We went out on what I would call a perfect first date. Never had such amazing chemistry before. We kissed and couldn’t get enough of each other.
Next monday, I text her to make plans for next week Wednesday and get a response that she's had a horrible day and her grandad has passed away. She says she will be with her mum and want to push our plans for next week.
I text her back saying i understand and I am here to support her if she wants to chat.
She responds by saying "Thank you, it means a lot. Chat soon!"
It's been 4 days now without contact since then.
what or should i text her? How do I keep in touch with her while also not being pushy during such a bad time for her? I have been scared to text in case of being seen as uncaring or needy.
Should i offer to call her or let her call me if she wants? I was thinking of inviting her to a walk in park to talk or should i just wait for the following week for her to contact me?
I don't mean to be an asshole but you're probably not going to see her again
Alexander Taylor
this is made up troll thread bnut for all the virgins reading, 4 days means forget about her
Dominic Martin
This. IME, muh dead grampa in this context = ~99% lie. Sry, user.
Elijah Young
I was thinking it could be true but still
Anthony Wright
Move on gaylord
Lincoln Jenkins
You’re being ghosted bro. Preserve your dignity and delete her number.
Josiah Diaz
Women are only good for pushing babies out of their goo hole. Other than that they don't bring anything of value to a man. Want loyalty and a good listener that will always have for you, get a dog. Want to release the pressure down there, hookup on tinder or with a hooker.
Austin Jenkins
Grandpa is fine. Forget about it OP.
Jayden Ortiz
i'd probably contact her once maybe two weeks later to see if she's good if she doesn't talk then yeah she's probably ghosting you and you can move on with your life
Joshua Nelson
be careful women are really spineless at breaking up they'll never outright say it anymore. Had one girl string me along with all these "gotta study for exams sorry", "boss made me work an extra shift", "family made me go out to dinner" etc. Then I take the hint and just tell her straight up 'hey if you're not interested just say it and we'll be done', to which I got "no no no I really like you I'm just too busy", continued to get similar excuses then finally like 3 weeks later "oh i'm too busy for a relationship right now", two weeks later dating another dude, which I'm pretty sure she played the same games with
Caleb Garcia
Sorry OP but she discovered the joy of BBC. She doesn't need or want you anymore.
Ian Moore
>kissed on the first date what a fucking hoe, good luck with that slut.
Gavin Kelly
very sorry to hear, let me know when you feel upto going out again, if you need some company, let me know i'll come right around.
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Send her some flowers and tell her you hope all is well with her and her family. That is if she's really worth the effort then wait and see if she contacts you if not find a.new gjrl
Carson Morris
Based
Alexander Evans
DO NOT CONTACT HER!!!! IF ANYONE MAKES CONTACT IT MUST BE HER!!!!! You will be forever a nigger dick sucking faggot to her if you do.
Sebastian Ortiz
Lol I had an experience like that... except it was a plane flight. Day before told me thy she was sick and got ringworm. So I shouldn’t come.
I dropped work (work paid for flight, but I missed out on flight voucher). I was so fucking pissed... so I told her off and immediately regretted it...
Long story short, she’s my wife and we have kids now, lol.
Creep her a bit... look in the obituary for her grandad or something - I dunno. I’d say stay mysterious, but don’t get clingy.
Jace Price
This and do not puss out and make contact, you'll only be seen as weak and desperate.
Ethan Bennett
Respectfully txt asking how she's doing.
Caleb Ward
STOP BEING A FAGGIT RIGHT GODDAMN NOW. Be a fucking man and stop being such a vagina
No OP don't send some girl you've met in the flesh once flowers for a death which is frankly dubious at best.
Austin Cox
I had some broad pull the dead grandfather shit on me as well.
I framed a copy of the eulogy she gave for him that I found at her parents for our fifth anniversary.
Jose Diaz
And fail his first proper shit test? Not a chance.
Ethan Anderson
There's some proper boomers on here.
Hunter Sanchez
just an excuse probably. quit being so fucking desperate, clingy, women hate that shit
Ian Gonzalez
Dammit bong, you're right. She gets NOTHING. This is a shit test, anything other than complete no contact is a fail.
David Ortiz
Gen X actually but thanks.
Jack Hill
nobody would make up such a lie besides should have not mentioned seeing me the next week instead
Jace Price
FUCK YOU, WANTED TO GET IT
Jaxson Ross
Check-in on her in a day or so, ask how she's doing, work your way to asking about plans, go out for coffee, get close, start to date in the cool fall weather, meet her parents for christmas, ingrain yourself in her life, celebrate your 1 year, and eventually, just maybe, you can dig up grandpa's corpse and take it to pound town.
