Do people out there actually consider intimacy to be a normal and mundane thing?

How do I get a gf?

Hard mode: I'm ugly as fuck

You don’t most likely

How does one cope with that feeling?

Do something else. Get a job or something

By realising you don't need a gf to be happy.

All you need is the ocean, the sound of the cicadas and a computer with internet connection.

Wouldn't know, never experienced it or mingle too much. It is considered normal and a basic human desire.

2d waifus

why dont you study a little buddhism? it may help to cope. not even kidding. read a little stoicism too.

>Get a job
B-but I live in Italy!

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Get out more

Get a bf instead. Worked for me.

I think more escapism is not really what i need in life

I'm too ugly to get out

Thank god at least I'm not a subhuman faggot

>I'm too ugly to get out
Unless you're agoraphobic then no, you aren't

I'm so ugly that everyone laugh at me when I get out :(

Can you at least grow a beard?

No I'm too soy

Stop being soy and go to a prostitute

Normies do

ever wonder how all those ugly fat balding in their 20s men got a gf? hint: women don't care about looks as much as men do

>women don't care about looks as much as men do
wrong, where do you live? On mars?

>how all those ugly fat balding in their 20s men got a gf
There aren't, if they got a girlfriend they are not ugly.

>escapism

what do you call being on int and making these threads then dipshit? even CBT has its roots in buddhism and stoicism. its mental resilience, not escapism. you really are a turd.

You get used to it. In a few years you'll think about yourself and having a gf much the same way you think about becoming an astronaut or a billionaire or fulfilling any other childhood dream. Sure it sucks but you don't really care anymore.

>drowning your brain in cheap dopamine and serotonin
>mental resilience
lolno

Imageboards are a highly addictive, rapid dopamine feedback loop. Except that unlike normalfag social media where you get a kick out of likes and shares, you get a kick out of engagement from other users and playing verbal mind games with them. It is the exact opposite of abstinence and temperance, it's similar to an addictive drug.

nvm me I'm a retard. You're actually agreeing with me.

what fucking point were you trying to make asshole? your greentext doesnt match with context of the next paragraph.

I don't think about getting a gf as much as I used a few years ago. I'm making a lot of progress, soon I will be completely asexual person and I will no longer care about >tfw no gf

I don't care about it anymore. And with the help of antidepressants, I don't even have a libido anymore

Just don't think about it, the more you make a deal of out something the more it'l affect your thinking and bring you closer to retardation. Don't worry about what people think, don't worry about getting pussy, just do what makes you happy and try and lead a healthy enough lifestyle. People will start respecting you, girls like happy guys who don't let others bring em down. Just make sure you keep this mentality up if you happen to get a date or else you'l try to impress her and like the fucktard you are you'l blow it.

"just be yourself" is what I've been doing all my life
clearly it doesn't work

I didn't say just be yourself, I said do what makes you happy. If you let other people's views affect you and that's 'being yourself', then change up dawg.

"do what makes you happy" is the most duuuuhhhh advice ever
you think I've been trying to do what makes me sad and upset? fucking hell

This isn’t escapism, i talk to people on here and have meaningful discussion with insight
Going to a shrink to get happypills and forget about it is eacapism

>I get intimate human interaction by playing dota

Yes man, it's not a fucking paradox we all do that. It's a toxic mentality cause you don't realize that the shit you do brings you more pain than satisfaction. Sit down and analyze the shit you do daily and you'l realize a lot of it is self destructive.

I've already analyzed my behavior, my problems stem from social inabilities, not poor planning
I'm not lost, I am trapped and analysis does not help any more

>at least you are not a 175cm midget

>you think I've been trying to do what makes me sad and upset?

Yes.

You seem social enough to me on this website man. You've done a poor job of analyzing if you think you're trapped.

Social skills are(as the name fucking implies) skills you can learn and master just like every other craft. There is no trap

I don't have anyone to socialize with.

>if they got a girlfriend they are not ugly
they may be rich instead

>I don't have anyone to socialize with.

No shit. Everyone senses that you'll drag them down with you.

Do you live alone in the woods?

Yes but if you didn't develop good social skill during your teenage years, you will foverer miss the chance to make friends and thus "train" your social abilities. You will be forever stuck with the social skills of a 10 years old boy. It's a vicious cicle

Guess which one of these individuals has a lot of money

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not really
no, in a commieblock

I have an uncle that was homeschooled on a farm from anyone but family. When he turned 18 he joined up with the navy and became a sailor. Now he's married with children.

Do you masturbate to porn? Then stop. Life will get better if you do.

based

>not really

Stop. Lying.

This.
I will be 20 years old in a year, the time for socializing and making friends is long gone.

this is a lie

based

very based

nice internet psychologizing but you're not an anime character that can know everything about someone by reading 5 of their posts

Don't you work with co-workers? Don't you have a fuckload of neighbors? Don't you have bars near you or events held up in your city? Shit man just walk down the street and talk to people if you want to improve them. Start with old people, they love telling stories, just sit and listen to em. It'l make your more comfortable around people.

Yes you virgin freak

>Shit man just walk down the street and talk to people if you want to improve them

>h-hey man h-how are y-
>fuck off faggot *punches him*
the end

I go to uni. After 4 years my classmates have figured out that I'm a weird spastic. I don't know what to do in bars or events. And nobody here talks to strangers.

t. incel neet who browses Jow Forums all day

>After 4 years
They already figured that out the first day they saw you

yeah

>Nobody here talks to strangers
Do you really believe yourself?
Pic related

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I am not a neet, i go to uni and work

No it’s not a lie. There are countless studies on google search them yourself Luigi. If you say it’s a lie you’re only lying to yourself to give yourself a reason to continue watching porn because it’s one of the few things aside from spaghetti and vidya that brings you joy in your life. The moment I decided to quit fapping, started working out, went back to school and bettered myself is the moment I broke out of the virgin shell of being a 4chin vidya neet my whole life. Now have a gf of 3 years and life is good. You can ignore my advice out of spite and self-loathing for yourself but it doesn’t make it any less true.

Nu-l baga in seama, e clar ca-i un italian autist sau un troll ca nu vrea sa asculta pe nimeni. Nu-ti pierde vremea cu tantalaul asta.

>surely stopping jerking my dick is what improved my life and not the multiple forms of self-improvement I did at the same time

That was just you who decided to start self improving yourself, fapping had nothing to do with it. Also it helped A LOT the fact that you weren't ugly, if tou were ugly you would have never, NEVER gotten a girlfriend.

I'm not a troll, I'm 100% serious

SELF IMPROVEMENT IT'S USELESS IF YOU HAVE AN UGLY FACE, YOU CAN'T IMPROVE YOUR FACE

Wish I knew. If you're attractive it's just as hard because you have to wade through all the thots, liars, and pretenders.

lol

notice how this thread is filled with white first worlders

feels good to be poor

>lmao bro having tons of stuff makes you happy

I don't know man I've seen some homeless junkies in my life. The rest of won't fuck them so somebody has to.

that's exactly my point dummy

>if you are ugly you don't get a gf
are you nuts

there are tons of ugly dudes with girls, some of those girls are even good looking

*cough* RICH DUDES *cough*

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>there are tons of ugly dudes with girls
aka non-spastics

user. If you’re face is a messed up shape like pic related I would say “ok bro your chances have really decreased” but if you don’t have some kind of debilitating disease that deforms your face you’re not ugly. If you keep telling yourself that you’ll forever be stuck in an infinite loop of self hatred. I cannot count the number of times I have seen an ugly ass dude with a pretty girl. It is seriously uncountable. Do you want to know what most of those dudes DID have? A steady job. A body in shape.
>I don’t wanna get a job and wageslave
Tough shit bro. Society’s been like this for ages. You want a gf, you need a job it’s never been nor ever will be any other way.
>Im too fat and lazy to workout
Why would any girl want to breed with you then (unless you had tons of money at that point money only matters)? Get up off your ass and get into shape. Confidence and conversation will come with both of these things. Or you and can sit on Jow Forums all day everyday shitposting and knocking down any advice a once-was virgin 4chin loser is trying to give you and blame it on literally any reason u can find from muh uglies to muh stupid women.

And to address you Swede, Idk how much you’ve lifted in your day but blowing loads of semen prior to workouts makes you weak and ummotivated. And jacking off all day is a vicious cucle of conformity and self loathing.

Honestly don’t know why you shitheads are fighting me on this solid advice so much, maybe you guys are really this toxic to anyone who tries to help you in which case continue doing so and natural selection will see you on the way out.

Forgot pic related

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I'm only 167 cm and balding, there's no hope for me ;_;

no there aren't. You guys have trouble with facial recognition. You don't recognize when someone is ugly. You two are probably really attractive and consider anyone who is slightly less attractive then you "ugly". That's why do you see tons of "ugly guys" with beautiful gfs. In reality women are extremely picky, and will stay with an ugly guy only if he is rich. And I don't mean moderatly rich, get a steady job tier rich. I mean filthy rich, millionaire tier.

stop blaming flaws on irrelevant bullshit habits
I could have had the temperance of a fucking saint and it would not have solved my actual real problems because my problems are being cowardly, boring, dumb and ugly, which also happens to combine into the sort of reaction to socialization that makes it painful and uninviting

I don't know exactly what you went through but I can guarantee that it wasn't because you stopped fapping

I know enough about you to deduce that you're a lying, egoistic piece of trash.

So make the world a better place and just kill yourself. Nobody cares. In fact, you're a burden that we all want to be rid of.

ok

Don't worry, I'll probably end up killing myself and a lot of people
who knows, you might even be one of them

Nice!

If you already know your problem, why post here and complain? Just do something about it.

jesus how long did it take for you to make all this mental gymnastics to find and excuse why you can't get laid

the only reason you think women are picky is that you are not picky at all because you are desperate as shit

stop believing pseudobiological vomited by non biologists that females are picky or some shit

you don't get laid because you are a fucking sperg and you don't even try
fuck off

I came on this board to see two anons who are alot like I was. Try to give them solid advice that helped 24 kissless virgin neet like myself out of the hole I was in. They completely ignore the advice call me ignorant and blind and clueless.

There’s nothing I can do for you guys anymore. Good luck on life, wherever you end up.

This thread really made me understand, there is no point in trying.
No matter how much i lift, no matter how much i achieve, no matter what i do i just can't recover.
You all can leave now, thanks.

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