I will never have a girlfriend and it makes me sad to think about it
I will never have a girlfriend and it makes me sad to think about it
dont think about it then
you always have posibility to join local neonazi crew to get something else to think about
get a boyfriend instead they are cuter
Sorry i'm not mentally ill
you think you will never ever have a gf but you arent mentally ill, ok
I'm already terrible at managing time, the last thing I need is grilfrend, unless if she's a counselor and great at scheduling. I need a hero.
I used to think this way, but after enough time, you become inured to it and can function normally. The sadness will pass, and after it comes acceptance.
You don't need to be mentay ill for that, just ugly, short and generally uninteresting
The last one is the real killer.
plenty of ugly and uninteresting ppl have girlfriends, wifes, kids
I agree
Incels often downplay personality but being boringcel is just as much death sentence as being ugly
>short
Ugly yes, uninteresting, no.
Personality being such an important factor is the true colorpill. Once you're past 25, you realize girls wanting "bad boys" is merely code that they'd like a guy who stays interesting and breaks routine often enough, ie. the complete opposite of apathetic users here.
Looks you can overlook, height too, but being boring, women simply can't. I think that handsome people being more interesting as a general rule (they have grown up pampered by the opposite gender so they're now more confident) means incels assume looks has all to do with it, and not the personality.
God user don't do this
Never got the height meme. Yes if you're a manlet you lose a sizable amount of the dating pool, but if you're boring it's like 99% if not 100% of the dating pool. You will be a virgin forever (unless you pay for it).
things are different in western countries. : (
Ffs, I made tinder and got 2 matches in 7 days and I'm average so you can always go for it if you ain't 4/10 or worse. If you really desperate just spend some time finding prostitute and go for it. You'll feel better after pumping at least something.
Matches are meaningless -- try talking to them, and you'll find one in ten gives a response.
And yes, this is with all the meme reply advice I know every user is going to want to jump in and give me here, fuck off
>matches mean you get laid
Croatia nooooo…
Women are extremely picky when swiping right on tinder, but they're also extremely picky in picking out people to fuck from their matches.
They probably fuck 1/20 guys they matched with. Matching with a girl is just the start of an uphill battle. Now you have to prove you're witty, sexy, funny, serious, chill, smart, etc... One wrong message and you're out of the game because she has 20 guys lined up to replace ypu.
Point is you can always do something if you aren't seriously ugly. You got to keep finding ways. If you keep projecting failure you're bound to it. I used to go and fuck local fat thot. It's better than anything.
better than nothing*
>everybody who doesnt have a girlfriend is a mentalcel
a true hungarian academic, a thinking man
No of course, thinking positive is key. Used to do it with the town bycicle so I get your point.
Just wanted to clarify that getting matched with is only round 1 of more trials.
Also personality can't really be changed especially when you're in your mid to late 20s, otherwise everyone could just learn how to be an outgoing Chad. In other words, we're all fucked for eternity.
Of course it is. But you got to keep trying. Affiliate from high school throughout the month tried to make out with 20 or more girls and he would always score one per month until he got gf during final year.
>The last one is the real killer.
Actually it's only the first two.
If you are tall and attractive face-wise you are going to attract girls whether you want it or not I have a lot of expereince with this.
No, not really.
It's only about face/body complexion and clearness of skin.
Having generic slaveshit face, stretch marks, postacne and (if you are as lucky as I am) psoriasis or other skin aidscancer is worse than being a midget.
But personality is the most important part ofc.
>But personality is the most important part ofc
There are massive ammounts of evidence that proves that looks > personality
Height and face are everything and one without the other is useless everything else comes after.
>Having generic slaveshit face, stretch marks, postacne and (if you are as lucky as I am) psoriasis or other skin aidscancer is worse than being a midget
that is all part of having a bad face