Be honest with me guys how do you find true love. I've made it already from crypto and been on over 6 dates with different women over the past year. They all are so shallow and selfish. As soon as I mention my money they immediately to from not being interested to a dog begging for a fucking treat.
I'm 5 ft 11 so not a manlet. I work out and try to take care of my body. I'm not a handsome super model or anything but I'm not ugly either. Just a normal looking face. But for some reason the women are just after my money.
All I want is someone to love and have children with. I don't care what race the woman is I just want to start a family. Im 28 years old and its beginning to get late to start a family for me so I need to figure this out soon.
Can you guys please tell me how to find true real love? I need someone in my life or I will kill my self. I have no family
Err.. Don't tell first dates about your fucking money?
Matthew Lopez
Feels good working a wage cuck job but having a loving partner and kids.
I wouldn't trade it for all the wealth in the world.
Charles Jones
Become a Christian, go to a church and find a good woman there.
Not so hard
Robert Allen
Fuck girls, i just want to be rich
Bentley Garcia
Bro that’s. How many dates you need per week, step up those numbers
Christian Cox
do you even redpill? dont tell them a fucking thing about what you do for work or money betafuck
Hudson Brooks
lol you believe in love? Just keep flashing your cash and pounding ass that's how life works user
Xavier Butler
You literally never mention money in the beginning. Dress middle class, act middle class. Don’t drive a fancy car. Find a woman who falls in love with you for who you are, then after you can bring up money.
Gabriel Scott
In a somewhat similar situation, you need to find women in different arenas.
Tinder's great for roasties, but you also need to know the situation on REAL dating.
Women around 28-30 start recognizing that being a roastie is getting old, because all their friends are getting married and maybe even having kids. So they start dating down. They were used to being pursued by every guy because young and guys will put their penis in almost anything. At the end of the night, a guy will fuck a 6/10. And she overvalued herself because if the 9/10 guy at the bar needs to get fucked, he'll start picking lower fruit as the night goes on.
So now here's this 6/10 who's now a 5/10 or so thinking that she's a 9 because she constantly fucked the 9/10 hot guy. So now the 6/10 guys (like you) come in. You're cute, handsome, probably a boy next door or so. Maybe you got some imperfections but hey.
So while you should be a match, she still overvalues herself.
Bottom line? You gotta date lower than your standards. Find the 4/10 that knows she's a 4.
Just date ugly chicks.
Nolan Hill
Yeah well I am rich already user. Let me tell you it doesn't matter. I won't say how much I have because I'll be called a larp but I bought eth at $3 and kept putting money in from my job for an entire year. Had real strong gains last year lucked out on the omisego ico among other things like eos and venchain but all of that doesn't matter.
Not having someone by my side and falling asleep in my 6400 sq ft house alone is so horrible. I've began resorting to very heavy drinking. I have vodka in my hand by the morning and don't put it down until I fall asleep or pass out drunk.
Ever since that last woman I went on a date with I haven't left the house in weeks. I don't give a fuck about life anymore I seriously just want this pain to end.
Let me be as clear as possible to you guys trying to make it. MONEY DOES NOT BRING YOU HAPPINESS.
Bentley Gray
Stop mentioning your money then you sperg, when they ask just say you trade crypto and make enough to get by
William Perry
This guy fucks
Brayden Powell
literally dont ever let the words crypto come out of your mouth, nothing dries a pussy up faster, at MOST say you daytrade and leave it at that
William Sullivan
do you even normal conversation? just dont brag about your riches maybe in your wigger dreams he knows uh, no oh boy i hope you get your shit together with the excessive drinking, there is only rock bottom in sight but you already know that i assume
Parker Morales
Doctor time Escitalopram
Benjamin Brown
I like your story. I feel bad.
I'm buried in debt and hoping to make it. To top it off, my wife is about to have a baby. I'll take some of that non-happiness away from you and put it to good use.
Kevin Wood
Might have been true 5 years ago but crypto is sexy rn
Oliver Cook
Because you earned it passively through moonshots. If you traded your way to it you’d value all the research, hours, and practice it takes to trade your way to financial freedom.
Ethan Martin
How about you don't mention money you fucking tard?
Unless you're just looking for a quick one night stand pump and dump.
Isaiah Stewart
You don't find "true" love, nature dictates that women are sexually attracted to powerful men.
if you have money they will want you for your money or what you can provide them.
that's how nature works and how it always was.
Take care of your wealth and don't let a woman take it from you (buying gifs, paying for her, divorce etc etc)
go mgtow and enjoy life to the fullest.
Anthony Taylor
> I'm 5 ft 11 so not a manlet Top kek
Caleb Ramirez
What about money that you worked hard for, not money obtained because you were in crypto at the right time and barely had anything to do.
Lucas Brown
"nature" dictates that you have a companion mgtow is cringy memeshit understandable when youre a burned guy, but mostly practiced by hilarious incels
Asher Clark
get some hobbies you fucking loser. money gives you the freedom to do whatever the fuck you want. if you have no interests, you might as well not have any money and wage cuck. at least you'll be interacting with people and developing relationships. slow down the drinking, work out and go to a yoga class or something for fuck's sake. you might meet a girl who won't see how fucking pathetic of a human you are.
Michael Allen
daily reminder these threads are designed to spread cuckoldry and homosexuality
Aaron Fisher
Strange but it should bring you happiness. Oh I forgot, you have to have a purpose.
Dominic Perez
HURRR DURRRR MUH TRUE LOVE Women want financial security to rise their children you fucking faggot, plus having money imply most of the time that you are smart and alpha. That's why women drool over rich guys (that aren't ugly fucks) but you are too fucking stupid to see it.
Kayden Wright
OP, hear me out.
I know we're both on the similar boat here as well. I use to just focus on my money and gave two fucks about meeting new people in the process.
I was working 3 wagecucking jobs and always told my coworkers about investing to try to impress them. They didn't give a shit. Chad, who was working 1 job, paycheck to paycheck was slaying more pussy than I am.
The solution is simple. But it's all mental. It's in your head. You need to stop mentioning money on first dates, stop mentioning it to friends, stop mentioning it to girls you are interested in. They don't give a fuck. They will act like they do initially for a bit, but then they will stop caring. The last girl I dated who fucked me up, told me something that I will never forget.
"You talk like you're always trying to sell something. It's always about money with you."
Then I realized, I had no real passions. I was a dog chasing money. Only to realize that once I had money, it led me nowhere. I didn't know what to do with it.
Hit the gym. You now have financial freedom to do what you like. Limit the alchohol, take a yoga class. Put yourself out there in positions to meet people. When you do, months or years from now, you'll meet this person.
You'll feel different. You will HAVE genuine things to talk about because you have been occupied with hobbies. Just don't mention money. Don't bring it up, if you get in a LTR, don't mention it. Say you're always working hard with a smile on your face.
Good luck man. It's all in your mind, you have the POWER to change mentally. You have the power to improve yourself.
Michael Barnes
>6 dates It took me probably 100 tries until I found my wife. Keep trying, meet people with similar interests or at least interesting interests.
Cameron Gonzalez
how about
you try
r/relationships
or something else you are familiar with
faggot
Carson Butler
Pretend to be.homeless and tell women love poems or letters if she still loves.you that's true love
Colton Cruz
Also maybe get a dog in the meantime
Jace Lopez
Be friends with me, I'm like you. We can smoke some weed and ride around in foreign whips on the coast
Asher Barnes
Is 28 years old beginning to get late to start a family?? Because if that's so I'm in real deep shit and I'm going to have to face the fact that I will be forever alone..
Carson Foster
Dude, be a bit less desperate. You can shoot babies out your dick for the rest of your life, so the whole family making thing is not on a time-ticker like it is for women. If you're talking about your money too early on, you're gonna get gold diggaz and worse.
There are plenty of good women out there despite what the sperg autists on this board thinks. Don't be a sperg autist yourself.
Evan Lewis
you sound like a douchbag. who cares if women like someone with money. its how they're wired
Easton Price
True love doesn't exist brother. Well maybe for a lucky few, but that's a different story. Most of us will have to settle for fondness over time. Find a woman that embodies the characteristics of the partner you desire.
For me when I found my GF I knew immediately that she was a perfect fit. For mothering my future children to be more specific. Her behavior, appearance, every trait that was visible, alerted me to the fact that she was compatible. You must continue your search. Fuck all the women who fail to meet your standards until you do come across one that makes you stop for a moment.
>where to meet them?
Everywhere. But you must be willing to cold approach during the day. A long time ago after a breakup I would wander malls and grocery stores and any public place hitting on women. For every 50 I would spot the gem. Of course they would always have boyfriends or let me down softly (compared to bitchy rejections from less quality women ironically). When you spot these higher tier females, there is an air about them. A soft, natural, elegance. Lacking in bitterness. Not overly sexual. A clean feminine energy. If your first thought is sex, she's definitely not what I'm referring too. They are rare but they are out there.
Aiden Brooks
1. Go find a hobby you enjoy, where it's not only going to the gym but also playing basketball or something, you don't have to be good but eventually you will make friends there.
2. When people also what you do you can just tell them FINTECH and not say you're retired. Don't tell them the truth about money you made. Let people get to know you for who you are.
3. Although it sounds really stupid, do the city meet ups with strangers and get to know people. It can be fun(:
4. Although it may seem really stupid, you can honestly go talk to a therapist about your problems. Just having someone to talk to as well as someone to give you advice can be great. It's their job to help people like you find happiness in life.
5. Go do volunteer work. It's not only a great way for you to give back, but also a chance for you to get to know people. The people you will meet there are also likely people who are there to help other and not for your money. So even if they wouldn't mind that you are rich, you know they're still kind hearted people. Try an old persons home or soup kitchen or help out at an adoption center. Honestly, you should try this. You might meet the best looking person but you sure as hell will meet a lot of people that can change your life.
At this point it's all about meeting new people in terms of friends and maybe just happening to meet the right person. You want to meet people with the right heart. That's why you need to go out, find a hobby, do volunteer work, etc. surround yourself with the right people.
Do small things that can brighten up people day. Smile at cashiers when you pay. Make small talk.
I have never been rich before but if you want to help me out, go ahead
Andrew Flores
average age of marriage gets older and older, i think is the average for a man and 27 for a woman.
Joshua Reyes
Learn to approach in real life Look for respectable looking girls Young (18-24) is more likely to be capable of love As other anons have said don't mention your money ever
Sebastian Wright
Damn, actual advice that will be ignored because you all will call this guy a cuck
Cameron Perez
Exactly! You know what will bring you happynes? Bob's Repair!It will fix your broken soul, mind and heart, no mind the objectivists in this thread and their fud.
So this is now a Bob's Repair thread! This may be the next NEO and I don't use that term lightly.
The most disgusting of ebegging disguised under some pseudo-therapeutic nonsense.
Nathan Miller
I come from a poor family, not really rich myself but I'm happy. I went through something like he did after college wanting to kms because I couldn't find a reason to live. I started doing volunteer work and trying different hobbies in order to meet new people, not with the #1 goal of trying to find someone to date. It worked out for me and now I'm happy. I mean I'm happy but I'm also poor so I could be more happy if I could afford to go out more. Maybe travel a bit. Don't mind a small donation if he really has made it, and money is not the most important thing to him. My money wouldn't mean anything to him, but I'm hoping my advice can mean something to him.
William Gonzalez
This is really the best way.
Michael Morris
Are you white, user?
Wyatt Reed
My dude I don't know if you would even read this but I found try happiness through health. People don't understand yet that try happiness come from a healthy body and viceversa. I'm poor as fuck but I enjoy life, have a beautiful girlfriend, a great group of friends and the best for ever. If your body is sick you are not going to make it for real. Let me tell you what I did:
After a lot of trial and error this is the routine that helped me the most. Take that doses with every meal.
There a lot more things that can help different conditions as k2 (mk4), D3, A, alpha tocopherol succinate.. ..
Read the Ray Peat forums and the books of Abraham Hoffers and Linus Pauling.
I hope it helps. Good luck user.
Hunter Myers
This actually isn't bad advice. My chad uncle went to a christian singles group in his 20s or 30s because he was trying to find a wife, but then he ended up fucking every single woman he met.