Need advice on prenups

Don't get married. Marriage is a contract between three parties: you, your wife, and most importantly the state. There is no reason to include any third party, especially one that will have the legal right to put a gun in your face and force you to fulfill unfair terms that you may not have realized you agreed to if your wife chooses to divorce.
If you want to set her up in case you die, have a living will or trust set up with her as a beneficiary.
Marriage is NOT for you.

>my gf wants to get married

So say no or find a new gf

Actual lawyer here. Not advice, but explore the options of structuring the trust in such a way that the principal is not available to you, but administered by a trustee and just pays your living expenses. Also, stay the holy fuck out of California. The (((judiciary))) there will push your shit it.

Now, speaking as a past-prime Chad, I have to say you autistic faggots are way too fearful when it comes to marriage. There are ways of doing it right, but you have to turn yourself into an operator and get some self-esteem so the emotional wreck you eventually marry will seek validation from you and NEVER the other way around. Literally fucking NEVER.

If you divorce, your wife is entitled to half the life you made *together*. If you received an inheritance to your name alone, it is not hers. If you take that inheritance, buy a house with it, and she decides to divorce you and try and take the house, all you need to do is prove it was paid for with personal inheritance money and she isn't entitled to any.

>‘If you’re going to get into an accident, why not just avoid driving? Why bother with car insurance?’

>getting married is something the average person has to do to maintain a good quality of life in a city

i admire your gumption though

>this, but totally the opposite
Bah, if you need a prenup you aren't marrying the appropriate person.
When you figure out this you can win.

Listen to the digits bro. Don't ever marry. Not even with a prenup and check common law marriage where you live. You may already be fucked over. I never married and I've been with the same girl for 12 years. I told her I will never marry. That marriage is something brought up to keep people tied in non love relationships for the fear of social repercussions or financial loss. If she loves you she will eventually come around and accept it. If she doesn't she is already preparing to get all your gains. Not saying there aren't great women out there don't give a Fuck about money but most aren't like that. And If the government gives them an edge by law to Fuck you when they don't want you around anymore but still need money they would be dumb not to use it. Don't give them that edge. In the end they will respect you more for it.
Love is war , don't sign a surrender treaty before starting, make a truce instead.
But really check common law marriage first because if you make her mad about this and she already has the winning hand she can divorce rape you without any problem

Man I love girls in flats I wish I could worship them all day

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(((They))) don’t work. Don’t get married.

>have about a 4 million dollar trust fund headed my way when my mom passes.

Be smart and get a pre-nup.

Laws differ per state of residence. Pic is a trap btw

I think i dont want to encourage my wife to divorce me. I do trust her, but my trust is that a prenup means nothing because she wont divorce me. Theres multiple angles to justify a prenup. I care about her but i dont really like the idea of having a mult million dollar enticement of divorcing me. I hope that makes sense.

Famous words of a man who opened his front door one day to find his wife fucking some random guy.
Just because something is at the moment good doesnt mean you shouldnt protect yourself from it turning bad. You sound like a 400 pound silverback Cuckorilla.

If you are wondering whether you should have a prenup or not, then you probably should.
But a better question is, why would you want to marry someone who makes you wonder about shit like this? Already planning your divorce before getting married, what the fuck?

Thanks man. This is where im at basically. I love her and want to have kids with her and will never leave her, but i dont think some stupid party is necessary

I just saw this. Fucking lol

I'm glad that people who think like this are the ones I trade against in this market.

DO NOT GET MARRIED UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES
PRENUPS ARE FUCKING WORTHLESS AND GET THROWN OUT ALL THE TIME BY JUDGES IN COURT
HOLY SHIT WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU FAGGOTS TELLING HIM TO GET A PRENUP LIKE THAT SHIT IS GONNA SAVE HIM WHEN DIVORCE TIME COMES
MARRIAGE IS A GAME YOU CAN ONLY WIN BY NOT PLAYING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE

You're screwed... Id say cut her half on wedding day just to be over the details but then she'd get you for bald the remaining lot on divorce day. I assume you're cis gender white male... Faaaahucked bro

Can you explain the validation thing?
Are you saying you should never show your girlfriend/partner that you need validation/support/a kiss etc..?
My current angle i use with her is that i really want us to stay together but im not desperate. Its a fine line between showing you care and looking desperate.
My situation is honestly that i could have lots of other girls but i dont want anybody else. Whats my best play action here?
My gf told me the next time i buy her jewelry she wants me to propose. I dont know what to do.

>asks for virgin Jow Forums NEET advice on prenups
Go talk to a lawyer who specializes in this kind of thing user

100% get a prenup even if you are a poorfag, you never know. Make sure you go to a good attorney too, depending on the state, laws and case law differ so you want to make sure that shit is ironclad.

In many states your future wife would be taking half of your trust.

Booyaa. This is what i needed to here.
I dont mind giving her half of the 100k i earn every year. That doesnt bother me. The idea of my wife cutting loose and running away with 2 million dollars that my parents wanted to go to me and my children/grandchildren DOES bother me.

Don't get married. You can have a wedding, celebration, honeymoon, etc. but don't get legal, paper married. Make sure wherever you live there isn't common law marriage

If she doesn't agree to this, that should throw up a few red flags

Maybe you should see what Loyal Eugene has to tell you :D

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I picked this pic bc of those flats. They look cool as fuck i wish i could find em online and buy a pair for my gf.

Do not buy anymore jewelry

You are smart enough to be here on Jow Forums, so, let me make this clear: WOMEN ARE A DEPRECIATING ASSET. DO NOT BUY !!!

Kek’d and check’d

Haha ok.

I just want kids. I do care about my gf tho. Shes a good looking reasonably smart jew and she has been loyal for the most part. I know our kids would be skipping ahead grades in school... im mainly interested in good genes for my kids. I want kids bc i want someone to hold my hand in the hospital when i die.

I'm divorcing my wife no prenup ama

She's gonna gas you to death in divorce court. Her cousin is probably already lined up as her attorney.

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