How can I eat at restaurants if I'm alone?
I don't want to pay for someone else to come with me.
I just want to eat good food peacefully in silence, but I always feel like the waiters and other clients feel sorry for me.
How can I eat at restaurants if I'm alone?
They probably feel sorry because you are a nigger
why even bother leaving the basement user?
I find most restaurants deliver when you order online through those delivery apps like uber-eats or one of the dozen local ones that do it.
>>Get two meals to go
>>Every time
>>Eat in the comfort of your home
>>Every restaurant will just think you and your partner don't have time for their bullshit
I'm talking about steaks and artisan pizza. Heck, even a mid tier brunch place. All that's available for basement dwellers is fast food.
>walk in restaurant
>sit at 2 person table or at the counter if they have one
>order food
>eat
>go home
It's that simple
That's actually a good idea.
>I just want to eat good food peacefully in silence,
No you don't. No one wants that. Find a gf, or at least a friend user.
The last time I ate at a 4 dollar sign, 5 stars on yelp kind of restaurant, I could see the waiters staring at me.
Thanks user I was a NEET for many a year
with a friend, they judge what you order, how you eat, and you have to talk to them.
I cant imagine caring what the wait staff thinks. If you are that insecure just eat at the bar. Going out to eat solo is one of the simple pleasures in life.
>caring what wagecuck servants who literally kiss your ass for gibs think of you
wew lad
sucks you live in areas like that.
near me there's a bunch of casual fine dining places that are signed up with delivery companies. can definitely get steaks delivered.
>with a friend, they judge what you order, how you eat, and you have to talk to them.
humans are social animals by nature. you actually do want to talk to people, but you have no social skills so you prefer to be withdrawn
also, it sounds like you are extremely self-conscious and think everyone is looking at you
wow you seem to have mommy issues, gain confidence in yourself man, exercise go on an adventure and become a man. Real friends don't judge what you order, what you eat, you don't feel obligated to talk to them, and when you're a man the people who do that aren't your friends.
user I don't see why your too worried about this, I do it all the time. Eating out by yourself is nice since you don't have to bicker on where to eat nor socialize with folks
Appreciate the moment, the atmosphere, the food, and whip out your phone if your too bored. DESU you should worry more about overeating at one place to the point where you get tired of the food
Pretend you're in town on business. Tip well.
>How can I eat at restaurants if I'm alone?
>I don't want to pay for someone else to come with me.
Unironically pretend that you are like James Bond on a secret mission in a new city.
Know how you feel, I do a decent amount of solo travel, I just wear headphones if at a sit-down restaurant.
>I always feel like the waiters and other clients feel sorry for me.
>with a friend, they judge what you order, how you eat
actually no one gives a shit about you. no one is thinking about you.
everyone has their own problems and shit that they're thinking about and they don't involve you.
Just wear a suit with a suitcase and pretend you are a business man on travel.
Also this. People are completely self absorbed this day, especially with smartphone s sucking our attention
Who cares. It's all in your head. They don't know if you're a single guy or an out of town person in a business trip. Go where you want and eat what you want. Stop over thinking it.
>That's actually a good idea.
>i feel insecure around people so i'm going to order food to go and eat in the comfort of my basement
it's actually not a good idea. it's just running away from the problem instead of dealing with it
in the same sense who gives a fuck if you like going to the same place all the time. That doesn't make you some kind of freak like op is making it out to be. Such a minor personal detail.
This. If OP becomes a regular customer and tips decently enough he might even make some friends with the waiters or the owners. That'll make him less of a shut in NEET.
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then look and act like a tourist, feign an accent, twice the fun!
t. I like to do it from time to time
I literally eat almost every meal alone, either just do takeout from a local restaurant and eat at home while browsing biz or many times sitting alone and eating. Fuck other people.
>waiters looking at you
>not realizing they're jockeying who gets the asshole/cheap tipper
>tips
>why ?
never visiting again
Plesantly suprise them.
what, why.
Stop thinking what is expected of you, just do what is good for you.
If you need to eat, eat. If the price is X and you regularly pay more than X, WTF ?
Just move your business elsewhere.
Hint: they are staring at you because you look nervous and shifty, not because you're alone.
This.
Btw that's how they find out terrorists at crowded spaces, by looking for suspicious persons
All good advices are given already, OP. Just enjoy yourself and act normally. It is okay if you will take laptop / ipad with yourself and will be scrolling web and doing stuff while eating alone. Nobody from staff knows where you came from, maybe you just need to wait 2 hours and this is why you decided to spend these 2 hours enjoying food and calmness
Exactly, just dress well and act like you have places to be if you're so worried about what wagecucks think of you.
You probably think they're judging you for being worthless and alone because you dress like you're worthless and alone.
Sit at the bar.
Nobody judges anyone sitting by themselves at the bar.
you don't have to talk to anyone if you don't want, generally there's tvs there too.
tip well.
OP already left
he probably heated up a Hot Pocket and is fapping in his basement right now
Stop being such a self-concious dork. No one cares that you are alone.