Why are northern europeans such bad parents? Mine treated me more like a tool than a family member...

Why are northern europeans such bad parents? Mine treated me more like a tool than a family member, they ostracized me and openly admited i was a mistake.
What the fuck is wrong with them?

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That is good. The only way to grow a good character in this life is to struggle.

>openly admited i was a mistake
damn ever think about putting them down?

I suppose, it would be nice to have been treated like a human being by the only people that are supposed to love me though

Sounds like you aren't telling the full story here.

n*Rdoids are soulless cultureless robots so of course they do not know how to love

Culture I think?

Don't be sad though, it makes your countries work better than ours.

t. son of Nord*id immigrants in Portugal

Okay, i grew up, parents were absent throughout my entire childhood, spent most of my time at a very close friends house.
When we were ~10-11 his family moved and we split apart.
I started a new school but now when i was older my parents thought i could help myself, so i kept to myself all the time, cooked my own food, did my own laundy.
Then in my late teens i was depressed and very alone, no friends for upwards of 7 years and was doing terribly at school.
A few months before graduation i was told how i was a failure, a mistake, how it would be better if they threw me out on the street to die.
Then they did throw me out on the street and cut contact with me, i got some help by the social and am trying to get a uni education now.
There you go, full story

You were probably a shitty child

Nah.

You had shitty parents. Fuck them user. I've met plenty of Nordoids, your parents were just shitty.

Now you get your life together and tell them to fuck off.

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>misfortune and struggle builds good character
I disagree. I would be a better person if things would have gone my way, now I just have a chip on my shoulder that I can't get out.

Depends on your character user.

>I would be a better person if things would have gone my way

Maybe things didn't go your way because you weren't a better person.

much better than soviet parents

That's how socialists are, they use people.

>tfw my parents come to my house every monday to give me hug and bring me some food and wine

God bless Southern European families. We already live more than Northerners, if only are economies were as stable as the Northerners.

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I don't know his situation, but you can't really blame a child. Usually it all starts from bad parenting

Who said anything about being a child?

I wish my parents showed discipline.

Showing discipline and being mean to your child are as different as night and day.
If my parents had disciplined me and loved me i would not be the person i am today

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That's why i said i don't know his situation, åke perrsön. I doubt his old, so during that time parents should've stepped in

You're right. I just wish they did not let me do whatever I wanted, which was nothing. If they did, I probably wouldn't be in this situation.

Why do you wish to bring children into everything?

Do you really not see my point I'm making? If you're the OP I can see why your parents treated you that way

Terrible. Marry a med women, move to Spain/Italy and raise your children with love and affection

We're not talking about children. He's an adult male, responsible for his own god damned life. And no.

Oh God, that's awful, I'll never complain about my parents again. I wish you the best user.

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Why would He move from a country where life is mode tutorial to a country where Getting a job is harder than learning fucking gook?

Life in Nordic countries is easy but feels empty with long depressing winters. If you can get a job in southern Europe he'd be much happier.

I'm personally moving south to a warmer climate.

Your parents are probably some kind of parasites to society. I can't picture sane people acting like that with their children.

What job are they doing?

We move to Spain to just chill and live there in permasummer. My uncle did that and my one of my friends grew up in Spain. He went to a Swedish school there and everything. Do you not realize that you are a Scandinavian crypto colony?

>He's an adult male
Yes, now he is. But I made an assumption that his life started to derail already way earlier during his life which should be pretty clear from my previous posts. You're either retarded or deliberately trying to make this difficult

I live in the sunniest place in the whole of Europe. 300 days of sun, The sun will become your rain and all days will be the same depressing shit, the only difference is the fucking sun which is a pain in the ass specially if you have a sensitive skin.

Your assumptions and arguments are completely unreasonable.

yeah, there are 8000 finnish living in my city and many other scandis and british living here. Dont have a problem with them, the problem is the ones who are half-spanish/half-scandi who are complete assholes.

I'm black, I was made for the sun. My native land is 30°C+ all year with sunshine all the time. Allahuakbar.

Btw I don't mind the rain, it's the fucking cold and shit housing.

>unreasonable
I didn't state any of this as a fact which i made clear from the very first post.

Why do you wish to bring children into everything?

Spain is pretty cold during winter.

Something tells me you are foreigner.

Ok, so you're just a retard. Case closed

In Sweden, summer is defined as when the daily average temperature is above 10°C for five days in a row.

No. You're the retard for bringing up irrelevant nonsense.

You would call our summer hell.

Having a bad relationship with your parents is a good thing. It toughens you up emotionally and teaches you to be more independent, as you're distanced from your parents. Softies who depend too much on emotional affirmation tend to be major softies later on in life. Learn to stop depending on human affection to keep you going and love yourself more.

No i am ethnically Swedish, i mean if you go far enough back it's probably German or something though.
They are pretty far from leeches, both have masters from uni, one in Law and the other in social science

This40ºC is pretty common where I live. In fact, It is so hot that the moroccans who live here are unable to endure it and go back to their country during summer.

My mom told me that because of me she couldn t leave to Norway to have a better life or that they divorced because of me. Shitty parents are in everywhere not just in the north

We don't live there in the summers, obviously. lol

You have to understand that we are expats, not immigrants.

Your parents are sociopathic boomers, has nothing to do with being nordic bro

damn this is sad. I wanna hug you.

Were your parents alcoholics or took any kind of drugs?

No they are perfectly well adjusted members of society, they dont do drugs, they go to work, pay their taxes and whatnot

Your parents sound great. Maybe there's nothing wrong with them.

they're sociopaths
you have sociopaths for parents
get it through your head

As i posted earlier, they are ''adjusted'' to society on the outside but i seriously doubt they are adjusten on the inside.
In hindsight, they were the biggest sociopathic narcissists i have ever encountered

So, everyone around them seems OK with them, except for one person: you. Sure you're not the narcissist?

You lived a rough life, I hope it gets better but are you telling the full story? Not saying you're lying, but why would your parents treat you like this? I don't get it

I have no idea if the people around them see them as ok, all i know is that they treated me like they did, and that they never really were present as parental figures in my life, that they would rather their child die in the street than guide them

behandlar man sina barn sådär så förtjänar man ett baseballträ i bakhuvudet

acquaint them with moltov cocktail

So, it's their fault that you couldn't make any friends and sucked at everything you tried? Somebody else is to blame for all your personal shortcomings? That's how a narcissist talks.

>Not saying you're lying, but why would your parents treat you like this?
Some people just aren't cut out for being a parent

I've been in Andalusia in august and I've never felt so hot in my own life.

This is true actually. I was forced to move out early too. If you grow up with family, you start to become a lazy faggot living in your child room, instead of moving out early and earning your own money.

You're right, raising a child takes skill just like anything else, but why would they have a child to begin with if they'd just kick him out of the house to go live with his friend? Also this:
>A few months before graduation i was told how i was a failure, a mistake, how it would be better if they threw me out on the street to die
Doesn't look like something normal parents would do to their children. I'm 99% sure they're alcoholics/druggies or have some kind of psychotic problem.

Here being thrown out after highschool means becoming a homeless.

>crisis of depression and use of antidepressants
>Parents like OP

Makes sense. I'm glad I have parents from the 3rd world with traditional values.

aaaaaand you're scarred for life, such is life my friend. Random and usually shitty. how's your depression? anxiety?

kys lolbertarian

The fuck is wrong is with you, cunt?

OP, du vet vad du måste göra.

>social science
>That flag
Yep leeches