Is marriage worth spending time and resource?
I am offered arranged marriage by my grand parents.
They demand me to marry 6/10 uneducated woman who want to be housewife and have kids with me.
I am kissless virgin have have never experienced "love".
My grandparents will build the house for us if I decided to marry her.
What is best option in here? I don't want to lose my freedom. Is marriage worth in 2019?
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>I don't want to lose my freedom.
It's not like you're using it anyway
>I don't want to lose my freedom.
Freedom to do what?
If you are close to your grandparents there is a good chance they understand both of your personalities and think you will make a good match. Having a family comes with a great deal of responsibility, but can provide your life with meaning. You have to ask yourself what you value more, the routine and freedom you currently have, or a life with other people which will require sacrifice but offers love and companionship.
Jesus, fuck, do it.
I mean it, the deal doesn’t get much better.
Love is overrated bullshit. People die, go crazy. Go for the real estate. Land lasts much longer. Make money.
I would pay for that right now at 36. She has to be 25 and skinny.
Make lots of kids user, keep her busy at home and all will be good.
You're the autist who thinks he wants a smart woman you can respect. You posted last week about this.
I'll say it again. That shit isn't going to make you happy. As long as she's not a ditz and can teach the kids the three Rs that's plenty. Plus, looks get old fast.
Just relax a little. Try to be human, not a robotic insect, for once.
Just get an anime pillow and marry that instead
>implying you will be getting anything better considering the fact that you're not only browsing this site but also asking this question
You're not as free as you think.
Go for it. I would, it definitely won't get better than this.
>What is best option in here?
Freedom is always the answer.
Marry her and make babies.
>be a degenerate
Move to Africa.
Sounds like a good deal user you should do it
>replying to pasta
KYS ,Jow Forums.
No
Do it faggot
I'd assume marriage would be better in nip land.
>option 1: you get arranged, might fall in love, have kids
>option 2: you refuse, never fall in love
choose 1 you fool, it sounds like its your only real choice at this point
do it user. the pickings only get slimmer the longer you wait.
do it while you can.
but remember it's gonna be hard.
>I am offered arranged marriage by my grand parents.
>They demand me to marry 6/10 uneducated woman who want to be housewife and have kids with me.
>I am kissless virgin have have never experienced "love".
>My grandparents will build the house for us if I decided to marry her.
Your grandparents are based and redpilled. Depending on divorce laws in nipland i say go for it immediately. Your fellow citizens of Autism Island reproduce at such a low rate that of you have five kids they could end up ancestors of the whole population by 2100.
This, if my grandparents didn't die before i was born they would've arranged a marriage for me as well and my life would've been a million times better.
Also uneducated.
Is the 6/10 also a kissless virgin?
And is she 6/10 because she could take care of herself and could improve with effort, or is 6/10 the best it gets?
I mean, either way you should probably go for it because it's better than your odds on Japan's marriage/partner/sexual market as I understand.
How old are you?
> I dont want to lose my freedom
> I am a kissless virgin
Thats some...freedom you got there Nip.
Sounds a lot lile loneliness.
I thought Americans turned into pussies, but man did we do a number on you Japs. The most fearsome, fearless, conviction and honor driven warriors in the modern history. Look at you all now. Shame.
>6/10
How ugly are you?
If the same then do it.
Sounds like a good deal that's coming to you, especially if they aren't senile and actually can build a good house.
Do it.
Even it it's some 6/10 dumb whore, you are still contributing to the survival of your race.
>meanwhile in india shitskins run around with 10 children each
>meanwhile in afrika niggers run around with 10 children each
You nuked them twice, that's why they are a bunch of zoophilic incel kissless virgin afraid of women lolicon perverted wankers.
Take the marriage, spend your money on her as well as yourself, force yourself to enjoy it and eventually you will. By that point you'll also have kids with her, and since you're the sole income and sole educated parent she will allow you to control how the kids are raised. All of a sudden in about 5 years you've gone from kissless virgin to manly man that young women love, at that point get a mistress. Now you have wife, kids who love you and hot mistress.
damn you're lucky
free house and 6/10 Japanese waifu? sign me up
Let me tell you something, cherry boy. Love is just a delusion. It doesn't actually exist. People date and marry each other based on material resources and genetic quality.
>You'll get a free house and a wife
dude why not?
Never go for the person your relatives choose for you. That being said, if you are a khv loser who will never find a gf otherwise, you've got nothing to lose.
>muh freedom
Nobody knows what this word really means these days.
Arranged marriage is based and Redpilled
this.
What does a 6/10 look like to you?
Hi.
Thanks for response.
I am actually a elite who got master degree from best university in Japan.
Although I am kissless virgin, maybe I can date a qt girl if I work hard and get better salary.
Also, I don't like uneducated woman. They usually can not understand what I want to talk.(For example, I love to talk about statistics and deep learning when I have available time with my friend. I want a partner who can understand what I did and do in my job)
MY GOD JUST GO FOR A GOOD GIRL, DONT ACCEPT THAT MARRY, even your parents want you can get much better qt or even paying for sex, i mean if you marry someone you doesnt love or dont feel attract you will cheat her eventually
> I love to talk about statistics and deep learning when I have available time with my friend. I want a partner who can understand what I did and do in my job
Know that feel
ME CHINESE ME PLAY JOKE ME GO PP IN YOUR COKE
CHING CHONG BING BONG
WOMEN ARE NOT FOR TALKING ABOUT STATISTICS
WOMEN ARE FOR PUTTING PENIS INSIDE HOLE AND MAKE BABY
YOU ARE STUPID
An educated woman is a woman that doesn't have children. Fuck off.
In what country?
You got friends for understanding what you do at work. Wanting that from a partner is probably part of the reasons why you are virgin in the first place.
Fucking do it faggot. I wish I was in your position. Especially with how the dating market is in Japan you'd be crazy to pass it up. Fuck I'd marry a 5/10 if she was a v and I came with a free house
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tl;dr - Holy fuck! Go for it!
Let's think about this for a moment.
Your grandparents have setup a situation for you in which you're guaranteed to spread your genes and have the biggest expense of your life (likely) taken care of.
>I am kissless virgin have have never experienced "love".
That was me as well.
Wanna know how that changed?
I quit watching porn and what do you know, all of the internal mechanisms (love) designed by nature (or God, if you prefer) to produce offspring just happened.
I am now happily married with a son about to be born any day now.
He's actually a couple days past his due date.
Anyways, Love™ is a lot like Science™.
Hilariously misrepresented.
The feelings of love ebb and flow.
Some days, I'll hear my wife eating (she's a very loud eater) and it'll upset me so much I have to go into another room.
Other days, my wife looks so classically beautiful that she looks as if she stepped right off the set of Casa Blanca.
>I don't want to lose my freedom.
What are you using your "freedoms" for?
How have you used them in the past?
Be honest.
Marriage is bullshit, don't be fooled. Pump and Dump, love isn't real anyway.
don’t you have a job?
i’ve been to japan and red salons are part of the culture. just get prostitutes until you lose your insecurity and start socializing with women
Yes, do it virgin. You have this opportunity brought on a silver plate, take it
These. You don't talk about deep learning with your wife, you have work friends for that. If she's also a virgin you need to go through with this
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Sounds like they're offering to give you what you'll never get on your own. Just take it and be thankful that there's a society that thinks of the younger generation's future
>I don't like uneducated woman
Educated women are the biggest whores and sick feminist nutters.
They also look for thrills and get bored easy so you might find yourself divorced in a couple of years.
They are smart enough to fuck chad of nogs behind your back too.
Choose the peasant girl if she's young
a woman should want to get to know you and have a good time having fun with each other while both are independent enough to be responsible
the one thing she does not need to do is listen to your miserable job-duties. you want both to be individuals with own interests after all, not co-dependent, needy fools who make the relationship a nightmare when the infatuation fades
As long as she's thin, I think a 6/10 is a decent deal.
That pic is fuckin badass, my dude. Wish you and your new family well.
OP is actually a faggot
>be me, beta custy service worker at a US base, not an english teacher
>have big titty jpgf
>meet her parents
>dad is high level sales exec mfer at {Big Jap Company}, mom is the perfect housewife
>They got 3 houses
>I'm just a dirty poor mutt from California
>Dad's dying of diabetes, mom's dying of cancer, both working to attempt to retire and help my sister single parenting her two 56%ers
>Her parents start showering me with gifts, sweets
>Basically saying: "Just marry our 30 year old daughter already"
>Suddenly now I'm living with her after a year.
What do lads? Am I fucking over my family and leaving the US to my soon-to-be gangster nephews? I'm building business contacts inside japan, learning japanese like a real weeaboo.
If i married her, i'd want her to be a stay at home wife, so my job right now doesn't cut it...
>nip
>nobody has suggested MONSTER GIRL HAREM
Stay the fuck away from “educated” women. You’ll thank me later.
Arranged marriages are the least likely to end in divorce I'd say ask your grandparents if you could meet her first and see how you feel
>My grandparents will build the house for us if I decided to marry her.
Really seals the deal
>want to be housewife and have kids with me
I'd do it if she was somewhat smart and good looking. Meet her. Also thank your grandparents for being trad and caring about you. Intelligence has little to do with (((education))).If you are an incel you won't get gf very soon on the normal way.
>30 year old daughter
>dating Christmas cakes
Yeah that's a big yikes from me
fucking do it! think i could get one?
Your wife should NEVER be treated as an intellectual "equal"
That's how she loses respect for you.
>my level of jealously is immeasurable and my day is ruined
Just go for it user
holy shet. think the birds turned evil.
You can fill your life with useless things. Money, bitches, booze, vidya - in the end none of that matters. Having a good family can fill the void. In the long term it is the only thing that is worth it
Man, you don't need to talk those incel things to her. YOU JUST NEED TO PUT YOUR DICK INSIDE HER PUSSY AND MAKE BABIES!
You need to start to know to talk about other things. Your kid will like to talk about One Piece, not statistics.
Like other people have said, you have your friends for talking about the technical subjects you enjoy, your wife doesn't have to be interested in those subjects. A university educated woman might be a good fit, but she might not as well. She might be more liberal and perhaps unfit to be a housewife, she might expect more out of you to an unnecessary degree.
If you feel uncomfortable speaking about more general subjects that's your problem, not a problem with an otherwise good fit woman who might not be educated. Learn to enjoy talking about less intellectual subjects. I did and it really helped me in life, I can talk to anyone now.
Your parents are the only ones you own anything, apart from that, you only take care of people if you like then. Do you like your nephews? If so, try to help then. But don't ruin your life over then.
I recommend you to stay where you are and marry the nip.
>tfw no arranged marriage
>my grandfather from Europe worries about how I have no gf
>a few years ago he said he'd introduce me to a girl my age but never has
It's better to something something the thing than to have a list of somethings you never had.
Or some shit.
Asia is the future user. Being here before the inevitable brain drain of the US will be advantageous.
Thanks.
Found the pic in a /NSG/ thread a while back.
>They usually can not understand what I want to talk.
Hate to tell you this but 99% of women will NOT understand you.
Women aren't meant to be talking buddies or friends even.
If you get into a relationship you simply play a role (ei. you provide, she raises children and cleans and shit).
It's like working at a company, each person has their role to play, doesn't mean they are your friends.
If you want someone to talk to, find a male friend.
would wife those titties
>30 year old daughter
I don't know even with perks that can be quite a bad choice. Expired meat comes with sale for a reason
I guess it depends a bit on how old you are too but still
How old are you both?
eggsurance.com
Why is her site still up?
You can actually talk with an unneducated woman about complicated stuff, you just need to simplify and make it engaging, slowly building up her knowledge on the theme to the point where she understands even if you talk without making things simple. The process of you teaching her about stuff is even more engaging than talking about it with her as well.
Unless you marry with someone from your field, you will always find things that you enjoy that she doesn't understand. So, it is good to nurture that pleasure of teaching.
dude we had this convo a few weeks ago, do it you dumb faggot, you sure youre not uneducated?
>i want a 'smart' woman
no
do it and stop being a fucking moron
Jerk off to anime porn all day.
Ask your grandparents if they will pay when she decides to take half your shit in a divorce? Otherwise, no there is no point in getting married in today’s western countries for men.
6/10? Is her family rich? What are you on a 1-10 scale?
You have the freedom to be a vidya fag with no 6/10 trad waifu. Don't let them take that from you, faggot.
If he sayed that he wanted a 10/10 would be a much better excuse
You fucking moron even qt girls don't want to talk about your sophisticated ideas with you. You don't get it no wonder your kiss less. Take the deal before it's too late.
do it and settle.. before you'll never get the chance anymore..
Do you got pics of her?
Being with some random woman and procreating just because you have nothing better to do sounds like a basis for a happy life.
Marriage in jap land doesn't work the same way as the abomination we have here in the west.
From what I heard, divorce is considered shameful there and couples will often "stay" together even if they hate each others guts.
I visited for Christmas to be with my mom for a treatment.
Christmas dinner went like this
>Sit down for dinner
>Notice Dad didn't initiate grace seance
>cute 56% nephews actually behaving well
>Notice my dad starts taking food from one of the serving dishes with his hand
>Mom asks him to stop
>he does it again
> Mom asks him to stop
>he says he can do wants because he's the dad
>I ask him to stop
>bla bla, dont tell me what to do im your father
>I sperg out the hardest I've ever fucking sperged because he's just grabbing shit with his shit covered hands that my cancerous mom made by herself
>yelling, screaming cursing infront of my newphews, called my sister a bitch infront of them for some reason
>Calm down, realised I fucked up
>Sister leaves with nephews
>Dad tells me my mom cheated on him
>mom seems more manipulative than I thought at this point
>cant wait to go back to my christmas cake in Japan
I'm 28
She's an "educated" liberal type this thread is complaining about. I can't talk to her about american politics without her going on a spike lee level rant about white people. If that's avoided, she's pretty awesome. Who the fuck wants to talk to their woman about anything intellectual? Use your bros for that.
She has a higher number than me by 3, most likely more seeing as she was a spoiled world traveler in her college years.
I don't know if I care at this point. She's the first girl I've been with who has a dad and hasn't been sexually abused as a kid.
My wife and I married at 30 & 29 respectively, and we’re ecstatic, wealthy, and have two preteen children.
The marriage and reproduction rates in Enola Gay Villages are beyond stagnant... 30yrs old ain’t shit.
Take the option, it's worth a brand new house and you want kids asap. You want to be able to know your grandkids when they're 30. All four of my grandparents died when I was around 10
nice
I don't like the sound of that.
If you are super desperate then maybe but you could definitely get someone way younger and better wife material still if you are only 28, especially if you aren't totally hideous.
30 is already losing fertility, like latest you should marry is 25 or something.
Not that it can't work but you are just exposing yourself to needless risks for no reason.