I am 24, study and trade crypto and come home on the weekends.
I basically hate it at home and have zero motivation here to do anything, like not at all. However he always pisses me off, for cleaning up my room and so on (his office looks like a bomb exploded there). He also just comes in without asking or knocking on the door, which pisses me off.
How can I get thim to the point that he respeects my privacy and cares about his own shit?
you gotta move out man
>24
you should have moved out like 6 years ago
Pay rent and show respect. It works both ways.
hire a hot escort for a day or two and pretend you hitting it whenever u like, buy your mother something nice and take him for a drink in a really over priced bar and pay someone hot to approach u, reject the girl and act as if it's normal.
I am a broke ass nigger (since I study), so I can´t really move out yet completly on my own.
Also I help him out sometimes with his business on the weekend. Not that I want, but well, I kinda have to and don´t complain.
I guess that is already enough respect.
Well user, by the length of time it seems that you hang on the keys off your keyboard and by the cute picture of a drunken dog you've posted, I think it's safe the surmise that you're drunk
So we really can't tell what the right thing is to help you
However, at 24 you should certainly move out, regardless of anything
I'm not sure what is wrong with your father.
Sorry I couldn't be of any assistance.
no, moving out is a scam. just because your low IQ boomer parents threw you out at 18 and you've paid $28,000 in rent since then does not mean it is the correct thing to do.
don't do this. paying rent is also a scam. pay for things once you've made it.
Nah I am not drunk. It´s still morning time here and I am sober for 5 weeks already.
As long as I don´t have a job, I sadly can´t move out completly. However I hope I hit 100k with crypto this year, so I can finally move out completly. Would be a good first step. Fucking makes me sick here with this nigger.
At the moment I am still a bit dependent on him, which is the problem and he knows it. I know it. I guess that´s the point of his behaviour.
Why don't you have a job?
I wouldn't count on hitting 100k just by daytrading as, as you may know, 90% lose money
Yeah, see it similar. He doesn´t force me to move out neither, since I help him with his stuff once I am here normally. Therfor he pays me rent on the place where I study. So we both depent on each other right now. I just don´t know how to fucking educate him about RESPECT. I tried already a few times, didn´t work.
Gonna move out though, once I have a good ammount of money
TFW laughed at OP being 24 living with parents, then realizing I still live with my mom and I'm already 23.
Well, my "job" is helping him on the weekends, therfor he pays my rent on the place where I study and I am sure he would support me with some extra cash, if I needed it. But didn´t need anything else yet.
>mfw 800usd rent
>mfw 25yo
>mfw barely 3000montly income
>mfw before tax
That´s fucked as well user
How do you safe money?
There is likely nothing you can really do, my dude
He watched you come out of your mom's vagina, after all
so he's not gonna listen sometimes to what you say, depending on what it is
That's why they say "you don't become a man until your father dies; but that death can be a spiritual one"
And that is the real meme behind moving out, you grow up basically.
I must also say that when I moved out my relationship with my parents improved dramatically.
That is when you start seeing real respect, because such is earned.
To me that sounds pretty awesome
What do you do making $3,000 a month?
leeches off daddy's resources well beyond socially accepted age.
Complains about daddy being pissed about it
this
Yeah user, there is a lot truth in there what you say.
I reconized already how much I changed, when my mum died, three years ago.
It really made me grow up more in one year afterwards, than in 20 years before.
Then I travelled to Australia for one year on my own expenses. Worked, earned money and came back, and my father treated me still like I was 16.
I guess there is just no other opportunity to that solve that problem, than moving out, once I finally earn some good ammount of money or have some money
You idiot. Like I said, I work on the weekends for him. I am not "leeching his resources"
There is just the problem about respect.
He doesn´t even want me to move out
>"Can you fucking knock?"
problem solved
Never. Move out.
No user you need to work at mcdonalds and bury yourself in debt like the retards in this thread
My folks threw me out a week after I turned 18. And it's not like they were mad at me. It came off like a bad joke at first. But lemme tell you, they don't come in my room anymore. In fact, we don't talk at all. So maybe just deal with the fact that this asshole pays the bills, and pull your dick out and start jerkin next time you think he's about to walk in. If he keeps going in without knocking, he wants to see your dick. In which case, you'll probably have a way bigger problem. Good luck.
how about you clean your room, OP. Degenerate children on this site need to man the fuck up. He's your father, not your friend. Who gives a fuck about your privacy when you're living under HIS roof? You're his property until you decide to move out.
For some reason you think you have to go into debt or generally have a shitty life to move out
I don't know why you think this
Are you not already having a shitty life without the freedom to actually do what you want?