Unless someone is severely overweight or has extreme social anxiety they can get a girlfriend.
When I was in High School most of the Incel I knew were always going after supermodel looking bitches and then complaining when those women didn't want anything to do with them. They were always complaining about no one wanting to sleep with them which was crazy to me because there was plenty of women in their own League that would have slept with them.
Why are they like this?
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they spend to much time in the internet with other self loathing people. its a negative feedback loop
That term has no meaning and will only be used to demonize whites, you are playing into their narrative you simple fuck.
It's not about trying to find some bitch who looks hot, its about finding a girl who has a single original thought that you connect with and at least tries to be in the relationship without playing mind games then gets pissy when you try and take over.
The term definitely has meaning. Most white men are not adult virgins and I know plenty of Incels that are not white.
Basically yes.
This.
You're obsessed with an alt right propoganda fueled narrative my dude. There is more to life than whatever the fuck arbitrary and nebulus definition of "white" you're trying to identify as today.
Pretty much this. We have an idealized image of women in our minds and no one measures up. People always react with surprise when I tell them I've never been in a serious relationship. I know the reason why. I've turned down so many opportunities and feel fundamentally broken. I just can't "go with the flow" and hedonistically enjoy life like all these normies seem to be able to. Just isn't in me. I can't stop giving a shit about the big issues that no one else seems to care about either. I wasn't made for this world.
Why do people care so much about incels? The world is so fucking gay now, why do people feel the need to demonize socially awkward nerds when we were so comfortable merely ignoring them or telling a joke at their expense every now and then?
Border crisis, opioid epidemic, ever major metropolitan area has large pockets where its unsafe to walk, Syria is a pile of rubble, China is colonizing Africa, China and Hong Kong are in the midst of a huge fucking standoff, Ebola is sweeping across Africa.
But no, guys who make roastie jokes and play minecraft are the biggest existential threat we face, the struggle that will define this generation and this decade. Fuck off.
I think that if they want to quit inceldom they have to leave that masculinist subculture. That thing prevents any man to get a healthy relationship because they will always get too paranoid
Nail on the head.
Have sex incel
Americans are taught that they are special, it takes them a long time to learn they are not.
No they are normal every one else is just whores
If they aren't getting laid because of their preferences, then they aren't incels by definition.
they spend more time and energy draining their balls to porn than actually pursuing a flesh and blood female
Of course! If you want advice on dating, ask women!
>there is no white
fuck off nigger
The problem isn’t getting a girlfriend you pathetic boomer faggot.
The problem is everything that happens after that. For hardwired biological reasons women are for the most part incapable of meeting men for shits and giggles. If you’re not Chad their agenda usually involves extracting costly commitments or money out of dudes.
Because of online dating, the faggotrous MeToo culture and for tldr who go that far the way marriage works, men generally have never had less leverage and power in sexual relationships whether married or not.
Its unironically because of the shootings and other acts of violence. People are started to get a little scared of them, hence the focus and elaborate ridicule.
I'm not demonizing them as terrorists and I don't believe they're the greatest threat to America. I was just curious why most of them don't lower their standards.
Also no one cares about those other issues because they don't immediately concern us.
Nah man I recognize that women nowadays are mostly whore (but men are too, and can't deny that) but that MRA stuff is unhealthy. There are a lot of good women out there and you can marry them
I'm married with multiple children. I wouldnt be inclined to give a single fuck about muh incels if they weren't constantly touted as domestic jihadis. The hysteria around them just feels gross, like society has endorsed bullying guys who likely have been bullied their whole lives, while with a straight face showing grave concern about cyber harassment and bullying in schools
They're orders of magnitude more likely to be killed by a vending machine than a white mass shooter.
And besides, did any of them claim they performed the shooting because of loneliness? Except the antifag.
Guys clearly don’t want to marry, or they would. What’s so hard to understand about this?
Just gotta hit a slumpbuster. So yes.
I can't get a gf because I'm not playing that shit, no thanks eugh... You'd need to sustain a complex social bond that has strange parameters to look at and is simply all too complex for me. You have to think about what you're saying and tou need to validate your competence to your partner either psychologically, financially, physically, socially or otherwise.
Also she'd drag me down on my libertarian lifestyle in the woods/Russian wilderness/islands.
Taking care of a baby is easier than that. And I will do that when the artificial wombs come to the market.
Most of the Incels I know are complaining about not getting pussy. If you're complaining about women not being good marriage material that's different.
i don't even care about women at this point - beyond the occasional flare up, that is
>Unless someone is severely overweight or has extreme social anxiety they can get a girlfriend.
where do you think you are?
>we think these people are likely to snap and murder others
>i got it, lets fuck with them
Clown world is intense
If God has truly called someone to be single their whole life, then that is a good thing and should be praised as much as married life.
You should just go to Church. You are failing because YOU are trying to select a mate rather than following God and seeing what he provides for you as a part of your vocation in life.
Also it doesn't have to be severe, most people aren't actually that keen on getting GF's, incels often were actively pursuing at some point.
Bullshit. The people that mock incels allegedly out of fear of them are the same people that stand with muslims and condemns anti Islamic bigotry the second a muslim blows himself up in a group of British people.
I have a gf
I really love her and I want to have lots of children with her
It's healthy and honorable, A PROPER ARYAN BEHAVIOR.
masculinism/MGTOW is Jewish, because it preaches for hedonism
It’s that but it’s also how society and the system works. This boomer idea that if you ‘find the right girl’ everything will be fine is naive and ridiculous.
The real reason men increasingly don’t date or marry is their realization at how powerless they are socially if things go south. The conditioning that you just need to try harder or lift harder or find the right one are wearing hollow.
People don't think like logical robots dude. Statistics don't mean anything to the monkey brain. These shootings and shit are massively televised and reported on and people have imagined themselves in one, have looked at the awkward weird kid and wondered, etc. etc.
This situation is good, well and perfect. When guys ignore anything below 8/10 that leaves a lot of bitches with some sort of inferiority complex and that's why /b/s a great place and pubs are full of skanks willing to suck dick after 3 drinks in the bathroom stall. Niggers.
OK that’s great but I think my explanation for why guys are shying away from relationships and marriage is the correct one or at least the closest you’re going to get.
Again it's not "logical" but it's an understandable psychological impulse. How do you deal with some shit that scares you? You turn it into a joke or an object of ridicule or contempt. People don't even understand that this is why they do it.
Point is that the only problem we have is a hysterical mass media hellbent on fostering and milking public fear.
Thanks for posting, memeflag.
I think the problem is that "incels" place too much importance on sex -- well, they as well as the over-sexualized populace.
Can't get laid? Whatever. Move on. It shouldn't be such a focus. Sex pleasure is temporary.
Islamic terrorism
>alt right
This is how you spot a shill.
Yes, a group of British people. Aka far away, nothing to do with me and mine. Also you get no virtue signal points for defending "incels". But they exist in every social realm, ubiquitously.
Not the only problem we have, but a big one, yes.
If I compromise I transform from incel to beta cuck.
No thank you.
Sex is a central focus of mankind because it controls reproduction. This is why we are unconsciously wired to affix it so much importance.
They're not scared, they've been doing this shit since high school, that's where it comes from. It just used to be somewhat less socially acceptable as they became adults. Those kids became NEET or suicide victims, at which point they figured the due was paid and left them alone. The recent "incel" attacks have generated some fear, but mostly just an excuse to go back to their old ways. People are finding more and more ways to infantilize themselves.
See my other post on that. If we had large scale bombings in America in important places every week that were undeniably acts of terrorism the response would be different.
No they haven't. Not this focused and not on this scale.
"way to picky" ? It doesn't matter what YOU look like.....you're not gonna get a boner over some ugly pig, just because you might be in the "same league" as her. Are obese guys supposed to find obese women attractive because they're fat themselves ?
When did I say their life will be fine after they have sex or have a girlfriend?
You're putting words into my mouth bro
I dont give a shit about virtue signaling points. It is absurd that socially awkward nerds are assumed to be villains now, and it needs to be said.
The more desperate they get the more they are off putting and the more off putting they are the more desperate they become.
Also they don't know how to handle rejection because Chad gets rejected a lot (not nearly as much as you) but he just doesn't let it get to him.
I'm a pretty handome guy, even better looking in highschool. Strong German features + bright blonde hair (used to be fucking golden).That was partly why people thought it was so hilarious I was such a nervous wreck, caved at the slightest bit of bullying, barely masked my obvious misanthropy, etc. Unfortunately, my psycho cousin thought my 5yr old ass was even prettier, and stretched it around his 12yr old cock... The first girl I fucked as a sophomore, a childhood friend, wound-up telling fucking EVERYBODY and cheating on me. I just use call girls for all their worth and kick them the fuck out now. People are more trouble than they're worth.
His idea is based on some kind of meritocracy ideology where sexual selection is always justified and it is the responsibility of the individual to conform to it. What he's really saying is "if you wanna bang x girl, put in the work, or accept you aren't good enough"
Yeah of course it is absurd, I'm merely explaining to you why it is happening. Just because people act irrationally does not mean they are therefore irrational objects - you can understand what makes them work and how they tick.
>OK
Fuck you fuck you fuck you
A lot of us are in this same boat
and more and more climb in everyday but each of us are separated from each other by a sea of npc normies. We need to group up and found an ethnostate somewhere.
Hmmm....well I can tell you what I've learned over the course of my life..... It's NOT the bulge in your "front" pocket the women are after.
Its rough out there. You keep playing a game where you constantly feel humiliated and scorned you will stop playing that game.
A man can only spend so much time alone steeping in rejection before he gets bitter and resentful. Once that happens its game over. And that isnt necessarily all his fault sometimes.
Anyways I think we need to stop shaming these guys and belittling them. You can only push a lonely resentful person so far before they snap.
wut
I guess it takes an incel to know one.
So you can't get a boner over a fat chick but you expect women to get wet over a fat guy?
They dont put themselves out there at least some of them, I went through a period of sitting inside doing nothing but Jow Forums and gaming and I didnt get laid at all or meet any girls lol. Once I started going outside I met my gf. I mean some dudes are just unfuckable but a lot of dudes are just dropping out of life which makes it impossible to meet women. I feel like this incel shig has been discussed to death here though, this place is becoming Jow Forums at this point.
Jesus user im sorry.
I sure could get a girlfriend but there's just no incentive to do so, there's nothing in it besides sex.
I had similar experiences with an incel friend who I tried to help. Thought for a while that it was due to porn messing with his mind. In reality it was just that he was terrified of women and terrified of rejection. That's the way it is with most incels.
Yes they have, that's exactly what we're seeing saying. This relatively small amount of fear is something they want to trade to commit evil, and then in turn more dues must be paid by the incel to make up for this evil that was committed (against them).
We would despise each other as we despise ourselves.
That's pretty fucked up that chick would tell people you were molested, cant really blame you for feeling burned by that.
>memeflag
I knew someone was gonna meme me lol.
I mean that's a component of the interpersonal aggression given to a social inferior for sure but it's not the reason for the current fear-response on such a wide scale.
Incels put on this sensitive faggot act when in reality you're just afraid of being hurt. That's literally all the separates you from the Chads. Chads get rejected too, all the time. They just don't let it stop them and keep at it, whereas incels never try to begin with.
I'm sorry bro. People truly are fucking horrible. I genuinely hope you make it. If you don't make it, I hope you find peace or the closest thing to it.
I don't think ive ever seen a post about women I've agreed so much with in all my years here.
i cant' tell you how many women i've tried to date where I get those texts verbatim
Blame this cunt: youtu.be
Of course we're afraid of being hurt, but we're also profoundly disappointed in other people.
Where did I say that ? You need new glasses, or problems with reading comprehension ?
The OP stated some BS about "being in the same league".....I'm merely pointing out that it DOES NOT work that way.....being on each other's level of ugliness ain't gonna make either one hot and horny for the other.
Thing is man, your idealization of women is just a flight from yourself. They're human, just like you. It's something that is actually nice about a relationship, letting down your existential guard and just being you with another person. You could have it if you'd take the risk.
They just want to reframe bullying as socially acceptable
Women are picky too while having 1/5 of value they used to, are you going to adress this roasty?
Maybe you're right, but that's the problem isn't it - they're human, just like me.
Had a very similar experience. I guess I was just fortunate with my girlfriend. She was understanding and cared, but I’m not going to tell you one bad apple doesn’t ruin the bunch (we all know it’s more of a bunch of bad apples doesn’t make one good). I hope you find solace in not being the only one that nearly the same thing happened to. Least we didn’t end up gay, right?
True. Only families are allowed in
OP's image = fuggen saved.
Kek
Word. We are a generation of revenge.
Sometimes yeah, sometimes they're just spergy with women pushing them away. It seems to depend on the incel.
Did you kill your cousin yet?
Disapointment in other is just covert self-love my nigger.
>Imagine needing a girlfriend to validate your own existence
Exactly. Incels don't hate women, they hate themselves. And they can't handle intimacy because they can't stand being seen for who they really are or rejected because of it. I was a virgin until I was 21 for the same reason. 38 now and completely over it. It's pathetic and holds you back and always will until you face it.
SORRY TO SAY BUT WOMEN ARE THE WORST INCEL VERSION OUT THERE
JUST WAIT FEW MORE YEARS
Starting a family and reproducing is what validates any humans existence on a fundamental level.