>“We usually have a tough time keeping female teachers here,” my boss informed me on my first day of work as an English teacher in Tokyo. “They usually don’t last more than six months.” I looked up from studying the roster list of teachers (30 — all male), in surprise. >“You mean at this school?” >“No, I mean … in Japan.” He shrugged. “Tokyo’s a tough city to be single … If you’re, you know … a western woman.” >I stole a quick glance at the photos that were mounted on the wall behind him. Four middle-aged White Dudes. All of them were bearded and balding. All of them resembled the aging, stringy-haired members of the band Metallica. And all of them were pressed up against the model-thin bodies of a heavily made-up Japanese Beauty Queen.
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>While the female expats spent Saturday nights alone, crying into their Ramen bowls, their male counterparts drank freely from the dating pool like they owned it. Which in a way, they did. >If you’ve ever visited Asia, you’ve likely seen the pale, rail-thin, greasy-haired white boy walking hand-in hand with a perfectly made-up, mini-skirt wearing Asian chick. This would never happen anywhere else in the world. Because everywhere else, Barbie ends up with Ken, not his underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting neighbor, Kevin. But in Asia, dating rules defy all logic or evolutionary law. In Asia, the nerd is king.
what do you think about this? why are western women unable to adapt to local culture while western men seem to fit into their host nation?
Roastie doesn't want tiny Jap cock. It sucks for women in asia, asian girls are top tier but it's the complete opposite for the men. It's why the asian girls instantly flock to foreigners because their own men suck.
Juan Ward
Shes not even ugly really. Shes just normal. Except normal western female looks too manly for the normal Japanese male.
Do you think a girl who looks like this is writing articles on the interwebs complaining how Jap guys dont want her and how hard it is for foreign women in Japan?
Holy shit, this amount of white girl salt. Not to mention the complete lack of self-awareness. Yeah, make fun of white guys for dating asian women, but you're just a racist if you don't like me dating a black guy. WEW LAD
Cameron Sullivan
she looks like she had her face done
Michael Hall
he is just asian
Jason Reed
time to move to japan and fuck my white women
Evan Morales
screaming at all the pathetic buzzwords she tried to squeeze into that think piece
fat bitch was just looking for a wealthy jap to come riding in, when she realised her dating pool was as shit as it was back home she writes this tripe. the undesirable looking men she’s describing don’t even wind up with mode tier asian women anyway, she’s perpetuating bad, outdated stereotypes whilst masquerading as an ‘ally’ for asians
Owen Nelson
As a man who's had no luck dating here, and who is set to study abroad in Japan. I sort of hope it's true. If I could find somebody who I really click with, and whom truly cares about me then that would be a plus. Unfortunate for the foreign ladies though...
If I would go to Japan I would be lonely too to be honest. It is just because if you are ugly you can't do much to change it. So don't blame it on society that high standarts of beauty but blame it on your genetics that you are not up to these standarts. That's it.
Lincoln Ross
> underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting neighbor, Kevin t. female Kevin
Nolan Perez
>In Asia, the nerd is king. no way
Isaac Wilson
how would you know. in Japan even your chads are dorks
Robert Barnes
japan needs to seriously stop being wh*Teys slave, it's pathetic.
We BLACKS have subjugated them and on the otherside n*Poids have been subjugated by these devilish yak*Bites
Christian Nguyen
>American - Filipino/Japanese/South Korean relations.webm
Robert Allen
otakus are just otakus
their attributes don't change easily
Jordan Bennett
I'm sure that it's not hard to find an attractive white man for an attractive white woman in tokyo
Gabriel Garcia
Very high quality post
David Thompson
Who the fuck do you think is going to Tokyo? All the successful businessmen just fuck prostitutes before flying back to their gold digger wives.
John Moore
Sounds like stacy is a little bit jealous
Gabriel Price
c'mon, tokyo is a megacity, not as much as London but still
it's not full of weebs like people think
Asher Green
TLDR: Expat women want to date expat men instead of locals and expect to have as easy a time finding someone despite having a dating pool limited to a couple of thousand compared to one of 60+ million people.
What’s the difference between Japanese and Korean women?
Are they both more or less wife material?
Josiah Lewis
>But in Asia, dating rules defy all logic or evolutionary law. The absolute state of thot mental gymnastics.
LA CREATURA
William Thomas
This Women who date locals usually have no problem finding a bf.
Daniel Baker
It's mostly limited to Koreans.
Alexander Moore
lol what a bitter cunt
Lucas Sanchez
>roastie experiences what is like to be an average male for the first time
Gabriel Hill
hey. lots of Japanese love western women. but no place to meet. I want to fuck fuck anal fuck with whitu women. pls gibe.
Brayden Kelly
>Most days I felt unattractive, unwanted and worst of all, unfemale. When not even a short skirt or slinky top attracted more than a passing glance and even construction workers, who could usually be counted on for a leer, regarded me with bored, blank expressions, I felt like a Martian.
Top kek. So women DO enjoy being cat called
Parker Young
Holy shit, I can smell the butthurt from here.
Sebastian Foster
They do when it’s from attractive men but hate it when not even ugly men do
Thomas Jenkins
now she knows what's it like to be an average men
Bentley Nelson
>the author is literally called mutt
Gabriel Bennett
In this woman’s case I don’t think she cared at this point she just wanted
“SOMEONE AKNOWLEGE THAT I’M PRETTY!!”
Aiden Carter
>model-thin bodies of a heavily made-up Japanese Beauty Queen is usa the only country where being fat is the norm?
John James
The UK and Germany are also fat. Malaysia is also fat. Mexico is also fat.
Parker Fisher
I know a German girl who studies in Tokyo and works at the airport, she's in a relationship with a yakuza looking guy.
Not sure if anecdotal evidence is the best way to garner an opinion, including what I just said.
Ayden Kelly
>Who the fuck do you think is going to Tokyo? Judging by Tokyo street videos, Tokyo is surprisingly well-trafficked by non-japs.
Zachary Lopez
They do fine if they're qt. The author of that article is just a fat loser thot.
>So women DO enjoy being cat called It's an obvious truth unless you're brainwashed by feminazis.
Jaxon Thomas
English-teaching is an extremely low-status job and the men she thinks are scoring above their league are typically with slappers or with women locally considered rather ugly (but which the untrained American eye probably considers "exotic").
Carson Jenkins
good for them but also X-TR3M3 DQN ADVENTURES
James Jackson
>go to a place where women are more feminine, thinner, and dress nicer than you >refuse to date locals that are curious about you
What the fuck did she think was going to happen?
Dylan Rivera
>It's mostly limited to Koreans i think these white koreaboo girls are odd as same as much as white weeboo faggots(you). at least asian koreaboo girls are cute though.
Nathaniel Adams
You really have to be a spoiled bitch, or the guy who is catcalling you the worst of the niggers to get upset at someone calling you beautiful or smtg like that Being a white girl and complaining about not finding love in an Asian country is simply absurd. You can claim that you don't like the guys there and that's something, but white girls in Asia are even more popular than guys, I could leave my friend 2minutes in a bar to go to the bathroom and before I was back she had received 5 phone numbers. Also in Asian, jap girls are the ones that hate otaku the most simply because there are lots of neets in japan and some foreigners that tried to talk to them were otaku.
yeah they are weird and most of the time fat and ugly
Not gonna lie, I never knew what it was like to be considered attractive until I came to Japan.
I can assure the author and everyone in this thread that many Japanese guys find non-Japanese women attractive. Many of my guy friends have banged Americans.
However, WAY more women speak conversational English than men. I teach at school, and most of my best students are girls. In America I would hang out with exchange students, and like 65% of them were girls. There are simply way more girls who can carry a conversation well in English than guys, and I think that is a big reason.
Logan King
Good point Takeshi, I study foreign languages and it's dominated by girls, especially Korean.
I mean I'm sure there are other reasons, that's not the only one, but being able to communicate is a big thing.
Thomas Torres
yes that's for sure. Some people are shy when they can't speak well. Once I was able to make basic sentences in the language people were way more friendly and happy to talk to me
Joshua Kelly
it's not bad enough that the author is ass hurt over the Japanese not liking her fat american ass, but why does she have to shit on male expats who do well? couldn't she just be happy for them instead of spouting this shit about them being "aging, stringy-haired members of the band Metallica" and "Ken's underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting neighbor, Kevin"??
Michael Thomas
appear to be addictive
Connor Reed
It's hilarious how salty this author is. Sorry I spent 24 years of my life being considered UGLY and I get a few where some people might not find me repulsive.
She describes not getting any attention and having a hard time dating, and it's like she can't even imagine that a lot of people live their entire lives that way.
Jaxon Wilson
this women are entitled
Thomas Powell
Holy fuck Jow Forums is actually right. I guess roastie is truly toastie.
James Myers
I also don't know what she's talking about. Anime nerds might be able to date up a little bit here, but certainly not any relative "prom queens"
Luis White
I'm not a weeb tho. Weebs indeed are weird and often disgusting.
Christopher Scott
Why is the little kid drinking from a bag of piss?
Aaron Hall
white man has it easy everywhere :/
Easton Jenkins
>Introducing the red head gene into the Japanese population Yes good, in 50 years some random hafus are going to have a kid with red hair and they will be perfect
Luke Lopez
I will go to Japan and become exotic Yakuza wife. Farewell.
Ryder Thomas
ok
Liam Anderson
Nice. Can I join you?
Aaron Jones
it's funny how only whites and koreans become crybabies in japan
both of them think they should be treated as a special case for different reasons
Nathaniel Hughes
It's not even that huge and very limited demographic 16 year old girls and that are nerdy and losers. Basically like 20% of the boy band demographic.
James Robinson
she looks ugly without makeup especially her eyes.
Henry Murphy
OK! Let us become Yakuza housewives.
Landon Roberts
Putting on a dress doesn't make you female nerds.
Xavier Brown
user.... Women exist
Michael Davis
that's clearly fake red hair.
you can tell because she looks like a trashy whore whereas real redheads look like pure angels
I'm a thin older American lady and men loved me in Japan. I got stared at, and stopped by cute salarymen and gross old men took pictures of me. Really weird country.
Jason Rogers
>Satan's autism
Eli Peterson
Ah geez that sounds scary. The photography I mean. It happens a lot to me in Sweden too.
Adrian Ross
>thin older American lady christ old people are here now?