Friendly chad here

29, no, small town

right off the bat you should not have let either of them stay the night and cuddle with you user. at the very least you should be kicking them out first thing in the morning. you have to be ruthless in the modern world of dating

to elaborate, the big picture goal is make the girl genuinely wonder whether you're actually attracted to her. she needs to be asking herself "does he like me?"

is there any sort of scene in the small town? bar or restaurant scene? you genuinely have zero friends, no one you can call to go somewhere?

I think you are right, I used to be more brutal like this but recently I have been feeling lonely and fucking sluts has made it worse, so when I am finally with a girl I think I play my hand a little too early as you said. I will be more chill and remember this for next time(s).

for fucks sake, the correct answer is start a social sport or take dancing lessons.

Dog or cocaine. These are the two best ways to talk to women. Choose your weapon, user.

yeah i learned that the hard way when i was younger. blew my chance to date a really beautiful girl even by my high standards.
gotta treat the ones you really like the same way you treat the sluts.

listen to this user.

you're making huge assumptions on the guy's personality. he might come off like a creep if he strolls into a social event full of normies. a bad experience could fuck him up even worse.
that said he was engaged to be married so it's safe to assume he's not completely autistic.

A couple years ago on my birthday my wife told me she wanted a divorce then she ghosted me, then the next year on my next birthday she called saying she is with someone else and wants to hurry up and finish the paperwork to get divorced. Targeting my birthdays and intending to be as hurtful as she can like that? Why should I ever trust one again? And my second question is how to proceed with the divorce in a manner which wont make her want to make it as painful as possible like maybe I say something wrong that makes her decide to drag it out and lose all my money to lawyers and to her?

I've been on several first dates recently and they all seem to go well. The girl touches me, acts flirty, talks about future plans, and it usually ends with a kiss or making out. But then I never end up seeing them again. They just stop responding, either slowly or suddenly. It is utterly perplexing to me. Am I just unlucky?

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> he might be totally autistic
> it's safe to assume he's not completely autistic
wut?

The beauty of my proposal is that he will be a beginner at the sport/dancing, so it's socially acceptable to be shy/unsure/spill spaghettis at the beginning.

If it's a social sport, they will take him along to get drunk. -> problem solved
If he takes beginner dancing lessons, there will be even bigger autists around. If not, a couple will take him along to their friend circle. Either because he wants to demonstrate to her what a good guy he is or she takes pity (which doesn't matter since she's taken).

you shouldn't ever fully trust one, but you also likely fucked up by picking a bad one to start with. no woman i've ever dated would do anything like that bullshit.
there are decent women out there you just have to be more selective. you also shouldn't ever fully love a woman as a soulmate. that part of you has to die. think of her as a replaceable entity that you care about but who isn't your equal. kind of like a pet.

as far as your second question, what is she asking for in the divorce?

okay user, i need your help
>19
>run ecom stores and do digital marketing
>on track to make 75k this year before taxes
>6'4" 220(could stand to lose a little weight, and I work out about an hour and a half a day.

I can't even get a text back. I live way below my means and don't "flex". I go to one of the biggest party schools in the nation. What do I do?

first of all these girls are seeing at least 2 other guys while they're seeing you. always assume that is the case. as i mentioned to the other user, you're likely not creating enough of a challenge for her. she has to wonder whether you like her. cut back on texting and communicating. for every 3 texts a girl sends you, send 2 back. also after the date, when you're leaving the chick's house (or perhaps she's leaving yours, whatever), don't make plans for later. don't ask her what she's up to. don't chit chat via text or phone. you go on a date and then you leave as soon as it ends and she doesn't hear from you for a week.
do you play it like that? if not then that's the issue.

>as far as your second question, what is she asking for in the divorce?
I'm not sure I havent gotten back to her yet because I'm wondering how I should ask her for what some people call uncontested divorce, amicable divorce, agreed divorce or waiver divorce where she keeps what she has and I keep what I have because we've been separated and she ghosted me for a year we havent talked so I have no idea she's basically like a stranger now.

how does your proposal make him seem attractive to a woman? i think you're conflating socializing and actually landing a date.

I know a girl, she claims she's a virgin (24 yo) and wants to be with me. I'm not after that anyways, I just happen to like her a lot. She lives in a nearby country and I would have to cash out part of my crypto to afford the visit. Is it worth it?

I do think he should concentrate on getting friends first, yes.
He never asked for a woman in his op. But he complained about no friends.

are you ugly in the face? i'm 6'6 with a good face, but either way at 6'4 220 and only 19 you should be smashing chicks left and right unless you're truly deformed or some shit. how do you carry yourself irl? how is your posture? deep voice? are you funny? introverted/extroverted?

ah maybe i mistakenly thought he was asking for a woman, my bad. if that's the case then i agree with your suggestions user

don't show any anger toward her. contact her and be very pleasant and say that you've also found someone else (does not matter if you haven't, you WILL tell her that you are dating another woman) and you're glad that you can both go your separate ways amicably. say let's try and work this out as smoothly as possible and that you have no ill-will toward her. not only will you get the no contest divorce but you'll look alpha as fuck by making her think you're not even phased.

Hm, I'll try that approach. Thanks.

don't contact her at all.

have you met her irl yet? if not then why is she telling you she's a virgin?
if you're "not after" sex then no it's not worth it to cash out your crypto and go to another country just to hang out with her, unless the country is cool and you'd go there to hang out anyways.

why not? eventually they'll have to be in communication. they can't just stay married forever. since she has reached out it's probably best for him to gtfo of that situation asap and do so in a way that gives him a lot of power over how things play out.

just downloaded robinhood. what would you like to have known when you first started? overall where/how to start?

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>Is my face ugly?
Only when I have breakouts. Otherwise it's pretty good. Dark blonde, almost brown hair with blue eyes, visibly defined jawline.
>how do you carry yourself irl?
Very forthright and forcefully. Up until recently, However, I was pushing 300 pounds and in the past year have significantly improved how I look, so a lot of people still remember me as the fat, quiet kid from high school. That, of course, isn't an issue for new people.
>how is your posture?
Working on it. I sit bolt upright wherever I go.
deep voice?
It's getting depper but still cracks all the time.
are you funny?
I'm too autistic to be funny. I'm 10 years more mature than anyone my age and it's really frustrating.
introverted/extroverted?
Totally depends on who I'm around and what I'm talking about. With my business background, if I sense the person I'm talking to isn't quite as smart as I am(and I'm not that smart, I just know a lot about things most people don't understand so I'm able to talk circles around them), I will manipulate them into thinking I'm a LOT smarter than I actually am. So, because of that, I'm known as a generally really nice guy who you'd never mess with, if that makes sense. People know I run some kind of business but I never really explain what it is or how much I'm making.

Should I do more of that? If so, how do I go about making it known I'm successful without attracting gold diggers? I'm a really nice guy, I want to share what I do and have with someone I like. That shouldn't be too much to ask for.

start what? crypto? seducing women?

Integers dont lie.
But my brother answered the when she called I wasnt even there to talk to her and he retardedly told her I'm not seeing anyone else when she asked. It is interesting that she asked that though haha.
One of the things that I have thought about is just hiring a lawyer and giving her number to them and letting them talk to her.
But is right I need to rip the bandaid off because as long as we are together I am at risk that she can rob me of at least half and maybe even all my gainz, this is biz after all not r9k or something else.

ma nigga i know you visit the chateau heartiste

be cockier but in a teasing way not a douche way. you've got a nice deck of cards to work with given your height and the fact that you're making decent money. being nice kind of nullifies that. talk less when you're out with a girl. be flirtatious and light, don't get deep into business discussion or school or work or any shit like that. make her do most of the talking. your text game probably needs work too. but i advise tallfags like me to get pussy out in the real world. it's harder to convey height on social media unless you have a lot of pics with you dwarfing other dudes. in general you should get real world experience while you're young. learn the tricks of the trade now and you will be an absolute beast in your mid 20s

stocks, crypto. whole trading. made hefty amount of $ through work. wanna start trading

good eye user. it's unironically the best site out there for this stuff, taught me a lot back in the day

man your bro owes you big time for that, kek. of course she asked they always do. either way if you contact her you tell her that you're seeing someone else, just double down if she brings up your bro saying otherwise.

I haven't met her, but we have a long time talking to each other.
>if you're "not after" sex
Lol no. I'm not after the fact she is virgin. I do want to have sex with her. Lots. We sent nudes to each other and stuff.

for actual trading you'll have to ask someone else. i don't trade i just buy good projects low and either hold or get out of bad positions and buy back in cheaper. for stocks i have a simple vanguard portfolio and try to net 8% a year as that's going to be where a lot of my crypto gains will go over the next 5 years.

i found the site when i was 14 which was a blessing. i literally cannot advise a better place for your virgins to go to learn to talk to women and dating. looking back its hard to believe the girls i've been able to pull and keep around because of it.

but chad where do i find a woman to settle down with, i'm not interested in the type of girls who frequent bars and parties anymore.

ah gotcha. well in my younger days i definitely took some trips to go bang hot girls i hadn't met and i had a great time and i'd never change any of it. if it's between that and sitting around on your couch shitposting on biz i'd say go for it. you need to live. just don't spend crazy money to do it and don't cash out too much crypto.
the real problem will start when you develop feels for her and then start getting dumb ideas about moving to the other country to be with her. that you cannot do. if she wants to move to be with you then that's fine, not the other way around.

holy shit you were 14 reading that? damn you must have been absolutely killing it in high school, i'm jealous.
you just gotta pre-select man, girls are everywhere but your radar has to be finely tuned to be able to distinguish between a good woman and a worthless slut. my advice is try to find a younger woman who hasn't been corrupted by partying and riding the cock carousel. those types can be found on college campuses easily if you're still that age.

At our skitrip i fucked a girl i had rejected the day before because she's fat. I was laying piss drunk in my bed the next day while she wwoke me up and asked me to fuck. i just went with it because i was horny and didn't really care/knew what i was doing. I think now i have PTSD from fucking this girl. wot do?

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Honestly by my mid 20s if I haven't quit my post-college job and am living off my business 100%, it's gonna be about time to kms. Every waking hour where I'm not at school, out with friends, or doing homework is spent working on my businesses - learning code, talkign with clients(many of which are in asia, so I work at night too) or managing a new ecom store. So, no matter who I'm talking to, it probably gets interrupted by business.

One thing I have found success in is letting my stripe and shopify notifications go off in public. Gets them literally every time when they see "New order of 39.95" or "New payment of $750"

>dumb ideas about moving to the other country to be with her. that you cannot do. if she wants to move to be with you then that's fine, not the other way around.
That's the funny part. I do want to move out from here, I'm on Venezuela. I have to move out.

I'm doing the trip because I cannot move entirely now and she wasn't willing to wait much longer (remember she's virgin and is pretty much sick of it. I also didn't have a solid estimate for moving out). So I'd rather meet, enjoy a couple weeks, and then come back to keep doing what I need to finally leave this country for good. If she still doesn't wait for me then, at least we were together for a little while.

I'm still skepitcal on you saying things making it sound like it will be relatively easy to get her to agree to uncontested because if you know how women can be, irriational and emotional at the slightest thing thats impossible to predict. Like for all I know she gets jealous and then wants to be vindictive by dragging it out for a long time thus making the divorce expensive in legal fees.
I've experience something like that with the girl I was seeing before my exwife. We never talked about commitment so we where seeing others and as soon as I met my exwife she got really jealous and possessive and wanted me to herself and tried to sabotage it even though she said it was okay to see others.

>19
>105 pounds, 5 ft 8 virgin
Focused the last three years on making money, doing pretty well finically. But completely stopped lifting to work. Is the answer to get big now?
Also, the only thot that I have had sexual relations didn’t fuck her though. Hit me up last week because she thought she saw me, I mentioned catching up and she was down. I told her to hit me up when she’s free. I really want to fuck her and get the virginity out of the way. Should I wait for her to reach out to me, or should I try to initiate a date? Thanks user, not the best when it comes to dealing with thotties.

high school not bad, i was a late bloomer though so a lot of girls already had a perception of me which you know is next to impossible to move from beta to alpha in a girls mind after your SMV has been established. College yeah but sadly i spent it with the bar and party types. you're right it's just depressing how hard it is nowadays to find a good one.

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its a catch 22 to me. if they do fuck first night i hate them, if they dont i dont really want to go on a 2nd date

I'm a boring motherfucker, how do I get a boring gf?

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Nobody who is an actual Chad would use the Chad meme because they would just see it as a bunch of low-t autists being upset that some people get more action than them.

Be a boring motherfucker with a lot of money. People will pretend to be as boring as you and you won't be able to tell the difference.

My dich is 14.5cm. Should i kill myself?

Are you a girl? Seriously user you need to eat way more. Eat like you weigh 120 pounds then when your close eat like your 140.

my ex girlfirend says she's lost all feelings for me, but I still love her vary much. We tried to get back together but within a week she was visibly angry at me and left. What can I do to better my situation. In a distant future I hope she would give me another chance, we were both very happy in the relationship but I kept being a pussy and giving her to much attention and it took a downward spiral. What do?

Help Chad

I have only 1 whore. She is very easy and cheap. I try to get more but everytime I get lazy and think why not just sleep with the one I have. I feel I am making big mistake by putting my eggs in one very infertile basket and not developing my mating skills. She is not really wife material either

Sincerely,

Brad

she's gone. your job is to understand that she's gone and that it's ok that she's gone. it will suck for a while but you will get over and find a better girl.
the truth is that the only way for you to get her back is to genuinely not want her back, which is of course a catch-22.

I'm early 30s and look way, way younger than I am. People often say I look 22-24 or even younger. I'm pretty skinny and nerdy looking.
When I'm on /nofap and especially /noorgasm for a few weeks or longer, girls suddenly start noticing me and flirting, giving me looks etc.
I am aware I give off a strong vibe that I'm a vidya game nerd who is a virgin at 30+ but I've actually fucked several dozen women through online hookups. No dates just seduce them via erotica/texting and then fuck.
But I'm clueless in real world situations. Have trouble even getting a girls number unless it's on a dating site where I can use my words to seduce her into all kinds of shit she wouldn't otherwise do.
Wtf can I do? I notice a huge increase in people's reactions after about 8 weeks of no orgasm but then I lose all those gains after I nut. I already quit porn, what's next?
Should I quit online dating altogether and just focus on myself?

hello chad. i just wanted to say that youre a good person for helping people like this. cheers mate

expand your horizons brad

is there at least comething i can do, someway i can act arround her that makes my chances better? How do I keep myself form being weak in her eyes and make myslef a better man for myslef and for anyone I will ever love.

how do you not cum quickly during sex

think of margaret thatcher

Practice edging.

Watching porn for hours at a time and edging when I was a teen means that I now last forever in bed (which has its downsides). I literally am 100% in control of when I cum and even with smoking hot chicks I can last as long as I want.

I got in PUA shit in 2012 when i was 15. I was browsing masf chat. I litterally have a huge collection.
Just think if i got in crypto instead. I would've been a multi-millionaire.

I am entertained just thinking about the sjw outrage that would occur if you posted this honest advice Reddit.

Yo my wife is acting like a bitch because I dropped her steak on the ground and accidentally made her fail her drug test

what should I do?

This. Nofap is a meme. I know plenty of fighters who follow the nofap meme. Fit ass dudes that aren't scared of men trying to kill them, but are total beta, incels with women because they supressed their sexuality for so long, thinking that they would lose some imaginary edge they had from never perving out.

I'd be a total autist if I wasn't obsessed with pick up back in 08' when I was 18 and it was a craze. I kinda reverted back to my natural autismo traits, but I can still get laid by following the basics that I internalized from that time.

this should be common sense. should.
thanks for the effort. what drives you to help people on an anonymous board ?

I have an amazing girlfriend. Wonderful in every way. Checks every box.

How do I quell the urge to fuck other women? Every single guy I've talked to knows this feel. Is it inescapable?

I have a chad friend who has genuine admiration for manlets who are nice friendly people. He thinks that if youre born a manlet and turn out to be a good human being as an adult, that they must posses an iron will and incredible self control with unseen wisdom for all the trials they must have been through. Do you share that same view as a chad?

Funny you say that because nofap changed how I interact with women massively. I went from jerking off and feeling content to learning game and having girls over within a few months. From zero to hero in under 100 days. Years later I am STILL going strong.

>I know plenty of fighters who follow the nofap meme

I also know a lot of fighters and they're definitely more prone to be the lower IQ, high test chad gene so I disagree on that as well.

the short answer is you get a better-looking girlfriend. she has to be a least 1 full point hotter than your ex girlfriend on a scale of 1-10. doesn't matter if she's smart or successful or any of that bullshit. she should simply be taller and prettier with a better body.
i'm telling you on the front end that you're wasting your time but this is a surefire way to make her second-guess her decision.

this: i also accidentally learned how to edge thru porn as a teen and it made me a god in bed.

i've gotten banned from plebbit tons of times for trying to help those faggots out. for some sick reason i pity them greatly. it's crazy how much horrific advice guys get asking for relationship help over there

tell her to calm the fuck down. call the employer and tell them what happened and that you want her to be retested if possible

What is this, some beta way of "asking for a friend".

Buddy I know plenty of manlets that do not meet the criteria of what incel faggots deem "necessary to be successful" and they are killing it.

Here's one

>guy must be 5'6
>smoking hot girl, she was top 5 in high school
>blonde, sexy every where but not overtly sexual, just feminine
>that's his current woman and she adores him
>has had more than a few quality slays under his belt
>owns his own construction company, has his own house (600k), couple vehicles, toys (quads, guns, etc) good family life
>jacked as fuck
>has good friends
>still has acne
>chinlet

Great guy

I know this other manlet and he always brags about his huge cock. He's super confident and gets laid a lot. Nothing exceptional about him appearance wise. He's actually a bit of a fat kunt.

Tons of 5'8 - 5'10 guys doing well. I don't know a shit load of smaller guys but the ones I do know are just fine all around. So yeah if you're insecure about your height, fucking grow a pair of balls and improve yourself in other ways because you'll never change that aspect.

it's their postcoital recon. because it's a small town, they have a network which gets thrown into play instantly when you fuck one of them. Who is he...? etc. You got compromised, man. Practice better OPSEC in a larger town.

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OP clearly knows his shit. Much more so than the average chad who does not have conscious understanding of his actions.

t. Retired, married & seeded an heiress

checked. probably just a coincidence, user! After all, there's a 1/364 chance of it.

Push out your pelvic floor. The muscle you use when taking a shit. You might have the habit of tightening this area up leading to earlier ejaculation. Breathe deeply during sex. Stay in the moment, don't get lost in the sensation of your cock in a pussy. take the time to feel other sensations. Like the feeling of her skin, her hair, the sounds she's making. Relax.

i want us all to make it in all areas. we're mostly younger western white bros on here who have been criminally miseducated about women from the 1960s onward. it's fucking us all up to an insane degree. other guys helped me figure this out when i was younger and it's my duty to pass on the knowledge

it's inescapable, sorry bud. but the dirty secret is that if you fuck other women and she finds out she will unironically love you for the rest of her entire life.

The painful truth! Thanks for the reply.

(chekd)

i do but i don't think i've ever consciously thought about it that way. interesting.

Chad user is giving good advice. Literally took me several years to figure out everything he's spoon feeding you faggots.

1. Be confident.
2. Be funny.
3. Work out.
4. Have options.

That literally is all you need user.

Hey user I don't consider myself autistic at all but I'm struggling b/c I'm 19, software engineering, work for an awesome startup that's giving me equity, and finally starting a bulk after years of long distance running, so now that I'm on the cusp of making it, I found a genuine good girl that likes me. I haven't committed to her but I can't tell if it's a bad idea.

This is the kind of girl you marry but I can't tell if I'll regret more not having been chad and fucked around in my youth, or waking up one day at 30 and realizing the girls my age are used sluts and I'll have to go look for a much younger girl that hasn't been tarnished/still a virgin. Thoughts?

if she's looking to simply move on with her new guy then she will want to do it as quickly as possible. otherwise she gets dragged into a huge 3-year divorce which means she's still married the entire time.
but if you think there's a chance she'll get jealous and fuck around then maybe have your lawyer call her instead of you dealing with it personally. i'd tell all this to an experienced divorced lawyer for sure and then let the lawyer advise you on the best move. if you're in the ATL area i can recommend several

Respectfully gotta disagree. I’ve been with plenty of girls where I can have a regular convo via text during the day or contact them a couple days after a first date. It just depends on the girl. This stuff isn’t a science, it’s an art and everyone is different. The most important thing out of all of this is to simply be confident and not overly needy

>has one night stand
>wahh they're not interested anymore
You're one of those white knight faggitors aren't you?

This fucking kills me everytime, like the odd 1 or 2 girls that come along, and you think shit I might actually like her for something other than the moist cavern between her legs, and without fail it's instantly fucked up.

Though other possibilities may include me genuinely being a dickhead, being shit in bed, being good in bed gut ugly, who knows.