How is your social life going frens

That's what i think he is saying
the moderator is his best friend

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How do you get invited to group chats? What's it like being in one?

>how is your social life going
I don't have it.

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what did you say in the group chat?

I got invited because I'd known the guy since we were in middle school. It's alright but it feels like a lot of people in the chat are uninterested in anything I have to say except for the moderator

Everyone just shares memes, talks about work or something and if shit happens like a party or an event it gets organised in the chat.

hate that not using a phone cuts me out of all social contact with my peers

but also love it haha

Then they're not true friends. Since you don't want to become isolated, keep them for the occasional get together and night out but don't cling to them. Try to find new friends.

Jesus, I don't hang out with my friends much anymore but at least I haven't been betrayed like that

Never been for a night out AMA

have you ever been for a night out?

Nope, never

19 yo in august
1 friend
kissless virgin
got a summer job
1 party in my entire life 3 years ago

It's pretty bad for a lot of people but I don't mind, I'm actually happy of my situation

>1 party in my entire life 3 years ago
fuck off normal

that's a pretty good mindset to have. I'd say being happy with yourself and having some self confidence can go a long way as far as making friends

shit can be tough man, you got any hobbies that you might be able to make friends through? That might help if you want to have a social life

haven't had a friend in 12 years

>friends
kek. naive bastards. there's no such thing

21day until 20th birthday
No frens
No gf
No summer job because I'm a dum
Relatives don't give a fuck about me

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I'll be ur fren

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you're very far away though :(

Nah I used to have friends through Christian stuff at uni but then I graduated and never really saw them much
And then I moved here and I'm too scared of new people to make friends
Plus I think a lot of Taiwanese guys don't like foreign guys

when i try to talk about difficult stuff with my friends they just belittle my problems or make jokes.

>what do frens?
look for different frens
it's for the better you didn't stay with them because it will just be awkward at some point.

Are you the psoriasis user?

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I'll be your friend mate what you wanna do?

You don't have any friends, dude.

not all frens have the capacity to understand certain things.. you always just have to tell them bits and see who gets it.
if no one seems to, there's no point saying it.

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could grab a drink some time? I'm not great for ideas t bh haven't socialised in a long long time

That's probably the appropriate thing for them to do. Man up.

trips of satan

but what sort of stuff are you into?
vidya? outdoor shit?

I know :( I sometimes wish I could meet some of you guys in person just to make you feel better. Just know that at least I like you.
aw damn dude that sucks. I don't know much about how taiwanese people view foreigners but it's possible that they simply don't know what to expect since it's a fairly homogeneous country. Just try and find some sort of an excuse to socialize and even if you fail you can feel glad that you at least tried.

Just get a chink gf. Don't have babies with her, but you know, hang out.

I'm from Brisbane where you from?

hardcore mutilation, mass rape and snuff film producing

also like long walks on the beach

i used to do heaps of outdoor shit but I've become very sedentary. Just tired all the time and hate my job, so i mostly watch film. I stopped playing videogames a few months back but I'm going to build a new pc later this year. I'm going to get some boots or trail runners soon so i can start doing bushwalks, and i'd like to get a wetsuit and fins for snorkeling/freediving. Lastly, I'm really keen to try gliding, though the cost seems prohibitive atm
thanks mate maybe one day. If you ever visit sydney I'll buy you a nice meal out. I know a good steak place and a good place for ribs
North Sydney. What are your hobbies user?

I don't have much friends Irl. I met this girl online and we met irl tho and talked all day that was nice

>but I'm going to build a new pc later this year.
>he builds PCs
>thinks he'll ever make friends

lol

How can life be so cruel?

I don't know I guess playing video games, politics I don't have many hobbies outside of uni.

>video games, politic

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its not my only interest, i think I'm quite well balanced. Just a bit awkward and don't have any opportunity to meet people

Last time i went outside was in april

I think it is for the player/picking up local chicks reputation that many have earned or maybe they are just shy but I definitely find it easier to talk to girls than guys here.

But I want babbies :3
Actually I'm scared
If I ever have a babby I will be a bad influence on him and he will become a loser like me

>always be the one that asks friends if we want to do some shit
>always be the one that writes first
>never get invited to anything except if I ended up asking
so far i have one friend that actually ends up asking me from time to time how everything is going, feels incredibly good. Had another one too but she moved away. Shit sucks man, I'm no fun at all I guess.

>hardcore mutilation, mass rape and snuff film producing
sorry but you can't top cannibal holocaust.
really sorry, bud

>i used to do heaps of outdoor shit
you sound like you are still very much interested in doing this type of shit and can actually do it. you have a lot of opportunities to make frens desu. just join a facebook group (in your country) of people interested in those.

i joined a facebook group of my hobby and they have monthly meet ups. too bad i am too poor to join them ;_;

>builds a PC
>"i think I'm quite well balanced."

lol

>I will be a bad influence on him and he will become a loser like me

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>If I ever have a babby I will be a bad influence on him and he will become a loser like me
fuck.
this is what i think every time. but i realize i wont even get a "partner" so i don't need to worry about it.

>threads that women will never understand

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don't be so sure

tits or gtfo

Why are there so many Filipino girls on Jow Forums?

>decide with d&d group to go out for dinner since i'm leaving the country forever in a few weeks
>organise it
>go
>have a great time
i even got a necklace from my DM and his wife as a gift such a great night

waaaaah having a good social life takes effort deal with it

>Those sleepover parties where you stayed up all night playing super smash bros brawl and watching R rated movies

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I Skype with one once but was too scared to show my face

a lot of my friends don't involve me much because i turned into a loose cannon so now im an addict.

but im on here a lot so

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good decision.
it could've led to the harvesting of one of your kidneys.

My heart?

You. Don't. Have. Friends.

Those are not your friends user, you shall let them go.

This desu. People that you sometimes hang out with aren't automatically your friends.

north sydney as in the suburb, or in general?

sometimes i feel like this could be me, but i'm not sure

i have a girlfriend so idk what to say pal. good job at the world cup too, top shit hero, well done.

>went to annual 4th of July party
>scheduled on the 7th so people aren't tied to family only events
>host is a close friend with a rather large party in the country side
>launch about a grand worth of fireworks
>have a massive bonfire, everyone has to sit about 30ft, 9m, away
>drink
>talk
>go home when everyone is tired
So, pretty good. We don't talk much cause we're all busy and we're all way passed the need to keep in daily contact to maintain friendships. But we still get together for holiday stuff.

That's fucked up. Try to get revenge somehow

*large property, I shouldn't post while sleepy

I also think about if i had a baby, how would it cope with being so short while everyone else is getting taller just cause his father is a genetic failure
But then i realize i just won't have a baby

>Try to get revenge somehow

t. school shooter

send him to a far away boarding school at latest by the start of high school (year 7 or so), let his personality and character be moulded in that kind of environment.
the vast majority of the boarders where i went to school were chad-like people, just out of necessity.

>>pretend that I don't know because I don't want to lose my only group of friends
Kek this hits home. Back when I was in high school I'd spend time out of class with people who tolerated me, but I knew that basically everytime they started talking plans about seeing each other during the weekend, I had to back off so I wouldn't make it awkward.

These guys were nice enough to let me hang out with them during school, but if that meant hanging out with me during the weekends too, they'd have probably started getting annoyed.

So anytime they started talking about weekend plans, I'd go to the bathroom or whatever. So it wasn't awkward for them to discuss something I wouldn't be invited to.

that's really sad

did you ever consider maybe you're imaging how much they disliked you? did your family raise you telling how unlikable you are all the time or something

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you are 100% 4chaner

same thing with me man, but some people just won't like you or just have plans and lives and shit. got good mates at work but can't remember last time was a weekend meetup

They didn't dislike me, actually the running joke was of them finding me too nice and maybe not enough a dick back so we could get banter going.

I'm just uninteresting, so the thought process is, why bring along someone who you wouldn't know if he was here or not. I don't talk that much, and just stay with my arms to my sides laughing to what they say. One clever comment a year and that's it.
So if you're counting down who to invite, I don't bring in a lot.

>did your family raise you telling how unlikable
Haha don't think that's it. I think I would just be extremely obtuse if I couldn't tell I was a bit dull.

>hey guys i wonder why user always goes to the bathroom whenever we talk about hanging out
>maybe he just doesn't really like us that much

Trust me, it was just awkward the few times I was brought along. And it was probably weird but I think they realized I was sparing them of "uh user so even if we're talking about this right next to you, you realize it's not mean for you right?" awkwardness.

Kind of worthy of a screencap.

relatable.
apart from people i've been friends with from ages ago, i haven't been able to get to that point of friendship with anyone where you take the piss out of each other as friends in a long time, and whenever i hang out with people who i'm kind of friends with i'm always the quiet awkward one contributing nothing just smiling and nodding along. fucking sucks.

and the couple of times it's gotten close to being at that banter level of friendship i think i always seem to jump the gun on it and it just comes off as being a dick.

Sounds like me. And I've never been the greatest conversationalist either, and even get muddled when too many people start speaking at once, and too fast (making it sound like autism but it's not). So harder for me to jump in with a comment when I'm two seconds behind making sense of what everyone is saying.

I moved around a lot too, and never stayed in one place more than two years so I also never stayed with friends long enough to know when I can be a dick with them.

The problem isn't that you're "jumping the gun" on anything, it's that they are above you. Only equals can banter.

Wow man I know how this feels. Just knowing they don't like you and that they really don't care what you have to say or what you think. No matter how much I tell myself I don't care I really do deep inside it is so fucking gay.

You still have us as frens.

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>how is your social life going frens
Fantastic. Might go to the beach today with some friends and then I'm off to Finland to spend some time with the soon-to-be in-laws.

can't wait for monday so I can get back to work

>tfw you never got invited to an 18th in year 12
Man like everyone got invited to those
My friends didn't have one tho
Tbh I was secretly glad though, would have been so nervous and awkward going to one of those
Was also like the only guy who didn't go to the prom. Even my nerd friends got dates