Not really sure what to make of my newfound self. I'm on month 5 of NoFap and have so much extra motivation and drive, I'm very stoic and am a lot more in control of my emotions and reactions.
The only problem is that I feel like I have less of a libido. But I can't tell if it's that, or that I've made it submit to my dominion. I'm courting this qt at my work and she has a great body, but it is not the urge to fuck her that drives me to interact with her anymore. Now, if I think hard enough about us getting down to it, then my libido will spike up; the surge will come in a quick zap, but then I tame easily tame it again. I look at her as an actual human being and less of a sexual object, we share emotional headspace, and when that happens, then a libido surge will slightly spark between us. But it doesn't own me anymore.
Is this normal what I'm feeling? Or should I be a lot more hornier and sexually driven?
with low libido's it gave men incentive to build much of the modern world.
the best engineers and inventors don't jack off to porn all day, the barely even think with their cock.
that's why republicans wanted to ban porn because it slows GDP when the driving factor of the workforce (Young men) are distracted by and endless amount of tits on the internet and fat asses.
Mason Ross
>less desire to masturbate is not less libido congrats on getting this far. now you gotta go out and try picking up a slag desu. get laid, increase confidence and repeat. After a few victories your life will be way better.
Levi Thompson
your libido is fine. you are just purging yourself of satanic temptation. nofap is redpilled keep it up op
casual sex causes just as much harm as masturbation and sexually experienced men know this. that’s why beta losers fap and watch porn. Men who have fucked 10s know it’s all hype and offers zero benefit.
Liam Lopez
wrong
Jonathan Edwards
good job user you'll have it when you need it.
Liam Cook
I used to hang out with a bunch of porn stars and it's not about fucking chicks or fapping it's about sharing comfortable energy with no sexual contact.
i just made that up so spam it if you wanna throw logic loops
Jackson Scott
kike or coping fapper
Charles Davis
I experience this after just a few days to a week of nofap. Which is actually pretty shit because I have a wife and want to keep the desire contantly ready to go. Without the addiction I don't really even care about sex. Same thing happens when I don't drink beer or liquor for a while, a few days between drinks and I want it less and less to the point where I don't care about it. Which is also lame because sober me is in bed by 9pm and sleepy by 7. No fun
I had similar experience. I didn't see it as a lowering of my libido but as a sign that my libido had returned to its normal level. I think we are trained to be hypersexual by media, advertising, porn etc. Sexual imagery is all around and so we are constantly being pushed into a state of horniness. When you consciously resist the hypersexualisation your sex drive returns to a more natural level.
Jaxson Johnson
What world does this joker live in?
Michael Hughes
>The only problem is that I feel like I have less of a addiction congratulation you mastered your sexuality. >I look at her as an actual human being and less of a sexual object you removed her power to control you with her vagina.
Dominic Diaz
do you have an archived version of it? cant find this post on twatter
Could just be my age (20) but I’m a few weeks in and my libido is so strong I could fuck a couch. Do you lift and eat well user?
Robert Long
I'm on week 2 and feel like this, its weird
Ryder Foster
Healthy libido should never dominate your thoughts. The only useful measure is: can you get it up when you need to?
Dominic Phillips
Spoken like a true virgin. Getting laid after being a beta masturbater massively increases confidence as well as helps you understand your power as a male.
Easton Powell
Good. Keep going. Soon your sex drive will completely vanish. and there will be less white peo- ..um I mean less feminism because of it
>less of a sexual object This is fine but don't grow overly attached. She will use you if she thinks she can control you emotionally. Remember to fuck her regularly once you marry her to make sure she doesn't have the stamina to think about other men. Don't take no for an answer.
Nathan Kelly
I disagree. I think it is like a drug, where you get resistant to its effects, the more you use it.
I am not on nofap, but on a weekly fap cycle. I generally am not that horny anymore, like I used to be as a young teen. I think my brain just adjusted itself to all that sexual stimulation in the world around me.
When you fap all the time, your drive is adjusted to that level, so stoping will probbaly give you huge boosts of hornyness. It will over time adjust to this level tho. Adjusting to a level of hypersexualisation
Blake Sanchez
How old are you? Also, in my option, it takes longer than 5 months to completetly regain normal libido. It can take a few years for some. Keep going bro.
Look into water fasting too. It'll be like a controlled burn for your brain, breaking down negative neurological pathways and making your brain fertile for fresh healthy ones.
Adam Cruz
... tho is may be also not that natural, since you are probbably lacking any drive for sex, maybe even, when a naked girl is lieing in your bed.
It is great for a celebate lifestyle tho, as long as it does not affect your motivation to work.
Dominic Rogers
this is probbably the adjust phase. I think it will probabbly go away again
Joshua Hall
this youve succesfully become a queer, now you will start fapping to traps, sucking dicks in glory holes, and getting your ass hole gang banged by black cocks every saturday
It's called sublimation. It's one of the things freud actually got right, though he wasn't the first. 90% of the ancient myths, including the greek myth and the dragon slaying/saving the princess/psyche/soul myths are partially about this. It's when the males of a society do this on mass that societies flourish. It's transmuting sexual energy into higher pursuits. Base metals into gold.
"In psychology, sublimation is a mature type of defense mechanism, in which socially unacceptable impulses or idealizations are transformed into socially acceptable actions or behavior, possibly resulting in a long-term conversion of the initial impulse. Sigmund Freud believed that sublimation was a sign of maturity and civilization, allowing people to function normally in culturally acceptable ways. He defined sublimation as the process of deflecting sexual instincts into acts of higher social valuation, being "an especially conspicuous feature of cultural development; it is what makes it possible for higher psychical activities, scientific, artistic or ideological, to play such an "important" part in civilized life"
Being able to tame the beast of your sexual domain is a positive skill to have. However completely restricting it's mere existence as your only means of defending against it's primal urges can only lead to despair. Either change how you mentally fend off the urge or move on to NoPorn. Personal advice given my experience and the fact you took the time to make this thread is to move on to NoPorn.
Isaiah Jones
Meh, not really. I'm married and have a kid. Sex is fun and all, but it doesn't give me confidence. Working out gives me confidence, running gives me confidence.
Any fatso can fuck a slut. discipline, self improvement, that builds competence and confidence.
Brandon Young
you are just back to normal. also became older. you solved your pornography addiction and are no longer slave of your penis. well done
Cameron Long
>What are wet dreams >Balls get too full >Nut in your sleep >New semen forms
There is always desire to be something more within human. Usually it manifest itself through materialistic ways, sexual ways, through drugs or parenthood example. It is endless chasing, rat-race that leads nowhere but keeps you busy through own creation that people calls as life.
We can't remember our time as toddlers because we didn't exist in that time. We had no identity. Only when years has gone while we gathered data from our environment we created identity. When we have our identity, we decide what matters to us. Then we experience impulsive feelings when things didn't go as we wanted.
We are piece of life that creates own image and plays it (Genesis 1:27 So God created man in His own image). We get so tangled to our own creation that it can kill us and bring us into hell. We think that something or someone causes our misery even when we alone create everything within.
We have all this mysterious desire to do something, be something more. It usually manifest itself through sexual ways, materialistic ways, through parenthood, dating, drugs, games, food, alcohol.. you name it. Through that it leads nowhere, it keeps us happy for a moment and then we need more. So where we are now? We are piece of life that want to experience bigger part of it. Through physical ways it finds not that part and when that need to expand finds no expression we create this pain within. So what to do? This is what meditation is all about. We don't want to identify to our thoughts or to our outward senses. That is just the data we gathered from the physical and created self from it. When we learn to be still, just be as piece of life, something start to happen that seems to expand you into everywhere. It seems to that consciousness, awareness is the basic that exist and everything else is manifest of it.
What (((they))) wan't is to bind us more and more into physical, sins, into that rat-race i wrote about above, so that we wouldn't learn or even think about this.
Jace Robinson
You are less impulsive. More human when actually in control of your animal instinct.
Zachary Sanchez
thats a myth my friend. your balls won't get blasted by not ejaculating. stop with your jewish science. your body absorbs semen if not used. ever seen a good goy that made a vasectomy and blasted his balls after a week?
Josiah Peterson
If you don't use it you will lose it... you have to ejaculate every once in awhile or it will stop working. I'm a doctor
Leo Thomas
Your dick knows that it's not gonna go down all the time, so it doesn't waste energy on getting up. But when you need it, your friend will be there. Trust me.
>go months without cumming, finally get a women Enjoy your deformed children
wet dreams stop after 16
William Ramirez
>We can't remember our time as toddlers Speak for yourself, I remember Yugoslavia winning basketball world cup in '98 when I was 2.5-3 years old and I remember NATO bombings and me cursing Albanians.
Grayson Turner
>i don't think about sex 24/7 like a bonobo ape in heat AND HERE IS WHY THATS A GOOD THING...
but seriously it's a good thing.
Jeremiah Parker
No fap is stupid, and possibly unhealthy. Unless you're training yourself to be a priest, or a monk, it's dumb to do such a thing.
A healthy man should seek to expend his sexual energy on a woman, not on fapping, obviously, but if there is no woman available, why not. Sexual energy is factor driving man to action. If you have no sexual desire, you're a low testosterone blubber head of some kind.
David Williams
Jews own porn, and Jews never give anything away for free. Why is porn free?
