happens when you get involved with someone else's half-breed. You made your bed now sleep in it faglord

Nothing. Why the fuck did you become a step-father in the first place? That shit is the most cucked thing on the planet. And as for the kid, leave him be. Let him jerk off to the middle school girls for fucks sakes you bootlicking faggots

Slap him.

>I have no authority to discipline the boy.
Fucking man up, It's now your son.

How old is the stepson? Also, are you sure you want to be with a woman who will divorce you over you calling the cops on her her son for committing a legitimate crime?

No. He’s my stepson. He’s next door at his grandpa’s house tonight.

if you've got no authority over the kid, why the fuck are you still with her
let it end

My wife keeps complaining about it, so it's my problem too. She won't even put out because she says she's too "stressed out"
You can't help who you fall in love with, grow up
Again, you can't help who you fall in love with. Sorry I'm not perfect like you
11 years old. Not even sure why he has nudes in the first place he seems too young for that kinda thing

Stepson is 14. Reasonable minds may differ on the question of whether my marriage is worthwhile, but that’s beyond my question for today.

OP here. This wasn’t from me.

>14 years old
>Middle school
Is your step son retarded and/or black? What the fuck is a 14 year old doing in middle school?

Why are whites such huge cucks? Beat him, take away his computer, revoke his internet access. Do something you fucking faggot.

He got held back.

Then you need to manipulate the situation. You need to be a little sociopathic.

if your stepson is also underage I wouldn't worry about it. take him at his word. make sure he realizes the consequences of having such material in his possession, especially after he becomes a legal adult.

if he was able to get google to recover the data there is nothing you can do to delete it short of having him charged criminally. google will not just let you access the data in his name. no amount of deleting local files can kill it, he can just have them recover it again.

Fuck off, let OP fix his problem.

How many fucking times? Jesus Christ this is fucking hilarious, a cucked "step father" with a literal retarded wife's son. Holy fucking shit you seriously should consider killing yourself

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>get the pics
>share them
>tell the police the kid's grampa told him about getting pics from girls
>grampa dies in jail
>son is free
>you're free
>wife is probably free

just leave him the fuck alone, obviously
you're not even his real dad

you realize its no great crime for a child to be in possession of child porn. kids don't get charged for that shit unless they're involved in distributing it. the fact that you, OP, are so concerned with what to do with your childs underage friends nudes concerns me more than anything. are you worried that the cops are going to crack down on your 14 year old son for having nudes of a girl at school? i'd be more worried about your stepson sharing the images online, and this girl finding out and suing the ever loving shit out of him.
just explain to him how much he could get ruined for life over them, especially considering how obviously the girl regrets sending them to some degree, and notified her parents probably. if the parents have a copy, they could conceivably reverse image search it and find anywhere on the whole internet its posted. would be weird for the parents to do that but they'd spot your kids post quickly

Good advice for the young and single, but not very useful to me at this point. I’m not ready to kill myself over the kid’s porn problems. Late life second marriages with blended families have pros and cons. I can’t relate to most young women and found as a single person I developed bad habits related to loneliness, like alcohol, cigarettes, etc.

You have correctly identified the incestuous grandpa as the central problem. He likes to nap with the boy, get in his underwear and pay the boy to rub his feet, he lives next door, he lets him have all the porn he wants when he stays there, let’s him go there when he’s in trouble so we cannot discipline the boy at all. Grandpa is a creep.

He probably resents not having an actual father and tries to play the trickster on you two. Your wife seems lazy and irresponsible with the child, which figures for many single mothers.

Boys raised without fathers lack structure and will rebel to anything. If you want to be respected by him and have authority you will have to swallow up and have him notice you're useful and his life wouldn't be as good, or less shitty, were you not there. That, of course, is to be done without even saying a single word about it. He has to notice it for himself instead of you trying to shove it down his throat.

The point may come in which he'll respect you, but he probably won't see you as a figure of authority because you're not his biological father nor did you raise him since his early childhood.

If you're serious with this woman, good, but make sure she's who you want to be with instead just using her as filler to your void, because if you are your lives will become hell in the future, and you may resent each other a fuck all.

And the more boyfriends your wife has, the more rebellious will the boy grow. If you leave her, the one that comes next will have it worse.

Consider what marriage means. If she's your wife in your heart then you won't leave, and you'll bear the cross of leading that child onwards. Otherwise, pack your bags.

>t. Psychologist and child of divorced parents

Okay no, this is clearly bait at this point. That or you are the definition of trailer park white trash(assuming you're even white in the first place)

Teach him a lesson, get to his girlfriend first and cuck him

Wouldn't there be a 30 years diff...? 40/11 ?

It works for Trump so it'll work for you. Stop being a bitch

This is the most beta soi shit I have read to day. Get the fuck away from this woman and her shitspawn before they ruin you.

How is it concerning to you that I’d be worried about this situation? Maybe I’m just too old, but I think of sharing nude pictures of kids as a real serious deal. I don’t want that for my family and I don’t want it in my home. I care about my stepson and don’t want him to go down a dark road of trouble.

Interesting insights. I don’t think it’s realistic to expect the boy to respect me as a father figure. His grandpa is just to great an influence.

destroy his computer
no technology
daily searches
30 daily lashings

Jesus fuck. You can't even fuck your own wife? And you can't discipline your son, either? Or rather, your wife's son.
Look I'll give you just one piece of advice, call up your best friend and talk to him about it. You won't listen to random people on Jow Forums but your friend can make you come to reason

>arrangement of pixels on the light box that you freely discover in the public domain gets your face stomped in and thrown into inhumane conditions for decades all the while there are thieves who swindle tens of thousands of grandparents into homelessness who gets caught only to pay a fraction of a fine to the thugs that pass banning you from seeing flickering lights on your personnel light box.
It's all fine, to protect the children mate!

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>Reasonable minds may differ on the question of whether my marriage is worthwhile, but that’s beyond my question for today.
It's over m8. If not over this, then over some trivial bullshit in the future. Report his ass, do good for society, and if it wrecks your marriage you know it was already at the breaking point anyway and you can at least leave knowing some good came out of it.

Wow this keeps getting better.

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OP, lawyer up and get a divorce. Considering it's her son and not yours, there's a reasonable chance you can get out scot free (no alimony or losing half your things etc) if you say you're afraid of her son who gets in trouble with the law. You're going to get in trouble because of him because as the leader of the household "it's your job" to make sure this doesn't happen again, and it probably will if he went so far as to recover the images.

Hey guys, learn to spot obvious bait and graduate to not being retarded newcunts.

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Not bait and not trailer. Grandpa is a millionaire who misuses his money into manipulating my wife and her boy into being controlled by him. He owns the house we live in and he lives next door to us in a big house with every amenity. He employs my wife and overpays her so she feels like she can’t quit or have her own career. He undercuts any attempt at discipline or independence.

good

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You married his mom, and that assumes responsibility for him as if he's your biological son.
Man up and discipline your child like a father, appropriately of course.

Wait, how old is he? If there's a 5 or fewer year age difference, AOC laws don't apply.

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Literally this If you "don't have authority" to discipline your son, get a fucking divorce. You either go all in on responsibilities and authority in a marriage or not at all.

>step parent

cuck lol

this

I mean, this...

>stepson
HAHAHA KEK

this this this this

OP I quoted it like 15 times because you need a fucking lawyer yesterday.

You're an adult, male, living in the US in 2018, this isn't a joke. You literally had no control over this and men have gone to prison for less. This isn't something you get to fuck around with, because the judicial system and society at large are frothing at the fucking mouth to throw innocent men in jail.

Talk to a lawyer. Talk to a lawyer. Talk to a lawyer.

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There are no circumstances, anywhere in the US, where nude sexualized photos of someone under 18 are allowed. None.

*unless you're in the FBI, which has one of the largest collections of child porn on the planet to """"""catch the bad guys""""""""

GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THIS FAMILY.

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>As a step-parent, what am I supposed to do here?
Is this the Jow Forums equivalent of karma-whoring?

>stepson is 14
technically he's still a child, so it isn't child porn to him, it's just porn

US law requires that you report his production of cp, but I guess now you're an accessory.

>CP
>40 IPs and 60 posts
Jow Forums that interested in CP? Shit

Beat him.

She doesn’t share your values, it’s over. Find a woman who will give you your own child

>kids don't get charged for that shit unless they're involved in distributing it.

but OP said...
"Stepson gets a girl in middle school to send him nudes"

Your stepson is now a creator & distributor of child pornography.

Asking = creation
Recieving = intent to distribute

>Your wife seems lazy and irresponsible with the child, which figures for many single mothers.
Its called "burnout" happens when you're responsible for another human being, while taking care of yourself.

It’s really interesting you suppose her lazy and irresponsible with the boy. That’s how I see her: She always buys him off or takes the easy route instead of taking the time to give him real discipline or guidance. She’s always too busy (selfish/lazy?).

He’s not bright enough to play trickster, but he does flee to grandpa, with whom he still co-sleeps.

I keep hoping he could rebel. He’s so stifled and spoiled and over-protected.

I’ve been with him since age 8. His grandpa dominates him with generosity.

I was the first boyfriend after dad left.

The wife has a violent and erratic temper. I’ve left a number of times, often in some type of escape scenario. She went for a gun, lied down on the driveway behind my car to prevent me leaving, threatened to call police when I hadn’t done anything, etc. After a few days, she’d calm down and I’d return.

I don’t feel passionate love for my wife. I do like being married. I settled for her because I didn’t think anyone else could put up with me, unironically.

>There are no circumstances, anywhere in the US, where nude sexualized photos of someone under 18 are allowed. None.
You do know those laws are designed to protect children from being exploited by adults. A 15 year old sending nudes of themselves to another 15 year old doesn't qualify as such.

Of course it is true that a lot of redneck cops arrest kids for CP anyway because they're uninformed about the laws and they enjoy power tripping and controlling other people.

Jow Forums is full of loliposters, and ironically, responsible for a slew of stings on pedophiles. Jow Forums is to child porn like flies to a light. I saw my first CP because of this site. People I worked with on the “Spider-Man Elsa” conspiracy dug up and reported a bunch. Little girls taking slime baths in white t shirts. Reported to the fbi obviously. Don’t know if much was done, this video had massive traffic and was targeted at children. We found a pedo through the comments sections of some of these, a hardcore one from Brazil, who uploaded videos of his daughter or niece forced into jerking him off under the blankets. That one I reported to the FBI like 3 fucking times. Who knows what happened there. Channers were raging at him in the comments of his videos and he took his channel down shortly after.

>it isn't child porn to him, it's just porn
The law is what matters.

It’s called “there’s a reason she’s alone in the first place”

>Little girls taking slime baths in white t shirts

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WHO GIVES A SHIT. GO ON WITH UR LIFE U PARANOID FUCK.SAGE THREAD

Bait

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In Germany it is legal for underage persons to videotape or photograph themselves having sex, so long as it is consensual, not done for profit, and no adults are involved.

>The wife has a violent and erratic temper. I’ve left a number of times, often in some type of escape scenario. She went for a gun, lied down on the driveway behind my car to prevent me leaving, threatened to call police when I hadn’t done anything, etc. After a few days, she’d calm down and I’d return.

bait

>In Germany it is legal for underage persons to videotape or photograph themselves having sex, so long as it is consensual, not done for profit, and no adults are involved.
Germany is full of pedophiles, just like Japan and Russia, even Brazil...

The way I see it, if you provide for the kid, feed him, support him and do 'fatherly' things for him, you should be entitled to discipline him too.

Take away his shit, wipe the drive and put parental controls. OR just manage his network access through the router.

Buy him a bike or something and take away the computer. I didnt even have a computer until I was 15 or so.

So what is your solution?

> Literal wife's son post.

We can only pity you.

>A 15 year old sending nudes of themselves to another 15 year old doesn't qualify as such.
It shouldn't, and to anyone who isn't completely retarded or a corrupt goon it isn't, but the vast majority of judges in the vast majority of jurisdictions disagree.

One quarter of all sex offenders are under 18
>weeklystandard.com/eli-lehrer/a-senseless-policy

Here's a story of a girl who, at the age of 10 while playing with a neighborhood friend, was forced to register as a sex offender
>newyorker.com/magazine/2016/03/14/when-kids-are-accused-of-sex-crimes

Here are a few more
>outsidethebeltway.com/north-carolina-teen-charges-as-a-sex-offender-for-having-naked-pictures-of-himself/
>cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/07/sexting.busts/
>huffingtonpost.com/entry/teens-nude-photos-penalties_us_55f07586e4b002d5c077a2ea
>mtv.com/news/1631734/sexting-leads-to-teen-having-to-register-as-a-sex-offender/
>freerangekids.com/girl-14-takes-racy-pix-of-self-faces-sexual-offender-charge/
>hrw.org/reports/2007/us0907/7.htm
>businessinsider.com/surprising-things-that-could-make-you-a-sex-offender-2013-10
>theguardian.com/uk-news/2015/may/04/sexting-teenagers-selfie-criminal-record-sex-offenders-register
>aclu-wa.org/blog/sexting-and-law-press-send-turn-teenagers-registered-sex-offenders
>reason.com/blog/2017/02/14/teen-girl-sends-teen-boy-5-pix-of-self-i/print
>isba.org/ibj/2010/04/sextingitsnojokeitsacrime
>theage.com.au/victoria/sexting-youths-placed-on-sex-offenders-register-20110723-1hugu.html
>nwnewsnetwork.org/post/teen-who-took-x-rated-selfie-and-texted-photo-guilty-child-porn-washington

The American public is so hysterical about sex that they actively want to throw children in prison and brand them sex offenders for life, and the prison industrial complex is more than happy to oblige them.

let him enjoy his cp lol

If CP is produced and both parties are underage, you have to pay a fine of $50 per picture, but nobody gets any jail time or has to register as a sex offender. That sounds rather fair and just to me.

another thread presented by the FBI

>you have to pay a fine of $50 per picture
... who has to pay a fine of $50 per picture? The 10 year old?

This is typical of DV victims. They always think it’s going to change. OP is a victim himself.

Well I don't think 10 year olds are likely to be sexting each other being that one tends to not be into sex and whatnot pre-puberty.

>The American public is so hysterical about sex
You've never been molested or sexually exploited in anyway, so shut the fuck up.

> The American public is so hysterical about sex that they actively want to throw children in prison and brand them sex offenders for life, and the prison industrial complex is more than happy to oblige them.
It’s the intersection of overly broad laws and overzealous prosecutors. The public at large is actually disturbed by it.

>The way I see it, if you provide for the kid, feed him, support him and do 'fatherly' things for him, you should be entitled to discipline him too

Is that how it works in the real world.

You need to leave

>kid sends nudes to other kid
It's not de facto pizza

There was a school in my area where they sent some cops to lecture the kids on how sexting is illegal and they'll be charged with CP if they do it. You think at some point, these Barney Fifes they hire at police departments would think "Hey, y'know this is really stupid. I'm not gonna waste my time arresting a 14 year old for CP."

There's a thing called being part of the solution and a thing called being part of the problem.

Police enforce the law, they don’t write it. Just like a lot of police got sick of busting potheads and started backing legalization efforts.