I dont pursue them and dont respond when they ask me out. Am I wasting my youth as a volcel?
I look like a chad but utterly despise women
No, wasting time with women is inceldom
much rather spend my time swimming or helping my family
Yea you are wasting your time and will regret it when you're older.
Totally.
It's the dumbest shit you can do.
You will look back and say:
Shit I could have all those kids and that shitty job.
Try looking like a chad but being a 5'7 manlet
Life sucks man
If you don’t screw at least a few women during or before your early twenties, you will be Fucked Up mentally.
You might ask yourself why you dont respond?
Religious indoctrination
Self confidence problems
Overly particular
secretly gay
Once you know why you are acting this way you can find a solution. But chances are if your on pol its because youre a brainwashed faggot.
oldfag chad here. Learn from my experience. Women are garbage and detestable, not to mention utterly useless in the context of relationships(mothering, cooking, cleaning, loyalty, integrity, morality.) But I couldn't resist so I ended up getting married, then resenting and despising my wife due to her behavior which was consistent with the behavior of all her fellow modern women. 3 marriages and 3 divorces later, and 2 houses, over a $1mil down the drain, here I am. Save your money, save your effort. Stay away from these disgusting whores that call themselves women.
You're gay sorry
........ yikes
As a fellow 5'7er
Im sorry but 5'7ers cannot be Chad. Its just not possible. Even if you have a model tier face and a Greek God body, you just cannot be Chad, the height does not allow it.
Not religious.
No self confidence problems.
My standards are high but i get hit on by hot girls.
Nope.
>Am I wasting my youth as a volcel?
No, women were a mistake.
>Once you know why you are acting this way you can find a solution
Implying it's a problem to be solved.
No, it is far more unique in today world to be a virgin, hell its rare as fuck for anyone to only have slept with 1 person
>I dont pursue them and dont respond when they ask me out.
You should never respond when one of them asks you out. That's improper and she's a whore.
You're supposed to pursue the woman.
And she's supposed to wait for you to make your move.
And yes, you're supposed to be making a move.
You need to be looking for a nice girl, a really nice girl, that you are able to form a connection with and you need to be looking for a nice girl that seems really nice, to try to start forming that connection.
Then you ask her out. Marry her. Have babies.
So you're half right.
You’re scared to find out that they were plowed by 50 niggers right after having sex with them. Or you’re afraid she will become some statistical whore.
You could always date men
Yeppers
you are the only sane one user. they have no use other than making babies.
You dont have to lie to yourself. But most people choose to. The list was not comprehensive.
Autistic
Low test
Small penis
High impulse control
Indictrination
Poor
You may be subconciously protecting yourself.
>Am I wasting my youth
Yes. The really nice wholesome girls ( and there are some ) get snagged up by nice men very early on. They get married at age 19 and shit like the golden generation used to do.
Then they stay married for life, have babies, all that.
I've seen it plenty.
You wait, until you're 30, and there's nothing but slags, whores, divorcees as women peers.
You find a NICE pretty girl, while you are young, and you marry her. And you keep her.
Otherwise you will grow old alone. I promise.
Gonna blog for a second. I'm only volcel because for some reason only fat chicks hit on me and I'm not going to be with anyone that has that serious lack of self control or interest in their health.
I guess they think that I'm the best they could get because I'm not a Chad but I still have standards. I'm not desperate for bottom of the barrel women because I'm working hard at making a good life for my future family and I want a woman that will do her part seriously as well.
>You could always date men
because faggots think that everyone must go through the same emotional masturbation as they do. you dont have to "date" anyone
>Implying I'm not already mentally ruined
dating is gay. even if you date women you are still a faggot
I see low-test faggots with feminine voices hanging out with women all the time. They love to go to their shitty parties and join them on shopping sprees. You are probably one of those, you secret faggot lol.
You're probably one of those cucked losers who'd be workout buddies with a woman as well. Despicable.
Just be a fag like me and never deal with women again. It's time to take the pink suppository, women will never be based and you will never enjoy their company. You were meant to be with your fellow Man
Its okay. Anger is a prime defense mechanism. Explore this a bit more. Why are you so angry about what i said?
>Self Confidence problems
Exactly,I am overweight and I see myself unworthy for a woman.I am trying to become Jow Forums and grow my hair in order to have a medium-long haircut.
I am still 18 years old,so by the time I reach 20 years old I'll be good
Yea if it makes you feel any better I've seen a fat ugly ass mother fucker with a small dick ( according to girls who messed around with him ) marry a beautiful blond 18 year old and have babies with her and be happy.
You just look around while you're young and you ask . You get you one.
It's not hard.
>The really nice wholesome girls ( and there are some ) get snagged up
This is true
>by nice men
Are you fucking retarded?
>I see myself unworthy for a woman
I hope one day you look back and kick yourself in the dick for this mentality.
Kid you have no idea.
>by nice men
Yea. They do. The guys are firefighters and police officers and fucking youth ministers and they get them a nice 18 year old wife and then they're fucking gravy after that.
I saw it constantly where I used to live.
>20 in July, still not Jow Forums
Int he same boat mate. I lost 115 pounds after high school and look a hell of a lot better - but I'm still autistic. On the exterior I look like the quintessential frat boy asshole, but I'm still the same insecure fatass in private. I can get a girl home but I can never keep them around. Kinda sucks.
Self confidence is difficult, even if you're good looking and what not. It's all about confidence.
Gentlemen, I know a girl who is very nice but she's probably just a 5 (she can make herself look better though). She seems to really like me and she seems to have a similar personality to me. Should I?
The problem is that I can't get myself to talk to girls when I am in this state because I know that girls will play on my weaknesses.
I need to become strong and fit first,so that I can be who I want and not be ashamed of myself.
I'm not a manlet,I'm 6",have a v shaped jawline,but not a strong chin,also not a dicklet (17cm of length for 13cm of girth).
I might be blogposting,but I felt to let it out,I cannot say this to anyone
I know a guy who is actually quite fat but he's the most confident man ever and his gf is literally a goddess-tier 9.
You're Chad Jr.
yah
post face
I know,I sound like a weak man,but in the end that's what I am.
That's the reason why I decided to start,next week, kickboxing and weightlifting.
I feel like I need to train and be alone for some time
Yep, exactly my point.
It's funny - I'm a CS major and my personality fits that of an incel almost to a tee assuming I'm not faking it, but I don't look the part whatsoever.
On my first day of discrete this semester I walked in with a fleece that had my fraternity letters on it and the professor goes "I'm sorry, are you lost?" Pissed me off but I see where he's coming from.
Also girls dont give a fuck if youre smart. at all.
You either really hate your mother or really LOVEEE your mother
Do you have girlfriend now? Do you have girls you talk to? No? Then it doesn't matter does it?
You need to stop caring so much. You can talk to them. What's it gonna hurt huh? Nothing.
Don't let them play you anyway but straight.
I'm not telling you to have confidence.
I'm telling you to not give a fuck.
You're not getting a puss right now anyways.
Not talking to girls just keeps that the same.
They can't hurt you. They can't do anything to you but ignore you. They do that already because you let them.
Try it. Talk to one. Stop caring whether it works out or she's impressed. What difference does it actually make? Just do it.
Do not give a fuck because you already DO NOT GIVE A FUCK DO YOU NOT? You don't.
You just said you didn't give a fuck about talking to girls. So don't. And do it anyways.
They love it when you don't give a fuck.
Don't put women on a pedestal sir. The women will smell it.
>Kid you have no idea.
Whats wrong with it?
Women are the selectors and their demands are exceedingly high, i mean fuck ive been lifting for the better part of 10 years and im still not good enough to pick up a chick at a bar or through tinder
When she says "I really like nerdy guys omg so cute!"
She means "I like hot confident men who kinda look like nerds I guess"
chadlet ftfy
This. Women are fucking pathetic for the most part.
Women will have it all, and still be unhappy and kill themselves. They'll live the instagram model life and hang themselves. They'll make a billion dollar business and be idolized by other women while having the perfect family, then hang themselves. They'll be very pretty, KNOW that they are with their pretty girlfriends, and refuse most men, but they'll fall into depression and hang themselves.
For the most part, women are worth a fuck and that's it.
>Am I wasting my youth as a volcel
If you are using your free time for employment, saving money, and bettering yourself, then no.
Also, post pics of pecks
There’s a lid for every pot. There are dangers to making yourself into something you are not to impress other people.
“Be yourself” is good advice to the extent that changing yourself to a radical degree for someone else doesnt really work and often comes at a heavy price.
Self improvement is great. But make sure your doing it for you.
Maybe an example. If you want to be a doctor go to med school. If your mom wants you to be a doctor going tonmed school is probably a bad idea.
The difference isnt the action but the motivation.
Youll turn out fine and remeber this too shall pass. Even if its not today or tommorrow there is someone out there.
Fuck off discord shill.
>girl don't care if you're smart
This. They actually resent it.
At least talk and flirt with some girls. Not every girl is so bad despite what you hear on this site. A lot of guys here are late 20's early 30's who have more experience and have dealt with more cunts. It's easy for them to become bitter but young guys like you and me should take what they say with a grain of salt. The white race needs more families anyways.
Dianetics was actually so true.
>everything on this site is bullshit.
This kid gets it.
>le hate women
Is just part of the anti human programming they are feeding you. This site baits you with some basic esoteric truth but then fills you with batshit insane propaganda. Thats the jig.