Jow Forums I need some serious help...

Jow Forums I need some serious help. I am fucking trapped in my life thanks to my mother and no matter how hard I try I cannot get out

>be me
>raised by shitty single mother
>turn 18, dad's child support checks stop coming in
>mom is short on money
>opens credit cards and gets loans in MY name
>get told to deal with it because I live at my house rent free
>work retail at only business within biking distance which is also my aunt's business and try to pay for trade school as welder or machinist
>literally all my money from the few hours and minimum wage I make go to tuition and bus fares to school
>finally get certs in machining and pass state welding tests
>at this point my mom has racked up so much debt in my name I am forced to go into bankruptcy
>any welding or machining job is a 30 mile commute away
>no where will sell me a car with my credit score
>can't rent a place ANYWHERE near where I can work due to credit
>mom has told me she will start charging me more rent ($1000 a month) if I stop working for my aunt

I can't get a car or move to get work due to my shit credit and if I do get work, all my money will go to my mother. I also cannot be homeless and have a job because you NEED an address to get hired anywhere.

I also have NO capital because after graduating she started charging me $300 in rent a month (I make about $350-400 in a month if im lucky). When I turned 18, part of what she made me do with having her open credit cards in my name was she made me sign a lease agreement, so she can evict me if I don't pay rent.

I have $75 dollars to my name.

Does anyone have any idea what to do? I've already tried reaching out to charities and men's shelters and they say they can't/won't help.

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>400$/month
Burger or Europoor?

burger

Immediately move all your money to crypto and ensure she does not have access it to it. LIE as much as possible. Tell her you lost it all in crypto scams, that you are sorry you will do better. Then keep pouring it in, crypto will help you hide it. Tell her you have a problem with gambling and will do better. Rinse and repeat.
Never share crypto amounts, let her assume you are a retard getting crushed by the new market.

Lieing to her will be your shield. Never let her know how much you make or how much you have.
She broke your trust already. People don't change.

All in LINK. Thank me later

it's always the fucking NA mothers who do this shit, i never hear about this happening to any yuropoors, what the fuck is wrong with american moms?

Also reach out to your dad. Even if he's a piece of shit he may sympathize and help you out.
LIE to him too. Develop your shields your parents are shitty you need to be shielded.
My parents are shitty too.

Talk to a lawyer you absolute brainlet

OP, just work hard, put all your money in crypto (good projects) and you will be ok in three years.

This, I have the exact same mother.
Wrong nigger, I am europoor.

I don't really think putting the last of $75 I have into crypto will work considering thats all the money I'll have till the 1st of next month.

My dad refuses to acknowledge me as his son and refuses to speak to me.

This is another part of the thing I couldn't fit in the OP post, I have, and from what he told me, since I was 18 at the time, I was fully liable for the payments and debt personally, even if she threatened to kick me out if I didn't. I ended up being a very shitty thing because to talk to him I had to pay a fucking $209 fee that took me 3 months to save up.

My mother is from Sweden so...

yep. talk to friend/lawyer. if i was a whale id ask your ETH address and be a real bro and make your year. sadly im almost in the same shoes.

Straight from the paycheck, user.

Time to join the military user.

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If i don't pay rent she will evict me and them im homeless with no job. I can't just tell her "lol don't have the money this month sorry"

Stash cash (sold possessions, crypto, etc.), buy a car from Craigslist and live out that thing in safe locations until you can get back on your feet. Get a PO box or a USPS General Delivery address. If this is your account, you should close and transfer your balance elsewhere immediately before she gets you into deeper shit. If you're starting out machining you might just be oiling tools and deburring but you'll still make 10 or so an hour. Apply for SNAP and look for food drives in the meantime, make some friends to try and get a sublease.

Out of all the responses in this thread, I was hoping I wouldn't hear this one, but alas I think its the only pathway I have out.

Is it really as scary as they say?

Tell your mom you'll report her for credit card fraud. After she goes to jail you can live in her house for free. Whatever you do, make it your mission to get the fuck away from her, she sounds toxic

A pack of wild jihadi goat fuckers with bazookas is not nearly as scary as being your mom's bitch forever.

Find a better paying job. Work nights for coin bounties if you are in the middle of nowhere.
I bet the signed agreement says nothing about charging more rent. Don't argue it though, reach out to your aunt and ask her to LIE for you.

Damn op, I'm not certainly in the same situation but mentally fucked by their financial decisions over the time and now I'm in the dilemma of going balls deep with them or by myself, sorry to hear your story, but what I'm doing for succeed on this road it's growing up preparing myself as much as I can in every field I'm able to, by example financially I'm fucking hustling flipping shit and learning the skill of "selling the pen", also crypto and taking advantage of some resources I have, but I see your situation more fucked up, so essentially I want to tell you that life is a bitch and then you die, but if we want to "make it" or merely survive the only way is becoming hard as much as life is. Luck mate I have to sleep right now.

Start beating the shit out of her. Put her in her place

>mother is from Sweden
>father won’t acknowledge him

OP is a nigger.

This is the last resort. Not everyone makes it back from the military and the ones that do are sometimes so emotionally scarred they cannot function.
Homeless vets is a common combination.

You don't have any other family that would take you in that is living closer to your job?

Can your father help you out? try to get a used beatr car off craiglist that will literally only take you to work and back that's it

Just leave, just do it.

He can go into the air force tho...

Also get a fucking lawyer

All of the armed forces is state run socialist enforcement. Why risk his life and sanity for that when you can do it in crypto in pajamas with porn in a second window?

Air Force won’t take you with a bankruptcy on your record. Good luck getting a clearance.

Go Marines or Army and get an MOS that doesn’t require a clearance.

Damn man that's rough. Sounds like you live in a third world country. If you were an eurofag you could move and the government would pay your rent and food untill you find a job.

This is ur only option

Im sorry u have nobody that can help you. I would if i knew you

you need a Secret clearance to do any AF job and he cant get it with totally fucked credit/debt

Because it would put him on his feet. If he had none of that debt then it would be different but his mom has seriously fucked him up. He will spend just as much time struggling to unfuck himself as he would in the air force getting benefits and shiii

This
I have though about that but luckily I would be able to live by some skills if I were I a bottom situation...

Heh, i guess you're right. Just get an easy job OP

If he makes it out alive and sane. Big if not worth taking when he hasn't explored better options.
Plus, literally killing for ((them)) is not a good way to spend your early adult life.

For now? Continue the miserable existence, squirrel away everything you can manage and then one day when you are able to afford a POS and the down payment on an apartment near where you want to work, POOF you are gone leaving only a note to your mother detailing just how hard she fucked over her own child.

OP, if everything you say is true then your mom has fucked you. And now you have to fuck her back with a lawyer.

You need to start collecting a case against your mother for credit card fraud. She's ruined your credit and crippled your ability to improve your well being.

>Change your social security number
>Declare bankruptcy
>Never speak to your mother again
This is your best option. Not ever LARPing

Who is your mom? Fucking Joan Crawford?

Also, I don't know what state your in, but it wouldn't hurt to look for state or social services that can pull you out of your fucked up situation.

buy stolen ccs off the dark web

what kind of retard lawyer told you that you were liable for debt your own mother took out in your name?

Move to Canada and apply for neetbux

a hard pill to swallow but it's an option

What state are you in user?

Your skills as a machinist would keep you out of harms way. Join the air force and you’ll be making 100k in the aeronautics industry by the time you get out.

You got this.

Kill her obviously but after bancruptcy your credit rebounds to 700+ within a year

How much credit can you possibly have gotten as an 18 year old? A $300 Capital One card? Things aren't the way they used to be. I got cards for $1000s at 18.

why do white parents hate their children, my parents let me go neet mode for 3 years and here i am making 50k annually by ecommerce

This, as long as you declare bankruptcy then explain your situation to the recruiter as to why you had to, you'll get in without a problem

Lies. A bankruptcy stays on your credit report for like seven years.

You join the airforce. Then retire from there with your education. Healthcare. And pension paid while you make 100+k at a defense contractor

fearfully convincing my parents to let me do the same. it's been tough since I smoke mad weed all the time and have lied telling them I was wrongfully fired from my last job.

it's been getting better doing the same. reselling shoes on ebay and running a local service business from my parents garage. It's much esier with brown parents cuz they're counting on you for their retirement package and don't have much else choice. feel for our lighter friends who's parents are more individualistic 'muricans.